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is it better to wear tampons during your period if your a cheerleader or pads??? plz help!

Tampons

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Okay...I know a lot of people ask what they should do if they're bad dancers and mostly they're told that they just need more confidence and that they can't be THAT bad. The thing is, I'm REALLY bad, and I'm not just saying it. There have been dances at my school and whenever I go I feel really stupid when I'm out there dancing because I know I suck at it. My boyfriend wanted to take me clubbing once and I had to make up an excuse because I didn't want to embarrass myself! Is there any way I can improve without taking classes? Or is it something that you sort of have to be a natural at? I don't want to have to avoid dancing situations forever! (okay, I'll stop with the drama) Anyway, any advice would help. Thanks!

Well a easy way is to watch music videos like i do see how other ppl dance and copy them then make your own dance style up..hoped i helped

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whenever i walk my left ankle always seems to click! its really loud and people say i should get it checked out, but the thing is it doesnt hurt at all!! what do you think i should do?

I had that problem once it went away but go see a doctor plz you might have something wrong with it you never know..

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Well lets start off my saying im 13/f and I weigh 155.I use to weigh 165 but then I stopped eating and I lost 10 pounds and well not eating isn't very healthy for you body and ive tried exercising with correct eating and that still didn't help so I just completely stopped eating and I think I over exercised.I would exercise 3 or more times a day for an hour or more and well I know im going about this the wrong way.I hate the way I look when I look into the mirror and I hate when I go shopping and nothing fits.Im a size 13 in Jr.'s clothes.Most ppl tell me that Im just exagerating about how big I really am and well I might be but if you were in my position you probably wouldn't like the way you looked either.Anyways to get to the point I need another way to help myself to lose weight or to gain self-confidence and be happy about the way I look without becoming anorexic.I can still eat so Im not completely anorexic yet so I need help before I get to that point.If anyone has any advice once so ever plz give me it.And I think Im pretty and all but I just hate the way my stomach looks.So plz help.I'll rate good so plz just help.Thank you.

-Unhappy and Depressed about my weight

I got an idea try that diet Trimspa if it worked for Anna Nicole I'm sure it'll work on you..dont get yourself down cuz of your wieght im sure your a very pretty girl who just needs some to boost your confidence up...i hoped i helped

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A friend of mine has recently put on some extra weight, yet she continues to wear the same clothes that are obviously to small for her. While in her bathing suit she said she didn't understand why it was so small, and that it must have shrunk. I don't know if she realizes the truth or if she is in denial.

I am her good friend, should I tell her the truth of what I am thinking, and if so how do I do it without hurting her feelings?

I know how you fell one of my friend gained some weight I didnt say anything now shes starving herself and she got really sick if you dont say anything now she going to realize it and start to do what my friend did..hoped i helped

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Hey, a couple months ago me and my boyfriend got caught having sex. I'm 15 years old and my parents were not too happy with me. They had no idea that I was sexually active before. They grounded me and told me that I could never see my boyfriend again, but I talked them into letting me stay with him, thats all taken care of but how can I gain their trust back? please help..

To gain their trust back make good grades,ask them if they need anything you kno juss be helpful and talk to your parents..hoped i helped

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well i think i might be anerexic. im 5'4 and 93 pounds and i know that doesnt sound like alot but i really think im fat. all my friends say im so skinny but i think they are just trying to b nice... but it all fits the description of being anerexic. help what should i do

no im 15 and my hieght is 4'11 and 96lbs for your hieght you should probly way a lil bit more plz dunt try to get skinner your fine the way to r if anything gain sum wieght

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I'm 15 n me n my boyfriend are in love, we've been together for a long time n we have been through everything together. We feel like we're ready to have a baby i just dont kno what people would think n stuff, if we feel liek we're ready should we proceed with it or not? helppp..

No you need to wait until your older plz take my advice you dont want to be tied down a baby is a lot repsonsiblity think about it clothes,food,making sure u have insurance for health care,college money..etc...hoped i helped

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i really like my best friend but i dont know how to tell him cuz i dont want to ruin wat we alreadii have...hes like my goofy brother but ive liked him for soo long! what do i do! thanks!

Tell him how you feel...but if he doesnt wanna go to that level let him know you dunt wanna ruin ur friendship still...hoped i helped rate plz

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Does anyone know a good place to get your own website on the net....FOR FREE? Please help me! :)

www.freewebs.com or www.easydesigner.com

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I have been talking to this kid Rob online for a while now and we like eachother.. and were both from the same state and... my cousins friend Jack who is also my sorta friend i have been around him alot is Robs best friend.. and thats how we started talking.. wehave never met but we want to sometime... should i meet him.. i mean i know were the same age.. and i know hes safe since hes Jacks best friend....

what do I do..


and do u think its bad that i sent him a pic of me?

Yea i think its ok i met one of my friend's friend off online in we've been going out now so try it :)..rate plz

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I am a mother of young children . You probally dont have any , I hope not . Anyways you are young so I'll see if you can help me ; WHAT CAN I DO TO GET MY CHILDREN TO LISTEN TO ME ? I have to tell them to do something like a hundred times by then I just get mad . Thanks AAWE

I know wut u can do

1.take away stuff they luv

2.i know ur not gonna like this but bieleve me it works if u whoop them they'll stop when they know u mean bussiness

3.put them in boot camp

I know this is harsh but u gotta show your kids your the boss wut you say goes...hoped i helped

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I've decided that I want to give my EX another chance.. But whenever I talk about him.. everyone in my family starts sayin that I don't need him and that he's not worth it..I haven't changed my mind on giving kevin another chance.. I just wanted to know if anyone new how i could get my family to forget about the things that kevin has did to me and how i could get my family to like him...

*~Needing help~*

You gotta realize family is suppose to do that lol their gonna see how sum1 treats you and tell you wats n their hearts but if u like him and think he realli has changed tell ur family...hoped i helped

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Ok - I recently got a petsitting job about 3 weeks ago. It's great and I love it!!! But my boss is hitting on me. He's a older guy around his late 40 - 50`s (I am not good with age) And his wife owns it. She is the sweetest lady. Well me and him went on a client interview and somehow he brushed aganist my butt with his hand, I was thinking hmm ok whatever. Then just at different times it seem ackward, he was like after you and wanted me to go first and different things like that. Well when I first meet him I sorta did have this weird feeling in my stomach, but just thought it was nervousness. Well then I had to go over his house to pick up invoices for the clients. And I walked up and he was on the pourch and before we went in the house we were talking and he reached towards my lips and I backed away I am like what what he's like you had a hair .. and reached again well I took my hand and like rubed it across my face I am like oh ok. And that was weird. Well I told my mom about it and she said that that is very weird and everything and it's up to me if I want to quit my job or not. I mean I love it so much, it's just that freaks me out. My mom said whenever I was going someplace and we knew he would be there, she would go with me. But I'm just afraid since he knows my schedule what if I go to a clients house and go inside and he's in there .. or what if he's stalking me watching me walk around the dogs. Whats really weird too is that he always wears sunglasses and smokes cigars. I don`t know what to do tho. Also their was a misunderstanding about one day I was suppose to work and he like curked out on me. Then when I had to go to his house (my mom came with me) he was like calm. It's really weird. What would you do?? :-/

I would tell him to stop and if he says he doent kno wut your talkin about explain to him that you like the job but if he doesnt stop makin passes your going to take him to court.. you might get fired but you dont want no ugly old man hittin on u hun...hoped i helped

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Am I bi-sexual, or bi-curious if i fantasize about doing more then making out with some of my girl friends?

Your probly bi-curious sum ppl go thru this dunt worry every1 likes to expriment..hoped i helped

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Ok if u have sex in a pool or like in the shower pretty much in water and u dont wear a condom can n e thign happen like when the guy busts?!?!?!?!
plz answer and DONT delete!!!!!!



NEED TO KNO!!!!!

Yea u can no matter where u r...rate plz

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my bestest, bestest, BeStEsT friend in the whole wide world jus did the worst thing a best friend cud eva do. She slept wit my crush. She sed she didnt mean to, and basically CrIeD, BEGGING me to forgive her. But how can i? She smokes, and she said it wuz becuz she wuz high. Yur probably wonderin wats she doin at his house in the first place. She goes there to get cigarettes. Its bad enuff that kidds our age shudnt be smoking, but anyway.... So she slept wit him, while i wuz on vacation. I'm jus glad she told me, but how can i ever forgive her? She PrOMISeD me she wud never do this to me, and she did. But then again, i mean its not like i wuz goin out wit him in the first place, so it isnt really my crush's fault. She said He came on to HER, but of course thats wat she's gonna say. I dunno wat to do. I'm jus so glad she told me, cuz she could've jus lied and sed everything wuz OK. But deep down...i'll let the picture speak for itself >:0. She begged me for forgiveness, and i want to forgive her, but i cant. Wat shud i do?

Well she was nice to tell you but real friend dont do crap like that if shes always been there for you then 4 give her but if she always does stuff like this juss let her go slowly..hoped i helped rate plz

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What happens if you let a yeast infection go on for a really long time?

1st tell a parent cuz if you dont do sumthen its juss going to get worse..hoped i helped plz rate me

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Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering.

well dunt lol but some gurlz might be turned on by it..maybe you should spend so much time on games lol

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I have this friends and I really like her like more than a friend. A couple of months after we became friends I asked her out but she thought that it would be better if we stayed friends. After that was said, we became much closer and im kinda getting signals. what should I do, I really like her?

Ask her does she really want to be friends and if she said sumthen like i told you that already just tell her how you feel ..rate plz

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