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Do any other girls have a list of qualities that they want in a potential boyfriend? I have a list of about 20 things that I want a guy to have before I date him.
For example, he must be a non-smoker, have a good job, live on his own, be neat in appearance, have a vehicle, and no children from a previous relationship. These are just some of the things. I had one guy ask me out but because he lived with his mother and smoked I turned him down. Another guy asked me out and he had a 5 year old daughter, so I turned him down to. Some people say I being too picky, well I tell them I just have high standards.
Part of the reason for this is because my last boyfriend was a total loser. He was on welfare, he didnt have a car or a license, he was dirty, he smoked, and was financially and mentally abusive to me.
Do any other woman have high standards? And do you think I'm being too picky? Also do you think I'm scared of being hurt again so that is why I strive so high, and subconsiously I'm doing this so I won't have a boyfriend again?

No i don't think your standerds are to high i just think you want a good man. I made a list of things i wantd in a guy too but it's not that long on the count of i'm only 15. it was just 10 things and well the things that you listed is what alot of women want in a man. It doesn't mean your picky and it doesn't say that you'll never have a boyfriend because subconsiously you don't want to be hurt again. It's just saying that your a women who knows what she wants.

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I masterbate alot how can i chill out on doin it cause i do it alot

i chilled out on doing it by finding something else to do with my time. that's what you should do.

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I have a boyfriend but he cant stop crying because he wants to see me, i liek him alot but like hes more emotional then me!
what do i do?

theres one thing i wanna know. Who's the bitch in the relationship you or him. He needs to be a man and stop acting like a punk. Maybe then he could figure out a way to see you. And if you can't handel a man with a mangina then dump his ass and find someone new.

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wondering...

what do guys really think about having boners during class...&& while holding someones hands && while you guys around "girls"

thanks alot hope its not confusing...

I think that if you get a boner in class you should just go to the bathroom and jack off. 10 minutes flat your alright and your saved from being embaressed by your classmates or that girl.

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Again, this isn't exactly a massive problem, but if anyone has any ideas....
I had a big falling-out with my best friend this summer. She had been pissing me off for ages, by generally being a selfish, irritating ho (there are quite a few reasons, not important), so I just told her I didn't want to speak to her anymore. And now we are back at school and she has no idea I hate her. I'm still really angry at her, and she is just totally oblivious. I feel like I'd like some way to tell her how I feel or get revenge although I know it would be just to make myself feel better and make her feel bad.
Any ideas? And I'm this post makes me look like a bitter, avengeful bitch, don't bother leaving me notes telling me that, I'll report ya :)

Ok i don't know exactly what she did but you said it was bad so i guess i can take your word for it.If you want to get revenge just pretend that your friends with her agian. And everyone knows that friends tell each other secrets right. so when she tells you her secrets like her crush or whatever blurt it out to everyone. Ths equals revenge but then you seem like the bad friend. And This all comes back to you as karma.And noone will want to trust you. So imma make it easier for ya. Just let it go. Move on with your life and stop focassing on the past cause then that makes you pathatic.

*Cleo*

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if u having unprotected sex and if he have a little pre com can u get pregenet

Yes you can get pregant because pre-cum contains thousands of sperm. And unprotected sex is the wrong way to go you should always be protected.

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Whatst he best way to make a girl orgasem for the first time ?

if it's her first time sexually then it will hurt her more than pleasure her but if your talkiing about giving a girl a orgasim that has never come before than i think you should know what turns her on so you know that your doing it right.

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how long does sperm live in the air can i still get pregenet

It can live in the air for a few hours. And you can only get pregnant if the sperm makes contact with your vagina

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Ok I want to really please my boyfriend so this question is mainly for guys but if you girls can help me too that would be great. Ok so I want to give him something he will never forget sexually. What really turns guys on? Do they have favorite positions or favorite acts the enjoy being done on them?? It's our 3 year anniversery so I am really going to put all out. Thankyou for you consideration! I really need help

Well it depends on what guy you have. if he likes it rough be rough. And try alittle RP to spice things up or you could have sex in a public place. Most people get thrills from almost being caught. You can also buy sex toys, sexy langeri, special oils that are edible, edible under wear, or of course sex games!!!! the possiblitys are endless.But one thing every women is sure of is that men like oral sex. If you haven't given him oral sex before, then heres your chance. Knock his socks off by giving him the best oral he's every gotten. And to mention you have to know what pleases your man to actrully please him beyound belief.

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i am 13 and i am gay i dont know how to tell my parents that i am i dont kno if i should just drop it on them one day or if i should let them down gently...see my parents and the rest of my fam think i am little mr. perfecto cuz they cant see anything wrong with me i make straight a's and i have lots of good christian friends (that by the way kno that i am gay) everyone in the entire world knos about me cept my family.................. i have to turn into i different person when i go hope like puting on a mask temperarily for every day for the last 3 years i dont kno how else to explain it!!! hope u understand and can help me and give me tips and things to let them kno i am serious and i dont want to get any mean stuff from people soo please help dont make fun thanx love sethers

ok firts you should relax. Your parents should love yopu the same even if your sexual oreintation would upset or dissapoint them. Ok first things first. You should tell them on a nice and quite day. Explain to them and even if they yell and scream and even cry just say "i'm still the same ( your name here). And it's not like i'm on drugs, and drinking, and failing in school. So why are you upset?" I hope it works for the best

P.S. remain calm the whoile time. Don't yell and stomp your feet just act like the mature teen that you are.

**Pixie**

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ok well i try to help everyones ?s on here but nobody ever rates high. i think that i am pretty good at advice but i only have a 3.33 and that SUX!

-confuzzled

well maybe you just give good advice to some and bad to others.or maybe there being stingly i know how you feel. i hate being rated 1's but hey what can you do about it.

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Lately, I have to pee all the time. I used to only have to go once a day. Now I have to go once every hour. Anyone know why this sudden change has occurred? Should I be worried? I'm 18 female if that helps.

Yes i think so. you might need to see the doctor. it might be a early sighn of diabetes or you could just have a overactive bladder. Like i said go to the doctor to get it cheaked out.

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Everytime I shave..down there..I get these little red bumps.What is a quick way to get rid of them? I rate high.

um alcohal or see breaze works well.

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okay me and my boyfriend usually use a condom but about three weeks ago we just used the withdrawal method i wasnt ovulating(i know this becasue ive always had a perfect 28 day cycle) i took a pregnancy test two weeks after which came back negative. i havent missed my period nor do i have any of the symptoms but i am a worry wart i dont think im pregnant but i need a second opion????what do you think?

mmmm. you took a pregnacy test and it came back negative. even though the withdrawl method was stupid if you got tested and you haven't missed your period then you are not pregnant. It's not like i'm a pyshcic hon.I can't look 9 months ahead and tell you that the pregnacy test was wrong and you are pregnant.So stop trippin. you aint pregnant.

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My boyfriend just broke up with me 2 hours ago IN SCHOOL! he just wants a break so how can i make him want me??!!!

PLease answer!!

You can't. I'm not trying to be harsh but he broke up with you so leave it at that. you can't make him want you if he doesn't want you anymore and you don't wanna be the stocker ex-girlfriend so just move on. Who knows maybe the distance will make him want you back.

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Well people say when your horny and things you get wet and you juice? Well when I'm horny I dont think I juice because i dont feel wet or anything but I do feel tingerly down below is this juicing or what? Or is it a orgasim and actually.. how do you know if you have a orgasim?

you weren't getting wet but you were being arroused and when yoiur horny your horny your vagina can tingle and you don't even need to get wet. And to get a orgasem you might have to be like with masterbating, having sexm, being sexual pleased down there and it doesn't even need to be sex. And when that happens you'll get an orgasem.

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what are pilate?

pilates is a workout desighned to fit and tone the body.or better yet to put it it's this new big workout.

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ok so there is this guy who is kinda friends w/ me and he has a nick name for me, and is always talking to me, and at school dances he always talks to me and then i ask him to dance he says yes and when we are slow dancing he grabs my ass, and he always brings up times when we had fun together.
i dont know if likes me or not and if he does what should i do should i ask him out or some thing?

(i rate 5s)

um let me think............thinking............still thinking......YES!!!!! how clear does he have to be that he likes you. Does he have to write i like you on your forehead. So ask him out already.

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could someone give me a screen name for aim that has to do with summer?

um..here are some suggestions.

1.summergal15

2.beachbumbXoX

3.Hotterthanthesun

4.mermaidhottey (which kinda deals with summer)

5.sufergurl61

6.SandgalX0XOox

I personaly like 1,2,5,annd 6. hoped i helped

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