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Q: ok so you know how when really good singers sing, they do that thing with their voice that makes it go up and down.. it kind of sounds like vibrato (the wrist shaking thing) when your playing a string insturment. does anyone know what that voice thing is called and how to do it? cause i really want to do it when i'm auditioning for this musical!

Hi

ok first of all if what your talking about is vibrato then it takes time to devolp and it sounds better natural then forced...and vibrato is more like a shake in your voice then going up and down..dipthongs has more to do with the vowels then the notes...u may be thinking of riffing..i think thats what it is called. thats what like pop stars do..i think that u would be better off auditioning with your natural voice..if they don't like that they its not worth it..Good Luck!

Miss Advice

Q: What is the best cell phone plan you can get.. I want to get pay as you go but where? Verizon, T-mobile..etc? thnxs

Q: I have a terrible sore throat right now. I checked and there are no more white lumps on my tonsils, but the pain is unbearable. Is there anything I can do about it besides cough drops???

Hi

i would ask a doctor personally, but if it is that bad take a asprin or pain killer..that should lessen the pain a little..but also see what the doc says.

Miss Advice

Q: does anyone know any really cute friendship quotes? im trying to find some for christmas cards im making for my friends. i dont really want corny ones but any you can give would be great thanks!

Hi

Heres a good one:

"theres a point in every friendship when girls stop being friends and become sisters"

Miss Advice

Q: There's this girl that I hang out with all the time. I've liked her for a while. Normally, we'd just talk about school and stuff like that, but lately, she goes to different subjects. She talks to me about how other guys keep coming on to her, and how she doesn't like most of those guys. She tried to call me and get me to go to her backyard at like 10 at night the other day. Also, whenever I'm with some of my other friends, who are girls, she gives me this really evil look. She used to do that to a guy she had a crush on before, so I don't know if that means anything. She's usually a pretty flirty person, but not to me, at least she didn't used to be. I just want to be know if you think she likes me, because I've screwed up signals before.

Hi

Ask her out..thats the best way to tell..

Miss Advice

Q: My mom wont let me have a boy friend and im 15 years old. I cant have him over becasue I live in an apartment and theirs only one room that everyone stays in. How can i convince her that im old enough.

Hi

Show her that you are responsible..also make sure that u talk to your mom about things that are going on so she knows that she can trust you

Miss Advice

Q: I am 15 years old and desperate for a job. Where can I work at age 15? Thanks!

Hi,
you can work just about anywhere if u have your working papers..u can get those in school..

Miss Advice

Q: hey everyone! does anyone noe a good way to stop split ends? i have a ceramic and it`s killer to my hair! i rate high! please help

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Hi!

make sure that before you do any straigtning to like put hair spray or another hair product on your hair. That way when you use the ceramic you are burning the hair product instead of your hair. And it still straigtens. Try it!

Love always,
Miss Advice

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Q: Well this all started last February...
I met sumone on the internet last January..and she was going to the theater in February.
I thought it would be great to meet her. At the time she went with another boy...her other friends went too. From the moment I saw her that February...ive loved her....so much that i isolated myself for her...What I mean is that her friends liked me left and right...so many liked me at one time it was hard to choose...but I knew it would break her heart to see me going with one of her friends...I rejected all of them and isolated myself for that one person. I have loved her for so long...and I thought it would soon come true that we may love eachother truely..
But we've become sooo close of friends...that she is afraid if we go together that we may break up and lose everything...even our friendship.
Ive told her that i would do nething for her and i love her more than the white hot intensity of a million suns. And ive also told her that i will always love her...i told her this wen i first met her...and here i am...still single waiting on her...ive havent turned down my promise and i was told that i could not keep it...I knew i would keep it...and she is the only thing that i look forward to in my life...she is my everything...

Now im a boy 14 yrs. and i always see these things where there are boys who only has a chapter of love in their lives...but in a girls...its the whole book. Well its a whole vice versa feeling for me...i love her with all my heart and would do nething

I would even let her go with sumone else as long as shes happy...because its as far as i can go...but im trying my best to show my love for her.
I dont want to get over her...shes the love of my life...just tell me what you think i need to do because ive waiting for close to a year now for her...and i know that I think about her until one o' clock at night and wake up at 6:45 just to think about her...im this desperate for her.
She has given me soooo much and i have given her just as much she says...but she just cant get over this one person but he hurts her like shes his slave in life...and i cry for her
I wish it would stop and I kno if we went together right now...paradise will be spread throughout my life because she is all I think about. It may seem that im saying the same thing over and over but I know that if i tried...i could write a book about her..

Someone please help me and i will give you a five if you give me nething..
just please help me

Im desperate for her....and sorry this is sooo long!

omg that is so cute!!! i wish i was that girl!

Q: a lot of my friends have drifted away. what are some activities/ things i can do to get them back and let them know i still care?

well one thing that you can do is pick up the phone. give them a call and tell them that you missed talking to them. i would love it if my friends did that for me. maybe you could plan a trip to the mall or something?

Love always,
Miss Advice

Q: Well lately ive been talking to this senior that goes to school with me .. and im a freshman sooo im kinda doubting myself on this one .. but my friend talks to him alot too and their reall good friends .. sooo shes been tryin to hook us up because i really like him .. and he jus thinks that i LIKE him not that i REALLY LIKE him! and he saw some pics of me and told my friend that he thought i was pretty cute =] .. which is an awesome thing to hear from someone that you like who is almost 4 years older then you .. but i really like him and i talk to him .. but he only said that he thought i was pretty cute .. do you think that he might like me because i dont wanna get my hopes up .. if he didnt that would really suck! =( .. and i tried hooking up with one of my sisters friends and we were soooo close to goin out and then one of my friends well i THOUGHT they were my friends .. anyways they told him that they liked him and KINDA took him away because they dont go out but still he dont like me anymore & im still kinda stuck on him and im sooo confused about these 2 boys! i need advice now! please reply back as soon as possible! omg! lol .. hurry! ♥

Hi,

well the best advice i can give you is to think about the good and bad of each situation, do u have a better chance with the senior? or with the other boy? Do you like one a little bit more? Theses are some questions that u could ask yourself before making a descion..

Love always,
Miss Advice

Q: i really like this guy and he looks at me everyday in social studies and makes a face only once but hes always staring at me and he knows i like him so what does it mean and how do i get him to ask me out?

Hi,

Guys are weird so u never know what they mean, but i personally think that he likes u. The best advice i can give u is get his sn and talk to him online...thats where magic happens..haha

Love always,
Miss Advice

Q: ok so my moms going into operation tomorrow. and its not a big one. but im just scared cause she told me you can die over the littlest ones too. and im really worried.. what can i do to get my mind off of everything?

Hi,

well first of all i wish your mom a fast and speedy recovary. I know that it can be very scary. The best thing that you can be is strong for you and your mom. Don't let your mom know that u are worried because then she might be too. The best thing that you can do is to do things that keep your mind off of the operation. go out, watch movies, go on the computer...keep a good attitude. i hope everything turns out fine..

Love Always,
Miss Advice

Q: I'm looking for a product(shampoo) that tames poufy hair, makes your hair sleek and shiny, and helps to make your hair somewhat thinner. I've already tried the product Pantene Pro-v has. I think it's called sleek and shine. I've also tried Garnier Fructis's sleek and shine products. Many other brands don't have specific types made to make your hair thinner and sleeker. I don't want to buy Matrix products because I don't need to spend like 25 bucks on shampoo. If anyone has had good experiences with brands that aren't outrageously prced I would like to know!! I also would like you to give me the SPECIFIC name of the product...not just the brand!

Thanks in advance, i could use some help!

Hi,

I used to have the same problem as you.Then someone told me to use a product called "Mane and Tail" it works even though it may sound weird.

Love always,
Miss Advice

Q: okay well i have a bf and hes gone for about 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him and i barley get to talk to him. but the thing is wen hes not gone we dont talk (well barley anyway)) and the thing is im started to like this other guy. and i dont want to but then again i do becuz hes not shy unlike my bf and idk what to do im so confused right now. please help me.

Hi,

I think the best thing thing to do is follow your heart. I can clearly see that your current bf is not up to par with you. So, the two things u can do is talk to him about it and your expectations or tell him that he is not your type and its better if u break up.

Love always,
Miss Advice

Q: ok im 13 years old and i think i might be bisexual...i've had ALOT of boyfriends(like more then 30) I just moved from NY to LA Cali. I have a friend that is bi and latly when i hang out wiht her i feel these weird feelings for her. What should i do????

I rate4 HIGH!!

~LiLy~

It is not rare for young women to have these feelings or even experiment. It is part of growing up.You don't have to worry about if u are bi or not, u might just be going through a phase.

Love always,
Miss Advice

Q: ok this one is for girls to answer..

well.. ok ive been really sad lately..and thats because my crush likes one of the rich snobs..and its not even that..its more like..i want to bring something (makeup wise) about me or sumthing so people are like woah thats *my name*..shes soo cool or soo pretty or just something good..cuz i am a very pretty girl and all and i don't wanna seem like a bitch saying that but i got to have some good thought about me ;] and like i just want people to be like woah shes totally cool and ya i know here.

IM me if you want...xO S0UTH3RNBABii
thanks!!

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Hi!

First of all, the best thing that you can do is to have a kickin personality. Be outgoing and bubbly. Laugh alot.If you like yourself then others will like you!

Secondly, makeup is made to enhance your natural beauty, i would use a liquid eyliner to add fiercness to your eyes and a nice shade of pink to make you look cute.

-Miss Advice

Q: hi i have this really mean friend who thinks that she is the best thing ever! should i tell her to leave me alone?

Hi

If this so-called friend is as mean as you describe her then i don't think that you should be friends with them. Its up to u to decide if this person is your friend. If they are not, then you deserve better.

-Miss Advice

Q: heyy missAdvice!

umm..my boyfriend is so sweet, but i think that he is a little obsessive..what should i do?

Hi!

well that is a very good question. The best thing that i think that you could do is to be up front with him. If you tell him how you feel then i'm sure you will feel better and maybe he will be able to realize how you feel. This could help your relationship!

Love always,
Miss Advice

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Hello everyone! I want to help you and answer your problems and questions. My advice is completly helpful and thought out. So ask me anyhthing and i'll be sure to answer it to the best of my ability. Remember, its not about me getting the feedback or any of that stuff, its about you getting the help you want. Keep the questions coming!!

Miss Advice