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Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

what should you use to ease the itching/stinging/swelling of a bee sting?

Chap stick seems to work well for me!!!! Good luck with that
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Hey ... im a cutter and i have been every since the middle of 6th grade and i am just starting 7th .. its mostly cuz of boys and some cuzza my home life . it makes me feel good wen i hurt myself and i dont know why :( my mom dont know nd idk wut to do please help just I M me at YellowKissez207

Don't hurt yourself over bois or over family, they are both gonna piss you off and get on your nerves but you need to tell them how much better you are then to hurt yourself. Rise above that.
Lizzy

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Ok, I need makeup tips. I'm 5'8, dirty blonde hair a lil past my shoulders, hazel eyes, fair skin, nd i guess an ovel shaped face. Do u have any color suggestions or makeup tips in general? thanks

Ok, i have very similar features, so i'll tell you wat i do
Lip stick: kind of a coral color, with a hint of orange, but it should look natural
Eye shadow: for light skin, you can have fun with eye shadow, and dirty blonde hair, a light pink if you are outgoing but a blue-grey if you are shy
Concealor: if you don't have flaws, don't use it, otherwise, get a concealor that is just a tad darker then your skin, but not much darker. Trublend works really well.
Hair: if you have thin hair, then you can do things like crimping, but if your like me and have thick hair, you scrunch or straighten, don't spiral, that'll make you look like a marylyn monroe wannabe (JK)
From the mental picture i get of you, i think your color could definately be green, and few people can get away with that, so take advantage!!!
Lizzy

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what are usually the first signs of pregnancy??

The first sign is that your period does not come. If that happens and your period does not come for two months, you should get a pregnancy testing kit. Good Luck
Lizzy

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What do you get guys for gifts????

Depends on the guy. I think something like a nice chain cross necklace or something, or maybe a cd. Hope i helped a little
Lizzy

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ok i just got my hair layered! looks better, now my hair is highlighted but fomr last jan. and i dont hav the money for more its 70 bucks for more!! to much! lol ne1 hav ne tips for makin my hair look better? cuz its dark brown at the top then light brown with blonde highlights... i need help asap!!

If your hair is dark brown, you should get caramel highlights, or red. You can get some hair dye at a grocery store for like $10 and have a friends give you natural looking highlights all over with it. Hope i helped a little
Lizzy

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if someone asked u if u evr had an orgasm , and u hav . wuld it b weird to say yes? wuld they like make fun of u or sumthing.

Well, usually everyone does have orgasms but if you are in 6th grade or lower, i would stay clear of saying stuff like that, but once you are in seventh grade, people are mature enough to get it.
Lizzy

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I think I might be bipolar. How can I tell? And can I get tested w/o my parents knowing bout it?

a lot of signals are things like, going from happy to raging, and finding an akward way of hurting yourself, and taking anger out on uninvolved people. There is a site on the internet, medicine.com/bipolar, check it out
Lizzy

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this year for clothes i'm really on a budget. where are places i can get cheap, but cute clothes?? not old navy, i'm sick of it. also, where are cheap places to get tight jeans??

This is going to sound totally cliche, but value city has a lot of really cute clothes if you look in there for a while. Also, there is this one store call body central, which always has like 2 for 1 sales which is always good when you need more then one thing, don't go to name brand stores, things like dillards always has really cheap but cute stuff, and dillards also has tight jeans for about $11 which isn't a bad price. Hope i helped a little
Lizzy

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Hey...I'm just starting the 9th grade..and it sux! Last year I had SO many friends and people I knew in my classes and alot of people knew me...but they split the middle schools into 2 different highschools..and this year there is like NO ONE I know in my classes and at lunch! I can be a really friendly person but I'm really shy and just can't seem to make any new friends? Please Help..

That does really suck, but there is somewhat of a good side to it. In junior high to high skewl, you usually lose a lot of friends, and this way, you are just starting over. Instead of losing your friends, you just have to work harder to get in contact with them and there is less of a chance you will get into a fight with them. Another thing is, no one knows you at your new skewl. You can be anyone you want to be, any mistakes you made in the past are all erased. I'm sorry that you lost a lot of your friends, but try to see the good side of going to a new skewl, and you'll have a lot more fun. Good Luck
Lizzy

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I need a new screenname... but i dont want anything to bouncy... alot of itmes my screen names are kinda depressing... my screenname right now is x2lostwithoutyou my name is Kati and im 13...

Do you want another depressing one, or what? I think that these would work
K2thaT (k to the t)
QTKT13
XO4evayoungOX
if you need ne more, tell me the specific style you want and i'll think of more.
Hope i helped
Lizzy

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is it possable to get pregnant before you get your first period?

Yes, if you have sex the day before you get your first period, but other then that, it isn't really possible
Lizzy

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what kind of car should i get? im a girl, and i want a convertible. any sugggestions? thanks

If you want a new convertable and a nice one, get a BMW convertable, they are absolutely adorable, if you want a cutsy car, get a bettle volkwagon, but if you are like me, and like old fashoned cute ones, either a '57 camero or a 68 Volkswagon, hope i helped a little
Lizzy

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Hey, I've been using tampons for a little while now and it's kind of weird! Are you supposed to feel a little uncomfortable wearing them if there still new to you? Do you think they feel that way because it's not up far enough or something? I know I put it in right, but I still feel a little discomfort when there in! What's wrong?

You might want to start with pads. Tampons can give you infections and stuff, but if you don't have an infection, you might have the wrong size, if it doesn't feel like it's in far enough, get a size bigger. It might just feel weird because it's new to you though
Lizzy

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If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex?

Personally, i don't believe in premarital sex, but you want to make sure that you found the right guy, in that case age would just be another number
Lizzy

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im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do?

Well, don't worry about doing this stuff within a certain time period, once you find the right guy, then you should think about that sort of thing, but no one is rushing you and you shouldn't be rushing yourself, because that's the sort of thing you'll regret later if you make a mistake, and not necessarily meaning a baby, but you might just know you did it with the wrong guy, make sure you really like the guy though, hope i helped and hope you find the guy of your dreams
Lizzy

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this is sort of emberassing so i'm gonna get straight to the point..i live with 12 people..no alone time w/ myself..HOW DO I MASTURBATE......i can never have any time to myself...and i mean...myself...lol...well thank you if you can help

I think you should talk to the people that live with you, tell them that you need privacy, maybe even your own room. Use examples and stuff to prove that you are responsible young adult who needs time to themselves. If that doesn't work, the bathroom will have some open time. Hope i helped
Lizzy

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My boyfriend and I have done almost everything there is to do...What else can I do to him or what else can we try to keep ourselves "occupied" haha! I love trying new things! Help Me!!

Get the book entitled "1001 ways to be romantic" it's got things very unique in it and everything, things most couples never heard of, there are also a lot of green M&Ms, lol
Lizzy

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my best friend went to a aprty and got hammered and was brought home in a cop car the next day she lied to liek everyone about what really happened and then we all found out.. ever since then we really havent been as close as before and shes always with the girl that seh went to the party with now as if that girl like took my spot.. there alwasy together like every day of the week and you cant get them apart what do i do? help me please


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I think she might be uncomfortable around you, when someone lies and other people find out, they begin to panic and not know how to make up for it, so will just leave you. If she is truly your best friend, talk to her, tell her that you don't care that she got hammered and all, and that you really still want to be her best friend, i hope everything works out for the best. Talk to her!!!
Lizzy

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i've never had a boyfriend, but everytime someone likes me and i feel like they are leading towards asking me out or anything i get really nervous and uncomfortable and i just wish i was out of the situation...i'm hoping it's just because i haven't really liked any of them, but is this normal??

Well, it probably means you are still not over something. Sometimes it's a boyfriend, sometimes it's watching relationships go down the drain, but you need to get over whatever it is that's scaring you. Try to think back, do your parents fight a lot, have one of your friends gotten hurt, have you gotten hurt? Think about this and tell someone, get it off your chest. If you have nemore q's, you can IM or email me the continuous question, it's on my page. Good Luck
Lizzy

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