Hi I'm from india I was late to collage cos I met with an accident I joined my collage a month late due to tis it's been almost 1 and a half of me goin to collage but I can't make any friends though I know many people frm outside my class I don't knw anyguy frm my class.my class room is always occupied ppl hav already made a particular spot wher they sit the only place that's vaccant is the first bench wer I sit alone I really feel depressed no one sits next to me and no one talks to me as I sit alone I even the teachers look at me in a very sympathetic way cos I'm always alone I don like the way the students look at me no one wants to be my friend and I can't sit with them cos all the benches are occupied so I hav to sit alone wat should I do i've tried bt Ty just ignore me is it too late as I' spent two months in collage and still don't have even one friend what should I do don't feel like attending collage anymore due to tis
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? gr8fruit answered Thursday September 10 2009, 9:43 pm: Hi,
I know what you mean, but sometimes you just have to put yourself out there! Build up your courage and say 'hello', 'nice shirt', or 'hey what is up?' to anyone and everyone. Sit in the seat by the guy/girl you want to get to know. Be yourself, smile, go over to the crowded bench and introduce yourself. You CAN do it. Just so you know: 'You have to be a friend to make a friend'. So just GO FOR IT! You shouldn't let this stop you from doing anything, for you CAN do anything. People will accept you once they see how friendly, nice, and outgoing you are. It may seem impossible at first, but if you consistantly keep at it, you will have friends in no time :) Believe in yourself <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
Niinakins answered Tuesday September 8 2009, 6:12 pm: hey, mm i think you shouldnt worry about it, i know its hard, people in my college are evil too but its their loss.. i know you want to make friends so just try to talk to them first.. if they dont want to talk to you its probly because they are afraid or they think you dont want to make friends but im sure if you talk to one of the girls or something you will have friends.. i know its intimidateing but you should go for it... what do you have to lose? :) remember to smile.. lifes too short to be misserable over the little things :D:D [ Niinakins's advice column | Ask Niinakins A Question ]
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