i am 13 years old and i was having a party at my friends house. I got drunk and i really liked this boy. I came down in the middle of the night and he came through to talk to me. Then he kissed me and stuff then he started to finger me i feel such a slut and i don't know what to do. He wasn't drunk but the next day i noticed i had blood in my pants then the day after that i also noticed all this white stuff but i don't know what it is. Am i a slut and what is this stuff
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christina answered Tuesday September 8 2009, 11:55 am: Sluts are usually defined as girls who sleep around with pretty much anyone they can get their hands on. I wouldn't personally define you as a slut, but other people might if they found out what you've done. It's best if you keep this whole thing to yourself. 13 year olds have big mouths.
However, you shouldn't even be drinking. You're 13 years old. Why the hell would you be drunk? You should be having birthday parties and group dates at the skating rink. Stop drinking before you build up a habit & become an alcoholic, and stick to your damn slumber parties and collage making. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
loveable17 answered Tuesday September 8 2009, 4:24 am: Your not a slut the definiton of a slut is a girl that sleeps with several different guys. You are very young and not sure that you should be doing that stuff at your age but hey don't think you are a slut. The bleeding was probably because you have never done that before and it just irritated you. I dont think he popped you hymen. And the white stuff is probably just discharge which every female gets at one point nothing to stress over. Plus drinking at age 13.... anyways girl sounds like you need to make some wiser desicions but hope I helped [ loveable17's advice column | Ask loveable17 A Question ]
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