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Not much to say about me...But here is a site for those of you that need some advice :) It is anonymous so don't be shy, if you have a problem, tell me about it! If you want to know more about me or who i am, check my xanga site!

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Does anybody know the name of Codeplay's new CD, the amount of it, and where they sell it. Also, where can I listen to one of their songs on the internet. Thanks!

The new CD is called X&Y. It varies from $10-15. I got mine for $10 at Target the day it came out. Since then I think prices have gone up a bit. You can get it anywhere, from Starbucks, to Wal-Mart. Just about every music store has it. I would recomend getting it from Wal-Mart or Target. It's usually cheaper there. Or Best Buy. I'm pretty sure MTV.com allows you to preview the cd. Hope I helped :)

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Im gettign bracestommmorw! im scared ta death, cna anyine tell me whta goes on what do they do does it hurt stuf lie kthat pelase help

Don't worry. I have braces too. It doesn't really hurt that much. Not that I remember. It just tastes kinda bad...because of the glue they use. But they let you brush your teeth after they are about half way done so the taste goes away. And the pain doesnt really occur while getting them on, or they day you get them. It usually hurts for a few days after. Start out by drinking milkshakes, or eating really soft foods, like mashed potatoes (never a bad thing :P) Then gradually start to eat solid foods again so that your mouth will heal quicker. Don't worry to much, just think of how gorgeous your smile will be when its all over :)

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okay well this guy i really like is going out with the prettiest girl in my grade. He isn't a hottie or anything, but I've liked him since 6th grade, and I'm in 8th. The night she asked him out (at a school dance) I was going to work up enough nerve to ask him. I feel like, if I asked before her, he would have said yes; only because we are so close. I was up practically everynight i saw or even talked to him, thinking about him. I started cutting myself i liked him so much. I cut myself only to make myself stop thinking about him. But eventually it just got worse. I want to stop cutting myself, and start taking it like a normal person

This type of thing takes awhile to heal. But what you should do is hang out with some other guys, meet new ones. "There are plenty of fish in the sea." Don't be afraid to find some new boys to like. There are a lot out there that would probably be willing to get to know you. So take advantage of that. This will help you get over the other guy you like. I hope I helped, and good luck.

~*~*~Lauren~*~*~

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my cousin is 11 and she wants to lose weight for my 15 year b-day and her holy cummunion so do you guys have any good diets.

Well, it's hard to lose weight at such a young age because shes supposed to be growing and gaining weight. But something easy for her to do is stop drinking soda. I stopped drinking it for awhile and lost a bunch of weight. She doesnt have to go on a diet, she can also just run for like 20 minutes a day. It's very affective and great for your body. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Lauren~*~*~

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what age do most teens have sex? and how do you know when,where, and how to do it? also how do you know that your partner would like to do it too?

-needs help in texas

Well, I don't know about the "when where and how" but teenagers of all ages have sex. Sex should be based off of true love. If you really care for this person, you realize the consiquences, and you are mentally prepared, then you should be fine. I hope I helped a little.

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i really like my boyfriend a whole lot. i mean hes great. but alot of people think hes immature and i never really noticed it before but now i do. we're both 13 if that helps. now i know girls mature faster then guys but.iono what to do. i need some help.thx in advance :)

Don't worry about it. That's just how 13 year old guys are. It's only natural for them to act like that. If it is really bothering you, then I guess you could bring it up to him and just let him know he's acting like a child. But if I were you I wouldnt worry. He will mature sooner than you think.

Hope I helped :)

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hey i just wanted to kno do u HAVE to floss with braces? i never flossed before and my teeth r fine the dentist said im a good brusher and there's like no plaque in my teeth (lol) plz help! i rate high!

No, you dont have to floss. Just brush well. There are also these things called water picks. I have one and I use it every so often whenever I eat popcorn or something. Its like flossing with water. Crazy cool. Ask your orthodontist about it. Hope I helped.

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how do you style side-swept bangs? like would you straighten them, or what. i don't have them, but i want them. and would it look bad if you didn't style them?

Just straighten them. That's what I do. You don't have to, but it really depends on the way your hair is naturally. Mines wavy, so I have to straighten them. But it takes all of 5 seconds. So it's not a big deal. Hope I helped.

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alright so iv been dating this guy for almost 9 months now and me and him broke up about 15 times and the last time we broke up was bc he lied to me about stuff he did with a girl (back at the pond he kissed her and she touched his dick n all this) and he lied about it he swore on my life that nothing happened and he swore on our relationship. . . and i believed him of course then yesterday his cousin told me the truth . . . and i asked him about and he addmitted it i was like OMG! then we broke up and he said whateverrr!! really mean and i hung up and he didnt even call me back and i didnt believe his cousin i was like no he loves me too much he wouldnt lie. . . but he did lie! and he cried a lot and begged for me back for like 24 hours or so and i reallyyyyy love him with all my heart but during the almost 9 months like in the beginging he was soo nice then he just started lien to me a lot. . . and i found out and asked him about everything and he told me he wasnt hiding anything else and i believed him and that was after we dated for 5 months or so and he was really good after that then he flirted with a girl right in front of me which that hurt so bad!! then he called me a bitch and hit me 4 times but i really love him and this time i took him back bc i love him soo much. . . did i make a bad mistake??

If he really loves you, he wouldn't have done all of those things. Keep that in mind.

But if you REALLY TRULY love him, you need to have a face to face, one on one conversation with him about te last 9 months. Tell him how badly he has hurt you, but how much you love him and you want this to work. Make sure he understands everything you are saying. Make him respect you and your emotions. Otherwise it will all happen again.

If you both love eachother, and really try hard to make it work, then it will. Just have a good, long, genuine talk. Hope I helped! And good luck.

~*~*~Lauren~*~*~

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ok im going to the play moving out tonight at bass hall in dallas texas! im really excited but i've never been to one of these plays before so i have no clue what to wear! is it going to be like really formal or kinda casual? please help!
o ya, im 15/f

I love Bass Hall :D Been there many times...and I saw Movin' Out on Broadway the other day, absolutely amazing!!! You'll love it :)

Anyways...It's sort of dressy casual. If that makes sense. Sunday best basically. Skirts and a nice tops, stuff like that. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Lauren~*~*~

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How do you know if you have a cavity? I've never had cavaties before, so I'm not sure right now. I have this black spot on my back molar (Yes, I brush my teeth lol). It doesn't hurt or ache or anything, but I'm thinking it might be a cavity?

its a hole in your teeth and ruins them, go to the dentist they'll know for sure!
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i'm a busy kid. i'm 13 and go to school and i have a part time job. my uncle owns the store. Well school is out. and even though i'm around people all day i'm lonely. i don't know if it is because i am not around my friends all the time or what. i know that sounds weird, but i love school. i love the teachers and the homework, and going school supply shopping, and clothes shopping. i truely love everything about school. can you give me advice about getting my mind off school. if so please let me know
*~Lucy~*

wow, i never thought id see the day, when the words "i love school" are in succesion, its an oxy moron, but anyways just go call up friend a lot during the summer, and hang out with them a lot during the summer, it'll make you realize hey i dont need school to be with my friends, therefore making you be like everyone else and hate school!
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okay, so i can figure out what this says.

YO AMOR USTED

ive tried to translate it, but it doesnt work. so i was wondering if anyone could find out, and let me know. I RATE HIGH!

"i love you" is the translation, according to my spanish whiz kid friend
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ok, my mom said no i couldnt go to the movies but i really really need to go. I mean, i haven't seen my boyfriend since the 22 of June. I really need to go to the movies to do SOMETHING with him. But my mom wont drive me, so i want somehow to get to the movies and back and then i want to get money to pay. I only need like 5.50. But i need to go at 7:20 (Eastern Time) Tonight! Please help!!!

why cant your boyfriend take you? ask him. and if your going out with your boyfriend, he should pay, i know its late, but this advice could be for "future" refrence
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my internet is going really slow and it wont load some sites, i was wondering what i can do to make it work faster and let it work better ?

well if you have dial up you can get like cable or dsl, but if you have that and it stil is slow, try not to run as many programs at once(like aim, internet, music, and what ever else you may use at once)but if you have a good comp that shouldnt be the problem, if that doesnt work, you may have a virus, if you dont have a virus start deleting stuff from your comp you dont need, if you dont know how to go about doing any of the stuff just leave a question in laurens inbox thingy
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um i just put this under a random category but...im going on a really long road trip in a few days and im gonna need some serious entertainment...any ideas besides anything that involves reading?(i cant read in the car, makes me feel sick and stuff) thanks soo much i rate

well i watch movies in my car, (i have the dvd player thing), i also bring my xbox!!! if either of those arent possible, you can bring headphones and listen to music, you can sleep, bring a deck of cards and play cards with people in car with you, play random games i guess, like ahh the bilboard game? where you go thru the alphabet and find a word that starts with each letter, i dont know it passes time, or just get a book on tape, so you cna listen and not have to read
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What are some things to talk about with friends and stuff. I always have trouble starting conversation over AIM, and I really need help. Thanks

i usually just say what ever is on my mind, or just ask them anything that you dont know, tell storys you never told them, stuff like that, ask about their plans and what not
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today i had pop rocks and soda and now i'm being told that it's bad for you and i'm scared something is gonna happen to me!! what, if anything, is going to happen to me?!

Lol, don't worry at all. It is said that if you eat pop rocks, and drink soda at the same time, then the pop rocks will go insane and pop like crazy, and something bad happens from that. It's not real, so don't worry at all about it :P Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Lauren~*~*~

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I know this is like unrealistic but I needa make around $1,000 in about a month. How can I do it? What should I do? What are some good ideas? Thanks!

its not unrealistic, buy a lotto ticket, but ill be serious, cut grass, do extra chores around the house, get a job or 2, babysit, you just have set your mind on the 1k and do everything in your power to get it, this will be a lot of work, but i wish you the best of luck
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I met this guy and we totally hit off. He's pretty much in love with me, and I strictly just like him. Apparently, he has this girl who is obsessed with him, and he can't stand her. She's always making these depressing blogs about it, and in a way.. i can sense that she's not too fond of me. I don't want to be in the middle of this, and im sick of her friends complaining to me about "stealing him away from her"..especially when he never even liekd her. How am I supposed to deal with these people? I can't help the fact that we like eachother.

dont worry about it, its just jealousy, shes jealous that you can get what she cant, just leave them alone and they should stop bothering you
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