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how to make friends in highschool?
cause im very very nervous (link)
dont be nervous. i was also very nervous coming into freshman year. i mean just be friendly and talk to people nicely. maybe join a sports teams or clubs (activiites including people) hope i helpedxoxo


i am 13 and i really like this guy anthony
1.what are some was i can make him want me??
Like today at school i wore a shirt that showed off my chest. You can see my bra and the sides of my boobs. Well today in class since my friend sits next ot anthony i leaned over on her desk so he can see my chest and he was looking!!! for now on i am wearing more revealing shirts!!
2.i mean i just want him to ask me out so i can hug him and kiss him and hold his hand. I want to do this as soon as possible,especially the kissing and the hand holding. But i never kissed a guy before. but i want this kiss to not just be a peck on the lips i want it to last over 1 minute and i want it to be as described:
first we are walking at school all alone with no one around hand in hand. We walk very slowly. We go behind the handball courts, we stare into each others eyes do a half smile. And then ill say o its cold outside and hell give me his sweater and get closer and grabs me and we kiss. It will be lasting over 1 minute with openmouths and if he wants to put his tongue in my mouth i will slowly let him and make my tongue touch his. And while we are doing this ill will have my hands on his hips constantly moving and his hands will either be on my waist or starting at the waist and moving up slightly touching my breasts. By then my shirt would be half way open. And after we are finally do we slowly break of lips apart and ill say i love you and give him a quick kiss on the lips.it will be the best time of my life so far i am only 13 but that is how i would like my first kiss to be and i would like it to be with anthony or with alex but i really wish it was with anthony, well does that sound like a good first kiss.
love always anthony b.
Julie (link)
well its good you have the confidence to show off your boobs but dont do it every day, i mean once in a while but you want him to like him for you. wear sexy clothes though, clothes that will compliment your curves. if hes in your class just kind of walk by him but rub against him a little and smile. look at him alot during class and give off a sexy smile. if you wear the low cut shirt, lean so he notices it and chances are he`ll make a move. if he continues to show he lieks u but doesnt do antyhing, take charge ask him his plans for the weekend

goodluck


well there's this guy and i really like him, i have since november. the problem is, is that he has a girlfriend. they have been together since october. and my friend just moved back to my school ( i used to be friends with her at my old school and now shes back) and she knows that i like him, and she flirts with him and i think she likes him and hes a flirty guy and he does with a lot of girls including me, but i dont like it when she tells me that he flirts with her and stuff.. and if she were my friend and knew i liked him why would she say that? and .. i really like him and for the guys out there.. what are some ways to distract him from his girlfriend.. get his attention..bc im sick of waiting for them to break up, bc it doesnt look like its going to happen anytime soon even though my other friends say they will because they have been together for so long. please help.. i rate high (link)
ive delt with that. shes not a friend if first of all, she flirts with him and secondly, she tells you! she obviously flirts back and seems a little bit cocky.. i think if you want to distract him definetly dresscute, thats a must and flirt.. i mean its a given but you have to. ask him is plans for the weekend or talk about hoe excited you are for summer or spring break and give him your number to keep in touch during summer or to hangout during break. smile at him alot and occasionaly ask him about how his gf and kind of laugh or smile when saying it. give off sexy vibes as well


i was invited to the jr prom by my friend jeremy and hes usually with very cute, fit girls. not that i really care because he obviously asked me for a reason. he must not care that im not really tiny but im 16 and im a little chubby, and i think its just cuz im kinda short and my legs are so short. but can i lose at least 15 lbs by then? i really want to tighten up my arms&"love handles" especially. i have been doing crunches on my ab lounge the last 2 nights so if i do sets of 30 throughout the day will that help? i might go to the gym but i have no one to go with, so i dont know if that will definetly happen. so does jogging in place really work? i may also just take walks during the day, like walk to the tanning salon and back home. im very sad that ive gained over like 20 pounds since school started, and im not even kidding, it SUCKS!=(

*i was thinking maybe because i usually dont eat breakfast on school days i can have water.
*workout when i can in gym at school,then have an orange and a fruitdrink/ water at lunch
*after school workout when im home&try and take walks.. but i dont know what i should eat? maybe yogurt
*dinner maybe a sandwich and water&definetly work out alot (link)
you can definetly lose the weight, just stick with working out


hi im julie and im 13. Well you see there is this guy his name is anthony. I think he is just so hott!!!I just really want to go up to him and kiss him!!!But the thing is i want to know if he likes me. He is showing the signs like everytime i pass by him he smiles and immediately talks to his friend while still staring at me. Also a couple of times i seen him staring at my ass!!! Another sign is that everytime i talk to one of his friend he goes talk to them immdiately after, it is so weird.Also everyday in class he is always staring at me and when i stare at him he smiles and looks away. What is a way that i can show him that i like him? How can i flirt with him???help please!!!!
julie
p.s. I LOVE ANTHONY!!! (link)
whats his deal haha.. well make sure he knows you aknowledge him too! make sure he sees you looking at him and smile, dont be shy. dress cute and always just flirt with him. you ar eobviously doin sumthin right if he stares at you and ur ass! so just talk to him& see what his plans are for the weekend


Hey well im 13/f and i really really like this guy. His name is matt but I honestly dont think he knows I exsist besides when he glances at me in the hallway. I want to know how to get him to notice me but hes pretty popular and hes friends with a lot of popular girls. But dont get me wrong hes not shallow hes a great person. How can I compare to the other girls. I'm not bad looking, not trying to be conceted but its not like ive never been told I'm pretty. I try so hard to get him to notice be but I'm terribly shy when it comes to guys I like. I know most of you will say try and talk to him but i cant im just one of those people who doesnt approach people. It just doesnt happen with me. Is there any other way to maybe get him to notice me?

thanks =) (link)
hi!! ive been in that situation plenty of time. dont dress slutty! ha im not saying you do but its a turn off most of the time. just wear some clothes that kind of compliment your curves&your body!.. dress up&wear like nice clothes with heals or sumthin and pretty makeup that will make you a little tan. when you see him make sure your with people and make him notice you by liek smiling or laughin, basically having a goodtime and enjoyving yourself
and most of all act confident! and when he glances just smile
goodluck


ok...so i like this guy.... i've liked him for awhile...so i told him once. here's what happend: he was idle (i know thats chicken) and i told him, he came back from idle(on aim) and a few minutes passed and he signed off. i was crushed! i waited and waited for him to talk about it but..nothing. so i acted normal..i didnt know what else to do. he looks at me alot but avoids me in the halls..no eye contact there. but on my way home he looks STRAIGHT AT MY CAR!! ugg i dont know what to do...i can't stop thinking about him, he goes to my school...please help!!!!

i'll rate thanks.
-cab (link)
honest opinion it doesnt seem he is really into you. he might be who knows. i was in a similar situation but he led me on more. well honestly i think u should IM me online again just have a conversation ,and dont say anything about you liking him. just be friendly. if he acts weird then hes uncomfortable and basically just nervous. give it a couple days and def. do not act obsessive( i doubt you are) but guys hate it and think it is creepy, so just avoid him for now
goodluck


therez this boy chris and ive had a crush on him since sptember , hes a junior and im a freshman.. hes in my study and he is so nice, he sits at the table with me and so does his friend aaron and this sophmore sophia. shes really pretty but people say shes a slut and they always makes comments to her like,hey soph you dropped your pen!.. and he always tells me" why dont you come party with me" but i always say i dont knoww and he never gives me his number or anything.. he slaps my ass sometimez and shit but im not sure.. im hangi out with sophia tonight maybe i should talk to her bout it.. (link)
definetly tell her you have soem feelinsg for him ( im sorry im late answering) maybe she`ll know and could help u with it


me and this boy that i know, we'll call him tim.. well we have been hookin up since march and last night i had sex with him, he wasnt a virgin before but i was and hes always talkin about other girls but he asked me out today, what do i do? should i see if he only likes me or wuttt? (link)
i think he lieks you, go for it! its okay if he wasnt a virgin atleast he asked u out after u had sex and didnt ditch u! goodluck


I am a dancer and i have developed so much muscle. My arms and shoulders are very muscular and every time people see me without a shirt on they go "are you a swimmer?" My thighs are also pretty muscular. Do guys mind this? (link)
i dont really think so unless their intimidated haha doubtful though.. unless your like really beefy then they probably dont mind, its good you actually do soemthing with your body



so me and cody have been dating for like 20 days. and me and him are as close to perfect (probably not the best word to get my point across) as a couple can get, until it comes to hangin out. like at school hell talk to me and well hold hands and he doesnt care what his friends think. but we had vacation and we made plans 3 times to hang out, HE made them, HE broke them ..

friday he said to call when i woke up, so i did and his mom said shed have him call me. well 6 hours later .. he hadn't called .. so i called and she hung up on me .. cody NEVER called to apolgize or say he couldn't. now hes in maine till vacations over. and his fones off ..


i left him a voicemail sayin it kind of hurt my feelings (he ignored my call, like it rang and he pressed ignore, so i know he had his fone, so i know he got he voicemail) and to call me. its 2 days later and he hasn't called. but he'll call me sunday before school and apologize and have an excuse .. he always does .. and i always believe him ..

everyone says dump him .. but i cant. i love him .. i just dont know what to do without messing it up and gettin him pissed off .. HELP?! (link)
well first off how old are you? this seems like sumthing i went through in liek 7th 8th grade....wellhear is excuse first but honestly i think you should let him go, if he didnt want to hang once tahts dumb. but if he says he wanted to he should of tried to!


AHHHH!!! HELP Okay well, theres this guy... we'll call him jimmy and first we were friends and then we wnet out, the first day he was GREAT.We held hands and hugged it was the best day ever, then for the next two weeks he compltely dissed me, now we are really good friends, and my best friend thinks i still like him, i keep telling her now but then she said "why don't you like him?" and the truth is. . i cant think of any reasons why i don't expect that he's a little bit dramatic at times and thats all. My heads telling me no no no but my heart is telling me yes yes yes. I know he doesn't like me but it justs breaks my heart when i see him fliritng with anotehr girl. When me and him are haning out it's all good, but then when a nother girl comes into the pictures he totaly ditvhes me as my friend tells me i don't notice it but she syas she sees the pain in my eyes. I don't want to like him anymore. I got over him once but that's because i dint see him flirting and he started to again, so now i dont know waht to do anymore, i DONT want him back he's going to break my heart. I don't want to like him, i can't stop thinking about him, it's dirivng me NUTS< HELP AHHHHHHHHHHH!!! (link)
your basically crazy about him huh? thats okay whatever thats just how some girls get with boys.
im guessing your in jr high, middle school? thats how all boys act then, they just dont know what to do or how to have a relationship, they arent matured yet basically. if you really do like him as much as you saytell him.. just do it it cant hurt.. if he has feeling too then just be like well dont hurt me and tell him how much you think and care for him and especially wish he wouldnt hurt you like that. if he doesnt like you then just say well good because i think we could have really good conversations about stuff and be really good friends ( and trust me in middle school good friends alwaysss turn into bf gf) haha goodluck


ok, im almost in love with this guy. not obsessed, but getting close.
he's gorgeous && incredibly sweet.
but there are problems;;
1)i cannot talk to him
2)he likes someone else
3)he's a druggie
now, i know what you're going to say about him doing drugs.. but hey! sometimes, a bad boy is good for a girl..you know??lmao
so what can i do??
should i just sit around && hope he gets over this other girl??
or should i talk to him??..conversation starters???

will rate high ;D
♥ thank yooou
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Im just gunna be honest. whatever he does drugs i dont care, that cant change for the feelings you have for him , its just his ways.
you have to talk to him, just straight up do it. when you see him just smile and stuff. do u talk to him at all? if you do just seirously bring up the popular "music" pickup line what music he likes.. if he likes snowboardin tell him youve always wnated to try. and you are going to have to give him a hint your into him because honestly some guys are dumb and dont get hints. so suggest seeing a movie or goin to a party together. if hes still with this girl still talk to him and brign the flirtyness up a few notches


hey, i was wondering if there was anywhere you could get that bare mineral makeup, or something like it for relatively cheap. i went to sephora.com and it was wiked expensive.
thanks (link)
sephora, if theres one at your mall or the website.. its absolutly awsome i have it and love it


i CANT STAND my older sister. Shes a junior in highschool, im a freshman. she is always making fun of me for no reason at all, and always telling me what to do. So, im always mean back to her. I dont wanna be mean to her, but i cant control myself, she thinks shes so smart. She gets straight A's, drives her own car, has lots of friends, .. so she thinks shes wicked cool. I cant stand it, i really cant. Like, sometimes i just go completely insane. I have a bad temper, as im typing this now im just shaking, i feel like im gunna explode. WHAT SHOULD I DO (link)
0Hey well im not gunna be like everyone else and say kiss her ass and be nice to her because trust me i am in the same relationship with my siser, we despise eachother. i just try and ignore her, if u know your gunna fight then just dont talk to her and when u have to dont be sarcastic and stuff just give simple answerss or whatever


Ok yesterday at lunch he decided to come and bother me and my friends (with his 2 friends) and EVERYBODY was like can you leave bcuz they HATE him and SO they wouldnt.... SO we all moved to a diff. table so when i got home i was iming him asking him why he was so immature and shit and he was calling me a bitch and never to talk to him again and that hed die if i ever got a BF (loser)... SO he blocked me and today at lunch i walked by his table coming from the snackbar and he and those two friends screamed "slut" as i walked by and they were all laughing and shit... WHAT DO i do hes my frigin cousin and he totally embarassed me in front of this BOY I LIKE and everything... (link)
He`d die if you ever go a boyfriend? and hes your cousin. kind of weird haha.. tell him hes immature and everyone was making fun of him and play that same game girl


okay so my boyfriend goes to a different school than i do and hes a grade older than me .. but im going to his homecoming but idunno whut to wear .. obviously ik a dress but i dont wanna be liek too dressed up but not dressed up enough. because if hes wearing liek a tux and im just wearing a skirt or im wearing liek this gown and him to wear liek normal clothes. idunno iwould feel gayy. =) thnxz i rate high (link)
same problem with me last year! ask him if its casual or formal! ask him to see what the girls at his school are wearing hope i helpedd xo


i am a 14/f and i am the oldest from my sisters. well my parents are Over protective like the other day i went outside to take a walk with my sister and my mom made my dad come after uis. but anyways i have a boyfriend (Which i am not supposed to have) he is 15 and i like him a lot. but i need to get a way so that i can get out of the house and spend sometime with him with my parents bein able to trust me.. they always think i am up to something bad and they think my boyfriend is only a friend of mine. he lives about a 15 minute drive away from me and i want meet up with him how can? and if i get my friend to go to the mall i dont want her to be left behind because he will be with me and if he brings a friend my friend wont like him because she only likes italians... so yea i really some help. please. (link)
hello


Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small (link)
fighting is healthy for a relationship, its not bad. but when you fight, talk about it.. try and leave all of the yelling and screaming out and also dont inslut, just talk about the problem thurrowly.. hope i helped


what can you do that makes a guy like you or want to go out with you ?? (link)
be a good friend at first and act interested towards him and his life, basically just listen and try and hangout with him




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