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iM jESSiCA x3 i'M ONLY 15 AND HAVE BEEN THROUGH A TON OF TUFF SHiT FOR MY AGE. WAY MORE THAN I SHOULD HAVE EVER HAD TO GO THROUGH. BUT iM HERE TO HELP YOU WITH YOUR PROBLEMS AND TRY MY BEST TO GIVE THE BEST ADViCE i CAN x3

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To make a long story short, I hate my dad. He is horrible. He does not let me go out with my friends and he has sudden outburts with me. He calls me a fucking bitch and constanly curses at me. He is extremely over pretocetive and we do not talk very much. I cannot talk to him or tell him how I feel because he will automatically not want to talk with me because no matter what, he thinks he is right.


my dads like that to. you need to do something to get his attention and show him how you feel without talking to him. write him a letter and then a morning before you goto school give it to him. tell him everything you want him to know. be stern but not angry or mean get your point across and dont beat around the bush. it worked with my dad alot. he hasnt made a complete turn around but you cant change a person over night.

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what do you wear to go ice skating at like a ice rink?

ooo i have and idea.

ICE SKATES!!!

haha sorry i thought that was funny.

i always wore jeans with toe socks because if you where socks that are below where the ice skates are they can rub and it can hurt.

where gloves. in case you fall on the ice. and a tank top with a nice looking long sleeve shirt with a zip up not hot but warm jacket with a cute scarf and a cute beanie. =)

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16/f Okay so I have a school dance this saturday, and I absolutely LOVE to dance, but sometimes I feel stupid because I don't feel like I do it as well as a lot of the other girls. Like When I dance with a guy. I basically just sit there and juke, which the guys never complain lol but I would like to be able to switch it up. If you can give me any advice for moves on my own or with a guy, that would be great.

one word.

MTV.

you flippin' dumbass. are you seriously that dumb?

its called MTV as in music television.

WATCH THE ViDEOS!!

if that doesnt work watch BET or stop flippin' complaining about. damn.

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I'm not huge, but I've put on some weight this winter because I didn't do a winter sport. Does anyone have any outfit ideas that are cute and trendy but conceal the front stomach area? [i.e. nautical, etc].

15 Female if it helps.

who cares what other people think.

if your comfortable in it thats all that should matter.

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What does it mean to be circumsized?

where the little skin at the end of your dick gets cut off when you born and they all scream real bad when they do it to. ouch.

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sorry i didn't know what catagory to put this in.

ok i'm 13 and i just got a straightener. i heard that if you use it too much your hair gets really dry and it's unhealthy...so for people that straighten your hair...how many times would be too much? like how many times could you straighten your hair in a week without it becoming unhealthy? thx!

i straighten my hair everyday.

everybodys hair is going to get dry sometime.

adding heat will increase it.

especially if you blow dry right before you use it.

moisturizing shampoo and conditioner work.
i recomend Mane & Tail.
yes i know its a horse shampoo.
but on it, it says: FOR HUMAN USE.

i use it and it has dome wonders for my hair.

and also heat protection you spray on works to but if you use to much it will your hair look greasy and clean.

getting it trimmed even now and then helps to because it cuts off the dead ends and reduses frizz.

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i need a new sn. it can include any of the following:

toxic
violence
island
green (fave color)
paradise
luxury
sunshine
music
heart
whore (like boo you whore)
fuglyslut haha
drugs (like wereallondrugs)

**or it could be a lyric, or title. such as 'mypaperheart' or something. lol see im not good with comin up with them
*******AUTOMATIC 5's, && THANKS!!

LuxuryInParadise
TOXiCxSUNSHiNE
R U ON DRUGSSSS
SH0TGUNxW3DDiNG [P!ATD song lyrics]
MusicOwnsMyHeart
TOXiCGR33NDRUGS

sorry there not that great. im tired.

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is it bad to give a guy head if you have cuts in your mouth? bc someone told me you werent supposed to and well like i accidentally bit the inside of my cheek and it bled and welll im hanging out with my boyfrind tongiht so i was jw?

i wouldnt.

theres plenty of other things to do sexually.

im sure giving him head can wait til it heals.

yeahhh.

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f/15
i was just shaving my down stairs which isnt anything i havent down before and when i was drying off i noticed i a huge bump on the lips of my vagina! what the hell is it??? its like hugee maybe a pea size or bit bigger! it doesnt stick out too much though its a lil bit red but i think it was there before i shaved thats just when i noticed it! i havent done anything of a sexual natural for about 6 months now so it cant be anything to do with that and i dont finger myself.. could anyone tell me what the hell it is? it doesnt hurt unless u push on it!?!?!?!

it might be an std.

or just a bump.

if it hurts and it feels hard and like a ball beneath the skin.

try popping it. even if that hurts.

if its to painful and bleeds go see a doctor. so you can treatment for whatever it is.

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KEEP IN MIND THIS IN TEXAS. my girl ("wiwi") got kicked out the house by her momma than she change her mind all of a sudden. "wiwi" was kind of happy for her momma kicking her out the house because she has been CHILD ABUSE by her for a long period of time to the point the family had to get counciling, social worker, and a check up on momma. last year wiwi got beaten up by her momma to were she had a sissor. she got beaten up so bad and it left her in not so good conditions. this year it starting to begin so she wants to stay out the house. she's 17 and 6 months year old. my question is that if her momma were to kick out the house and she left can the law do any thing to wiwi? is it true that once u are 17 and 6 months year old the police can't force u back home is your decion from than on (once momma kicked her out)? is there any law that can help her out not to return home? NOW KEEP IN MIND THIS IS IN TEXAS. how can i help her???

you can leave home at 16 if your parents approve of it.

im not so sure about her kicking her out of the house.

but if she has been abused and is almost 18.

i really dont think the cops are going to force her to go back home. they are probably going to be thankful shes out of there.

as long as she has somewhere to stay.

if shes homeless and living on the streets. they might make her go home, put her in a home for 6 months, or in a homeless shelter.

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My dogs tend to attack one of our dogs named angeline. We arent sure why or how to stop it. I think it might be because she has had seisures in the past and she is really sick. Maybe the can sense if somethings wrong with her? Im not sure
what can we do to stop it
and why are they doing it?


dog wants to be leader and show her whos boss.

is she fixed?
if not then that should answer your question.

if she is.
is he?

just because she is doesnt mean he sill doesnt want some. haha.

and depending on the dogs personality.. if he detected something was wrong with her. i really dont think he would attack her.

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ok my dad wasnt home so i snuck a reeses peanut butter cup, even though i wasnt supposed to have one and i dropped it and my dog ate it...is he going to die? please help me i am so scared right now...hes a wire fox terrior, 1 year old and weighs about 18-20 pounds if that helps...please help me danielle

he wont die.

chocolate does not kill dogs.

you literally have to throw him in willy wonkas chocolate factory and let him eat it inside out before hell die from it.

chocolate just gives him diarehha. (sp)

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ok my dog eats absoloutley anything he can get his paws on-napkins, rocks, rubberbands, twist ties, you name it he'll eat it. Is this abnormal for dogs? is there a way we can train him not to do this? Does he even know what hes eating could be harmful to him? thanks ♥

this stuff could actually be harmful to him. and you can train him. take it away and say NO firmly and loud but not to loud about 3 times. everytime he does it. until he stops. if that doesnt work you can also purchase some products to put on the objects he eats and he will leave it alone either by the smell or the taste.

and my personal advice.. you can try the bitter apple spray. but some dogs like the taste and smell of it. it didnt work on mine.

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Sometimes, my friend Liv tends to make a huge deal out of things that don't really matter. It's also hard for me to talk to her because she doesn't talk well, she yells and gets mad and is mean. What can I do?

i am supposedly that way. because im senstive and take things to the heart and think way to much about it. im bipolar and i blow up when i get easily aggravated.

ive had my friends tell me that i go all hysterical when we have a conversation that upsets me.

most of the time its from keeping something bottled up and when an oppurtunity comes to get it out it justs happens even if you dont want it to.

ask her if theres anything she wants to talk about and let her know your always there for her. and when you want to talk to her about something let her know before hand and you want it to be serious with no yelling and no going out of control if she asks why you said that tell her that well get more accomplished that way and its easier to talk calmly to get things out and yelling at your friends shouldnt be a way to release anger.

basically, talk to her.
if she doesnt stop it. then dont talk to her.
it should drop a hint.
its dropped quite a few for me.

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I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!


first of all. a website made by scientist isnt going to help. they may think they have scientifically proved those things but they havent because they think they know how to understand the teenage mind which is impossible for the simple fact teenagers thereselves cant understand it.

that was a response to the other answer someone gave you.

im a previous cutter. and ive had friends just tell me to stop. and thats all. all they want is for me to stop and thats all they say. just because you want her to stop isnt going to make her stop. dont tell her to stop. ask her why she does it. when she does it. and whats going on. let her know that your always there for her to talk to and you wont betray her or backstab her. most cutters dont trust many people. and this may sound weird. but if she trusted you enough to tell you then you mean something to her. and a cutters worst fear is letting someone in and then having them walk out on her. its just makes things worse. they feel like that pyhsical pain relieves the emotional and pyschological pain. and it does. its a horrible way to relieve pain and take it out on yourself. so you need to help her understand without telling her to just stop because then they feel like they are being ordered around. they just want someone to be there. and let her know that your worried about her hurting herself and that you wish she would stop but its her decision. but let her know it hurts you when she does it.

also. if she doesnt cover it up and she tells everybody and doesnt try to hide it. shes just looking for attention. let her know you care and that your there for her even if she just wants people to notice her.

sorry for such a long answer.

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What is the chance of a condom breaking while your using it?


depends if its exprired or how rough the sex is.

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Last night my boy friend and i were havin dry sex and he got some cum on his boxers, but we were both wearing underwear, and some of it might have gotten on my underwear too..is it possible that i could be pregnant?

theres a chance. but i doubt it. its not very possible.

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does birth control make you fat..? because they're is a possibility that my doctor may put my on it cause im having female problems.and i heard that it does
thanks for the help ill rate all 5's!!!

birth control does not make you fat depending on the bran you are taking. there are about 564365432 kinds out there. i take birth control. but in my opinion im already fat but ive been taking it for about 4 months and i havent gained weight because of it.

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