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Question Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 4:05 pm

ok. well one of my best friends is best friends with my enemy. ok lets call my enemy sally and my best friend holly..ok anyways sally used to be my best friend but she dumped me..(long story) and she is really mean to me now. and now she is trying to get all of my friends like holly to be her friend. ok and when sally is around her new friends that hate holly she is mean to her. and also sally is really mean to me and it just drives me crazy of how holly and sally are always doing things together and holly talks about sally behind her back and stuff...im just really confused and how could i get them to not be friends or do you have a better way i could solve this without there being a fite?


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clearlypink428 answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 3:52 pm:
i dont believe you should get in between things, and cause them to not be friends- that could really cause a riot. i think you should just let 'holly' do her own thing, and when she realizes how much she's being hurt by this girl- hopefully she'll know to walk away. i think thats all you can do at this point.

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niicolexbabe answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 9:31 pm:
Well, if they are happy being friends, let it be. But tell "Holly" how you feel.

'N!cole"

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Nancis_advice answered Sunday May 29 2005, 9:19 pm:
ok dump the bitch and move on to some new friends

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xo_jenna_respects_ox answered Sunday May 29 2005, 8:22 pm:
Do not try to make them not friends anymore, when friends tell friends that they can't be friends with someone, just becasue they don't like them, that would be a huge mistake, trust me, i've seen it happen. Just tell her the truth, don't tell her in a bratty way, she'll think ur just jealous of her, and tehn she'll be mean to you and be amd at you. If she doesn't understand what your trying to say when your talking to her, try and write her a note or a letter type thing, try to explain it so she can undersatand that your not trying to be mean to "sally", but your jsut telling what you know about her. I hope i helped you out.

Thanks,
Jenna

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brittany_x31 answered Sunday May 29 2005, 7:02 pm:
go up to holly and tell her that sally if really rude and will stab you in the back really quickly tell her when she is around her other freinds she talks bad about you if she doesn't beleive you say i think i have been freinds with her befor and she is trieng to get you to hate me if she doesnt beleive yo their take a tape recorder and put it in your pocket and turn it on and follow them if they say why are you follolwing us say i am going to the restroom and quickly run to your freind holly and show her what they said and she will beleive you then

hope i helped your freind Brittany

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MicahsLilGirl answered Sunday May 29 2005, 4:59 pm:
Just let it all go would be the easiest thing to do.. dont say nothing girls will be girls and talking behind someones back is part of a girls life.. so i think you should just let her talk her smack and justdont let their friendship ruin yours and Holly's ♥ Nikki

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shake answered Sunday May 29 2005, 4:18 pm:
Just say what the other says behind the others back.

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