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Location: Phoenix, Arizona
Age: 18
AIM: Mallisssa
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I havent seen my best friend in less then a week and already I miss him sooo much. we only live about 20 mins away from eachother but i wish that I could see him more often.I heard that last weekend when i saw him i was supposed to get asked our by him and he didnt ask me out? why not.I really want to go out with him really bad but I dont want to ask him about it. I love him soo much!And I kno that he loves me. We always make out and shit when we see eachother but it has never gotten past that.I want to go farther with him bc I think that it is right too do. I think that he would but I dont want him to turn me down. We used to talk about doing more but we never have actually done more. I used to think about having sex with him and to be honest I really want to. He isnt a virgin and I am. I just want to be alone with him so that we can talk and be more serious with eachother. What should I do? How do I bring it up to him ?
*thanks sami (link)
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I'm not here to tell you what to do... But I think that if you have sex with him (even though you love him), when he's not your boyfriend... You'll regret it later. But do whatever you want. I would say that maybe you should ask him out?
Good luck!
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okay theres this really hott guy that i like. It's my BEST FRIENDS BROTHER!! he knows i like him alot! i was with him Saturday night and Sunday night. i stayed at his house with his sister. bUT ANYWAYS.... okay.. my friend and her boyfriend were wrestling.. me and (lets call him Skipperdy) well me and skipperdy were wrestling and having all kinds of fun. He'd like lay on me, out his arms around me.. breath on my neck(i thought i was gonna get a hicky) but anyways i didnt. It was really dark in the room. Anything that made light... it was covered. We tickled eachother and we got really close to kissing but didnt. I was like OMG!!! WOW!!! i mean words cant even explain how i was feeling. Then his hands were on my hips and were moving down slowly.. i didnt care.. later he grabbed me.. didnt care.. only becuase we were having so much fun. we were watchign movies together with our friends and things like that. It was the most fun i have ever had with a guy. And he ws the only one (guy) that ever touched me that much. I was so happy to be in his arms. i liked him once before for a while. We held hands alot the alst time.This time he always lays beside me... he lays sideways on his hip and curls his knees under me then i lay on my back and put my legs over his... then he put his hand on my stomach and alittle up my shirt. i thought he was gonna do "something" but then started tickling me again.This happened all night. As u can see i had a lot of FUN!!! It was the best night i have ever had!!
My question is... how do i know if he likes me? i really like him and his sister told him that i do. i didnt care if he knew. I think we're all doing something this weekend too after we get done working. Should i talk to him about it or just ignore it and have MORE fun than saturday night?
Should i talk to him about it or what? i sat with him again at lunch today and i might stay at his house again tonight. and i'll be there this saturday night too. i was supposed to stay last night but i didnt. What should i do?
Can u please help me....? (link)
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As far as I can tell, from what you told me, he totally digs you too! In my opinion, I think you should not mention anything and have more fun (as you said)! That way, since you know he knows that you like him, he can be the one to make the next move and say something about it. Good luck!
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Hi! I'm a 16-year-old girl. Only problem is, he doesn't know that I exist. I'm way too shy to talk to anyone of the opposite sex...but I want to get to know him more than anything! He's wicked nice...but I'm just not sure how to actually talk to him. Any suggestions on how to approach him or talk to him? (link)
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I'd try talking to him- just about anything! Whenever you are next to him for any reason, try asking him a question or making a statement that he'll respond to. i.e.: You're in the lunch line by him. you: could this line be any longer? Good luck!
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What do you think is the best way to figure out if a guy likes you? Lets say....you think there is a pretty high chance he does....so what do you think?
ps-i rate anyone who tries to answer this question! youre making my day by just helping me out on this! (link)
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I think the best way to find out if he does is to ask him. But if you're too shy for that, you can usually tell by how he acts. If he talks to you a lot, or touches you a lot. Those are good signs. Also, if he laughs at your jokes or trys to be funny to impress you, that's good to.
Hope I helped!
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im 14/f...and the hair that i have above my upper lip has gotten really dark and noticeable...its embarassing...my mom says not to shave it, im scared to get it waxed, it hurts when you pluck it, and well is there anything else?! (link)
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There's a thing on tv that looks nice for that. You've probably seen the add, it's a little stick that you rub across the area and it removes all hair. It also comes with a free compact! I'd check that out. 14.99 i think it was.
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alrighty..well i have a big group of friends over alot...but its starting to get boring because we just do the same thing over and over and over again...we either come to one of our houses and watch movies, or go to the movies...i want to do something new! and fun! what should we do?...btw..something guys and girls would have fun doing...but we are all just friends, so nothing gross..if ya know what i mean lol (link)
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My friends and I have the same problems! Try bowling or going to an art museum and a fancy restraunt afterwards....
Or if you're too cheap, you could play board games. Good luck!
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if you had the opportunity to have sex with someone you weren't dating but have hooked up with a lot over the past few months would you? i guess im just wondering because everyone says sex is supposed to be a "special" thing you share with someone you love. I think i'm ready but i'm not even dating the guy let alone love him-so if i think he is the right guy to have sex with is he worth the risk? My friend told me, "if you like him don't do it, if you don't like him then go for it"
also on a side note-if you were my friend would you lose respect for me if i made the decision to have sex?
thanks a lot yall :) (link)
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If you think it's right and want to- then go for it! Do whatever you want to do, because if you dont do what you think you should- you regret whatever decision you make. Good luck!
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I know there is something messed up in my head because i get angery, sad, and happy really quickly and when i am mad, i throw things. i hate the way i act and i have been trying to change, but nothing has been working. ive told my mom and sister this and they really havent done anything to help me. what should i do? (link)
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It could just be hormons, but if you get really worried, you should go to the doctor.
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Ok I'm from North Carolina and I'm Homeschooled..Well im in 12th grade and almost done but me and my mom just found out that she has to issue me a high school diploma not North Carolina so like where do we get the diploma ?? I will rate high !! (link)
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I would think it's just a GED certificate. You could also try talking to a local highschool about getting a diploma through them- you might have to take a few compitance tests or something though. Good luck!
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i used to go out with this guy. he wasnt exactly a loser but some ppl thought he was. so i got really insecure about it and stupidly dumped him. this happened about 4 weeks ago. lately i have started to regret dumping him and i miss him so much!! should i tell him this? (link)
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I think you should, but it really depends on how he took the breakup. Be sure to tell him that you know you're an idiot for breaking up with him!
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I know its far away but I want to get a hid start for summer I want to loose enouf wait for summer to fit in to my 2 piece
I added allot of wahit and I would like to loose it I am 13 and I dont know a safe way s plz help (link)
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The best thing to do is to get daily exersize (it only counts as cardio if it gets your heart pumping harder than normal for 30 minutes) and to eat less fatty foods (things like candy and fast food). If you want to loose wieght around the middle, I'd suggest doing 100 sit ups everynight before you go to bed. Maybe start with just 25... then 50.... and work your way up. Good luck!
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heyy i normally answer questions but now i got one!.. alright well im moving in january and my christmas presents are mainly going to be stuff for my new room.. but the thing is i dont want to get really expensive stuff because were gunna be spending a lot of money on the house.. so i need awsome but inexpensive stuff, i already went to ikea, and pottery barn teen.. and i picked out some awsome stuff.. anyone have any other low priced bedroom places?! x3 (link)
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I think the stuff at delias.com is really cute, and they have awesome clearance sales. Hope I helped!
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Does anyone know where I can get some of those peeps candy right now? Also do they taste good in Hot Chocolate seeing as how they're crusty marshmellows???
Thanks a bunch! (link)
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You can get them in dollar stores. And of course they would taste good in hot chocolate! What's good to do is stick them in the cup and let them soak up all of the drink... then eat the peep like it was a tasty sponge.
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is ear cartilage piercing safe? i want to do it myself, with sterilized stuff ofcourse. has anyone else done that? what do u think? is it safe? (link)
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Yes, it is perfectly safe. As long as you keep it clean it wont get infected and it looks super cute!
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Well there are these 2 boys i like ..but neither of them know i like them...and they both have girlfrineds..should i tell them that i like them an maybe then the'll get wit me..or should i wait until they brake up with there gurlfriends..?? :(
Help ..i rate realli good (link)
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i would either wait till they break up with their girlfriends, or find new boys to like. You wouldn't want them to break up with their girlfriend everytime some new girl likes them, cause then they'd just get rid of you that way. Ya know? Hope I helped!
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When do you stick your pinky out when you're drinking? (link)
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When in doubt, pinky out!
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All my friends do all this oral sex crap with all the guys... im waiting till im married to do all that stuff. I think they are total sluts for doing it with just a radom guy they know, when they dont even have feelings for them at all, just friendly ones. I really think its gross i mean were only in 8th grade and were 14... i mean makeing out and that is ok but yeah ... am i wrong? (link)
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I don't think you're wrong. I definatly think waiting till your married is the best way to go. Besides, if they're doing that with random guys now at 14, think of what they'll be doing casualy when they're 16. I wouldn't get into that stuff if I were you. You don't want a bad rep. Hope I helped!
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Ok I am not a geek and I am not popular. I am in the middle and I am sure of it. I am in 8th grade and I have never had a boyfriend before. In all I have asked 4 guys out and they all turned me down. I am pretty...but not like WOW GOREGOUS pretty but resonably cute. I have to ask is there something wrong with me?
-single and hatin it (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. I was a senior in High school before I ever had a boyfriend and he was younger! And there is nothing wrong with me. So my advice for you is to just get good friends, ya know? That way when the boys come rolling in (which they will!) you'll have a boy and awesome friends to rely on. Plus- friends can set you up! Good luck!
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OMG! i dont knoe why..but my teeth are yellow!! i brush 3 times a day..and i dont smoke!!..whats wrong?! (link)
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Sometimes I brush with hydrogen peroxide (not too much though!) that makes them whiter. good luck!
Peroxide stops cancer!
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I have a business plan to do and I'm opening a nail salon. Should I name it "Paint" or "Tips and Toes"? thanx for your input (link)
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Tips and toes!
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