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Terrified, in need of help.


Question Posted Friday December 25 2009, 8:43 pm

I had protected sex with my boyfriend three days after the end of my period. I am not taking birth control. It's been over a week and a half and for the past couple days I have been experiencing side cramps, bloating, and back aches. I am terrified that I could be pregnant. People I am talking to say that I am not pregnant and that I am convincing my mind to believe I am and anxiety is what is causing these pains. I might have swollen breasts but I can't tell. I have decided to not have sex anymore because it is not worth the agony. I don't want to be told to see a doctor. I'm looking for personal opinions that might be able to put me at ease. Please help. I'm so scared.

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Niinakins answered Saturday December 26 2009, 5:14 pm:
hello. your not pregnant. just relax :) you had protected sex and even if you didnt seven days after your period are the safest days to have unprotected sex. im 100% positive you are not pregnant.please just trust me. all these aches your feeling is cuz most likely you just got off your period and because your freaking your self out :) hope i helped. if you still need reasurance im here to talk.

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pseudophun answered Saturday December 26 2009, 2:12 pm:
You're not preggers. I can guarantee it about 99.999%... same as the condom. If it didn't break or slip off, you're not pregnant.

If anything it sounds like you have PMS. If you've never had bad PMS before, let me describe it to you. You get cramps, bloathing, back aches, body aches, nausea, uncontrolable hunger and generally paranoid and irritable.

You're not pregnant honey.

If you like sex, and want to continue... just use condoms. They work, seriously. If you're using a condom you have a .01% chance of getting pregnant. That's the same risk I run on the pill or Nuvaring and most IUDs. It's a chance in hell. No worries.

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