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when you pop your cherry is it possible for that peice of skin to fall out but not completly? enough for you to see it.. (link)
what do you mean with pop your cherry?


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do you know of any websites that tell you how to put a tampon in i am too scared to ask my mom even though she wouldnt care. (link)
try the website for the company from * O.B.
its a european company, and they sell these tampons in the U.S. My taste of tampons would be o.b, because they stay longer than playtex, and tampax. or whatever. If u use O.B, first, i know this sounds gross, but first feel around that area, and try it out with your finger. Then when you know the direction, slowly push the tampon up. Normally, all websites, and tampon boxes tell you to push it straight up, but most people have an angle. If you feel it hurts, then stop right away. Dont put in a tampon, if you are all dry.
hope i helped!


can you get rid of a cavity without getting to the dentist? dentists are alot of money, and i really dont want my teeth to get drilled. well its not exactly a cavity yet, but there are like little black lines on some of my teeth in the back.. im scared! should i just use alot of mouthwash and like brush my teeth like 3 times a day? usually i forget mouth wash, and i brush my teeth like once a day. but generally my teeth arent that bad, and ive never had cavities before! i didnt even know they were.. and they dont even hurt! but the blackness seems to spread to other teeth. why is this happening? how does it start? how can i fix it??? HELP! once i even scraped a little of it off with my finger.. freaky. whats that black stuff made of anyway? (link)
Well, ok, i dont know if i remember all the questions you asked, but i will try to answer all of them. If i missed some, jsut write me back..or just go to my profile, and um, send me a question. lol. So, i think cavaties are made up from food, and bad things. They are probably just bacteria or some sort. About the needle, yes just a sowing needle. Put it in a cup of boiling water for 5 minutes. and then slowly scratch the cavity away. Yes, i do think you can use those white strips, even if you are 13. I dont think it can really harm you. but why do you want to get your teeth whitend. It doesnt really help for cavaties. And yes, flossing does help against cavaties. Keep that up regularly.
Hope i answered your questions, just ask any questions when u want k? have fun


hey im 15, and i was wondering can teenagers get breast cancer? like on my left breast i feel like some bump on the inside or something but i dont know if its really a bump and it hurts a little in that area. i was wondering could that be breast cancer? im really worried and i want to know, if any of you know what can that be, maybe its just that my breasts are still growing or something i really dont know. please help me.
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If its just on one of your breast then maybe, it might be breast cancer. But i dont want to jump into conclusion. It probably is just a not, that the doctor can remove. But if it hurts, i would definetly get it checked out immediately. yes, i do think teenagers can get breast-cancer. Sorry for this sad and bad advice, but please go to your doctor immeadiatly, because if it is cancer or a knot, i would remove it instantly, before it grows. hope i helped


ok i no alot of people want to be in s=good shape but i really want to be thin liek a modeland havinga really really nice body would make me feel so much better about myself.. do i need to be anerexic or elemic..shuld i? or does anyone no a way to get skinny liek i want to be please help thnx!!..x00x (link)
Are you sure you want to be that skinny? Ok,. ..if you have time, and want to wait to get then skinny, then i would advice you for this diet. try the *South beach Diet.
Its a very very healthy diet, and you loose up to 20 pounds the first 2 months, and then gradually keep loosing 2 pounds every week. Find his books in the public library. Hope i helped


is ther any way i could losse at eladst 70lbs by july????????????? i rate (link)
Well, not 70 pounds, but like about 35 pounds. is that ok? get on the *South beach diet.
Its the best diet there ever is, and you can eat till you drop. Its actually very healthy, and my family is going to start it as soon as i get to 3rd phase. You can find 6 or 5 of his books in the public library. Have fun! hope i helped


hey. im having a party and i am a little on the chubby side. you cant tell when i have my shirt on, but we're gonna go in my hottub (&& guys will be there (: and when im in a bathing suit my rolls are THERE. i need to get good abs by may 6th so what are some good ab exersizes that give you fast results?? i cant buy any equipment either.

thnx =) (link)
you need a partner for this excersise.
your partner will stand, and you will lie under him/her. You head will be looking straight up ur partners butt...yeah yeah..it sounds strange but listen. You put your legs up, and your partner will grab them. He/she will then throw them down, and you will have to steady your legs from not hitting the ground. Do you kind of get the idea? you can hold on your your parners legs for support. Hope i just made sense.


Ok. Last night i used Neutrogena Acne Treatment...it normally doesn't burn my skin but i woke up this morning and the spots where the zit's gone but there's a big red spot that itches and burns. I wanted to go to the mall today to look for formal dresses for our 8th grade dance but i don't want to go to the mall looking like how i do. It's not helping because my eyes look pretty bad even though i got 9 hours of sleep my under eyes are all puffy and concealer doesn't work if anyone knows how to get the puffiness under the eyes to minimize down that would be helpful too. Thanks! (link)
Try this old home treatment. Go get your moms teebags, make some tea, then put the bags in the freezer for about lets say 20 min. Lie down and put the teabags on your closed eyes. it swells down the puffiness. And if you want something more modern, try the avon normal eye creme. Order it from your avan reprisenter..or what ev. that was called. try it it works. Hope i helped


i feel really stupid asking this because i know a bunch about sex & stuff & all my friends come to me with questions.
but when you give a guy a bj are they supposed to wear a condom? (link)
nope, because your not going to get pregnant from that, so probably not. Unless, you want to be careful from aids..etc..then yes. hope i made sense and helped.


I'm always trying to keep myself busy when I'm by myself but I'm not sure how. I read, write and make collages but it's starting to get boring. I want to pick up new hobbies like crafts or just something fun to keep me busy like making things out of duct tape and clay. What are some [relatively easy] things that I can do in my spare time? I'm interested in any ideas. (link)
Well, you could join a local art or pottery class. Or you can get some containers, and some special glue (made out of oats, but you have to buy it) and newspaper. Then you put news paper on top, layer for layer, and hten in the end when it is all dry, you put like 3 more layers of white paper. Then when thats dry...you paint or draw something out of it. And then give the boxes to people or use it for yourself. Hope i could help


Ok my hair is frizzy! i straiten[sp] it and i use vo5 frizz stuff but it doesnt work and it would look very pretty if there was no frizz. and the part of my hair i think is the worst place. please help and tell me what i can buy thanks/ (link)
Stop using the straightener. Dont use any chemicals because they all damage your hair. First, go get some shampoo from pantene, or fruchties, (did i spell them right lol?) The shampoo for frizzy hair. Then just tie your hair back, and just wait a bit. if you really get crazy about all this frizz,,,then buy some very light and nice going hairmousse. They help the best. Hope i could help


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alright well i have had glasses since i was 18 months old. i am probably getting contacts soon & i have 2 questions.

1. i have like white circles around my eyes becuase they never got any sun all these years. so it looks pretty stupid. i also do not tan easily at all. ive heard that those tanning lotion things by jergens & other people make you orange & dont match your skin tone. so what can i do? i also have alot of freckles which makes the white circles look worse becuase theyre are no freckles there & theres freckles everywhere else. help??

2. my friend told me that her mom gets a new pair of contacts like every 3 days. do you really have to change them that often?

thanks soo much everyone. (link)
Actually, the thing from jergens does work. Get the one that makes your skin very very dakr. And it helps much faster. Or just put on some dark blush underneath your eyes, till you can get tan. lol. hope i helped!


ok so my bfs dog has to be like put to sleep and hes pretty upset like i mean i would be to i love my dog and i woul dbe devastated if i had to do that to my dog so shoul di maybe leave him alone for a while or should i try to talk 2 him about it?? help meeeeeeeeeeee (link)
Be there with him, when his dog is put to sleep. Dont talk to him at all, just hug him or whatever you do. Tell him you are there for him, and just confort him. The next day, just leave a message, telling him you are there for him,,and whatever else you want to tell him. Then keep cool for maybe 2 days. Then just go up to him, and try making him laugh again, after the 2 days. hope i made sense and helped


Okay, well me and my bf were laying in his bed just talking the other night and i started giving him a hangjob. then he rubbed his thing across my vagina. i mean JUST rubbed it across.

does anybody know if you can get pregant from that? please help. (link)
NO, you probably can not get pregnant from thatm, because he did not get into you. Did ge let some sperms loose? If he did, it might have gotten into you and made you pregnant. But probably not, because thats probably not going to work that way. Hope i just made sense.


ok so i go out with this kid and this is the fourth time we have gone out and i have never kissed him. I'm 14 yrs old and a girl and this is getting ridiculous haha. I love him alot and i know that im young and all but i really do. And i really need advice on how i can just suck it up and kiss the kid i mean seriously its not like hes asking me to do it w him its a flippin kiss... and he has broken up with me in the past cause he doesnt want to put up w me being prude and all and i really want this to work out i know he likes me alot and i want to be with him for a while... and hes not pressuring me at all, he wouldnt do that i want to kiss him sooooooo badly!!! but when it comes down to it i just freeze and i just cant i dont know whats wrong with me when im not around him i want to makeout with him really bad. Ive kissed other ppl easily but why cant i kiss him??? please help me im desperate (link)
Hey, your probably to nervous around him. Though you might now notice it, your brain might just freeze up and wants to think on how to kiss him the right way. or? anyway..talk with him about it. if he likes you, then he will understand your feelings. Talking is the best way out! hope i helped


13/f

i really want to be prettier. i dont think i am pretty at all & i want to start wearing more make-up. i only wear mascara sometimes. i really want this guy to like me & i'd like for my make-up to look good & not like a piece of cake or a clown. here's my myspace. it's on private but you can see my default picture.

www.myspace.com/lauraloo54

what make-up do you think i would look good in? i really would appreciate the help. [: (link)
The make-up you i would advice you to put on would be...try simple and natural tones.
Start with a light blush, that almost matches your skin (face) color. Lightly put some one. Then try some darker color, like half dark purple for your eyes. Or if you want to look exstreme, put on some light bright blue. Then just put on some lip-gloss, and oyu look fine. About your glasses, if you want to get rid of them, get contacts. and you would look a bit different. hope i helped! and i sent you a letter on myspace! lol.


Hey. I'm really stressed. I think the "emo" stuff and the "prep" stuff is both really pretty. I have cut myself before, if that's what you want to call it. They didn't even bleed and honestly, I don't plan on making them. I like the way the "preps" dress but also the way the "emos" dress. I'm blonde and I have fair skin so I don't know how good I would look with a lot of eye makeup and stuff like that, but I really really like it. Also, I'm worried that I might lose some friends. I know my friends are supposed to love me for me, and I think they will, but I think that we may not be as close. What should I do??
13/female/seventh grade, if that helps. (link)
Hey, if you like both styles emo and preppy, then mix them up. Instead using all that preppy make-up, use the emo style. Its black right? then put black eye shadow on. Darker lips.etc. Pur your hair in a pony tail, or any normal or emo way you want. Then with the clothes, dress preppy. you will be mixed! lol. And if you are scared that your friends will leave you for dressing the way you want, then maybe they are not your realy friends. Real friends accept the way you are. Give them some time to get used to you, and tell them your feelings, on how u want to change that way. If they are your true friends, they will probably accept you sooner or later! hope i helped


ok so im not really fat at all but my hips and thighs are kinda big. and like it makes me look fat.. and i really wanna like get rid of the extra fat. does anyone know any like thing i can do to get rid of them kinda within a short period of time? (link)
For you hips and thighs, i would try belly dancing. Just rent a belly dancing movie, and start it! Are you eating healthy? if u eat too much junk food, it sometimes lands in ur thighs. So that might be the problem. stop eating junk food then. Hope i helped


Well I finished school two years ago this year and since then I have gained so much weight. I used to weigh 55 kilos and now i weigh 75.. thats 20 kilos I have gained!

It is getting my soooo down! I cry myself to sleep! I don't know how to stop eating all this junk food! Everyday I wake up and say to myself that I am going to eat healthy and the first thing I eat is chocolate! It's driving me crazy!

I saw my ex boyfriend the other day and he spoke to my cousin after that and laughed and said that I have gained so much weight! That got me so upset I felt like crying! again!

I have a boyfriend now. We've been together for nearly two years and he says he doesn't care what I look like! But I do! He says he is happy with the way I look and that he loves me and thats all that matters! I really do appreciate what he says to me but I still want to look good for myself!

How can I resist junk food and eat healthy!? Nothing I do seems to work!

I used to be so fit and I use to look good now I just look like a fat blob! I hate it! I am getting so miserable! Nothing helps when even your family tell you that your getting fat!

What can I do to help myself before I come even more disgusting?

I don't really want to stick to a regular diet because I have tried that many many times! If someone else does have a diet that HAS worked for them please please give it to me!

I'm just tired of feeling fat! (link)
Get rid of ALL of your junk food. Take everything out of your kitchen! And only buy healthy food. so then when you want to eat, you grab something healthy.
Now, if you want to loose weight i would advice you on the *South Beach Diet
It is the best diet, and if you are hungry, you eat. Its not the atkins diet, its much better.
Try it out. Because i have and its still working. Hope i helped~


Does waxing bring any skin harm? Cuz when I wax my legs my skin get lighter. Did it rip my skin?

I don't see girls on tv with hair on your hands or arms or neck or back, do they wax it? Does that mean I should wax my hands and arms too? (link)
First of all, you do NOT have to look like those girls on Tv. Because they have professional make-up artist to help them. They have all this powder and shiny cremes on their legs etc.
Yes, waxing can actually harm your skim. Use the wax that soothes your skin. Put on lotion first before you wax, because through waxing, you rip off that dead dry skin, and maybe some more.
Shaving it much better. Shave once ever 2 days. And u will be fine, and it wont harm your skin!




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