hello, my name is katrina but you can call me nina. what ever makes you feel comfortable. i am 20 years old and i love helping people i am currently a college student. and i would love to answer all questions for anyone who needs it. if its just so you have someone to talk to or you need real advice. please feel free to message me and ask about anything. i will answer as best as i can. thank you. *!^
E-mail: katrina-626-@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: united states
Age: 20
Member Since: August 14, 2009
Answers: 74
Last Update: January 16, 2010
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I had protected sex with my boyfriend three days after the end of my period. I am not taking birth control. It's been over a week and a half and for the past couple days I have been experiencing side cramps, bloating, and back aches. I am terrified that I could be pregnant. People I am talking to say that I am not pregnant and that I am convincing my mind to believe I am and anxiety is what is causing these pains. I might have swollen breasts but I can't tell. I have decided to not have sex anymore because it is not worth the agony. I don't want to be told to see a doctor. I'm looking for personal opinions that might be able to put me at ease. Please help. I'm so scared. (link)
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hello. your not pregnant. just relax :) you had protected sex and even if you didnt seven days after your period are the safest days to have unprotected sex. im 100% positive you are not pregnant.please just trust me. all these aches your feeling is cuz most likely you just got off your period and because your freaking your self out :) hope i helped. if you still need reasurance im here to talk.
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I'm pretty fit, I just have a bit more weight to lose. What kind of exercise is kind to my knees but burns a ton of calories? (link)
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and when you run it should not be hard on your knees, you said you lost some weight allready so im imagining you pretty fit like you sait and running should be no problem for you but sorry for not helping you. i have looked into it more and swimming really helps. and its light work for your knees. i truely am sorry.
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what are rich brand names? like juicy couture.. victoria's secret... (link)
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hello.some rich brand names that i like are guess jeans, ralph lauren,kate spade, ella moss, dkny,LAMB, mark jacobs
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14/m
Sometimes i feel like i want a girlfriend sometimes i don't care. Is it normal?
Also why can't i find someone? I think im ok looking or just below that. Im not fat im 140lbs and im very athletic and i lift weights im also tall. I haven't done anything with a girl and im shy like really shy. What could i do? I don't really talk to girls, not even my friends that are girls i just txt them. I've had one girlfriend and it lasted a week and it was this year in September.
Any advice would b helpful thanks! (link)
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heyy. dont worry its normal what your feeling. if your looking for a girlfriend i think your problem is that your shy :):) although i thinks its cute some girls might not like shy boys. so try to amp it up a bit. and if your in one of those moods where you dont want a girlfriend then just look hot and dont worry about it. dont rush yourself. hope i helped. -niina.
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i am 13 years old, i am 5'8 and i weigh 123 lbs. and i desperatley need help hiding not eating from my friends. i am not looking for some lecture, because trust me i've gotten many of them from friends. can someone just please tell me how i can hide it, dont waste your time lecturing me because i'm not going to listen. my mom notcied a bit that i'm not eating but my dad didnt notice anything, but one day i was talkin to my friend and she said "how come you dont eat, is there a reason?" and then i regret saying it, but i said "no, you know i am just anorexic because i feel like it". and now some of my other really close friends know and they think i am eating now but i dont know how much longer i can hide from them. they want me to go see a docter and to get help and to tell my parents. someone please help me here! (link)
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look im not going to lecture you if you dont want me to, if you are ready to end your life so young then do what you please.. i dont care for rateings so you dont have to rate a 1 or something just to let me know you didnt like what i just said ... any way, a way to hide your anorexia.. try to explain to them that you just ate or something and for your parents.. i guess you could be like im going to my room to eat, my show is on tv or something and go throw it away or something, or tell them you just ate before you got home and youll eat later wen your not so full. hope i helped. good luck.
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Okay so i got out of the shower like five minutes ago. I felt like a knot or a lump or something in the lip of my vagina. I don't know what it is. If i push on it, it hurts. Please help if you have any idea what it is. Im scared. (link)
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i think you should tell a doctor, dont be scared, it could be alot of diffrent things but it could also be bad, and its better to see a doctor now that its earlie.
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18/f.
I've been on birth control for about 6 months. Last Monday I missed a pill on the 2nd week of the pack. I didn't notice until I went to take my pill for the next night and noticed that Monday night's was still there. I took both but the next day I noticed spotting. My mom said it was normal after a missed pill but the problem is I'm STILL spotting over a week later! What should I do? Should I call my doctor? Or should I just continue on my pill schedule? Does this mean I won't get my period when I got on the inactive pills next week?
I'm on the 7-7-7 pill, I don't know if that helps at all.
Thanks for any information! (link)
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your fine, like your mom said your supposed to spot, its normal when you miss a pill, you are just lasting a little longer because some peoples bodies are diffrent.. trust me my cousin is on the same pill you are.. :D
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i might be pregnant. I date all my periods and times i have sex with my boyfriend on a calender so i know what days happened. On July 31st we had sex wile i was on my 3rd day on my period and he came in side. After that my period did not stop. it lasted on for 15days. I went to the doctor and they gave me a pregnancy test that came back which i knew that. it was too early for one any way. I hadnt even started on my missed on yet. but anyways they gave me some pills that were supposed to "reset" my period and bring it back. i finished the pills on August 26th but it didnt come back. on the 31st i got some spotting that was bright red and on the first i had some clots that were dark brown than nothing after that. Could i be pregnant? i havent had any signs or should i go to the doctor again? (link)
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i am so very sorry but i think you could be pregnant, i dont want to scare you but by what you have told me i would say you are, that doesnt mean im positive because im no doctor but you said nothing about protection being used in your question so im asuming you have not been using protection, and every time you have sex without protection theirs a risk your taking. the last week of your period is the best time to have unprotected sex because their is like a 2% chance you can get pregnant but even then your risking it. any way, you were not using protection and your period is now messed up.. so in my opinion you are.. i would say to go to the doctor again and look at your options. i hope everything works out.
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f/teen
So my hole family cousins sisters brother aunts uncles etc, all belevie in waiting till marraige and so do i Its hard cause you get tempted but i stick through it.
I know that is what god wants everyone to do and its the right way to do it.
So i was wondering on how you feel about waiting to have sex and doing other things with them?
(besides kissing and makeingout)No fingering bj all that stuff how do you feel about it? (link)
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i belive that you have to test the merchandise beofer you buy it :) waiting till marage is good but what happens if you wait all that time and then you dont like what you get??... hahah :D
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guys, how do you feel about a girl who is on the pill and does not want to use a condom. Girls and guys, is that weird for a girl to not want to use a condom? and if you dont mind saying..doesnt it feel better ? (link)
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for the guy it feels better, adn if your on birth controle i think you could risk it.. birth controle is pretty safe.
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Thanks I don't knw you but still you gave me such a good advice u made me feel at ease speaking to You. ur so sweet thanks a lot for Your advice I will definately follow it.I would love to be your friend even though it's just online you rock dude thanks (link)
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:D lol, ur welcome, kay. have fun.
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ok so one of my friends thought of a good idea to get a guy to like me. he likes "bad girls" so the plan is to get a rumor started about me that i gave someone a bj and idk if i should do it or not. help me plllleeeeaaasssssssseeeee! (link)
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hey,please dont do that, i dont know whos idea that was but really, dont mess up your reputation for a guy, especially a bad boy, i know it sounds cool and harmless like ohh its ok its just a rumor but really just for makeing up a lie like that even if everyone finds out its a lie your reputation in school will drop.. think it over, im just an advicenator but i think instead of makeing up a lie like that you should be yourself around him :) just go strait up to him and tell him hes hot hahaha and go from their, if he doesnt like you then his loss. good luck
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i am 13 years old and i was having a party at my friends house. I got drunk and i really liked this boy. I came down in the middle of the night and he came through to talk to me. Then he kissed me and stuff then he started to finger me i feel such a slut and i don't know what to do. He wasn't drunk but the next day i noticed i had blood in my pants then the day after that i also noticed all this white stuff but i don't know what it is. Am i a slut and what is this stuff
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your not a slut :P relax.. you are just 13.. their are many other girls who have done more than you and still cant be labeld a slut :P the blood in your pants is because he popd your cherry as people like to say it lol. adn the white stuff is your system cleaning its self and it just means you were a little exited while he was fingering you.. have fun and be safe.
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Hi Advicenators.
I'm 15 years old. I've been with my current boyfriend for 7 months now. We have a slight on and off relationship, but it's been good for a few months now. We are both virgins.
We are in love. There is no doubt about that.
We are 100% open with each other sexually, we have done everything but penetration sex. if something embarrassing happens, it's totally okay, we continue and laugh it off.
Recently, we both really started wanting sex. But I'm TERRIFIED of a condom breaking, and me getting pregnant. Please help me. I'm just so scared. But I really am ready for sex. I can't get on birth control by the way. Any advice (link)
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hey, im gonna be honest and tell you that i dont like to be negative in my responses you can check my column and see that, so lets see, if the only thing keeping you from haveing sex is the condom breaking i say go for it :) i know theirs a chance of it breaking but hey you only get one chance to live and if your ready like you say you are then do it, also you said you both are very open so when you are done haveing sex (i know this sounds wierd) just take off the condom and go to the bathroom and fill it with water and you can tell if water comes out theirs a hole abviously, and if no water comes out then it didnt break.,. and lets say it did break you can buy a pill callewd morning after pill and it will stop the pregnancy,.just be carefull :) sex is very fun but only when you are worry free. if you cant be on birth controle then the condom is your best friend, adn i know the water thing is wierd but better safe than sorry :D
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b7yCrTBVVZo
Listen to this song ...its a 13 year old singing!
A 13 year olds song gave me butterflies in my stomach/
whats your opinion on it? (link)
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aaahhh, ohh my gooshh hes so cute.. i love him, :) :) i think you just made my day lol... and hes 15, i know he looks small :D
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Thanks for ur advice but the thing is I sit alone as their is no other place wer I can sit cos it will bevoccupied and I tried speaking to pple bt Ty ignore me I've been in collage for 2 months nw and still not made friends so I'm worried (link)
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so if you sit alone invite someone to sit by you :D tell them you have no friends and you would like to make one :P please just try... i know its hard but if no one wants to talk to you you have to get out their or theirs no way you will make a friend ... if it helps any, i could be a friend to you, of course i will only be your online buddy but i would love to have a friend from india...
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Hi I'm from india I was late to collage cos I met with an accident I joined my collage a month late due to tis it's been almost 1 and a half of me goin to collage but I can't make any friends though I know many people frm outside my class I don't knw anyguy frm my class.my class room is always occupied ppl hav already made a particular spot wher they sit the only place that's vaccant is the first bench wer I sit alone I really feel depressed no one sits next to me and no one talks to me as I sit alone I even the teachers look at me in a very sympathetic way cos I'm always alone I don like the way the students look at me no one wants to be my friend and I can't sit with them cos all the benches are occupied so I hav to sit alone wat should I do i've tried bt Ty just ignore me is it too late as I' spent two months in collage and still don't have even one friend what should I do don't feel like attending collage anymore due to tis (link)
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hey, mm i think you shouldnt worry about it, i know its hard, people in my college are evil too but its their loss.. i know you want to make friends so just try to talk to them first.. if they dont want to talk to you its probly because they are afraid or they think you dont want to make friends but im sure if you talk to one of the girls or something you will have friends.. i know its intimidateing but you should go for it... what do you have to lose? :) remember to smile.. lifes too short to be misserable over the little things :D:D
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So the only guy I truely have feelings for and I now live about 2 hours away from eachother. His name is jason and I went to go hang out with him about 3 days ago and I was supposed to go to my dads at ten pm to stay the night then I would go home the next morning. Well while we were hanging out we drank a bit and I noticed he was spending alot of time with my homegirl mariah and it pissed me off so I made out with his best freind matt. Then like 2 hourse later me and mariah walked to round table to meet this girl that wanted to hang out with us. Her name is leighanne and she is not allowed to chill with me alone so her mom sat in the parking lot of the pizza place, and me and mariah told her if she wanted 2 drink that we would go get the bottle and bring it back 4 her. So when she gave us the money we bought a bottle of vodka and went back to jasons house (ditching leighanne with her money/bottle). Anyways me mariah jason matt and this guy martino all drank the bottle then we went to a place where there was more drink and we drank there then left. We went to this pond where me and jason had a really long talk about our relationship that turned in to a huge fight. Mariah and Matt left and Jason told me he wanted me to stay the night at his house so we could talk some more. Me not caring about my ten pm curfew went back to his house with him and martino. .......Well I guess earlier Leighanne (the girl we ditched/jacked) snuck out the back of the pizza place with her boyfreind and when her dad caught her it was already 12:30 am. My dad was with her dadd and they were looking for us so when they found her since she was obviously mad at me for ditching her she told my dad where jason lived. So My dad shows up at jasons house and is telling his parents im a runaway which is not even close to true. I was simply 2hours late. THEN I see leighanne walk up with her dad and I was unabled to stop myself from putting my hands on her. I guess I hurt her really bad (thats what my dad says). But besides that Jason is so mad all that drama was brought to his house and he refuses my calls and wont reply my myspace messages, He even told mariah he is pissed at me cuz he thinks i was a runaway. I am unabled to explain to him anything plus he was already upset with me that day for making out with matt and our fight. Since im so far away from him also I cant just go find him and talk to him in person. I feel like it may really be over between us and that hurts especially that it ended this way! Plus I really want to call and make sure leighanne is ok and talk to her. I know I was EXTREMELY messed up to her that day but at one time she was my best friend. That day just pretty much fucked up my life! :::My parents dont trust me to come home on time! I lost A best friend! And may have lost the love of my life. (link)
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hellooo, okay about your boyfriend i really think you should go to him, this way it will be harded for him to avoid you. every human has a heart and i dont think hell slam the door in your face :) and your parents, well talk to them both, sit them down together and really spill your heart out, no yelling or crying just tell them that u messed up and you are really sorry and you deserved your punishment and all you ask is that in time they begin to trust you again and you will see that they will begin to let you go places and trust you. now, as for your friend, explain to her that you are sorry and you were drunk and that still is no excuse but you will make amends :P.. and as for you... really dont drink, you abviously have no controle over yourself when you drink, and if you keep drinking most likely you will end up right here were you are now.. asking for advice becasue you messed up again. lol. so please be carefull and safe, and i hope everything works out. remember to smile :) lifes real short, before you know it, half of it will already be gone. hope i helped..
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ok im a 16 and femaile...my bf is 15... im about a week and a half late for my period....we have been having unprotected sex but we didnt do it half as much as we usually do but im late and iv had stomach issues lately but i donno im freaking out could i be pregnant or is it my stomach problems screwing with it? im never 100% regular. i know the stomach issues arent caused by pregnancxy...iv had them for a couple months... i was tested last month and it came back negative but is it possible that this month i got knocked up? please help i dont really know what to do and dont have anyone here to talk to.... thanks..
**Sleepiesheep** (link)
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ok ok .. first off, you need to relax, when you freak out your brain makes you feel and think things that are all in your head. :) and just take a pregnancy test. and if you dont want to do that then go down to your pharmacy and purchase a pill called the morning after pill its about 40$ and it will take away the pregnancy if you are pregnant. i cant tell you for sure if your pregnant or not but if you are and dont want to be then i think i just gave you a solution :D ... good luck.
im sorry, i know the box sais that, ive taken it too, but when you ask a doctor about it he told me that you can actually take it within 2 weeks of haveing unprotected sex, and chances are it will still work 98%.. the box just sais that for safety issues. trust me, the first time i took that pill i didnt belive it was realo so i called my doctor. im sorry for the misunderstanding, i hope i can still help you in the future.
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Okay i'm 14, and i'm horney like all the time..
i like this guy, but he's a little older then me?
i really want to have sex with him, but i'm scared of all the things that could happen, i've been finger and it's okay, but tomarrow i'm supose to have sex???? what should i do? (link)
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hello, if you really want to then go for it. but make suyre your safe... always be safe. no one can stop you from doing something you want to do, not me or anyone giveing you advice. just make sure you know the consecuenses if your not safe. be carefull.
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