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Okay I asked a question like two days ago about how to get some one make a move. The advice I recived was that I had to make the first move. So I've been thinking about this and how can I do this without looking like an idoit? And is it even okay for girls to make the first move? Do guys perfer when they do it? eh I'm hopless.
Love_Backwards answered Saturday January 28 2006, 6:47 pm: boys are expected to make the first move, but if they dont.. its fine for a girl to too. it makes them seem brave and guys like that. it takes the pressure off of them. you wont look like an idiot. if your in the movies, house, dinner etc, just lean over and do whatever your heart tells you to do. it is not a big of a deal- itll probably make your relationship stronger! hope i helped.
♥ ashley [ Love_Backwards's advice column | Ask Love_Backwards A Question ]
Shortcake22 answered Saturday January 28 2006, 6:40 pm: Well I dont know what kind of "move" you mean, such as asking him out, kissing, talking to him, etc. So I can't help you there.
But when it comes to guys, they are usually just as scared of us as we are of them. They dont want to look stupid or get shot down either. A lot of them will be relieved if a girl makes the first move. Its perfectly okay to make the first move. The only thing you want to watch for, is you dont want to seem too easy, guys like a bit of a challenge. [ Shortcake22's advice column | Ask Shortcake22 A Question ]
HEYxBEAUTIFUL answered Saturday January 28 2006, 6:40 pm: Alot of guys think its really cool when girls make the first moves. When he least expects it, walk up to him and kiss him. Don't rush things too fast or it might be bad. ♥ [ HEYxBEAUTIFUL's advice column | Ask HEYxBEAUTIFUL A Question ]
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