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How would you describe love in your own words? I just want to know ho other people think about love and how they feel towards it.
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i think that love between a girl and a guy at a young age should just be fun and spontaeos! not like oh gosh he is so cheating on me. It should just be strong feelings for someone that you would die for, someone who means the world to you. Something that makes you feel warm fuzzies inside when you think about it. Something that holds you together and needed from everyone! that is how i see love... everyone needs it to survive and live in happiness
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i like bands such as: the spill canvas, fall out boy, underoath, hellgoodbye, hawthorne heights, mae and stuff like that
what r some more bands i could try or some songs to listen to that fall basiclly into the same genre
and where can i dowload music, my comp is pretty old so are there some sites that will def work?
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motion city soundtrack, allister, starting line, taking back sunday, relient k, and graham colton bands are all really great
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mmm k well since evry one was mean and dident awnser my last thing ill make a new one. ok i have to go to a new school right? does any one have sugestions of how to make friends. and if any 1 on here goes to renolds thats the school i got to go to so if u got any sugestions please say so... no serously if no one awsers me im gunna cry... (link)
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Just act confident around people pop off a joke every now and again dont be someone quiet and dont be anyone obnoxious or class clown because then no one will take you seriously. Well just go up and talk to people be social make sure everyone knows who you are because if you dont step up and try to talk to people then people wont talk to you. Also just try to start small talk just like oh i like your shirt or even have you lived here long? Things like that are good conversation starters kay? Well good luck to you! And dont cry.
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I hate school so much. My teachers are mean, I never see my friends, and I always hav so much homework. I have the choice to get homeschooled. DO you think I should? (link)
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Well it really depends if you enjoy being at home and being around you family a lot more. But if school is all that miserable for you then i think you should get home schooled then you dont have to worry about the teachers and it will relieve a lot of your stress so i recommend you taking home school
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When people say "Hope I helped!", that is so freaking annoying. Is anyone with me? (link)
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YES! because like everyone in the world puts that!
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Ok, there is this guy and everyday when I get on the bus he constantly stares at me. when I get to skool in the morings he stares at me! He used to like me I think. But I want to know if he still does. i think he has a girlfriend. Whats something I could just talk about right out of the blue and not sound stupied? (link)
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Just sit next to him on the bus one day and just totally act natural be like man i would give anything to (say your favorite thing to do) then be like what would you rather be doing right now? You know just talk to him about casual fun things, compliment him on something he is wearing, thats always good to get almost anyone to talk. Well I hope you can get to know him better and figure out why he is always staring at you! He probably thinks your hot so go for it girl! But make sure to ask him if he has a girlfriend first you dont want problems to rise.
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I`m Havin my birthday party in a week and idk what movies to rent for the party.
(Its a sleepover and I have 8 Friends coming ) We all like comedies/chick flicks such as Mean Girls. Some of my friends are still 13 so please not any R rated movies. We also like some scary movies.
Thankss for the help loveliess``. (link)
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OMG a ssssooo funny movie is Saving Silverman with Jack Black in it. It is the best i think you should totally rent it!
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hey this is the person who asked about wanting a boyfriend and how i could change myself to get attention. im just asking if i could get more detail from you. thanks a lot. i appriciate it. (link)
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Okay for your make up i would suggest these eyeshadows: subtle oranges like the colors of apricots, pinkish gold (like shimmery) on and under you eyes, or just a tanish brown shadow would look good *remember dont get any dramatic colors stick with the subtle colors. As for blush try a very soft pink with a little bit of shimmer in it *like you should know apply it from your temple to the apple of your cheek. NEVER wear blush just on the apple of your cheek... Ok light pink shimmer lip glosses look really good (and it depends if you like the look) try a red gloss it really brings out your skin it lokes really good. For clothes red looks really good on your skin tone or greens and blue maybe not baby blues though cuz that looks too much like your skin tone ok? Remember try flattering clothes like the satin tops and little flats with jeans... so cute. or a tank with those little sweaters that button on the bosom* those are really cute kay? Well if you ever need anything never hesitste to ask me and dont forget to tell me if things get better with the boys!
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what does pms or pmt stand 4 and what does it mean i will rate 5s to anyone that answers (link)
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PMS is just having your period and if anyone one says " oh she's just PMSing" then they think you are really moody because of your period.
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okay well theres this guy lets call him 'jesse' and well i like him. he likes me also. how should i ask him out? should i ask him out or wait for him? he asked for my number the other night. do you think i should wait a while longer and then ask? please help i will rate high! (link)
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If you like him then dont waste anytime! And if he knows you like him then he is waiting for you to ask the question. If you are a shy person you should call him on the phone and be like, I like you a lot and you like me so... i was wondering if you wanted to go out with (put a "if not then thats ok" to make him feel like he isnt on the spot and answer so soon) then be like if you want to think about it or whatever thats fine but i would really love to go out with you cuz i think you are a great guy. Just explain how you are feeling but dont make it too mooshy kay? If you arent shy just tell him all that but in person and make sure you use good body language to make him feel comforatable dont twidle your thumbs or something... that will make him nervous. Well Best of luck to you with "Jesse"! If you have anymore questions feel free to ask me.
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ok well, im going out with this guy named james and i really like him. but lately whenever we talk on the phone its really boring and he is really prude so it sucks. so these two guys like me named john and nick. and they think i should break up with him becasue they dont think he is going to change and they think i desurve more. so john asked me if i thought going to a dance with someone im not going out with would be considered cheating. and i said no so he asked me to the dance. and i said yes. so now i dont know if my bf will be mad at me or not. should i break up with him? should i tell him about the dance? what should i do? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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You should just totally be straight forward with your bf. Tell him you arent trying to cheat on him and he should know that John is just your friend and you had no intention on him thinking you were cheating. But if you feel that James is being TOO prude and you arent finding any fun at all in yall's relationship then go with your gut about the seperating situation. i suggest break up with him there might be some chemistry between you and John since he asked you to a dance so you have to like him enough to say yes! :) Maybe John will be the guy willing to give you more than James and make you happier and make your life more exciting kay? Well the best of luck to you girl! 'kiss' PrettyLady16
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What should I wear to the mall tomorrow?
-Pinkish capris that say "Abercrombie" on the butt. And a white Abercrombie t-shirt
-Some ripped up looking jeans and a pink dressy looking tank top.
Also, what are some DIRECTIONS for hairstyles. (shoulder length, naturally straight hair)
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wear the ripped jeans with the dressy tank top, split your hair on a side then put a nice pink flower in your hair like a silky one or wear your hair crimpy and put it in a half pony tail? Well hope you look cute when you go to the mall tommorrow, smiles PrettyLady16
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i really really really wanna boyfriend. im 13, going into 8th grade and i really feel like no one likes me. its bringing down my self esteem because all my friends are hotties and guys try to pick them up every where they go. literally. i need a way to get noticed before school starts (sept. 7th). its not that i only think guys will like me if i look good i just want them to notice me that way, like 'omg that girl is hot, i wanna try to talk to her' then he'll get to know me. if that confuses you im sorry but i really need help with this. sorry for the lenght. i rate high!!! (link)
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Try to change yourself if you think you are a little too pudgy then start working out to tone yourself up get a totally different haircut no one expects you to have that compliments you well, compliment you skin tone with whatever make up goes good with you. Define your eyes well get highlights in your hair wear cute jewelery and popular clothes. Well if you need more help Just ask me, i am better at giving you advice with more details... well good luck leave me something in the inbox kay?
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Ok I have this friend he is 18 and is really cool and hot.But he likes my BFFL only because her boobs are huge and she is a slut(weird BFFL huh?) Anyway I am like in love with him but he only thinks of me as a friend but I am beginnig to think he doesnt even like me as that.He told my friend that he wanted her to see his balls.I know thats preverted but he never says anything thing like that to me and that makes me feel unattractive.What can I do to make him notice me without acting like a slut.Ill rate high for any good answer!!
PS he said if I acted more like her he would like me (link)
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Well, dont act like your friend whatever you do, you dont have tpo change yourself just to please this ONE guy ok? But talk to him more and try to make him interested in you more not like a friend like be serious and fun be whatever it seems he wants just make sure you dont change yourself into a totally different person! Well i hope you win him over!
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Hey! I have this really close friend of mine but lately we have started to drift apart from each other. We were especially close--from calls every day to zero calls now. Um, this all started when our council had this summer camp thing at my school and it taught us a lot about ourselves and friendships and it like, totally opened my eyes. I now saw how much she took advantage of me, even when I was a completely loyal friend. Now, I feel because we're not talking to each other anymore, she is trying to make the rest of our council and the rest of my friends turn against me. What shall I do??
signed,
lost
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At a time like this you just need to stand up tall and be strong. You have to teach yourself to ignore people like that, and meet other people even if they arent the most popular social people. as long as they treat you like the loyal friend like you treated your old bestfriend. I think you should just start on a new blank page without her and make another good friend or "posse" whatever makes you happy just dont get too caught up in their comments ok? Well I hope you meet new people you like and become happy! 'kisses' PrettyLady16
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my sister wears really slulty outfits, and i dont like it. i find it emberrsing and dont want her wearing that stuff. and everytime i tell her, she gets upset. how do i tell my sister to cover herself with out her getting mad at me. (link)
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Maybe you could buy her some clothes that cover her up a little more. Be like i got you a gift, and i really hope you like it and if she appreciates it then she will most likely wear it. That way you can have the advantage to make her wear it you can be like why dont you wear the shirt I bought you? Ok well i hope she gets to dressing better.
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Is it abnormal for a guy to like Full House? Like, from the first season to the end, having seen nearly every episode? I've only seen one other guy who watches it, so I don't know whether it's something to discuss... thanks. And if the answer is no, please don't me a smartass about it. I know that I may be metro. I don't care. (link)
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No, I know a guy that likes soap operas and Laguna Beach... and hes not gay.
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Does Anybody Know good stuff to make my Curly Hair so not Frizzy I hate how it gets to wavy to how do I straigten the top please help I'll rate BIG!!!!! (link)
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Use "Frizz- Ease" it works really good.
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ok so its almost the first day of school and i have my outfit all set up for the first day but not for the second. I dont really wanna go out and spend alot of money on new clothes and stuff...since i already have. Do u have ne ideas of wut i could do to make outfits i already have more fun and unique wihtout spending to much money. Thanks so much!
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Well confused dresser,
I like to sometimes wear some of my cute necklaces as bracelets that way you can change it up instead of getting bored wearing it as a necklace. I also like to get paint made for like t shirts and stuff and decorate really cheap flip flops like put hearts or stars on the thong part or get even gel markers and color the bottom part of your flip floppies. You can also get like small candy wrappers wrap them into thin pieces then hot glued them on the end according to my finger size and then glued a decorative bead in the middle. (but make sure to use super glue, hot glue and tacky glue dont hold very long.) Belive or not my rings were a hit! well i hope you look good your first week!
'kiss'
Prettylady16
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im 15/f and my boobs have stopped growing since i was like 11.. but there really small! latly they have been soar does this mean their growing!? because im not having my period.. and im not getting my period soon becuase i got over it like a week ago.. so does this mean they are still growing? because this happens from time to time and it doesnt do anything = ( (link)
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If they start to swell and are sore that means that they are growing so just try your hardest to be patient.
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