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long distance and long time
There is a guy that I was friends with 8 years ago when i was little and i moved and since then i hadnt talked to him or seen him... up until a week and a half ago. i dont know why but i seem to have feelings for him already even though its been so long. We've talked every day in the past week and a half and hes a really nice and sweet guy and he told me he sorta likes me too... hes supposed to come to visit so i can see him again soon. i dont know how to act and even if we did really hit it off he doesnt think it would work since hes lives 5 hours away by car.. it really sucks and im supposed to be going down to my grammas(that lives 2 minutes away form him) this summer for 3 weeks and were planning on spending time together and other times between now and then but i have no idea what to say or how to act when i see him again for the first time and im really nervous. help please
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you should get to know him again because since it was 8 years ago he probably has changed and has new interest's find out what they are. You two could have a long distance relantionship but it would be hard because I know that when you are with someone you wanna really be with them and be able to kiss them and stuff like that. That would be the hard part about it. One thing you could do is call each other a lot so you two could talk that would give you a sense of closeness. When you go to your grandma's just act normal you know the way you act around him. Just be yourself don't try and be anything you aren't because guys like when you be who u are and not something different I hope this helped let me know how it goes. ~MESACHICK51~
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Even though you know him 8 years ago, he had changed since then. You and him have to get to know each other all over again. When you go to your grandma's maybe that will give you a chance to know him and him to know you. give it time and if it doesn't work then you guys can always be great friends.
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Too much too fast is asking for disaster. Don't go out of your way to see him too often. You knew each other 8 years ago, that's a real long time. People change a whole lot in that amount of time. You don't have to be nervous he's just like any other guy, just one you haven't seen for a long time. Picture him as your cousin from Ohio, or something. Your not jumping into a relationship right away, are you? I hope not. The best way to go when your not really sure what to do, or how to act is to have something planned. Like a movie, dinner, swimming w/e That way you have your time planned together not just hanging out. Maybe you wont have much to talk about but you'll have something to do rather than having nothing to do and nothing to talk about. Have fun.
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