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hey guys this is Andie. I love helping people out with there problems because us teenagers tend to have a lot of them. Trust me I would most definatly know. If i dont answer your question the way you wanted me to, ask again! I'm here for you guys!!

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Hey....So i have a weird thing to ask but ok....i have like weird dreams that like to help me fall asleep i think of a way to get hurt....like a story about how i break my arm or somethign and then i fall asleep....or like that my "coach" see's what i do....Is this bad? what can i do about it?

I think you should try a different method of sleeping. I dont really understand that "coach" thing you are talking about. What I do sometimes when I try to fall asleep is listen to music. Sorry I didnt help much, but if you leave me another ? in my inbox with more details maybe I could help you more? ♥Andie

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my theighs aren't fat but i HATE them i tryed to lose weight adn i did but not in my theighs and i do a lot of excerise's i ride horse's and so they r in shape but i want them to be tinyer and more in shape what can i do? HURRY!!!!!!!!!

Do Leg Lifts. What you do is lay on your back and lift your legs to 3 sets of 10 each day and you will see results not only in your theigh, but your abs too! If you have done that already I would recomend going to toneteen.com they have tons of stuff to look at and try! I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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*U should know who this is*
Well my friends are havign a party and it is a water party....i don't want to go....my sister is invited and she has tiny theighs....but a kinda big stomach and i am the oppisite tiny stomach and see all my ribs but musclion legs.....so i kinda don't want to be in a swimsuit when my sister is too....what can i do? HURRY THE PARTY IS ON FRIDAY!
*Me*

(sry i dont know who this is lol)
I dont think that you should care what you look like in your suit, because no one is going to compare you between you and your sister, and if they do, they are werid..lol well I just think that you shouldnt care because then if people see that you dont care what you look like, then they wont care either! I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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hey!
i'm on a diet where i'm really watching what i eat, and not eating junk food or anything any more! but it's 9:35 at night..and i'm hungry! what can i have that won't cause me to gain weight? we don't have alot.. but suggestions would be soo helpful!

Drinking water fills your stomach up. So I would suggest water, or crystal light or something healthy to drink! I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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the guy i really like just got asked out by this girl. i'm not sure if he said yes or no or wheather or not hes going to say yes or no. but im just trying to be suportive to him no matter what but really its killing me inside and i hope to god he says no. i have no clue what to do im so confuesd.

OMGOSH! that has happened to me to. I told the guy I like to go out with this one girl, and they did. I was soo sad, but I was supportive for him. I mean I was happy for him that he was with a girl he liked, but I kinda wished it was me, eventhough I knew we never could have "anything." But ANYWAY...I think that it is great that you are supporting him. Maybe if they go out, they wont date for a long time, god only knows that they might only date for like 2 weeks? Not to sound bitchy, but I dont think that you should get your hopes up too high because something else might happen. I just think that you should keep on supporting whatever makes him happy. The right guy will come around, everyone just has to wait for him. I hope I helped ♥Andie

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Hey Andie.. Ok well i got back from camp like 2 weeks ago.. and i know while i was gone all my friends got closer to eachother.. now they ignore me and i havent done ANYTHING with anyone since i got back.. idk what to do.. ive tried talking to them.. but they deny it?? help please

I think you should tell them again so they know you are serious about it. The same thing happened to me too. I got back and one of my best friends just basicly started ignoring me, and I was like "hey i think we should hang out because we havnt in a while" and they said sure! Maybe they havent really gotten closer, maybe they just have been remembering all of the good times they have had together. Just start sharing the good times with them too. Then if not, I dont think they are really very good friends if they just kinda blew you off like that. Dont waste your time worring about people like that when there are soo many more people! I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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okay, this guy , i like reallllly like him i mean like im in love with him, well i dont really talk to him i mean the last time i talked to him was like in june ! well i really wanna go out with him.. me nd my friend were playin around and called him one day, well she asked him if he would go out with me and he said no , and that just broke my heart !! And the bad thing was , was that HE WAS SUPPOSE TO LIKE ME !! . . . so should like i call him again , or wait till he asks me, or what?! Its killing me to just talk to him as friends =[ !

I think that you should just give him time to think about how he feels about you. I think that he MIGHT just want to wait till the summer is over? I think you shouldnt call him and wait for him to ask you out, or just wait untill school starts again and ask his friends if he likes you. I hope I helped!♥Andie

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hey ur a biotch

ok...thx i guess..

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I have a little brother who is 6 years old. His name is Denis. I love him and all, but.. he's a weirdo. He's overweight.. he's only 6 and hes 114 lbs. I dont know how to tell him he's overweight without hurting his feelings. It's kind of cute though.. I call him my little oompa loompa. Hehe. Well, please give me much advice. Thanks much!

-Cynthia

I think that you should do more things with him like more running activites. Some of it might be baby fat, some people dont loose that untill around 15! so maybe that is some of the reason. Make kool looking snacks such as "ants on a log"
1. Celery with peanut butter inside and "ants" (raisons) ontop!
2. I dont know how healthy it is but try peanut Butter and banana sandwhiches (sounds gross, but tastes good!) I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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Hey (u might know who this is) i use to do somethign bad....and ppl still think of me as that evan tho im not liek that anymore.....how can i get them to stop thinking about that liek my mom is i change the channel with my right hand she thinks i did it again to my left hand...well i mean sometimes i do do what i use to do but not at all as deep or as many so why does everyone make a big deal out of it??
*I think u know who*

I think that the reason they are all still thinking of you like "that" is because they are all worried about you and care about you too much before something even worse happends. I think you should tell them that you have stopped your habit and you realized it was the wrong thing to do. And tell your mom that you dont do it at all anymore so she wont worry as much...I ♥ you baby cakes!! ~*Andie

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alright, i have these friends that i love alot and stuff but then they all just get mad @ me 4 all of these little reasons! it really pisses me off cuz like they just are such jerks but, when im w\ them and they arent mad @ me that are so funn and nice, and they also change when there around each otther! ik thats not what friends should be like and i go to a private schoool and only have a few girls in our class so i can afford to loose them!! What should i do!??!?
thanks lyl

I think you should either tell them that they are basicly two faced. Or try and get different friends. That is nice and all that they are fun to hang out with, but how do you know if they arnt talking about you behind there back?? (it seems lik they are the type of people to do that) And tell them that they shouldnt be getting mad at you for such immature things, and it is time for them to grow up. I hope I helped a little! ♥Andie

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after you get your first period whens the next time you get it? some say 5 months? or will it be one month?i got mine for the first time July 1st and i was just wanted a heads up for when the next time i'll get it

it depends its different for all people. For me I got it in I think Jan and then I didnt get mine until Juneish, then a couple of my other friends has been getting it regularly. So its different for everyone. I would just suggest bringing a pad/tampon where ever you go just incase! =) I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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14/f okay so first of all you should know that im a little overweight and for that reason not as many guys wanna be friends with me. so theres this guy that i know through people and we've hung out together in smaller groups at parties and stuff but he wouldnt really say much and then at the end he started acting really mean and like i wanted to get to know him better and try and become friends with him but i dont know if i do anymore because of how he acted tords me. and then later that week i was at an open gym for volleyball and he was there too and i could tell he was watching me play some cause he didnt know we were both really into vollleyball and im a really good volleyball player cause im gunna be a freshman and i was playing with the jouniors and seniors. and afterwards i could tell he was gunna come and talk to me but i avioded him because of how he was at the party and now if he wants to be friends it will probally be because im good at volleyball and i dont want it to be for that reason because he had his first chance at that party. so i guess my question is if i should give him a second chance or just forget about him because of how he acted at what he said at the party?

Guys are such losers. I think that you should still give him a second chance because it seems that he was trying to give you another try because he came to your volleyball practice, so you should do the same. I hope I helped and tell me how it goes! ♥Andie

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ok so i mean i am tall and i will be in *th grade i weigh well u don't want to know but all my friends tell me how skinny i am yet i know i am not! i mean i go running EVERYDAY! and i am in a lot of activites i mean i do gymnatsics for at least 2 hours a day adn that is so much work and i play basketball so i mean i do have a lot of mucles but i always feel so fat! cause of my weight what do i do???

I think that you should listen to your friends because they will tell you the honest truth if you need to loose weight. It sounds to me like you are probably a really athletic person if you are in basketball AND gymnastics. I think you are in pretty good shape. Dont worry EVERYONE I know thinks that they are fat when they really arnt. You are probably in the right area of weight for your age. If you really feel like you need to go on a diet, just eat healther and not so many snacks. I hope I helped ♥Andie

(i'm so sorry this took forever to answer back to you!!)

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okay, this guy , i lyk reallllly like him i mean like im in luhv with him, well i dont really talk to him i mean th last time i talked to him was lyk in june ! well i really wanna go out with him.. me nd muh friend were playin uhround and called him one day, well she asked him if he wud go out with me and he sed no , and that just broke muh heart !! And tha bad thing was , was tht HE WAS SUPPOSE TO LIKE ME !! . . . so shud lyk i call him again , or wait till he asks me, or whut?!

Um, i'm sorry if you want to me to answer a question for you, can you please type in english. lol sorry ♥Andie

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Ok so i mean i have a problem i know it but ok liek i really want to lose weight and i literally to see resulates and to lose weight will stop eating for days and or eat very little well it ended up that i got really dizzy i was always tired and sick (stomach hurt sooo bad but when i saw food i would want to throw up)but the worst is is that i fanted at school and i lied and said it was cause i "hit" my head....well anyways what do i do i want to lose weight but not how i did last time

Yeah I tried that too, and myself also got VERY dizzy and i felt sick all the time. But what I think you should do is start out small because you havent been eating a lot so you should start out with smaller portions of food liek salads or even pizza untill you get back to a regular eating basis. Then that is when you can start your diet again. When you get back up to the right eating habits then you can start eating salads, pastas, and you can basicly eat almost anything you want (besides like fast food etc.) just cut down the portions in half. Drink lots of water, and milk. I dont recomend diet soda either because all they use is fake sugars. And then start a regular excerise program. Go to www.toneteen.com and they have lots of teenage excersise ideas! I hope I helped and again i am soo sorry this took me forever to answer! ♥Andie

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ok well i want to start eating healtier cause i just feel like crap and i think im kinda gaining some weight. well anyways i really dont like eatting salads cause they just taste gross. so do you have any other foods that are healtier to eat. also do you have any tips for losing wait and staying healthy?
thanks a bunch!

I think that you can eat almost anything you want, but nothing like mcDonalds, or like fatty foods like that. Just take a half of the portion you would normally eat without seconds. Another thing that helps is dont watch t.v if you eat because then you are distracted on what you are eating and then you wont relize when you are full, so you just keep eating. Last, have a daily/nightly run. I think it is better at night to run because then it is cooler outside. I hope I helped, and I am so sorry for taking forever to answer this! ♥Andie

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ok well i am going out with a guy and we have been together for 1 month and i really like him but he keeps bringing up that we haven't kissed or done nething. i can tell it makes him upset but then he says it doesn't matter. do u think he really loves me or is just trying to "get some?"

Hey I'm sorry I havent gotten to answer this question quicker I have been just very busy. I cant tell right now that he just wants to "get some" but I think that he is just nervous to make the first move on kissing you. I think you should kiss him and see what happeneds! I hope I helped and I am sorry for taking forever! ♥Andie

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why didnt you answer the question a asked you on like the 9th????? i thought you said you would answer all questions and mine wasnt a bad one or anything! thanks a bunch for your help im gunna go kill myself now! and its your fault cause i know you got the question!

I'm so sorry its not that I dont want to answer any questions because I honestly do, its just that the past 2 weeks I have been very busy. I'm so sorry

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LaLaLa..Steves hott, yes he is Andie, and you know it..lol

HAHA!! yeah..lol i love you babe!

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