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My name is Kimmy. I live in Parma, Ohio. I have black hair, brown eyes, glasses, I weigh 100, and I'm 5'3. I have my bellybutton pierced, my ears pierced 4 times each, my nose pierced, and my eyebrow pierced. I also have a tattoo on my lower back, and on my shoulder, but I'd like to get another one someday. I love helping people out, so if anyone ever has a question to ask, please feel free to leave a question in my inbox, or you can just IM me or email me if you'd like. I love meeting new people, so if anyone wants to, go ahead and IM me!!!! I'd love to talk. If you wanna know anything else just ask. I'm here to help people out!
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my boyfriends bestfriend and i was hanging out yeaterday, and my boyfriend does not even know and i want to keep it that way any ways we were flirting all day and i know it's really wrong to and he does too but when we flirt it's like we're donig the right thing but it's wrong. im going to hang out with him again and i wondering would i be wrong if i break up with him on his birthday and flirt with his best friend (link)
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Hey hun!
I don't think you should break up with him on his birthday. He'd hate that, it'd make him really upset. If your going to break up with him, just do it before his birthday if you can at all, or after his birthday. You wanna be able to stay friends with him right? If you broke up with him on his birthday, he most likely wouldn't wanna talk to you anymore. Wait a while to break up with him, and when you do be completely honest with him. It should be alright. As for flirting with his best friend, you shouldn't really do that until you break up with your boyfriend. If your boyfriend saw you two flirting, that'd get him very pissed since that is his best friend. Everyone flirts though, so if you'd like to go ahead!!!! It should be okay to do that. Just don't flirt with him in front of your boyfriend right now. Alright, I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox.
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Alright I like this kid so much, and I'm ready to ask him out. I want to ask him out, but I don't really know how. I mean, I just don't know exactly what to say to him. What are some ways that I can ask him without sounding corny or cliche? Easy 5's.
14/f if that helps. (link)
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Hey hun!
That is really cute! I think you need to just explain to him that you like him a lot, and your wondering if he feels the same way about you. Tell him that if he doesn't feel the same way about you, you hope to stay friends with him. Maybe ask him to hang out with you sometime at the mall, or you guys could go to a movie, or you guys can just hang out at each others houses. If you wanna ask him in a cute way, you could just write him a really long letter to get all your feelings out on paper, or write him a poem and at the end of it ask him out. It depends on what you wanna do. I'm sure he might like something creative like that. I'm sorry, my ideas probably suck. If you want, you could also give him a pic of yourself, and just write something cute on the back of it like"I really like you a lot, will you go out with me?" If he doesn't feel the same way about you the worst he'll say is no. It'd be okay, because there's lots of guys in this world. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya hun! Good luck with this!!!! Let me know how it goes okay? I'm sure you'll do fine! If you have any other questions, just leave them in my inbox.
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I am MADLY in love with this guy that could, well, basically care less about me. I told him i liked him and we have talked since then but he hasnt taken any moves forward. He is EVERYTHING i am NOT...he cusses ALL the TIME, is loud, rude and is a BIT too physical...(he plays football so i give him a bit of a break)...but when we are together in front of my friends or his friends he puts his arm around me and talks like nothin is wrong...I REALLY like this guy....I would DO almost ANYTHING for him....what im wonderin is..Is he worth it......or should I move on? Ive cried myslef to sleep over this guy...so he means a lot to me....I RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ADVICE!!
~*~maddie~*~ (link)
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Hey hun,
I really think he isn't worth it. If he was interested, he probably would've moved forward with things already. Since he cusses all the time, is loud, rude, and too physical, he probably wouldn't treat you so good. It wouldn't be so fun to hang out with him. Also, you've cried over him and that's not good at all. This guy should not be making you cry. He's really not worth it hun! You can find someone so much better than him!!!! It's up to you though! *Any guy who is worth your tears would never make you cry* Remember that!!!! I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. Luv ya! Let me know what you decide to do.
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I like one of my best guy friends. His name is Justin. We became friends in the 7th grade and have been friends ever since. His ex keeps telling me that we should go out. I know he likes me and he knows I like him. I want him to be my bf really bad. We flirt all the time.Sometimes a little to much. I want to know if I should make the first move or wait for him. Please help me. (link)
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Hey hun!
Awww! This is a really cute question! I think it's great that you two like each other so much. If I were you, I would make the first move, because a lot of guys like that when a girl makes the first move. It's not always up to the guys to make the first move, and a lot of girls think it is. It's all up to you though. If you wouldn't feel comfortable making the first move, then I would suggest waiting until he does. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm so sorry. If you have any other questions, just leave them in my inbox. Luv ya! Good luck with this! Let me know how it goes.
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Ok this is going to be sorta long so if your not ging to read it all then dont read it! Ill rate a 5 to whoever deserves it!
Ok so heres my tale......
One month ago today was the greatest day of my life my x boyfriend asked me out and I said yes! well heres how I met him
I am in R.O.T.C. and so is he Im a freshman hes a senior. Well I went to do colorguard and hes colorguard commander and he said I was hot asked me out and I turned him down. Well 2 weeks later I noticed he was hot and sweet and was destinded to be with me! well on thursday the 27 of September there was a dance and I asked him to meet me there at the school. He shows up 2 hrs late with this grl and I thought it was his sister. He leaves after like 45 minutes and when he comes to hug me he looks at me and I wouldnt let go. Well eventually I did
Well that frieday I went to colorguard to see him present the colors for the football game. after he did I ran down the bleechers w/ my friend so I ciould go see him. Well when I finally got down and he came back from the R.O.T.C. room I saw him leave.... with the girl from the dance AMANDA!! They were holding hands so I assume they were datimg blah blah blah I cried got over it the next day and went to the campus clean up. That Sunday I went to church and saw him in the morning bc I went out to eat and he was worknig. WellI acted asd if I didnt know him. That night my mom decides to go get some food from there and he wasstill working. My sister recognized him and she started to tslk to ihm. My mom went up to him gave him my # and told him to call me that night to make me fel better. He did and all he did was ay I like you and I will eventually go out with you but Amanda this and AMANDA that. So I said whatever and sucked it all up. Well later On thursday 06 he asked me out after drill practice. I said yes duh! So everything was great until the friday befor Halloween. We never ever got to pend time alone latly bc my mom and my sis or his mom and his bro were always in his room. Well finally we were alone and my mom calls to pick me up an hr early. H alloween come we go trick or treating w/ my sis and his bro and were mad bc we have to kkep going and cant be alone. Mymom come to pick us all up and we go back to his house. 15 min later my mom takes me home. Then tuesday it started to get weird
Tuesday AMANDA'S great great grandmother died and he went to the funeral he didnt call me at all and was w/ AMANDA and I trust him but not when he doesnt call. So Wedndsay comes and he doesnt call me at all. He told me he went to Karate and then to church and didnt get home till 10. So I belived him. Funny though that AMANDA goes to the same church. Thursday is when it got really bad. He was acting all distant at school and said he was skipping school Friday. Well Thursday we disdnt talk at all after school and he said he was to sick to talk. Friday he doesnt come to school so I call him after. He picks up and I asked him about his day well he went and me up w. AMANDA and a buch of other friends and he said hes in a depression to where he wanted to break up w/ me but didnt. So we hung up I cried blah blah blah. Yesterday I tried to call him but he was at soccer tournaments so no pick up. Well I went to my sisters first soccer game and say 3 of my friends there who saw Dustin earlier. They sad him and AMANDA have been really close latly. So I was so pissed that we left and I drove over to his house to gobreak up w/ him for cheating plus his bro thold me too. Well when I got there AMANDA'S car was there his lights were off so I knocked as hard as I colud he finaly came out and I broke up with him and me and my mom left. I said so much and dont talke anybacck. But what sux is that I love him sooo bad and I just dont know how to get over him. He tried to tell me he wasnt cheating and all and school is tomorrow and I have to sse him and I dont know how Im gonig to hold up whrn i odp see him! So I really want to hear your oppinion and tell me should I trey and listen if he talks to me should I talk to ihm? What sholud I do? What really gets me is she treats him like crap and she breaks up w/ him and he had it soo good w/ me my fam loved hima nd I was always happy and now Isee him like everperiod bc he used to trat me so well and I dont know how to move on so IDK if this is really asknig for advice just more of an opinion on what to do you know . Well I had to tell someone so It would stop bothering me. Thanks to whoever is going to actually reafd this
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Bianca (link)
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Hey hun!
I'm so sorry! That's horrible! If I were you, I would just do a lot of things that make you very happy so your not constantly thinking about him. I don't think you should give him a chance by talking to him at all, because if he had any respect for you at all, he wouldn't have cheated on you. That was very wrong of him to do. You seem like a very nice girl, and you definitely do not deserve that. Someday you'll find a very sweet guy, and you'll know he's worth your time because he will not cheat on you. In the meantime, you can go shopping, take walks around the block, read, hang out with really close friends, do things with your family like go out to eat, go on the internet, paint your nails, and do lots of school work. When you see him in school, you should just try to ignore him. Don't have any eye contact with him, and he'll know your very pissed off at him for cheating on you. Don't waste your time on this guy. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have any other questions, just leave them in my inbox. Good luck! Let me know how everything goes. I hope you feel better.:)
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i have a friend who ive known for 2 years, we've dated on and off through out those two years, i love him too... which is why i need to get something special for him, does anyone have any cool ideas, cuz i cant think of anything, i can spend up to like $70 maybe a little more, but not a lot
**Thank you to anyone who gives me ideas**
*it needs to be really special too*
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Hey hun!
Awww! This is such a sweet question! I don't really know what type of things your ex likes, but if I were you I would definitely bake a cake for him, and make a card for him! I bet he would love that, because he would know he's very special to you since you made it yourself and didn't actually go out to buy the card and cake. If he likes sports, you could get him something that has to do with that. Maybe get him some balloons, write him a poem, write him a letter, or if he likes any certain types of cologne you can buy him that.(that's what I want to buy for my really close friend that's a guy)You could also buy him a video game if he likes playing games, a watch, any movies that he likes a lot, or give him a picture of yourself and put it in a frame. You could write a little note on the back of it. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry! Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, please leave them in my inbox. That question was so sweet! Good luck with that! Let me know what you end up getting for him.
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My gramma has terminal cancer, and she is dying. It's likely that she wont make it thru the week. Im not sure how to feel. I know that im sad, i was extremely close to her, like really i was. But, i only cry when i see her in the hospital bed, and when my aunts and uncles are talking to her. idk, i feel like i should be crying, and be really sad in school and stuff. This is weird but like, what r some things to think of to make me more sad? I know its weird and stupid, but if ya have any ideas, please help me (link)
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Hey hun!
I'm so sorry! That is horrible! When my grandpa died I was the same way, because I was the only person in my family who didn't even cry. I didn't even feel sad or anything. People usually try not to be sad when a close person dies, because it hurts them even more. They just want to surround themselves with positive things, and people that really make them happy. I think you should just occupy yourself with some other things to do, so that your not sad at all. You don't have to feel sad, or actually be crying. There are some people who like to show their emotions, and some people who don't. Your probably one of those people that doesn't like to show their emotions. So what I'm saying is you don't have to feel sad, or be crying. If I were you, I would just go shopping, hang out with really close friends, or just talk to a family member about this. There's nothing you can really think of to make you feel sad. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. I'm sorry about your grandma!
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Well I'm 16 turning 17 in less than two weeks. I had been dating this guy for almost 4 months, and our anniversary was coming up in less than a week. I had already made plans with him and his family for Thanksgiving and me and him were doing amazingly well. Then about one week and a half before prom he started blowing me off to hang with his friends all the time, and he kept lying to me. I was afraid he might be cheating and because of the immature way he was acting we started fighting alot. Then came prom night. We were dancing, laughing, having a good time, and he kept telling me how much he loved me. Then after prom he told me to go straight home because he was staying at his "friend's" house, whom had a 16 year old slut of a sister, and she kept eyeing my bf at prom, and not paying attention to her date at all. Well I didn't want him to go, because he promised to hang out with me after prom, but I had to go so I did. All that night I cried myself to sleep and when I woke up he finally called me. I came over and he was upstairs on his bed crying. I came over and asked what was wrong and he said he was "just thinking". Finally he spit it out. He said he needed space and wanted to take a break because his schooling was bad, us fighting was stressing him out, and the fact that I wouldn't let go of some of the mistakes he made in the past. I have this awful feeling he cheated and it hurts so bad to think that he would do that. His whole family is pissed at him because of this and I don't know what to do. I can't stop crying because I feel so betrayed and hurt. I'm afraid that if he comes crying back to me that I will take him back. It's so hard to see myself without him and actually feel happy, because we hung out so much, and I got so close to him and his family. He's like no other bf I have ever had, and it hurts so bad to let him go, even though I know I have to and it will be better in the end. Can someone please tell me anyway that I can stay strong, stop crying, and get over this guy, because I cannot take all the pain he has out me through, and I know I deserve better. I feel that he is stringing me along and it hurts so bad to feel like that. Someone help please. (link)
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Hey hun,
I'm so sorry! That's horrible! I think to get over this guy, you need to occupy yourself with some fun things to do. Even though your probably not in the mood to do anything fun, it'll keep your mind off of him. If he was a real guy, he would not have made you cry. You do deserve so0o0o much better than that, and someday you'll find a very sweet guy who won't break your heart. In the meantime just go shopping at the mall, go see movies, hang out with really close friends, read, take walks around the block, go out to eat with your family, paint your nails, go on the internet, and maybe start a new hobby. You should also surround yourself with people who have always been there for you, because they'd be able to make you feel so much better. You could talk to them about this, and you'd feel a whole lot better just by getting all of this out. It's not good to keep it in. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm so sorry. You deserve better than this, you really do. Don't cry over this guy anymore. Forget about him! He's not worth it. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. *Any guy who is worth your tears would never make you cry*
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so i write a lot, mainly poetry.... but lately ive lost my inspiration.... how do i find inspiration? (link)
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Hey hun!
Great question! I love poetry so much!!!! I used to write it all the time. You should try to find inspiration by sharing your poems with people who would enjoy reading them very much. Maybe show them to your parents, any other relatives, teachers, really close friends, or you can also share them with me!!!! I would love to read your poems! I'm sure their awesome. If you'd like, you can email me at KxIxMxMxY51890@aol.com and share them with me :) I'd love that. I'll email you back and let you know what I think. If you don't get an email back right away, don't worry, it's because I won't be on a whole lot now because one of my computers is screwed up. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. And again, email me if you'd like, so I can read your poems. :)
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ok so i really like this girl how do i impress her?cause i asked er out already but she never gave me a straight answer and she's still thinkin so yeah answer (link)
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Hey sweetie,
I think you should just show her how sweet you can be. Show her that your not going to break her heart. Do nice things for her. If she knows that your a really sweet guy, she'll most likely wanna go out with you. It's so hard to find a sweet guy nowadays. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox.
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i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!! i think i like the same guy that my best friend likes...me and this guy have been friends for a long time and my best friend has liked this guy for a while too...i dont know what to do cuz i want to get over him cuz of my friend!! please help!!!! (link)
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Hey sweetie,
This is a really great question. It shows that you have a great relationship with your friend, and you don't want to lose your friendship with her by going out with this guy. To get over him, you should just occupy yourself with a lot of fun things to do. Go shopping, hang out with friends, play games, go on the internet, go to a movie, take walks around the block, and just keep telling yourself that this guy is off limits to you. Eventually you'll meet a really sweet guy who you'll be able to go out with. I think your an awesome friend for wanting to get over this guy, instead of going out with him. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Good luck with this! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. Luv ya!
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i really like this guy ...and its not like he doesnt know i excist we talk alot but he doesnt think of me in "that" way at all ...he goes for a different type that just is not me ..i dont know if i should change for him or let it go because i am just wasting my time. And hes kinda a bad boy so im not so sure he could hold a girlfriend even if i got the chance ...what do you think .. help me out please ?
ill rate high for helpful answers (link)
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Hey hun!
Please do not change yourself for this guy. You should never change anything about yourself just to get a guy to like you. If this guy doesn't like you the way you are, then he's definitely not worth your time. I'm sure you could find someone so much better, who will like you just the way you are, and not make you feel like you have to change your appearance. The personality is what counts :) I'm sure you'll find a great guy someday!! Plus you said he's a bad boy, so he'd probably end up breaking your heart, and we don't want that. That wouldn't be so good! You seem really nice, and no girl deserves to have her heart broken by a guy. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry! Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox.
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Alright i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for a week.. and I thought i loved him so much and now i dont even know! he is the first guy that has treated me ok! but i feel like hes goin to fast and Now i just dont know if i love him or if i even wana be with him! I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG! when Im with him i feel good but i feel weird! and like i feel like he is moving to fast and now I am thinkin should i break up with him? but then he wont talk to me! and he doesnt live in my city he lives like 30 mins away.. and now im noticing how many guys in my city i could get! that are real sweathearts! but i wont cheat on anyone cause im not like that! The thing is i made my boyfriend promises that i wouldnt break up with him cause i thought i loved him! and now i dont even know if i wana be with him right now! I promised him I wouldnt ever break up with him. and he said well other girls that said that broke up with me the next week. I mean i totaly like him alot but i am so confused! and he likes me so so much i dont wana hurt him! HE IS GREAT!
what do i dooooo!? (link)
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Hey hun,
If you don't even know if you wanna be with him, then I think you should break up with him. It's not fair for him if he likes you a lot, and your not sure about your feelings for him. Just let him know you don't have feelings for him anymore. Plus, if he's moving too fast for you, he's not a great boyfriend at all. If he had any respect for you, he would not move too fast for you. Any real guy would take things slow. Plus, it's really hard to try and make long distance relationships work. If there are a lot of guys in your city that you can get, then maybe you should stick with the guys in your area. It'd be a lot easier for you with the whole distance thing. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. Good luck with this! Let me know how it goes. Your boyfriend should understand if you choose not to stay with him. If you don't stay with him, make sure you tell him that you hope to stay friends.
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i dont have my period yet and im 13years old. all of my friends have it too. is there like something wrong with me? (link)
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Hey hun!
There's nothing wrong with you at all. I started my period when I was 12 or 13, so I'm sure you'll start it soon. You should be very happy that you haven't started it yet, because it sucks so bad!!!! Once you start it you'll wish you hadn't. I hope I helped you out hun! Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox.
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okay i like this guy lets call him bob so at lunch my friend told me that she likes him too and then i was fine with it but then in 7th hour this girl that i CAN NOT stand told me that she likes him also and i was soo madd i like this bob alotttt BUT i also have a boyfriend we've been going out for 7 months but i really like bob and so do alot of others apperantly what should i do (link)
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Hey hun!
You should not break up with your boyfriend for Bob. You've been going out with your boyfriend for 7 months! That's a long time! If a lot of girls like Bob like you said, then you might not even have a chance with him. You shouldn't just break up with your boyfriend to try to go out with Bob, because you might not end up going out with Bob. Then you'd be stuck with no boyfriend :( That'd be horrible. Please stay with your boyfriend. You'll be a lot happier if you just stay with him. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox.
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Okay, so. I have a huge problem that I need serious help with. Okay. So me and my boyfriend are crazy about eachother. Like, for the first time in my life I could honestly say that I am IN love with him. And I know that may sound like shit because I'm not older or anything but I don't think age means a thing. (I'm 14. He's about to turn 16.) So anyways. His mom totally like, hates me or something. But that's beside the point. So he got grounded for getting a horrible grade in Trigonometry. But it wasn't exactly his fault because I mean c'mon it's Trigonometry and he's only 15 and he had come in half-way during the semester and had to make up all that stuff he missed. So anyways, he got a 37 in that class. And he got grounded. At first it was only until progress reports so I didn't think it was all that bad. But I just found out last night that he's grounded until January 12th. Meaning he can talk to me on the phone all he wants, but he can't see me. At all. So. I'm gonna go absolutely insane until then. But by January 12th he'll have his car and he'll be able to see me a lot. So is it worth it to wait? Keep in mind, I truely am head over heels in love with him.
Pleasseee give me some advice. Please. I'm desperate (link)
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Hey hun!!
I really think that it's worth the wait. You seem like your in a very great relationship, and you shouldn't ruin that just because he's grounded right now. Until you can see him again just talk to him a whole lot, and try to do some things to occupy yourself. You'll get your mind off of him for a while, and you won't go insane. You shouldn't worry, because January will be here in no time. Stay with him!!!! I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. I'm really sorry your boyfriend is grounded.
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I've been going out with this boy, Jay for a little over a month. When we first met we clicked. He's one of the nicest boys i know and he treats me very well. The only thing is that he goes away to boarding school, which is about 20 minntutes away from my town, and his family lives around 45 minnutes away. It's very difficult to go and visit/ see Jay, because i'm always the one who has to do al the work for the relationship, and he is very seldom able to leave his campus. He also tends to be very dorky at times where i just look at him and am like, oh lord. And he makes gay jokes all the time, pretending to be gay with his friends and it comes off as a bit creepy as well. But overall he's a cute boy.
Theres also this other boy, Kyle, who goes to my school. He and i have been getting very close all of a sudden, and he really opens up to me. We talk about everything all the time, and he is extremely hot. He lives VERY close to me, so it's not a hassle to go and visit him. So i'm beginning to like Kyle.
I feel extremely awful for liking another boy while having a boyfriend, and ive only had two other boyfriends my entire life, and i'm seventeen. I feel as though i only go and visit my b/f Jay just because it's something to do. But when i'm with him i really like him. It's a confusing situation. I don't know if i'd be better off with Kyle from my town, or my boyfriend Jay. I really love hanging out with Jay and his firends, but when im not around them .. it's like i could care less.A
Bigger Dilemma..
Today Kyle asked me to go to the movies with him sometime this week. He knows that Jay and i haven't been getting along with our relationship too well and i guess that;s why he asked me. WOuld it be wrong to go to the movies with him? (i dont know if it would be as just friends or more) and should i stay with jay even thoguh i have feelings for someone else?! Thank you so much if you can help me. I RATE 5's to anyone who gives me SOME advice. THANKS!! (link)
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Hey hun!
I don't think it'd be wrong at all to go to the movies with Kyle. You'd most likely be going as friends, because he knows you already have a boyfriend. Just make sure you don't go and cheat on your boyfriend right now. That wouldn't be so good. As for Jay, I don't think you should stay with him at all. It's not fair to him, because your thinking about someone else while your going out with him. You need to be honest with him and let him know that you like someone else. Explain to him that with Kyle it would be so much easier, because of the distance and everything. Long distance relationships don't work out very often. It's very hard to make them work! Your boyfriend should understand. Make sure you let him know that you hope to stay friends with him. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Good luck with this! Let me know how it goes.
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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help (link)
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Hey hun!!
That is really sweet! It seems like you like this girl a lot. If I were you, I would just make sure you tell this girls brother that you have liked her for a really long time, and you would really like to go out with her. Make sure you let him know that you won't treat her wrong at all, and you'll be the sweetest guy to her. He's probably just very protective of her, because he doesn't want her to go out with the wrong guy and get her heart broken. He needs to hear from you that you will be the best boyfriend you can be if you go out with his sister. If he sees how much you like this girl and wanna go out with her, I'm sure he won't mind. To make him feel more comfortable, you could also tell him that he's more than welcome to hang out with you and his sister if he ever wants to, to make sure everythings alright between the two of you. I really hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm so sorry. Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions. Luv ya! Good luck with this!!!! Make sure you let me know how this goes okay? I'm sure you'll do fine. If you do end up going out with that girl, please be really sweet to her. Don't break her heart!!!!
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Ok well I like this guy, he's awesome, and I've liked him for like.. a year... and I don't know if I should tell him because sometimes he freaks if someone says they like him... which I no, is stupid. What should I do? (link)
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Hey hun,
Awww! That is so cute!! I really think you should tell him how you feel. Just tell him you've liked him for a year now, and you are wondering if he has feelings for you at all. Let him know that if he doesn't feel the same way, you hope to stay really good friends with him, and you don't want there to be any weirdness between the two of you. He shouldn't freak out if you tell him you like him. If he doesn't like you the worst he'll say is no. I hope I helped you out hun! Good luck with that! Let me know how it goes okay? Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox.
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i am so confused with this Boy his name is alex and well...i think he likes me but i am not certain of that.he is kinda cute though. here are some reasons why i think he likes me
1. i am the first one he asks when he needs a calculator
2. in spanish our seats are in rows and we get to choose our seats and he sits in the seat Closest to me.
3.We chat sometimes
4. I catch him staring at me for a few seconds
5. My Name is Jen and and instead He Calls Me 'Jenna'
6. Oh ya and One time we were reading scenes from a book like i was the narrator and he was the dad in the book etc and we sat in rolley chairs, we were in front of the classroom sitting and reading and he didnt want to sit next to this other girl so he rolled his chair next to me.
**there are more but i cannot remember**
well i am confused if he does or doesnt like what should i do i am Clueless...seriously.
i mean he is actually 'NICE' to me out of all the other boys.
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Hey hun,
It seems like he likes you a lot! That's so cute! If I were you, I would just ask him how he feels about you. If you are too scared to ask, you should just write him a note and give it to him or something. Just let him know that you like him a lot, and you want to know how he feels. Let him know that if he doesn't like you as much as you like him that you still hope to stay really good friends with him. You should go hang out with him at the mall, go see a movie, or hang out at your house or his. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. If you have anymore questions leave them in my inbox. Luv ya!
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