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Hey people I think Im pretty alright at given advice. so if anyone wants to ask a question i'll try and get back wit you as soon as possible.

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theres this song that i know and it goes "it was 1980 somthin in a town that i grew up in.........." do you kno who it's by!!! i rate good plezz help!!

Kenny Chesney's 19 something thats the name. HOpe i could help.

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Hi i have a gf and her 16th birthday is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get her.. I was thinking like a necklace with a heart on it... Do u have any suggestions?

Ok for my gf 16th birthday i got her pink roses (reds just to worn out) and took her to a movie then out to eat. Im not sayin you have to get her a dozen roses all she is really gonna want is you to spend time with her. HOpe i could help

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okay i love singing and i sing alot... i think i have a good voice.. and so do most of my friends.. i dunno if i should risk it and try out for a talent show. or sing at a party.. im worried ill mess up>... should i risk it.. or just sing when im just with me and my best budies?

To become famous if thats what your after you better get used to singing in front of people you dont no becouse you will be singing in front of hundreds and thousands. I would say sing at like a talent show then move up to a party and so forth and so on. Just get comfortable before you move up. HOpe i could Help.

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This is for all the guys out there. Um..if you know a girl doesn't wear a thong then why would you change your opinon about her? just because her underwear isn't attractive? I mean if I was allowed to buy them then I would totally buy them but I'm not. I used to own alot anyways. And if you know a girl wears boy briefs or none-sexy underwear why would you care?

I really dont give a shit if you got to see all down there then your damn lucky and shouldnt take advantage of that. But for the sake of you question... I think guys are trying to keep this rapper profile. all the rappers and shit talk about how they wanna talk to girls who only wear thongs. I think its just a popularity thing mainly. HOpe i could help

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wat is a MODERATOR and how do u become 1?? r there certain requirements???

A moderator is just a person who has special privilages for a list of these privliges go to help. And after two weeks if you have not been suspended you will become a level one of three. HOpe i could help

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Hey, I have been rated 5 times but the only way i can see is by clickin view feedback and when i go 2 my advice column, on the left wheres its spost 2 say like how many times uve been rated and what ur average rating is, its not there. HELP!!!

It takes a couple of days for the computer to update your ratings give them time they will come. hope i could help

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my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP

I got two words you should tell him Fuck Off. If he's gonna dump you cause you wont have sex wit him then you dont want to be wit him anyways. There are plenty of nice guys out there you just got to weed all the bastards out first. HOpe i could help.

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hey heres my problem...whenever i shave my bikini line i get lots of red bumps every where around the area i shaved, someone told me there ingrown hairs, but what can i do about it? I dont want laser hair removal and i really dont want to go get it waxed. Does anybody have any little tricks they want to share so i dont get these little red bumps?

try usin shaving cream instead of soap. The lil red bumps are called razor burn its an iritation of the skin is all it is just use shaving cream next time and dont shave if the hair is long cut it down first. HOpe i could help

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ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do..

If your not ready then you really dont need help you have already told yourself you dont want to do this just yet and that maybe in the future you do. Just tell him He'll understand, and if he doesnt then he was just in it for the sex anyways so your better off without him. HOpe i could help

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hey im haveing trouble with my boyfriend me and him keep fighting and hes like he loves me but then fights with me can u help me out ?

~diamond~ 17

Ok well lets start wit a quote ok a relationship can't be a sucessfull relationship without fighting." Meaning small fights just get some built up anger out and should not be taken to seriously. If however they are larger fights then the two of you should try sitting down and talking, not fighting avoid fighting. As i've stated before talking doesnt solve everything but it solves alot of things. HOpe i could help

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I had sex 5 days ago, and im still bleeding from it. at first i thought maybe it was just my period, so i treated it as that. my period only lasts for 4 days, so i dont think its that.

Is there something i could have had torn during sex that would cause me to bleed this long?

Well im a guy but i'll see what i can do. Ok first off you may have injuried yourself. meaning the guy was just alil to rough. or it maybe some type of virus (i dn about the virus one its more than likely he was just to rough). Also if it was your first time "Popping your cherry" May cause some bleeding but prob. not for 5 days. ok well i hope i could help

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im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~

Going out with an older guy would be great for you becouse as you said he would be more mature. But (theres always a but) Just make sure you dont let this older guy persaude you into anything your not ready for like drinking, sex, drugs,ect... And as for your friends and what they think. If there true friends they understand that the reason your doin this is to further benifit yourself. And if they dont think that then either one of two things is present, A. they were never really your friends
B. There just jealous cause an older guy would want to go out wit them.
HOpe i could help

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do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks

~*a*M*y~

In my opinion an online relationship is usally just that an ONLINE RELATIONSHIP. Yea there great you no becouse you can ask them questions and exspect an honest answer, becouse they dont no you as well. As for depending your life on it i would say no. The two of you just dont have the chemistry you and a friend would have that you see everyday. HoPe I cOuLd HeLp

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what do you do if you like this one boy and he is your friends ex-boyfriend and you really wanna go with him but your not sure if he likes you b/c everytime you ask him if he likes you or anything he always says he dosnt feel confortable anwsering that right now?

OK well to start wit i have this same prob. right now in my life. this gurl wants to no if i like her and she wont quit askin me even after i said i didnt feel comfortable. ok first off if he is one of your friends ex-boyfriend then you should def. ask your friend if she thinks its ok. if she does then you should just work with this guy to make him feel alil more comfortable with you. Dont preasure him or you may end up wit an answer he doesnt mean or one you dont want. hope i could help.

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How often a day should you brush your teeth?

After every meal or as often as you can at least 2 times a day

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okay me and my ex bf broke up about 8 months ago. we were going out for a year, there was a huggeee fall out between the 2 of us and we supposedly "cant stand eachother". atleast thats what i say to make it not look like i still have feeligns for him. whenever i see him he doesnt really talk to him, etc , but when im not around and whenever he sees one of my friends, he ALWAYS asks about me, like how i am and if i have a bf, etc. what do u think hes feeling? do u think he still has feelings for me?

I think he's doin the same thing you are he is tryin to hide what he feels instead of letting you no. The reason prob is becouse you two said you were done wit each other and now he things that you have moved on, hints why he's askin about the bf. IN my opinion i think he prob still has alot of feelings for you and is just to damn prideful to show them. hope i could help

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we have this party thing in our town every year. all the kids our age hang out (its HUGE and EVERYONE is there) and just the whole town and school district come. i have these 2 great friends (ones my boyfriend) im not sure if i should invite them to spend the night with me and my friends and their parents can come and hang out with my family and everyone elses family. i think it would be a lot of fun. they would only know me and one of my best friends. im not sure if i should invite them or not because its usually a night to enjoy with just my friends. i love it. im not sure if it will be better with or without my 2 friends who aren't from our school there. help me outt!

If i was one of the two friends i would prob not wanna come, even if they tell you they do. just for the simple fact that they know no one. also it should be a friends night out. it's one time a year. hope i could help.

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Ok, heres a good question. I just broke up with my g/f becasue we didn't see each other enough. I still have fellings for and she has for me. But I have a firned that I also have feelings for. I can see my self with my friend more than I can my ex. But I don't wan to hurt my ex's feelings. We told each other that we might get back together when we are able to see each other more. So, what does everyone think?

IF you have feelings for this new person you should tell your ex and say that maybe someday we can still get together but until then i just want to be friends. also dont give up on this new person becouse that might be the one person whom you were ment to spend the rest of your life with. hope i could help.

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ok so there's this guy who is a friend of my family and he comes to all our parties and holidays and stuff. last year he came on vacation with us and we hit it off and became really great friends. we started dating on valentines day and he was always so sweet and affectionate and caring. we talked online every day for hours and everytime i came home from school on weekends we hung out. it was hard for us since i was away at college but he always said things would be so much better when i graduated (in may). then all of a sudden he started acting distant and we stopped talking as much. he has a really stressful job so i believed him when he said he was just really busy. but now that i'm home he like NEVER talks to me and i dont understand what happened! but when i see him he acts like normal again and every once in a while he'll call me or something. its so weird. if it was any other guy i'd be like forget him...but i know we'll be seeing each other at family stuff anyway and i dont understand why he would want to throw away our friendship and everything! does anyone have any insight as to what i should do or what this means? should i tell him he's hurting me or just wait till he comes around again?

as much as i hate to say this he may just be losing the vibe he got from you while you were in college. If you want some advice I would go call him or go meet with him or something cause if he's that special to you then you two definitely need to talk. Talking may not solve everything but it definitely will solve alot. just be sure to ask him why he's getting so distant and tell him that its kinda hurting you to have to go however long you go without talkin to him. If he still loves you then he will understand that you two need to talk more. hope i could help

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ok my ex boyfriend has been talking to me A LOT more then usual and trying to break me and my boyfriend up but my ex boyfriend brok eup with me so why would he wanna break me and my boyfriend up? and do you think my ex likes me?

12
female

your ex maybe jealous and just doesnt want to see you with anouther gurl or it maybe that he's had a sudden change of heart after being without you for however long. and as for him liking you, you talk to him alot you should be able to pick up on some signs. just remember to let your current bf no before anyone else anything that might happen its only right. hope i could help

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