Well to tell you alittle about myself. I'm a 32 year old woman. I have three children that are my life. I have been married for a three years now. It is my second marriage, my first one falled but that's ok. I love to help people when they need it. I will try and give you the advice that will help. Hope to meet new people too.
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Okay so I need to get on my sister's good side. I was kind of a bitch to her this past weekend. She wanted to wear one of my skirts and I didn't let her. I had a good reason though--Last time she wore one of my skirts she cut it because she thought it was too long.
Anyway, the mom of this family she babysits for just got a boob job and can't fit into any of her new designer shirts. I'm talking like Gucci, Chanel, Burberry, you name it. And they're like still brand new, tags and everything.
She says that since I was such a bitch to her that she won't give me any of them. I need to know how I can make it up to her fast so any help is appreciated. And I know that I should always be nice to her even when I don't want anything from her but too late for that.
If it's any help, I'm 17 and she's 15.
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Well if your trying to get on her good side because she's getting nice cloths that bad. You should appoligize to her and tell that your sorry of being such a b---- and explain to her if she barrows your cloths that they have to come back the way that you lent them to her. Maybe she'll let you borrow some of the skirts. Plus you could take her out for dinner or a movie or buy her something that she wants. Hope that helps.
Good Luck
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Hello, my name is Bill, and I'm a 15 year old male. At my school there is a girl I like, named Courtney. I have known Courtney for a few years, and last year I started having more feelings for her. I told her I liked her, but she wasn't sure of her feelings, some people said she liked me and some people said she didn't, so I was very confused. What made it worse was Courtney and I had a fun relationship, she was really funny and was probably the best friend I had that was a girl. When she found out I liked her, she didn't feel as comfortable around me, and we didn't talk very much. Well over the summer I didn't see her much and I lost some of the feelings I had for her, but I still liked her a little bit. When we came back to school, she talked to me normally again, she was more comfortable around me and we talked a lot. I know her family and they know me, and they are very nice people. We still talk a lot and hang out, but usually in a group environment. In the past month I have started to like her very much again, but I haven't told her for fear of what happened last year will happen again. People tell me that last year was different and that she is different now. Others still tell me that she isn't sure who she likes. I know her very well and I don't want to lose my relationship with her again, but I really like her and I just want to tell her. She is a very amazing person, and I not only like her for her looks (though she is very beautiful), but I love her personality. Every time I see her I just can't help smiling. But there is the down side to telling her, please help me out on this one, I'm very confused. Thankyou very much for reading that and I look forward to hearing from you! (link)
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even though it's only been a year, she still is somewhat like she was last year. Just wait to tell her. If she thinks you like her a little bit she might do the same thing she did last year. Just be a firend to her and wait. good luck.
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I'm a 14 yr. old female and there's a guy in my computer class and we started chatting with each other the other day so I geuss you could say we became friends he's really nice, and I developed a crush on him so I was asking his friend/x-girlfriend some questions about him. but then during another class he stole the note from her and well anyways he thought i was going to ask him out so he started avoiding me then later that day he kinda got over but i told my computer teacher we were chatting the day before and we werent suposed to be and she got infront of the whole class today and basically told everyone that I snitched on myself and him but i didnt mean to and he got mad at me so should i just leave him alone or should I try to get closer and say sorry?even though i already have wrote him a note saying im sorry. (link)
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You should apoligize to him and tell them how you feel and that all you wanted was to find out some stuff about you and that next time that you'll ask him. good luck
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Ok so i have known this guy all my life! well a few years ago he moved ..but we still kept in touch occasionally. and also we have always considered each other bro and sis, well he moved back this past summer and everything was ok and all but now he calls me at a minimum of 8 times a day! and every weekend he is with me. now dont get me wrong i love the boy to death but he comes with me and my frieds on our "girls night outs" and then staurday nights he comes to my house then sunday he is hear to! and i dont want to be mean and i have even tried saying things in the past liek well why dont u go do this or that...and even trying to be mean dont work because he doesnt take me serious! please HELP ME i dotn no what i am going to do. and the other problem with him he tells me who i can and cant date..he doesnt liek me are anything he is just..i dont even no how to explain it. and GUys want talk to me alot becaus ethey think im dating him or there afraid he want liek him. (link)
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Hi. Well you need to sit him down and explain to him that he has to do other things beside hanging out with you all the time. He has to give you some space and be able to go out with your girlfirends. maybe you could help him find something to do, like a hobby or some friends he can hang out with. Or desinate a day that just the two of you can hang out together.
good luck
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what do you do when something is annoying the heck out of you, when you can't get something out of your mind, when you keep going back and thinking about the same thing all the time without realizing it til it's too late. Why can't I just stop? I don't want to think about this.
I feel there's something wrong with me. (link)
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Ther's noting wrong with you. Just just make a little thing much bigger then it is. It might not be to late. If you have to tell someone something like that go and tell them and maybe that will help.
good luck
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Are guys supposed to masturbate? This was a big issue at school today. I was wondering if most guys masturbate. K thanks .. ♥ Tiff (link)
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It's not are they suppose to or not.All guys and girls are differnet and they want to explore there sexuality. Masturbation is a normal thing in life. Some guys do and some guys don't but there not going to tell you if they do or don't. Hope I helped
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what's a way (that i dont have to buy anything for) to make my sagging boobs... not sag anymore. no stupid answers.
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You should try getting a push up bra. And try a couple of them to make sure it's the right fit for you.
good luck
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my name is mark im 19 and im a male ... im dating a girl we dated for 2 years on and off we broke up over this past summer and over the summer she did stuff thats bothering me now in our relationship she had sex w. a total of 3 guys multiable times and messed around w/ 3 other guys she told me everything b4 we got back together and it botheres me alot i dont know whwat to do i talked to her about it and shes there for me and all but i dont know what to do i need some advice the only reason im w/ her is because i really love her anyother girl i would tell leave me alone but i need something that will help over that break up i only messed around w/ 2 girls but we didnt have sex or ne thing like that i dont know what to do help me out please (link)
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Well first of all did you tell this girl that your with about the 2 girls that you were with. Maybe that will help you out. Plus if you guys were broken up over the summer then it shouldn't hurt that bad. Because you messed around on her. This is just a bump in the road and if you both are talking about it then you'll be able to get over it but it will take a while.
good luck
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I have a male friend who is 39 and has told me that he never wants to get married or have kids. That is fine- for him. But I've told him how someday I want to be in a proper marriage and have children. Well we were talking today and I told him how a medium had read my palm several weeks ago, and told me that I would be having 3 children, (one set of fraternal twins, and a girl). Well this is what my friend said "well you better get started right away, and you'll need to find a husband".
I thought this was a very vindictive thing for him to say. I am only 27 and told him I still have a lot of time before my clock stops ticking. I have a theory on his attitude: two years ago he told me he wanted to sleep with me. I told him I was saving myself for my future husband, and that I wanted kids. This is when I found out that he never wanted to get married or have children. (not that I wanted to be with him anyways).
So my question is, does anyone else think what he said was mean? And do you think he said it to get back at me for not wanting to sleep with him? (link)
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I don't think he meant to hurt you because you didn't want to sleep with him. Some guys see there friends in marriages and some of them work and some don't and I think that he doesn't want to be the one that his marriage doesn't work. There's a guy out there that is going to want to be with you and marry you. Plus I don't know if the medium was tellling you the truth. Hope I helped.
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I'm a 21 year old Female and I have a very big issue with my weight. This issue is affecting my happiness and love life. My question is how can I NOT let this affect me? (link)
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If your weigh is effectin your love and happiness that you could try going to a gym and see if a friend will go with you the two of you can try and get in shape together. Go slow at first so you know how much you can do. Plus before you do that you should go to your dr's and see what kinds of foods and exercise you should do first.
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okay well my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow for our anniversary and i want to do something special for him. something sexy that he will like. anyone have any ideas? i rate 5's (link)
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I'm not sure how old you are but, you could make a nice dinner and have some nice scented candles lit. Have someting sexy on(that will come off easy)if you can. When he gets there give him a nice kiss and just enjoy your night with him.
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is it true that your first time having sex, you bleed a lot and it hurts? (link)
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Well it depends on the person. Some people do bleed alot and some people only bleed a little. For myself I didn't bleed at all my first time. If your all worried try not to and that makes you stress and tensed and that sometimes makes it hurt. If it's your first time let the guy your with know and take it slow and it won't hurt that much. Hope I helped.
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There is a guy that I was friends with 8 years ago when i was little and i moved and since then i hadnt talked to him or seen him... up until a week and a half ago. i dont know why but i seem to have feelings for him already even though its been so long. We've talked every day in the past week and a half and hes a really nice and sweet guy and he told me he sorta likes me too... hes supposed to come to visit so i can see him again soon. i dont know how to act and even if we did really hit it off he doesnt think it would work since hes lives 5 hours away by car.. it really sucks and im supposed to be going down to my grammas(that lives 2 minutes away form him) this summer for 3 weeks and were planning on spending time together and other times between now and then but i have no idea what to say or how to act when i see him again for the first time and im really nervous. help please (link)
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Even though you know him 8 years ago, he had changed since then. You and him have to get to know each other all over again. When you go to your grandma's maybe that will give you a chance to know him and him to know you. give it time and if it doesn't work then you guys can always be great friends.
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When I was 5,6, or 7 I was melested by a boy and I'm a boy! He is my step cousin! What do I do?!? (link)
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i'm not sure what your age is know but: YOu should go and tell your parents. Tell them what happen to you and get some help. There stuff they can do. Don't think that it's your fault because it's not. No one has the right to do that to anyone. If your step cousin could do it to you then he will do it to someone else. I know it will be hard to tell someone but you can.
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My dad made me cry my eyes out today. This is what happened.
Well last August I was asked by my cousin to be a bridesmaid for her wedding in April of this year. I said yes, and at the time was unemployed. Well I have a job now at a really good company. But I'm still on a 3 month probation. My grandma (who is paying for the wedding) was expecting me to take 3 days off on a weekend this Febuary just for a dress fitting!! She lives 6 hours away, and I would have had to take the greyhound bus. I told my dad this and he started screaming at me, saying that I was going to lose my job over this. I have a mental illness, and this is the first job I've had in 5 years. He said I would never get another job again and that he wanted me to drop out of the wedding, and that the job was too important. Well I started to cry because I really want to be a bridesmaid but also don't want to lose my job. I asked him if he could phone grandma and make some sort of comprimise, like maybe get the dress fitted her. Then he said "the fact that you're crying shows how delicate you are". He was really mean about the whole thing.
I still want to be in the wedding. I talked to my grandma and she is going to send up the fabric for me to get a local seamstress to make the dress so I won't have to take time off work until the wedding. But I'm still really upset at my dad. How should I act around him? And does anyone else think what he said was out of line? (link)
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Your dad was some what out of line. Even though you got a job your employer would work with you and help you out if you asked. You could find another job don't let him tell you that. If your grandma is sending you the fabric that's nice because they still want you in the wedding and will help you. talk to your dad and tell him that you want to be in the wedding and hope that he'll understand that.Plus you could talk to your boss and let him now ahead of time that you'll be taking some time off in april for a wedding and give him the dates so he can set the schedule for when your gone. That will help you keep your job. hope I helped.
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Dear Ruth,
Hi I got a problem and I was wondering if you could give me some advice.
I'm in a relationship for 2 years now with a married guy. I never asked him to do anything and to be honest I always had the hope that he will leave his wife one day. Well 6 weeks ago the army send him back to the states. Suddenly 2 weeks before he left he told his wife all about me and that he don’t want to be with her no more. So he ended up to go to Colorado to his next duty station by him self.
Well after he got the states we talked on the phone and talked every day on the Computer. He was different he rubbed old stuff in my face like 6 month ago I talked to people on the internet. The reason I did that was cause I really needed the attention what he couldn’t gave me because he still was living with his family in the same house and also made me believe for a while that he will never leave her. So I thought the only way to get over it is to keep my self busy or find someone who helps me get over it. I don’t know why I did that because I love him a lot and I would do anything to make this work me and him. Well like I said he rubbed in my face all the time and said he don’t need a girl who talked to other guys cause if I would love him I would never done that. I don’t know why he brought this up cause we talked about it and I told him why I did it and everything was alright again. I mean I even told him everything.
Anyways 2 weeks ago I went to the states to visit him and it shocked me that was not the guy I met and knew for 2 years. He was distance sometimes really quiet and it seamed he was thinking a lot. I was planning to stay 3 weeks there after 2 weeks he wanted me to go back home cause he said he needed time to think. I did understood it cause I know he never been by himself after he left her. There still lived at the same house for 2 weeks and she was yelling at him all the time. So I thought he needs to be by himself to start working at the stuff what happened the last few weeks.
I got back to Germany did not hear a week from him. Yesterday we talked on the phone again. He said he don’t care about anyone no more, he got no feelings for no one and he just want to be left alone. I was like ok if you telling me you don’t care about me no more I guess I wont care no more neither and hanged up. I was really said and hurt that he said this after all we went threw. I also was mad that I went to the states for a jack ass like that. Today I called him again I know it was wrong but I couldn’t believe what he told me the day before. Well the talked normal until he started the internet thing again. We pushed each other that
far that I told him everything I felt. I said that he is a liar for telling me 2 years that he loves me and never want to lose me. That I cant believe he told me before he left that he loves me and then 4 weeks later he don’t have any feelings for me anymore. You can’t stop loving someone in a short time like that. He said that I should start to understand that we will never be like we used to be and there is NO us in the further I can be his friend and if I cant respect that then we should stop talking and break it off all the way. I should get the prcture out of my heat that me and Him are married and have a life together. I denied that I had a picture like he thinks made up. He wants to be single the rest of his life and he doesn’t need that shit no more. He DID love that’s how he ended it.
I don’t know what to think I'm really confused we really went threw a lot of problems in those 2 years and he also used to be my best friend all that is gone. I can’t believe he just can turn his feelings off like that. I don’t believe him that he wants me to find an other Boyfriend I just cant. Maybe I’m the dumb one here and just can’t take it that he dumped me, but I can’t understand why he is acting like this. He always was honest to me and never said he will leave his wife until he actually did and I think that surprised him too. He told me that he never thought he was able to tell her about me. He told me about his problems with her and that he doesn’t love her no more but ever made me any hopes. So I know he did not just played with me for 2 years. I don’t know what to do this is not the guy I used to know.
Please help and tell me what to too. Right now I feel like I’m falling and falling and cant never get up again. I’m so hurt that I can’t even walk or think about anything else. I don know what to do no more. Please help me.
If there is anything else you want to know let me know. Sorry about my English but I’m German and I’m really up sad and cant thing straight.
Thanks Jasmin
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I hope that I can help...
Don't feel sorry. This man that you know for 2 years is not the same man. He's changed. He told his wife that he didn't want her and that he was not coming back to her when he left and told her about you. He's probably feeling really bad and maybe he want's his wife and family back. He probably told you this so that he could work things out with her or he is seeing someone else. Once someone cheats on someone the can't help themselves and do it again.
You have to start over and find someone that is going to love you for you. Leave the past behind you can start fresh. It will take sometime but your probably a strong person. There's more men out there and will treat you with the respect and love that you need.
If he tries to call you or write tell him how you feel and tell him that you never want to see him again because you don't need to be treated that way.
Good luck and god bless
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Well .. i know this is kinda nasty but im old enough believe me because if i wont then i wouldnt ask this .. well nobody ever talked to me about sex but like i know about it .. but i was wonderin does a guy wont it shaved or hairy .. like not alot of hair i dont know help!!!
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Well it depends on you. If you feel comfortable in having then do it. You don't have to shave it all, you can trim it. If sometime shave or trim it. But to make it fun with the person you with it's nice to have it trimmed. My husband like it because he can see more when were doing it. You can always ask the person your with what they like too. Hope I helped.
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ok i hope that this is in the correct category. well i masturbate wayyy 2 much. i kno i need 2 stop. 1 because my girlfriend doesn't like me doing it. 2. becuz its a little weird that i do it a lot. like whenever i get a boner ( and no1 is around or im in my room , if im at my house ) i masturbate. i only do it at my house and shit but still. Plus the major thing is that i need 2 do this for my girlfriend * i dont wanna loose her or risk loosing her *. please dont tell me 2 think of sumthing else, trust me i have tried, it doesn't work for me.
thanks in advance
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Your very normal. You don'tthave to tell your gf you masterbate. Alot of people explore there bodies. Your fine.
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Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas? (link)
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guy's are very different. Some guys enjoy it when you shave because they have a good view of you and it the want to do more then there's no hair in the way. If depends on you if you want to shave or not. It's not the guy's. I sometimes shave when I'm really in the mood and sometimes I don't but my husband and I have sex no matter what.
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say it was 3 thin layers of clothing. He did ejaculate and I noticed that there was a wet spot on my shorts around the top of my private area, I am not sure if it went through my underwear or not, but my underwear was also wet, but that was probably my stuff. I am really scared that I will get pregnant. I will get my period approximately around Feb 9 so that is where I stand. I am really worried, what can I do? (link)
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Don't worry your not pregnagt. Your just stressed and it could be that your going to get your period. Just relax.
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