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how can i comfort my boyfriend?
ok so my bfs dog has to be like put to sleep and hes pretty upset like i mean i would be to i love my dog and i woul dbe devastated if i had to do that to my dog so shoul di maybe leave him alone for a while or should i try to talk 2 him about it?? help meeeeeeeeeeee
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tell him that if he wants to talk, your there for him. tell him that you understand how difficult it is, and that if he needs a sholder to cry on, then your there. hell probably want to talk to you more then anybody about it, so you should be supportave.
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Just tell him that you're there if he needs to talk, but mostly leave him alone. Sit with him, and maybe wrap an arm around him, but don't talk to him too much. If he finally starts to open up, LISTEN. Don't tell him you know how he feels or anything, and don't try to make him feel better. Just let him be upset, and be his shoulder to cry on.
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Be there with him, when his dog is put to sleep. Dont talk to him at all, just hug him or whatever you do. Tell him you are there for him, and just confort him. The next day, just leave a message, telling him you are there for him,,and whatever else you want to tell him. Then keep cool for maybe 2 days. Then just go up to him, and try making him laugh again, after the 2 days. hope i made sense and helped
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