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Ok well i met this guy when i was 13 and know im 15.we met each other at a resort.we talk all the time(internet and phone)the only problem is he lives in Iowa and i live in minnesota. August of 2004 he asked me out. i said yes of course.its really hard though.we live about 7 hours away so its hard for us to see each other, plus we both cant drive yet.I dont know what to do i really like him a lot, so should i stay with him and see what happens or should i dump him and forget all about him??? i'll rate you!thanks for your help. (link)
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You're 15, you have your whole life ahead of you! I wouldn't stay with him, but if you truly want to, then do so! But there are so many more options out there!
*Hope I helped*
-Emily-
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i know this is kinda confusing...
ok i met this guy on-line from one of my friends last saturday night and we talked and all, and i think i may like him i dk hes 2 years older n he went out with one of my some-what friends, i mean i talk to her but were not like close or anything...they recently just broke up and all....so he said he was single n looking or w/e, we were joking around n crap over cyber stuff on-line then he asked me how far i went with a guy...and im like uhh well im not suppose to date till im 16 so i have to wait and then he said n ur turnin 15 soon arent u and i said yeahh...then he asked me how long would i wait to have sex. or if i would give a bj or a hj...or if i would enter the back door and all...then he said that i would prob b the only one who doesnt have muchs bf all threw high school and i said yeahh well i rather be single then screw my life over be4 i graduate then he said that i could use a condom n i said yeahh condom or no condom if my parents found out i would be dead...i get a feelin that i wont turn out a virgin when i graduate im gettin this feelin that i wouldnt but anyways...then he asked me if i was bush or bare as in the south of the border..and i basically refused that and all..he knows i know his ex..and i was wonderin if this sounded like he liked me or something? any ideas?
- thx (link)
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Ok, I totally agree with Toca on this issue. Sounds to me like this dude just wants some action and all he cares about his sex. Run far, far away. I wouldn't associate with this dude!!
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-
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my skin sucks ass. its been about a year and a half with ance. My dermatologist hasnt made a single difference! not alloud 2 go on birth controll pills. and my dermatologist wont let me go on accutain!!!!! HHEEELLLPPPP.
P.S. my days are so much harder with acne..everyone around me has perfect skin...and if u say "it will go away soon.. or in a few years" ill kill u!! lol. (link)
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Well, if it's that bad, you need a new dermo. One that will subscribe Accutane, because it really works! I know exatly how you feel, but I went on Accutane, and it works for real! So just go to a new dermotologist!
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-
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I'v been doing the whole secret admirer thing for a day or so now. I think that this girl knows its me doing it. Should I just play it off and continue with the plan or should I just forget it and go for it. (link)
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GO FOR IT!! :) And stick with your plan!
*Hope I helped*
-Good Luck-
*eMiLy*
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Let me fill you in before I ask my question..Ok my ex and I have one of the most perfect relationships in the world. He finally admitted he loved and everything was going good and we were getting really close. Well then this other girl asks him out and he says yes he sed he wants to have a lil fun before we get into a relationship because he will be tied down..Also that he is scared because he got out of a serious relationship not that long ago and he is scared that ours will turn out like theirs did but anyways..What should I do?!?!?! I dont know I want to ask him to break up with her but I dont know if I could actually do that Im hoping they will break up by themselves but I still dont know what to do..
~*Perfectly Imperfect*~ (link)
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I think your boyfriend is a jerk. I mean, he says he doesn't want to be tied down, yet he's DATING someone else? I think you should forget about him and maybe have some fun yourself. Try to get back in the game with someone else, this guy's an asshole.
*Hope I helped*
-Emmy Boo-
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what can i do to destroy someones life completely ?? i freakin hate this girl . she's turning everyone against me and calling me a bitch , a slut and a poser . she sucks up to everyone ! at first not many people liked her , but now she sucked up to everyone and told them that i hated them . so nobody talks to me except like 2 people . (link)
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Ahhh...sweet, sweet revenge. Well I would tell you to forget about this, BUT that wouldn't be answering your question, now would it? Well spread rumors, you could spread one like that she sucked some guy's(who's gf is one of her friends) dick. You could tell people all kind of stuff, and the more they tell others, the worse the story will get. :) And you could also prank call her house at like 2 in the morning! That would be tight. Also, you could tell people that she talks crap about the like most popular chick at your school. And this may be going a little bit too far, but you can write really bad stuff about her on the bathroom walls, and be like call this number, (her number) to get free sex.
*Hope I helepd!*
-Have fun-
*Emmy Boo*
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13-F! Tommorrow there's a dance at my town, I'm thinking of goin and need some help. How can I do my make-up? How can I do my hair?(A few inches below my sholder.) And what to wear? I'm thinking jeans and a white tee or tanktop. By the way* My crush is going to be there and were both single and how can I get him to know I want him? (link)
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OK, hun lets get this show on the road. :D
*Make-up: light green eyeshadow for the eyes & lots and lots of black mascara, just do your regular routine with foundation or whatever, and wear some clear or neutral lip gloss.
*Hair: I think that loose pigtails(braided) with a few loose strands in the front would be sooo cute. If not that, then a half-pony tail.
*Clothes: Definitely wear some tight jeans! ;) And I think a white tank top would be really cool and maybe some big, dangly earrings.
*Crush: Well you could always go up to him and be like "Hey (his name), what's up?" OR you could totally dance with him. ;) If you're shy just go for it anyways, life doesn't last forever so take all the risks you can. ;)
~Hope I helped & bTw HaVe fUN!~
*!*Miss Emmy Boo*!*
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I have an extremely sore throat. It wouldn't be a big deal but I have singing try-outs for the school play on Tuesday. Does anyone know how to heal a sore throat fast? Thanks. (link)
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Well, take medication of course. Also, drink lots of fluids! And no screaming or yelling. And try to avoid talking the day of your try-out and swallow some honey, it helpes your voice.
*Hope I helped!*
--Emmy--
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yes.. ok so i poked my mom's eye with a clothing hanger.. it was by accident. we were taking about how she sits at home and does nothing while my grandparents hafta take care of my brother and sister who is 2 and 5... ya she started hitting me and then i was all like "stop hitting me" and then i accidently poked her in the eye and then i said sorry and then she started crying really loudly like how she does when my dad and her start fighting and they make eachother bleed and bruise all over.. yes.. screwed up.. neway ya.. after she called my dad to gimme crap about poking her she started dragging me across the floor and hitting me and crap and then i told her to go to hell.. ehh.. ya.. so wut am i supose to do now? i'm not calling child helpline or w/e.. (link)
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Well, if you or your dad aren't willing to get some help, then there really isn't anything you can do about it, except lock yourself in your room or move out. I also suggest that you and your family go to counseling, it might help!
~gOoD lUcK!~
*Emmy Boo*
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I loathe myself, every tiny detail about myself. I hate my appearance...My
hair, my face, my teeth, my hands, my eyebrows, chest, stomach, back, arms, etc...I
hate every characteristic of my personality, every last one. I think of my self
as stupid, incompetent and worthless. Everything that goes wrong is my fault. I
suck at every thing I do. Seeking professional help is not an option for me, and
neither is getting help from a trusted adult. Even if either were an option, I’m
much, much, much to timid to ask for help...I don't think I even deserve to have
people waste there time on me to help me anyway. (link)
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If you really don't want any damn help, then why on Earth did you come to Advicenators? I think that when people say things like this about themselves that they just want some attention, not to be mean, but from my own experience I believe it's true. And looks aren't everything, don't be soo materialistic...and I bet you do have an awesome personality, you just need to learn how to share it! Live life to the fullest!
*Cheer up my friend, it isn't as bad as it may seem!* :)
-Emmy Boo-
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so i like this guy but like i dunno how to like get him to really NOTICE me. LIke he knows who i am but.....he doesnt see me like that i guess. I htink he used ot like me when we were a little younger, but now i think he just sees us as friends. He sits next to me in one of our classes, but like is totally flirting with the girl next to me. Wat should i do to get him or just guys in general o notice me?? (link)
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*How to get dudes to notice you*
-Be sweet and innocent, don't act like a hoe because then they will just see you as a piece of ass.
-Be different, guys like a girl who can stand out in a crowd.
-Start up convos with him. And FLIRT your head off! :D
-You can also wear or do something that you normally wouldn't, that will def. catch his attention.
*Hope I helped!
~gOoD lUcK
*Emmy Boo
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For v - day... if i got my boyfriend two little teddy bears... (ones a girl and ones a boy)... that have magnetic noses so its like they are kissing... would that be too girly like giving him teddy bears and stuff? (link)
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Well unless you're boyfriend is extremely sensitive and overly sweet, forget the teddy bears. You might want to stick with a good CD that he likes, or a mix of "your songs" or maybe just a card with some mulah!
*Hope I helped!
~Miss Emily
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I've heard people talking about the movie Thirteen, and I was going to order it on TV (I have digital cable) but I dont really know what its about. So, will someone describe the movie to me..without giving the whole story away?? (link)
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Well it's about these 2 chicks who become friends. The bad ass one rubs off on the other, and they both get themselves into sex and drugs and stuff like that. Well the goody goody one who lets the bad ass rub off on her has a lot of problems at home with her mom and her mom's boyfriend...so she cuts herself. And the girls quit becoming friends so the bad ass shows goody-goody's mom where all of her drugs are and also shows her her arms. It's a really intense movie.
*Emmy Boo*
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ok im an 18/f.. whenever my boyfriend and i get in arguements i start screaming and cussing at him when im really mad. i usually feel bad about it later cuz i can be so mean.. but i cant calm myself down when i need to. when im really pissed off i dont think about it, i just start yelling. sometimes i feel like its the only way i can get him to listen even though i know it only makes things worse.. what should i do to stop doing this? (link)
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Well...everytime you wanna scream at him and kill him, just calmly stop yourself. Then. just start making out with him, I promise it works! ;) You two will be argument-free in no time.
-Emmy Boo-
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In my house, my siblings have about average grades. Since i was young i have done extremely well. Last year i got a 4.0 through the hole year. Now school is getting very difficult for me but somehow i manage to do okay. It is my freshmen year in high school and i got 4 a's and 2 b's and i wish i could do better. I have a hard time memorizing things so when tests come i bomb them. My family is not what you would call rich, but we arent poor either. my parents would have all 3 of us kids in college at the same time when im a freshmen in college. I want to get a schollarship somewhere but as my dad says, "A's will get you schollarships, b's wont." My question is what are some different ways that all of you memorize the hard facts, expecially in biology and history. (link)
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Well I'm gonna tell it like my teacher told one of my friends, "Don't expect to make all As when you go to high school." I am also a freshman in high school and I KNOW it is extremely hard. And from my own experience I've learned that you have to study like 24/7. Now on tips how to study...make note cards, ask a friend to help you study[call out Qs, you answer them], or even ask your teachers if you can come in for extra help. And also be sure to get plenty of rest the day before a test, oh and ALWAYS pay attention in class.
*Hope I helped!*
-Emmy Boo !!-
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okay my best guy friend and my best girl friend are going out...i really wish them luck..but i cant help but feel jealous...i keep telling myself that i dont like the guy.but every time i see him i melt..the girl invites me to the movies with them but i dont think i could take it..watching them hold hands..is there anything i can do about it..or should i just sit back and watch them go out to the movies and crap right in front of me...i promise ill rate high and i really need help...(13 female) (link)
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OK, don't get mad if I don't sound sophisticated or smart or whatever, because with this question I'm going to be completely honest and tell ya what I'd do. So this girl is your bestfriend and the dude is your best friend...hmmmm. If you melt when you see this dude, imagine how you'd feel if you saw him and your BEST FRIEND all over eachother at the movies? Totally not fair, and that's why I would NOT go. If you wanna be bold, you could tell both of them how you feel. But for now, say your busy and just don't go.
*Hope I helped!*
-Emily-
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I'm in love with my boyfriend.. but he used to be best friends with my ex boyfriend. Me and my ex are friends but my boyfriend told me if i talk to him he would get pissed.. but i feel bad because i would have to like ignore my ex.. what should i do? (link)
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You need to sit down and have a serious talk with your boyfriend. Tell him that the way he is treating you is totally unfair. And since he said that then HE'S not allowed to talk with any of his exes. If he continues being an ass, dump him.
*Hope I helped!*
-Emster Boo!!-
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oh my god..i have a french test coming up TOMORROW and i dont know anythingg ..im faling that class and i havent studied..anyways its for a huge grade and i hve to get an A to bing up my grade! How can i get thru all the material? =/ please gimme some suggestions!! fast! (link)
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Well, I'll tell ya what, you can stay up all night and actually study. :D That's what I'm doing, I have 50 note cards due for a research paper tomorrow, so I'm staying up ALL night just to do them. And if you follow this advice, you might want to sleep as much as you can get away with! OMG, you could make note cards to help you study! Just make a word in English on one side and then French on the back and that will help you study quick.
*Hope I helped*
-Good luck with your test!-
*Miss Emmy Boo*
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Hey my name is J.B. I am 17 year old male and I really like these two girls at my school. I have asked one out several times but she is always busy. The other girl is not dating anyone else and is also (in my oppinion) the most beautiful girl in school. Im not sure she even notices me. I need some help.
P.S. I love to write poetry and i have used her as inspiration a time or two. (link)
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Well you definitely need start up a convo with this chick! :) Just go up to her and be like "Hey, what's up? You're really hot." Girls LOVE that, lol. And just get to know her and tell her exactly how you feel, and share some of the sweet poems you wrote about her!!
*Hope I helped!*
-Good Luck darlin!
***Emily
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well, i'm into the whole punk-rock scean. the real stuff (anti-flag, bouncing souls ect.) but anyway my friends aren't they think they are so cool because they listen to Jessica Simpson. So i've kinda grown away from my chick friends and started hanging out with guys but i need some chick friends around to help with the boy troubles and what not. But i can't have a conversation with them without them either getting mad at me or judging me. it really pisses me off. (link)
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I understand what you mean. I'm supposedly "punk" or "ghetto" or whatever, and a few of my friends are ha, supposedly "rednecks"
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