Hey wutz up.....this iz ur gurl MIZZ_C!!!!IM just hear 2 help...im pretty nice but i like 2 be honest so if i hurt you den i apologize...LOL..other then that i just like 2 stick 2 my motto."Be realistic be truthful be honest be real". I answer pretty quick so just come 2 me with ne thing u nedd answered. I'll try mi best=)
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Location: CANADA but my background iz trini
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Age: 16
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Ok, here's my situation, I really care for this guy who is turning 18 in July and im 15. Me and him both really care So0o much for each other and know this only my parents don't liek the fact that hes turning 18 soon and that hes black...we don't want to stop doing what we're doing with the worry of my parents putting a Restaining order on him or have him sent to jail. What do I do? Is it legall to date him with out parental consultance at 16? (link)
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i think so. But personally the fact that hez 18 and your 15 i can see why your parents would worry. Cause most parents would your parents are no differnt. but the fact that your parents dont like him because hez black iz WAy WAY to racist for me 2 even imagine. How does him being black affect anything at all.Because a man of any other race can possibly do w/e they feel that the black man would do. Either it be rape or anything thing else that parents would thinkof. i suggest yoy get your parents to change the way their thinking before a neighbor or somebode outz them on a talkshow.
-MIZZ_C
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OK i have a major problem!!! I'm a big flirt and I just love guys. The problem is that whenever they end up falling for me back I end up stop liking them! Whats wrong with me?! I mean I DID like them a lot!! but then suddenly it stops... i dont know what to do. I have a feeling that it has something to do with like this other guy and he's never liked me enough to go out with me (but he told me that he has liked me a lot). I dont know what to do... please help (link)
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I think that you just like the thrill of the chase. You like flirting and making the guy like you or want you. Personally i dont mind doing that either. But if you like this other guy then i suggest to be with him and just figure out whats going on with you 2.
-MIZZ_C
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OK, my guy friend for many years has a friend. I hung out with them the other day and I think I'm falling for his friend. He is totally hott, nice, funny, and i feel like i could talk to him forever!! I barely know him so I'm probly getting ahead of myself but I'm crazy about him. I dont know what to do!! He goes to another school also. I have his sn but I've never talked to him before. We werent really flirting that night we hung out so I have no idea how he feels. I also know that he used to go out with this other girl at MY school so I know he dates outside of his own school... but then again he broke up with her so maybe the distance between schools is too hard for him?? I dont know I need advise desperately!!!!!
x0x0 --- Head*over*heals (link)
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I think you should go for it. If you thinkthat theres something between you two but u dunt know for shur. What better way to find out then 2 ask him out.
-MIZZ_C
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hey i know this is kinda low but i like this boy but i really dont like his looks i know i shouldnt even care about that but when i see him in person i run or dont look at him i mean he is so sweet and would probly be a great boyfriend to me but i just couldnt really see me going out places with him plus my boyfriend now hates him i mean they almost got into a fight but i mean i talk to him online and everything but in person its a whole different story and i mean i dont know how to deal with this and i mean my friends dont like him they all think hes just a hard ass that is all talk i really need some advice what do you think i should do? .. katie :( (link)
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I think that you should just stay with your boyfriend. There seems to be way 2 much complcations with this other guy.
-MIZZ_C
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I really need some advise on this thing! OK let me tell you everything. First I've liked this guy since 6th grade. It's pretty embarrassing actually since I still remember stupid stuff like the first thing he's said to me and stuff like that. BUT ANYWAYS I've liked him for a very long time and each year of knowing him we keep becoming closer and closer. I'm almost in 10th grade now (its summmmer) and I still like him! This past year we have become physically closer than ever (NOT SEX OR ANYTHING!!! just cuddling) But the problem is that he has a girlfriend... and he has had one for awhile! But at school he cheats on her so much with every other girl and she knows it... but she always gets mad at me when we're hanging out at my house. I really like his gf too shes extremely nice. But I'm afriad that I'm falling head-over-heals (heheh) for him!!! I like him so much and whenever I'm around him my heart races and I know he likes me too... I mean he's told me before.
I just dn what to do about this situation and I'm really hoping that you could help since you've helped so many other people! PLEASE HELP ME! I have no idea what to do!please!
Thanxs!!
XoXo DANCER (link)
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YOu need to remember that he does have a gurlfriend.Let yourself have enough respect for yourself to know that if he really like s you he would break up with hiz gurlfriend. No matter ho close you are getting to him he does styll have a gurlfriend even if she doesnt care if he cjeat s or not. It just respect cause i kno that if he started dating you wouldnt want him tobe with any one else but you. And plus you said you like her as a friend so yu wouldnt wanna hurt her. I say either make him break up wit her or just be friends.
-MIZZ_C
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OK i'm not blonde but it's just an expression. I think this is how people see me... just a dumb brunette. A lot of people say that I remind them of Jessica Simpson. In some ways I'm flattered (shes pretty, nice, funny, has an amazing husband) but also she acts ditzy. I know I do a lot of the time too but it isnt on purpose. I say things being serious and others think I'm joking... when really I dont know. Also whenever I'm hanging out with people I am ALWAYS the person who gets made fun of. I try not to let it bother me and I know I dont show it that often. what do I do with this?? (link)
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Try to think before you say sumthing. If your friends make fun of you and itz something you wanna change then you should just think of it as an improvement on yourself.hope i helped=)..
-MIZZ_C
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mmmk.....well i've liked this guy for eh 3 yrs i think and we r pretty good friends. i like him A LOT but am scared to make a move cus i dont kno if he likes me. i keep getting mixed signals and stuff from him so i have no clue how he feels. its driving me freaking crasy. i have no way of getting in touch with him cept for AIM and he is never on! i have asked his friends to tell him but they never get around to it and i just really need to have a way to tell him b4 its too late! the reason i didnt tell him during skool was because i dont like rejection(even tho it happens i kno) and i felt like i was being pressured to tell him. also if he did like me and ask me out i would go otu with him but whenever we broke up i wouldnt want our friendship to b akward or not b friends at all. what to do?! (link)
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I think that you should tell him as soon as possible. Just simply go up 2 him and say that yo been having feelings for hom for a long time now and that you want too get to kno him better. IF he doesnt want to be with you just say that you wouldnt mind being hiz friend cuz a friend is better then nothing..Hope i helped=).
-MIZZ_C
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Ok i need some help. I'm 15, 5'2, kinda pretty I guess?? not the prettiest and not the ugliest girl in the school. The problem is that I'm shy. I know people tell me this all the time. I'm not shy around my friends at all, but when it comes to meeting new people I just dont know what to talk about! Nothing comes to mind when I'm around new people. and i dont want to say something stupid like "wow the weather is nice" or whatever. Help me! What should I say?? How do I become more outgoing with people? I think If i were more outgoing I might meet new people and meet new friends. am i right or wrong? (link)
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Your right..well just picture these new people as the friends that you already have. Do the same thingz around them dont reat them any different. But u might not wanna bring up any inside jokes that you and your friends might have that they might not get. You can simply start a convo by saying so wutz up, or wutz new, or wut are u doin this weekend...simple coverstaion starters. dont over do yourself though it might look pushy. and when ppl are laughing about a joke that you dont kno, if they bring up any subject that you can comment on do that.hope i helped.=)
-MIZZ_C
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how do u tell when people are flirting (link)
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You can tell wen someones being very nice, there alwayz around you. They compliment you they smile and laugh at all your jokes. Those are just a few examples of flirting.
-MIZZ_C
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well my friend really annoys me should i tell her that or what (link)
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You should tell her but make it in a nice way. A way that wont hurt her feelingz.hope i helped.=)
-MIZZ_C
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I gotta lotta problems. okay so last year i had a ton of friends and i fellt on top of da world. But den I moved to anoter skewl and I only have 2 friends. I dunt know what ta do. Everything was so gooooooood befor an now I try to hang out wit other peeps but it seem like no one wants to git to know me. wassup wit dis?? i need sum helllpppp (link)
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k well, u should alwayz know that moving to a new skool doesnt alwayz garantee that everyones gunnalike you. the most i can say is to just be nice to everyone encounter n just let ppl get 2 kno u. IF ppl dont seem intersted then itz there loss.Hope i helped=)
-MIZZ_C
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here it goes my friends that are mad at me keep calling me and saying that they gonna make a fool out of me and i noe they will cuz they so friggin mean well do u noe what i should do. (link)
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tell them 2 try it....it shouldaffect you unless u kno u did sumthin wrong. Dont do any back, u should alwayz have the upper hand.=)
-MIZZ_C
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what do you do when your friends b/f starts following you between different class periods and your best friend gets mad because she thinks me and her b/f are goin out ,,,,what do i do (link)
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wow!!.....well you need to tell your friend that your not that kind of person andthat you would never do that to her. Then you need to tell your riends boyfriend that if he knows he has a gurlfriend he should step off. respect ur space n stop chillin with you n strat chillin with iz gurlfriend.
-MIZZ_C
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my best friend and i have a "fling" going and his g/f is getting really mad that we hang out ... hes having issues dumping her ... should we do? (link)
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i think that if you kno that your best friend has a gurlfrined then you should leave him alone. Cause im pretty shur that if you had a boy friend n some gurl wuz alwayz on him u wouldnt be 2 happy. I think that you should leave that decision 2 him. If he feels that he likes you so muck that he would break up with hiz boyfriend then thats hiz choice.
-MIZZ_C
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this year, our my grade got a new student. he sat at the table next to mine in lunch. The second i saw him, i felt like i knew him and i felt like i needed to be friends with him. He is on my bus also and i found many times he would turn around and look at me. Then we started talking on AIM and eventually he would turn around in lunch and sit at my lunch table. Recently this summer, he asked me to hang out with him and he even ditched the girl he liked to hang out with me all day and then he told her he had fun with me and my other friend. He talks to me more now and he told me to call him once to make plans to hang out. Why did i feel like i need to be his friend so much since i saw him, and what does this all mean? I dont feel like i like him or any thing but im confused with what direction our friendship is goin in because sometimes we talk alot and then sometimes we dont talk at all. Im confused... (link)
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I think maybe you just felt that he would be a really good friend. Nad maybe he does really wanna be my friend. Dunt worry guyz are just confusing like that sometymes.hope i helped=)
-MIZZ_C
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i really need help.. my guy friend who used to be my best friend and we sorta had a fling i guess you could say for a while.. isnt talking to me anymore. he picks these random times where he decides hes not gonna talk to me for no reason and thats going on right now:( i dont know what to do i tried calling him and asked him why he was mad at me and he just said i dunno. what should i do!! nothing and just let him come to me or what!? help please i really miss my friend:( (link)
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MAybe he feels that you guyz were getting 2 close and he just need a break. Some tyme to himself. Give him some tyme and then go back to him. I hope i helped=)
-MIZZ_C
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My best friend does REALLY bad stuff. she has sex with guys that she barely knows, gets drunk all the time, sneaks out, and even got her innocent friends started in all this gay drama. im not like that tho and i dont want her to be. what do i say to her to let her know shes doing bad things because she wont listen to me. (link)
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you should tell her thats whats shes doing isnt affecting only her. and because you care about her your telling her this. Sooner or later her actions are gunna catch up with her. Tell her that your only warning her and that your only trying to be the best friend u can be=)
-MIZZ_C
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there's this friend i have and she always lies to me, but then if i catch her in the middle of a lie, and am like well before you said this, shes like NO I DIDN'T. shes one of my best friends and shes fun to be around when shes not lying, but it gets really annoying...what should i do? (link)
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Talk 2 her n tell her that thers no need to lie. If you 2 cll ur selves best friends then you shud beable to telleach other the truth!!
-MIZZ_C
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ok well my friend called my one of my guy friends and told him all this stuff that was not true so now he is going to think of me differently. Wat should i do?!? thanx 4 all the help!! (link)
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Get new friends=)
-MIZZ_C
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my boyfriend just came back from mississippi and we always talked online and he always told me how much he missed me and how much he wanted to see me. we was always saying how much he wanted to see me and he is always saying he loved me and he would never treat me bad and he treats me like SHIZ NIT! my friends tell me to break up with him but i love him too much and i dont know if i should break up with him or not. I mean he hurts me by not answering my phone calls and ignoring me and always ditching me for his friends. I was so mad when i called him and he got home an hour before and he was already with his friends. sometime i think he for gets he has a girlfriend that he soposably cares about. I need advice!
~*~jonelle~*~ (link)
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You need to leave him alone. Forget about him . N yes break up with him. Because if he cant set aside any time for you and styll have tyme for hiz friends then i think that he should just stick 2 one. If he loves you he should be able to show it n if he really carez then he should be able to prove it. I say if you cant decide on what to do and you dont have a final decision yet. then think about it some moe. But if you want my advice. Drop him. Hope i helped=)
-MIZZ_C
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