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what web site can i go to to find out how i can turn some one in to chid welfare

Look in a phone book for a number that would probably be the best way.. ♥ Nikki

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ok so my friend (Amber) is so confused and i dont no how to help her. This guy that she has liked asked her out and she said yes. Well then a couple days later this other guy asked her out and she really liked him to, but he is moving. She is having seconed thoughts about this hole thing. Should she brake up w/her bf to go for the other one or should she stay with him?

Stay with the one that isnt moving away.. ♥ Nikki

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okay so ive been goin out with this guy for like 2 months and we're both 14. i really like him alot and i want to invite him over to my house. but i dont know how to keep him entertained... because its not like i can have him in my bedroom because my parents will b home. what can we do? i never had a boy over to my house before so im kinda new at all this. please help me quick. and i dont want some things like play board games... cuz thats lame... or do alot of people do that with their boyfriends and girlfriends?

Well when i see my boyfriend we cuddle you know him hold the girl and make out and other things but see your parents are going to be home so they probably wont approve of that.. so i guess you can hold hands and talk i think your just going to be boring.. cause i cant think of anything but best of luck ♥ Nikki

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oK, SORRY FOR THE LENGTH...ok well i was talking to my friend online(he is a guy lets call him Tod) and he was saying that him and his friend(lets call him Ben) called my house to see if i wanted to come over, but i wasn't there so i couldn't. And when i was talking with him online he said that they had drinks(we are all 14 by the way) and they wanted me to come over to have more fun, and when i asked what type of fun it was they said, "A girl and guys getting wasted not caring what they are doing, like any base" So i just went along with it and then they said next time i should come. I mean i want to come and i want to hang out with them, bc they are my really good friends, but i dont know what will happen if i drink...any advice?!!! I RATE HIGH FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!!!
please i need advice.
thx

Well sometimes when people drink shit happens that they wouldnt do if they was sober.. like having sex with people they dont plan and wouldnt want to have sex with..you could do something crazy and get caught by police and get in deep shit just because you wanted to have fun with you GOOD FRIENDS.. you could do something that sounds fun and then get hurt worse then what you would of if you was osber.. and from drinking there is many conseques such as liver damage and you can become addicted to it and cant stop and die.. Yea think about all that ♥ Nikki

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okay ive been going out with this guy for like 2 months and i really really care for him alot. but recently he hasnt seemed to care for me as much. and i think its because our relationship is gettin old and too predictable. how can i keep him excited and happy with our relationship? how can i keep him comin back for more? and not gettin sick of me?

Two months isnt very long for you guys to get tired of each other.. people married forever dont get tired of each other.. maybe do something different with him then what you do.. ♥ Nikki

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My husband bought leg quarters last night, and I'd like to cook them for dinner tonight. But I have no idea what to do with them. Can anyone give me a good recipe for leg quarters, or tell me where I can find one?

Thanks, I'm kind of new at this homemaker thing!

fry them in grease.. or bake them in the oven put flour all over them and some seasonings such as salt pepper and any meat tenderizers.. cook them throughly with what ever you choose.. and maybe make some veggies to eat with it or mac and cheese.. good luck! ♥ Nikki

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kay i thkn my whoel family hates me > my mom is acting like she doesnt want me she makes me do all the work in the house. if she could she could probly put me up for adoption. but i kno my dad wont let her. i kno my dad loves me. i want ot run but i ahve no where to go. the rest of my family livies 2 hours away. she acts like she has to take me places > she does it because she has to not because she loves me. i have no clue what to do??? pleaz help me!!!

thanks

Damn calm down.. i think your over reacting.. Talk to her about how you feel.. maybe something is going on with her and she is all the sudden acting like that.. ♥ Nikki

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My guy friends giving me hints that he likes me. There are plenty of them except he likes another girl & our whole class knows that he does (ever her). Sometimes it seems like if he likes her & could tell her then if he likes me why couldn't he tell me? The signs are big & they're really hinting toward liking (talks to me on the phone for a long time, memorized my phone number, always finds an excuse to touch me, gazes into my eyes etc). How can I confront him about this?

Just ask him straight out like does he like you more then friends theres really no other way to ask him.. maybe your taking it the wrong way my guy friends mess with me but its not like that its just goofing around.. i mean he could like you and not admitt it and be a lil shy but like i said just be real and ask him about it.. ♥ Nikki

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ive known this gurl for 2 years now and ive meet all her friends and we bacame friends but lately we do nothing but get into fights... im going to teh same school as them and they wont leave me alone they say i ahev no friends and when i get to ej i will have no friends because i am a skank i dont kno what to do i try ignoring them but they just wont stop......plaez help!!!

Well girls like drama and sounds like thats exactly what your getting.. dont go along with it cause that makes you just as childish as they are.. so i would just continue to ignore it and make new friends.. ♥ Nikki

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I have a friend moving away to England during the summer (we currently live in America). I want to put together a mix CD for her. Are there any suggestions of songs I should use? Keep in mind that both me and her HATE rap and urbanish songs...

The songs should be like, about never forgetting her and having fun and stuff... I don't know, things that would remind you of someone who was moving away, if that made sence. Thank you!

i would put songs together you guys both liked and did things for fun together.. that way when she listens to it she can be like *oh yea i remember this song this is when me and so and so did this..* you know what i mean.. ♥ Nikki

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My skin gets bitten a LOT during the summer...are there any home remedies or good sprays that you guys can suggest
thanks (ill rate)

you can but sprays at stores.. try benadryl spray it works good.. ♥ Nikki

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I have a girlfriend, and we've been going out for about 4 months now. Note: I'm also a girl. I think my parents are starting to catch on bc I've spent every single Friday at her house for the last 3 months or so, since we've been going out. I've stopped spending time with a lot of my other friends, and it seems I only have time for her. I try to tell myself that I need to start seeing my friends more, but every weekend I just can't bare not being with her. Especially because she has a rough past, and she is on house arrest and can't come up to me. She was also thrown out of my school and goes to a school far away where I cant be with her. She's a grade ahead to. Anyway, the point of this is because I don't know wether or not I should tell my parents about me and her. They've seen me come home with hickies, and almost stopped letting me see her. I think I'm falling really hard for her, and I think it could be love. Every second not spent with her I feel so lonely. I'm afraid of what the outcome will be if I tell my family about my relationship. I think they know that I'm gay, because my mom makes fun of me for it all the time. I'm not asking for anyone to solve my problem, because I know that no one can, but I'm looking for advice

Well no matter what dont be ashamed of this even if your mom does make fun of you cause its not going to change you.. your the person you are.. well i think you should tell them how you feel about this girl.. and that you cant seem to feel for guys the same way.. most girls that turn out to be a lesbian try real hard to hook up with guys and feel for them before realizing they arent going too.. so tell them you cant get the feel for guys or atleast im guessing you cant cause i dont know weather your bisexual.. but just tell them everything tell them everything on your mind.. sooner its said and done sooner it will be easier for you and then there isnt no more worries bout what if they dont except me, what if they dont like it, just get it out so there isnt no WHAT IF's period and you know how they feel about the whole thing.. ♥ Nikki

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ok. well one of my best friends is best friends with my enemy. ok lets call my enemy sally and my best friend holly..ok anyways sally used to be my best friend but she dumped me..(long story) and she is really mean to me now. and now she is trying to get all of my friends like holly to be her friend. ok and when sally is around her new friends that hate holly she is mean to her. and also sally is really mean to me and it just drives me crazy of how holly and sally are always doing things together and holly talks about sally behind her back and stuff...im just really confused and how could i get them to not be friends or do you have a better way i could solve this without there being a fite?

Just let it all go would be the easiest thing to do.. dont say nothing girls will be girls and talking behind someones back is part of a girls life.. so i think you should just let her talk her smack and justdont let their friendship ruin yours and Holly's ♥ Nikki

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there's someone that i like. but he told me i wasn't usually his type... what does this mean?

Maybe your not his style, maybe he dont like how you act or look like, he probably isnt attracted to you period. ♥ Nikki

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ok me and my bf are planning to have sex the thing is we are both virgins and i was wondering wat it was like the first you have sex... mostly on the girls part.. like does it hurt and all that i want to no bc i want to be sure im really ready we already have everything else planned out and all but i still wanna be sure ne good advice and no loser advice is apreciated ill rate good laters

For a girl the first time yes it hurts but dont worry its not something you cant handle and it doesnt hurt the whole time you do it either.. you might not like it the first or even second time but you eventually will, &hearts Nikki

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im 13 and a female. i have this friend who i like. i really dont kno him buti kno off him. he knos who i am and he told my best friend that he was scared that if i got to kno him i wouldnt like him. its like he is afraid i would break his heart but i just want to get to kno him and move on from there. what should i do?

Tell him what you want to do, tell him that you want to get to know him anyways.. ♥ Nikki

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the other day my throat was really soar and now one of my tonsils is very swollen and has lindents like a golf ball...and i have a cough that is deep and i have a lot of mucas and a runny nose... could this be strep throat?

Yes it could be strep throat but it could be alot of things.. i think the best thing to do right now is go to the doctor cause you apparently are sick and need some sort of medicine before it gets worse.. ♥ Nikki

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