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female 13
Okay I asked a question like two days ago about how to get some one make a move. The advice I recived was that I had to make the first move. So I've been thinking about this and how can I do this without looking like an idoit? And is it even okay for girls to make the first move? Do guys perfer when they do it? eh I'm hopless.

actually most guys want the girl to make the first move but they end up making the first move anyway.

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hey,
i'm in a band and we play shows all the time but lately i've started to blow my voice earlier and earlier in the show. we're a rock band and do loud singing but not death metal screaming. sort of like cobain, if you will. i need advice on how to build up endurance in my voice and still be able to sing as hard as i do. i have no money for vocal training, so any help is hugely appreciated.

thanks in advance

drink water. lay off chocolate and stuff like that before shows/concerts/performances.
thats all i know of!
hope i helped!
good luck with it!
♥Jess

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well in sixth grade i was a complete loser, i mean ugh i had really curly hair and wore it in a bun, and i wore big clothes. like i didnt even care. and i liked this guy A LOT. his name was david, and like he didnt like me at all. and he hated me in seventh grade. and we havent seen eachother in a year. untill saturday night. and when he saw me. he kept looking at me. and like we cuddled or whatever. and he said he liked me. but like i dunno. sixth grade was weird for both of us. and ive changed A LOT since then. and i just wanna know should i give it a chance?

of course!
you have changed alot!
forget and forgive the things in the past!
good luck with him!
♥Jess

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ive been getting zits on my back sorta like achne on my back and i want them gone i used achne wash on them a couple times but still nothing do i need to eat healthyer or something?

i would say go to the dermatologist (sp?) and show it to them and they can perscribe you cream to put on it. or recomend something.
hope i helped!
♥Jess

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hi my name is jess i recently broke up with my b.f tony and wel he went to a party like a week after we broke up and hooked up with a friend of mine. i still like him and i cried when i heard what happened. i cnt take it anymore. how can i get over him. please help me ill rate 5's
--jess

i would go out and flirt with a bunch of other guys..but thats just me! im such a flirt! but shopping helps me get over guys and such alot. just talk to your friends about it and find a new guy and totally start over! it will feel kinda refreshing like a new start!
i hope i helped!
good luck with him!
♥Jess

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I recorded a video on my digital camera. Does anyone know how i can take that video and put it on somones myspace as a comment? i cant figure it out and its really botherin me lol thank you so much! five for every answerrr!

im guessing
but maybee you can find a video host (kinda like a picture host like www.tinypic.com) and when you upload it on there take the tag (a form of url kinda) and put it in the comment box.
i hope i helped
♥Jess

i found a site that uploads vidoes you have to sign up though
http://www.putfile.com/

and this one you dont need to sign up as long as you have the video saved on your computer
http://www.zippyvideos.com/

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I'm looking for a good shaving creme, one that smells really nice and thats gonna make my legs feel soft and silky. Also,looking for a good lotion.Thanks

i absolutely LOVE skintimate like all the different fruity sweet scents. like the green apple and stuff! and for lotion my favorites are warm vanilla sugar from bath && body works or lovespell from victoria secrets. but if you get lovespell dont put to much on or else it gets really strong and if i smell it too much i get a headache but it smells soo sweet! but with shaving your legs to make them really really smoothe shave with hair conditioner cream stuff that works the best!
i hope i helped
♥ Jess

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14/f
My big winterball is coming up. I have:
- my dress bought ( its a like a mini prom dres[its puffy at the bottom, but only goes to like a few inches below my knees] and its coral [like an orangy color])
- limo rented
- hair appointment set up
- make up appointment set up
- manicure/pedicure appointment set up

what I need is:
- shoes
- a hair style.

could someone help me pick out wicked cute shoes from off the internet. and/or send me pictures of cute hair styles?

5's to everyone!

hair styles (a whole bunch)
http://hairstyles.free-beauty-tips.com/prom_hairstyles.html

shoes (i think these are cute)
http://www.magicmomentsprom.com/shoes/tn_SUGAR.jpg

http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B0007ZP5AS.01-A1JS5E6Y4UQJ4Q._SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg

http://www.dyeableshoecompany.com/catalog_jump_images/evening.jpg

http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B000A40LFA.01-A39U745IDK2WMA._SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg those might be a little to summerish

hope i helped!
♥ Jess

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alright so there is a black and white party coming up
and i want a black dress

any cute websites to find them?

i want it mid thigh, and flowy .. black ofcourse

i need help as soon as possible

thanks!

if you can still fit into like girls clothes i would suggest limited too. i know that sounds like really gay. but i wear a zero and i got a cute black size 14 dress in that store and the sizes go up to 18 so if you are small like me then you can probably fit in there i think the site is www.limitedtoo.com i know the bodyshop in the mall has the most ADORABLE black dresses. heres the site http://www.bodyc.com/catalog/Dresses/880efef3547058f18532ca831d4973d7 the prices are very reasonable!
i hope i helped!
♥Jess

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OK i am 14 now and my hole life i have never cut my hair ewell i mean trims and when i got gum in it but thts diff. ok its dirtyblond brownish. and past my hips. and lots of people think i should cut it but others think i should leave it alown. and it looks really good when i curl it or what ever but i don't know cus i don't look at it from other peoples point of view so I don't know what i should do with it cut it or no. and also if you have any ideas about stuff i can do with it like styling it like other than down and ponytails. please help
~Goldylocks~

i think you should cut about 10 inches off and give it to locks of love. getting your hair cut/trimmed often is good for your hair and it helps it grow quicker.
and for hairstyles you can always put it in a half ponytail.
this website might help..
http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/longhair.htm
i hope i helped!
♥ Jess

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Anyone know any good MySpace Layout pages? Cute but yet different from the rest type of layouts? :)



♥ ♥

http://www.xanga.com/xX__MYSPACELAYOUTSz
and
http://www.xanga.com/Myspace_layoutsx07

is where i usually get my layouts for myspace.

hope i helped!
♥Jess

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does any one no any websites with...
- make up tips and techniques? or basically anything to do with make up and beauty?
- different hair styles i could do. ive got long hair thick hair.

im fed up with the same sytle of make up and hair do's all the time i need new ideas.

please answer asap i rate!

usually
www.seventeen.com
and
www.cosmogirl.com
have a bunch of hair and make-up tips and ideas
i know cosmo girl has a whole section on beauty!
i hope i helped!
rate!*
♥ Jess

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hey...
anyone who's good with computers...
everytime i switch my homepage it just keeps going back to the old one..how do i change this..and also..there is this toolbar on my main desktop and i dont know how to get rid of it. HELP!!
thanks in advance=)

the toolbar -- sometimes you can go into your programs and it will have what you can delete someties toolbars are on there if its on there press delete! if its not then open up internet explorer click 'view' uptop then 'toolbars' then uncheck it on the list.
i hope i helped!
rate!*
♥ Jess

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Yeah i know this is like really random, but i was just wondering, how do you guys feel about the store Abercrombie and Fitch. I was reading about it online and so many people seem to hate it!!!

i don't really shop there that often but i was thinking of getting some clothes there for christmas and i was just wanted to know some of yall opinionss on it

I LOVE ABERCROMBIE ♥ (i dont fit in fitch!) ITS LIKE THE BEST STORE!!! THAT AND HOLLISTER! WHY WOULD ANYBODY HATE IT!?!?!?!?!

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I've never thought that I flirt that much. But apparently the rest of the world thinks so. I hear it from friends, family, and even my boyfriend! They all tell me that I'm the biggest flirt alive. I can't help it because I think that it's just me being friendly. Well some people have a problem with how "friendly" I am but I don't know how to fix it. When I do flirt, I really don't notice it and it's not like I have a bell in my head that rings whenever I am to remind me. So, any idea on how I can back down on the flirting?

I AM THE SAME EXACT WAY!!! my friends and family tell me that all the time!!! i know what you mean when you say you dont realize when you do it! i would just say try to hang out with your friends when you are with a guy or something. try not to ... touch him or anything like that. haha! i know its hard. get your friends to tell you when your flirting then maybe that will remind you to stop.
i hope i helped!
rate!*
♥ Jess

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Is there anything that promotes you to get out of bed in the morning? I always feel so miserable getting up, and I need something to jumpstart my mornings.

to help me get up on my alarm clock you can chose the alarm so i blast rock music like the loudest it can go. that helps me! umm think about christmas right now. the sooner you wake up the sooner the day will be over! and then its sooner till christmas! or if you also have an alarm clock put it on the other side of your room so you will have to get up to turn it off. once i get up its harder for me to get back to sleep!
i hope i helped!
rate!*
♥ Jess

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13/f my brother is coming home from college this weekend for christmas and his majoring in computer science and hes just aweosme with computers.. the last time he was home on thanksgiving he taught me a lot about html and i already knew a lot anyway but he really helped. i told him i would have this whole website done by when he came home. and im getting really confused with out him. not like about big stuff but some small stufflike... one of my questions is do you no how to change a font on your website? how can you make a picture a link? ill add more later.. thanks ♥

i have found this site verrrryyyyy good when it comes to html!

http://www.lissaexplains.com/

its all about html for kids so the directions and stuff shouldnt be to hard to understand.

also...sometimes if you go to www.xanga.com (its a blog) then you can search users who have their whole site devoted to codes. i know iv seen codes for linking pictures! and changing fonts!
i usually use this site when i need html codes and such!
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=tragicxcodesx3

i hope i helped!
rate!*
♥ Jess

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Would anyone recommend some good DVDs that have come out in like the past year or so. I like chick flicks, romantic comedys and really funny movies...
the more the better
I rate.

13 goin on 30 --1 of the best chick flicks

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I need to get cover-up, powder cover-up, eye liner, mascara, and a shine control moisturizer. What are the best possible products(brand names) i can get all under $50! Thanks

well i get most all of my make up from the revlon employee store b/c my aunt works at revlon so its really really cheap. but i would say go to eckerd b/c their stuff is pretty cheap and good. but if your looking for nicer make-up then i would say go to Ulta! they have some good holiday sales going on right now. heres the link = http://www.ulta.com/control/category/~category_id=48/~pcategory=43

i hope i helped!
Rate!*
♥Jess

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Hey Guys!!
Can you give me some songs about **LOVE yea i want stuff bout like how my boyfriend is good and how i feel about him.. I wouldn`t like any mariah carey or anyting new please.. nothin about breaking up either.. Thanks

i think this link might help....
http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/
or i think this one might be betterr
http://www.links2love.com/love_lyrics.htm
i hope i helped!
rate!*
♥Jess

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