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see well i peirced my own ear... the third whole.. its still on the lobe but its far up... see what i did was i took a thumb tack and i put ear peircing cleaner on it and had an earing ready... i iced it until i couldnt feel it and stuck the tack thru with an apple slice behind it and put the earing in.. i cleaned it afterwards... i did it last nite on one ear... and i did the other on about two hours ago... and see my parents found the one that my i did for my friend. it looks a little red and one of them hurts a tiny bit... what should i do about it? (link)
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First, you should never pierce yourself with THUMB TACKS! *shakes head*
As far as infections.. it wouldn't surprise me, use salt water, just a few dashes of salt in a few ounces of water to heal it. 2/3 times a day.
If you can get ahold of sea salt, it would be better but not nessesary, plain table salt will work. (you can find sea salt, at health food stores, and some places where piercings are done)
Alcohal can be drying, and actually just infect it worse.
If it doesn't clear up some in a few days, you might want to see a doctor, or think about taking it out, letting it heal and perhaps.. get it proffesionally done. (one word of warning, piercing guns, can cause people to get infections as they aren't sterilized, just sprayed down, the same needle used for other people, I always go to tat shops for my own piercings. They are a bit pricier but CLEAN!)
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My brother set Mozilla Firefox to be the default internet program (I hope I'm phrasing that right). Whenever I click on a link, it pops up in Mozilla Firefox. I just don't like it because I'm too used to Internet Explorer. How do I change it back to Internet Explorer again? Thank you. (link)
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I wouldn't change it. I used to use just Internet Explorer too, besides for pop-ups I seemed to get viruses left and right with it.
Mozilla has a built in pop up blocker, if you click on "tools", "options", it's under "web features" and click the little "block pop up windows" there.. ;)
There's really not much difference between browsers, besides how they run.. and Mozilla is one of the better ones.. get used to it.. and I'm sure you'll like it ;)
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I want to wax my bikini line, but im not sure what kind to use. I tried Nad's once but it didnt work and it hurt like hell, really really bad. I tried plucking lol but that didnt work too well and it still hurt bad. I want to wax cuz shaving, cream removal, and all that other junk doesnt work for me. So im asking for some suggestions for bikini waxing its from like CVS or Wallgreens, you know general stores and such. Also, my skin is really sensitive and i dont want it to look really bad because im going to a hotel and were swimming, so want it to be close and stuff. Thanks to anyone who has any ideas!!!
-KaTe (link)
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Try Veet. It's pretty easy to use and you can get it at any drug store.
All waxing hurts a bit, you have to figure it is pretty much ripping your hair out, just go quick, the quicker you go, the less it seems to hurt.
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What is the difference between vegans and veggetarians?
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Vegitarians, normally eat vegtables, and sometimes animal made products(ie. butter, milk, cheese, ice cream), just not the meat itself. Of course there are some vegitarians, that will eat fish, and poultry they just won't eat red meat, there are about 4 different "types" of vegitarians.
Vegans however.. won't use anything that comes from an animal, nor eat it.
Leather, make-up, wool, butter, cheese, milk.. etc.
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My boyfriend's a rather sexual person, and I'm..getting there, haha. I've given him an orgasm and we've been trying to give me one. I'm kind of reluctant cos it hurts! Should it hurt? We are not having sex, fingering, but no intercourse. When he touches my clitoris it seems like pain, but also kind of good, but like tickling in which you try to move away. It hurts when he presses too hard of course, but then doesn't give that weird kick when it's not hard. The other day he was touching my clit and my leg started spazzing, but the clit hurt, but it felt like we should keep going, yet we stopped cos it hurt me kind of. We don't think I came. Wondering, what aren't we doing? And what does an orgasm feel like for a girl (or anyone)? (link)
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Ok. First off, do not use baby oil or vaseline. They could give you an infection, and aren't meant for "masturbation" at all... you can however buy anything meant for the genitals, K-Y Liquid is what I'd recommend. Comes in a small pump bottle that should be easily hidden, from roomates, friends, and the like. And it's also found in most drug stores, with the condoms.
Your clit is very sensitive, and most likely will hurt if he's pressing to hard. Alot of women can't take direct stimulation, at least for long periods. Not only that, but fingering shouldn't hurt.
Women need more than just a finger in the spot to turn us on, start with rubbing, fondling, and getting your body up and excited before you allow him to actually finger you, and rub you.
And yes, I'd definitely play with yourself, and see what works for you, what feels good, what doesn't. The best one to know your body is yourself.. so get to know it ;)
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my friend has this boy friend who is cutting himself and inking it (pouring ink all over the cut) because he wants to die and he is in a mental hospital right now and my friend likes him alot because he cares about her more than her step dad cause he beats and rapes her. well my friend said if this guy dies she is going to kill herself and ive tried talking to her but she wont listen and she still wants to kill herself if her bf dies. plz help (link)
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You need to tell someone, she needs help, if she's thinking of suicide. Unfortuantly you are not prepared to help her, she needs actual proffessional help.
With her history of abuse with her step dad.. and now what she's viewing as the "one good thing" in her life, being essentially taken from her, as he's receiving his own help..
She is feeling lost, and confused.. and before she's able to harm herself, you need to talk to a trusted adult, and get her someone to talk to, and the help she needs before she does something that does hurt her.
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I am terrified of asking someone out and being rejected. I don't want to be made fun of and it would hurt me. I have always seen boys I like go because I have been to afarid to say anything. I don't want that to happen with the current guy I like. So my question is how do I get over the fear of rejection? Thank you. (link)
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Rejection, though heartbreaking happens.
The best advice I can give you, is to just chance it. If you don't go for it, you might let a good thing pass you by, which can feel worse than rejection itself.
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I have these dark purplish circles under my eyes. And my eyelids are almost always red...Majority of the time I get 8 hours of sleep and I am 13 years old. Is there anything I can do to get rid of these hideous circles? (link)
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I'd try cucumber slices. And there are many over the counter eye creams.
If you opt for make-up..
To avoid having a "caked" appearance with makeup, use a concealer first.. putting a little on your finger.. blot it gently under the eye, till the redness is mostly covered then cover with a foundation. Make sure you don't look "fake" and the color you choose goes with your skin though ;)
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What are some lyrics for songs from THE USED, or sites i can go to to get them. ill rate a 5! thanks!!!!
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Try here..
http://www.lyricsondemand.com/u/theusedlyrics/
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There's this boy i really like but... i have a boyfriend and im going to be going out with him for 6 months this friday and I already had sex with him and I really like this kid named josh and we have 2 classes together and he’s in my grade. My friend asked him if he liked and and he was like ummmmmmmmmm ummmmmmm ummmm and asked who? And she said my name and he said ummmm no. how do I know if he likes me.??????!!!!!! Really need to know!! He’s moving to California in July and all I want is just a lil piece of him lol and I like in ny so we would NEVER see each other (link)
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It doesn't sound like he knows you, let alone like you.
Second, you have a boyfriend, that you obviously care enough for that you slept with him. But are already thinking of "getting a piece" of this other boy, that obviously doesn't even know who you are.
I think you need to sit and honestly think long and hard about what that says about you..
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i dont usually do this but ok..im in love with this one guy that i've been with for 11 months, and he claims he is in love with me, but when we get in an arguement he says he doesnt love me right now, which is weird bc i thought that if you was in love with someoen you would love them unconditionally, he makes all the rules and doesnt let me have input on anything.every timei talk to him i end up crying bc he hurts me so bad emotionally..the only time he acts good to me is when he is about to get something(you know what i mean) after that he's back to his normal self.what should i do? i try leaving him but i always get weak and run back to him.i love him alot and i dnt know what i should do.i try telling him how i feel and he gets pissed so i just keep it to myself..im getting really close with this other guy who feels the same way about me as i do my guy, and i dont know what i should do, i love the guy im with, not the one who treats me like a goddess,..*confused*..what should i do..sorry its so long..forgive me lol (link)
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Sounds like your in a bad situation. You say you love him, but it's obvious he doesn't feel quite the same, or quite as strong about him as you do.
The fact your left crying and hurt over things he says.. and being hurt emotional is a sign of abuse. Abuse doesn't always mean hitting and slapping, there is emotional, and it's clear that this guy is doing that to you.
You need to get away from him, he sounds controlling and things can only get worse from here, not better.
If you find your not strong enough, then you need to surround yourself with friends who will support and help you while you break away from him.
You might not like the guy that treats you "like a goddess" but, that's exactly what you deserve, and someday you'll find someone who will.. that you will love dearly and feel the same way for.
Keep your chin up, be strong, you can leave him.
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Do guys prefer girls to make the first move? Say a girl sees a real cute guy for the first time. Would he want her to approach him first, or would he approach her if he wanted to? I'd really like to meet new guys to get over this one that I've liked forever, and I want to get some pointers on meeting new guys. Any help, thank you. I rate 5's. (link)
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Girls tend to think guys always need to make the move. What they don't realize is that guys are also shy about making the moves on a good looking chick.
I'd say go for it, make your move, if you like him, what could be the worse thing that could happen? Right?
As far as pointers, hang-outs in your town are always a good starter.. and simple comments on something you realize you both have in common.. (noticing his clothes.. a game he's playing.. a topic he's talking about something.. ) are good conversation starters.. go from there.. Good Luck!
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Is there a way to stop a pregnant woman from drinking? I don't understand why it's not against the law. It's aginst the law to supply alcohol to minors, but it's ok to posion your unborn child? (link)
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Unfortuantly there isn't... you can only hope that MOST women will care enough about their own un-born child to not drink.
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well there is this boy that told me he likes me, but i only liked him as a friend then....and now that i saw him again, he acted totally the same but then somehow i am madly in love with him now...i am pretty sure that he still like me but i am not really sure...how can i know...and also, he doesn't go to the same skool as me so would it be bad or weird if i was his gf? (link)
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If your not sure, you have to put yourself out there and ask him.
If the two of you can still see eachother, I don't see how it would be weird that you'd be his girlfriend..
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My best friend has a really bad headlice problem. At school you can see them all in her hair! and the problem is i dont like hugging her because i feel shes going to pass them onto me. What can i do please help?? Shes had them for ages since ive known her mabe even before that.
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Are you sure it's not dandruff?
If she had headlice that bad, then the school wouldn't let her attend, and send her home to get rid of them.
IF it is headlice, you need to tell her, and it won't be as simple as using RID on just her head.. if they are that bad her whole house will need to be sprayed bedding washed, and everyone in the house using RID and combing out the eggs.
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Hi, I like the group ICP and my girlfriend doesn't, she doesn't like it because it has killing in it, she hates it. Should I stop liking it or just keep listening to it, I just wanna make her happy, what should I do?? (link)
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It's just music. You can try to not listen to them around her though.. ;) Surely she can't be mad about what your listening to when she's not around.
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I'm involoved with a married man and have been for two years now. We started out as just friends and the relatonship evolved.He's scared to leave his wife because they share two children together. I'm very much in love with him and want to be with him. Lately I've been feeling he's been wasting my time because he hasn't left her yet and I feel he never will. When I ask when will he leave or make a decision on leaving, he tells me he cant leave his kids with her and wants to know he could get full custody before he leaves. What should I do in this situatuion? HEEEELLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Ok.. first you should of never let the relationship evolve. This guy is MARRIED not only married, but WITH KIDS. Which should tell you, that even if the marriage is "rocky" now at one time it wasn't like that, no matter what "stories" he's told you.
As far as men getting full custody? He'd have to prove her completely unfit in the court of law, and having friends in this situation, where it looked SO CLEAR that they could prove her unfit, it rarely happens.
You shouldn't waste your time waiting for him to leave his wife, because if he wasn't going through a divorce when he met you, he probably never will. NOT only that.. but what happens if he does?
Can you live with yourself knowing that you ruined those childrens "family"? Do you think they'll ever respect you when they find out, and they will find out, that your the reason daddy left mommy??
Not only that, if this man is cheating on his wife, it's most likely out of boredom REGUARDLESS of what excuses he's told you. What happens if/when he leaves her, and gets with you? How long do you think it will last till he gets bored again.. and is cheating on you? How do you think you'd feel in the same situation?
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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait? (link)
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If your boyfriend respects you, he'll also respect your wishes and wait.
You should never do anything that you feel "pushed" into because it'll only lead to regret, and disapointment in yourself.
Wait it out, you'll be happier with yourself, and it'll be more special to you if you do.
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well i love having sex all the time but my wife doesn't .what do i do? (link)
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Hrm.. that can be a toughie.
The first thing you need to do, is find out WHY she doesn't like sex. It could be something very simple, as in your too rough, or too gentle. That can easily be fixed.
And compromise might be your best bet. If you say, want sex 6 times a week, that would be too much for MANY women, but if she's willing and eager, 3 times a week, then I'd take what you can get.. and just make it good for her, so that perhaps she'll start wanting it more. ;)
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I've been liking this guy at school. He's been giving me many compliments & flattering me lately. He's been asking to hook up in school several times and I really do want to, but when it comes down to it and we're finally alone in school, I freak out and stop myself. I've waited so long for that kind of moment with him too. We'd be perfect together but I'm just scared someone will see us, I'll look slutty and he won't respect me because we don't go out. Should I just finally do it or forget the kiss? (16/F) (link)
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It's not so much a slutty thing to do. But if all he's asking is for you to hook up, he could just be a creep not looking for an actual relationship with someone, just someone to fling around with.
Even the sweetest guys, can turn around and tell all.. so follow your gut, if you don't feel "right" about it.. then don't do it.
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