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your so hotttttt hotttt hottttttttt (link)
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heya! anyone know how to get melted mashmellow out of chashmere clothing???? x x x x (link)
you can only get cashmere stuff cleaned at the dry cleaners.. its only 4 dollars usally..


ok so today my freind showed up i school with this gorgeous sweater on... however it was sooooo tight on her... it looked bad on her and she looked liek a slu*. (sry) and so like she wears a cami under it(it was a v-neck) but the v nexk litterally comes around her breasts. and it makes her boobs look huge. she gets medium adn not to be rude but she's fat and I get smalls and im pretty skinny. she always dresses like this and i hear people talking about it. how can i tell her she is dressing inapropriately? she's my BF and i want her to be known as lovely. (link)
yeah my Best friend has the same problem.. like she walks around with her fat hangin over her pants and ppl always come to me..

yeah. you should just tell her in a nice way.. like dont say your fat.. say your not that small and your booobs are too big to fit in that.. cuase grls dnt get mad about sayin your boobs are big or stuff..

try going shoppin with her and just say the medium looks a bit small try gettin a large.. that always works.. and then have her try it on.. if her stomach is hangin out say it doesnt cover your stomach.. cause sometimes you dont relize it.. so yeah

i hope i helped

linds


I have a friend, and whenever I go online, she almost always Instant Messages me. I was cool with it for a while, but no it's just irritating. I've put an away message up, but I always eventually come back. What can I do (It has to be nice)? (link)
haha i had one of those.. but since im not that nice i jsut said,, um hey your gettin really annoying stop IMING me all the time.. and she stoped haha

i dun no anything else you could say but the truth..

hope i helped =]


I'm 19/m

I've never masterbated before, and honestly I've never had an urge to.. Am I abnormal? (link)
yeah.. thats really weird.. sry man


Is gatorade healthier/better than water? (link)
gatorade actually has suger which is not good for you.. stay with water.. it flushes everything bad out of your body and its good for you


im looking to loos 10-15 pounds by mid-february. is that possible? if so, can i please have some good plans that include at least 2 options per meal? thank you (link)
dont diet.. exercise..

im actually lookin to do the same..but im not fat or anything im tryin to lose 5 pounds..

do tae-bow.. it works AMAZINGGGGGG trustt me.. its an hour every-other day.. its so much fun.. haha yeah

get signed up for kick boxing.. its cheap and it works.. do it 4 times a week..

dont forget to eat healthy!.. eat breakfast.. no mcdonalds.. have cereal.. for lunch eat salad.. and eat a noraml dinner.. dnt eat after 7 bc at 7. your going to be exercising lol..

hope i helped

linds


hey im a really horny girl.i think about sex a lot. im not a virgin. but my bf is and he thinks i am. what should i do.i dont want him to know. but we agreed to communicate. i want to be sexual with him but i dont know if he is ready. and i dont know what to do to tell him both things. im not a virgin adn that i watn to have sex. not becuz im horny cuz i no i love him. i didnt loose my viginity to willingness either. just to help. and i dont know if i want to tell him that. we have been dating a while. i was 13 when i raped then again wheni was 15. me and him have dated since i was 13 and i never told him. we r now 16. what should i do
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wow.. sounds so much like me =[ i was just raped july 1st.. over the summer.. it was soo horrible.. im surprised you want to have sex.. you should be careful with guys since it happened 2wice.. you should tell your boyfriend..but yeah i lost my virginity to gettin raped to.. it happend to me when i was 13.. and 14 and both times i was high on weed.. and then i got a date rape drug.. i ahvent had a boyfriend since.. cause both times.. i didnt no the guy and its so scary.. and luckly i dont have anything..t hank god.. but really.. you should be careful.. you should talk about what happened with you to a counsuler.. cause with me.. i sometimes cry out of nowhere.. and im scared about seeing guys.. and honeslty.. i usd to be a big slut cause i used to like attention from guys.. which is stupid..

ok.. so back to your question cause i got off topic.. i think you should tell your boyfriend that you got raped.. but you want to have sex with him.. mayvbe he wants to have sex with you too but hes too shy.. communication is everything..

hope i helped =]

linds


hi. umm i am 13f and i havent started my period yet.. which is fine. but umm i am completely am totally flat. im not one of those girls with small boobs who just says shes flat. i really am quite literally FLAT. and i hate it. all of my friends (again, not exagerating) have boobs. how come i dont? will they ever come? because i do see adults sometimes that are flat. i really dont want to be like that. i have never had a boyfriend. my friends have. guys like girls with boobs. and dont say its not true. sorry huns, but uuh it is. guys used to like me in 5th grade and below because i am pretty, and then, nobody had boobs. but now that they do, im just a "little girl" compared to all of my friends. i really hate being flat. i dont know what i can do. obviously i cant magically make them appear.. but aah i hate it. i dont want to wear a padded bra because if someone bumps into me it will be obvious. what is a water bra? and wtf do i do????????
i rate 5. just pleease give me some good advice. (link)
you should get the natural bra.. size A.. you can get them at mandees or look online if its really bothering you... i never really had a problem cause i got my period wen i was 10 .. and also maybe your family jsut doesnt have boobs.. look at your mom.. but yeah get the natural bra.. and then wear your normal bra over it .. it feels real and everything..

and actually NORMAL guys dont like girls for there booobs.. thats just shallow and dumb.. guys should like you for your personality .. guys who like you for your body and your face just want to fuck you cause.. it happened to me.. so be careful.. and guys arent that great.. truthfully most of them suck haha..

hope i helped

linds


hi,I'm a 15 girl and yesterday i had sex with my boyfriend,well sort of he whent in a little then pulled out then he cumed on my pubic hair could i get pregnate?even if my cherry hasnt been poped?please withe A.S.A.P! i rate very usefull! (link)
cherrys dont pop.. actually there is no cherry.. the only reason why grls bleed is because there vaginas are gettin stretched out.. and you should shave off pubic hair cause you just should haha.. and you cant get pregnet..and your also on birth control.. so you deff. cant.. make him use a condom..

hope i helped


I recently had sex with my boyfriend, and I thought my cherry popped but it could have just been my period. it lasted for like more than 4 days..but its bothering me because i thought my cherry poppped... and i wanna know ...
ay!
THIS IS ANNOYING ME. lol can anyone help? (link)
actually.. there is no such thing as a cherry.. cause my gyno. doctor told me haha.. its actually just a flap of skin.. but it doesnt pop nothing pops.. the only reason why a girl would bleed.. would be because its stretchin out.. but somegirls dont bleed because its already stretched out from either gettin fingurerd.. or idk whatever some girls do haha.. so yeah maybe you dont have to worry abuot it anymore.. cause there is nothing that pops lol..


Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it? (link)
nah.. porn is good for you if your not doing anything..

even if your parents told you to stop.. dont cause thats weird if you dont..

haha k

linds


when you wear an OB tampon...should you wear a pad too? can you feel if you leak when you have a tampon in? (link)
OB? use Pearl tampons.. there expensive but they dnt really leak.. get the ones with all the different flows.. it has 3 different kinds.. a little one for a light cycle.. a normal one. and a super one...

i perfer tampons over pads.. you cant even feel tampons if you put them in right.. sometimes tho.. if you have a heavy flow.. and you cough or laugh.. it could leak out if you dont have the right tampon in..

hope i helped =]

linds


Ok.....
Whats a gynocologist app. all about??
Im not a virgin.. but last time I went to the doctors, I was. Well... We all know how the doctors ask u if youve ever had sex before and whatnot..and I really don't feel like telling my doctor that Ive have had sex, but i have a feeling that they ask that question to make sure that you stay healthy. My boyfriend and I lost our virginites to eachother though, so I know that he didnt contract any diseases or anything from anyone else. We use a condom everytime, and I think I would know (from symtoms) if I had a serious disease or STD from having sex. I was wondering though, would it be terribly bad, if I lied to my doctor about having sex? Also, I DO NOT want her to tell my mom. CAN she do that? ??? .. Just wondering..

This same question goes for weed. 90% of people have tried weed. I, myself, have done it probably about two times. Doctors ask you if youve ever tried it..and I want to lie... Could they possibly know I have before? By like my pee sample or something? would it be such a crime to lie about this?? (link)
haha.. i smoke weed everyday! my doctors all no by blood tests stuff. and no they cant tell your mom.. there not police men there doctors.. you should feel comfortable around your gyno. doctor.. and yeah you shoudl tell the truth cause they stick this thing i forgot what its called up your thing.. and they will no.. they will prob. take a pee test to see if you have anything.. but wen they look in your vagina.. and if they see something weird.. they will prob take blood tests and then your mom might have to no.. so dont lie..


One of my best friends that I've known all of my life asked me a really weird question the other day. He asked me if I would give him head and I thought he was kidding so I started to laugh. And then he said "I'm serious." So I kind of looked at him with a blank stare. And I told him I don't know and he was like begging me to and I said I'd think about it. I just think it's kind of weird that he would ask ME to do that. What should I do? I know he doesn't like me as a girlfriend so I don't know why he asked me.

Another question I have is does oral and anal sex count as your "first time"? Or is it just regular? Because if it does count then I don't really want to because I'd like to lose my virginity to someone mor special.

Please help!!!! (link)
i dont think you should do it with your best friend.. cause then it will feel rreally weird and it wont be as fun..nd then you guys prob. wont talk anymore.. and really.. penis' are grose looking.. it doesnt matter whose it is.. haha

losin your virginity is only when a guy STICKS his penis in your vagina..

i think you should tell your best friend to have a girlfriend do it.. not a best friend..

hope i helped =]


Ok, both me and my boyfriend prefer..having it shaved "down there". The only thing whe I try to shave i still have littel studs that don't totally go away. I want it to be completley smooth there. Can I use nair down then? Or what can I use beside waxing it..thnx (link)
pshh.. i use nair.. it works great.. it doesnt burn just dnt put it in your thing cause that will burn sooo bad.. leave it on for 7 minutes.. and then jump in the shower and shave it off.. with the nair on it .. trust me it works sooo gooddd.. yeah but you should always shave it there.. it feels so much better and it looks cleaner..
hope this helped =]

linds


Ok here we go. Ok im 16 and ive made a commitment to myself that i would never have sex until i am married. Im not saying now but in the future..can i still do stuff that wouldnt be considered having sex. and is that all guys want...i mean i had a bf for 2 and 1/2 weeks (not long) and he told his friends that he was going to have sex soon. I dont know y he thought that b/c i was uncomfortable even kissing him..(he was 2 yrs older) and im just worried that in the future ill find this amazing guy and all he'll want is sex and i wont give it to him (unless we get married) is that so hard for guys to handle...will he end up cheating on me and have sex w/ someone who will give it to him? so is there pleasureable stuff that we can still do ...thats not sex? (link)
i no im younger then you... but a lot of stuff has happened to me with guys.. over the summer.. i got raped.. bc i was stupid.. i hung out with the wrong ppl.. and i got a date rape drug in my drink and it was the most horrible-ist thing in the worldd.. but if your bf is sayin that.. he prob. just wants to have sex with you and then go to another girl.. if you wait at least 7 mnts.. but dnt tell him that cause then like he'll do what ever he can to fuck u, but just say nah.. im good i dnt wanna do that im waitin till im married.. and then he'll prob say *i love you* and like yeah its hard to say no but dnt do it.. i think you should break up with him cause guys are assholes! haha..

but if you really do like him then you should do other stuff besides sex..

hope it helped

linds


okay.. i've never done anything like this before so i need help. me and my bf are planning on taking it to another step. I've never been fingered or w/e so i was wondering.. does it hurt? thanks for listening.. kind of gay question but yea. (link)
haha it feells soooooooooo good.. it doesnt hurt at allll.. =]

linds


I was wondering

if you want to have a baby, like when ur old like 25 and stuff, do you not wear a condom?

i was always wondering

and does sex hurt for the first time??

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yeah it hurts the first time.. but it depends if the guys dick is big cause if hes like little.. then it doesnt haha.. you should wait till your married.. cause now theres so many desieses (i cnt spell ) and its not worth it.. or just do it with a long time boyfriend..

and also.. wen you love the person it doesnst really hurt as much..

hope this helps ..

linds


what color goes best with pink?
what color goes best with blue?
what color goes best with gray? (link)
if its a pink shirt.. then wear light jeans.. or white pants..

pink pants.. wear white shirt

blue shirt.. it depends what color blue.. but blue matches with a medium wash jean..

gray.. i have these pants from abercrombie.. and there white.. with like gray writing.. and i put a collered white shirt on.. and then over it i put a gray shirt.. and it looked really cute.. yeah. . you should do that haha

linds




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