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ok, im a 17 yr old female, and i have been "seeing" this guy. not really dating, because he doesnt think he's "boyfriend material" i dont understand this, but i know he cares about me the same way i care about him.

i wrote him a 3 page long letter telling him how i felt. he told me he liked it and he reads it often.

we hang out alot (many times for 10 or more hours or untill like 1 am!) and every time, we hold hands and cuddle and hold each other close the whole time, even around our parents. my family loves him and his family thinks i am just the sweetest thing to walk the planet.

but...alwayz a but...he and i have dated before. and he ask me out both times. so now i think it is my turn to ask him out, to show him how much i care. but, i dont want to scare him off.

so i ask you guyz, does a girl askign a guy out kind of freak him out, or do they like it? and i also would like to know if anyone has any ideas what he meant by "i dont think i'm boyfriend material". please help me out!

what he probably meant by saying "i don't think i'm boyfriend material" is that he doesn't want to be in a relationship or he seriously thinks he's not boyfriend material evn though it sounds to me like he is. go ahead and try to ask him out. u told him how you felt and he liked it. a lot of guys like it when the girls ask them out. so go ahead and ask him out.

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hey i had already told my friend that i like him and he had liked me but he lost interest in me becuase i am insecure and he said theres a 50 50 chance of him liking me in the future i really like him and i want him to really like me agian and i was wondering what i can do for him to like me again i have been secure lately and i feel theres some other reason why he dont like me but he aint telling me it

maybe he doesn't like you because your best friend is his ex-girlfriend. and he doesn't want to be around her while he's with you.

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Okay, I have only had my period twice now, well 2 weeks of it. I don`t think that made since, but ok. I`m only use pad because i`m scared to use a tampon. Do they hurt? How does it feel when you stick it in. lol sorry that sounded sooo wrong. =/

tampons don't hurt once you get used to them. when you fist start out they kinda hurt and you'll want to not do but believe they are so much better than pads! like the commercials say they are comfortable! good luck!

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have u had ur period yet?

yea for like four years

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hey i like my 2nd best friend hes also my best friends ex b/f should i like him or should i froget about him she says its ok but is she really ok with it

well if she said it was alright then i guess it's ok for you to go out with him.

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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

listen honey it don't matter what other people say. i went out with a "nerd" and some people didn't even realize it!! i hung out with him and all that stuff and they didn't even know about it. i had to tell them! beleive me people won't laugh, when people found out about me they didn't laugh, so they won't laugh at you. if they do then they are jerks!

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What can i do to be more popular in school...i have soo many friends but i just wanna b a lil more poplular....and guys give ur true and honest answer dont give me a "full house" answer please.....help me out!

popularity isn't always everything. if you mean being in the "cool" crowd i can really help cuz i'm part of the "cool" crowd. but if u don't then go to the second paragrapgh. ok if you want them to notice you then be nice to them and talk to them but don't try to when they are in groups cuz if someone there doesn't like you then your kinda gonna get some attitude from them. approach them when they each are alone.

if you want to be more popular the other way then be nice and friendly to a whole bunch of people. try not to be mean to people even if they agrivate you cuz then they will spread rumors probably.

hope i helped!!

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You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways.

if you think your gonna throw up go to the bathroom and do it. after you do then chew some gum so no one knows you threw up. you can also try to read a book, listen to music, and other stuff to keep your mind off of it.

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Im 16 and My 16 year old Best friend is in love with my 16 year old ex boyfriend im pass the stage of you cant get with your best friends ex boyfriend, my problim is she really likes him she is like obsessed but he dont like her well he thought he might of but now he says he dont cuz she is inscure but they both ask me what they should do like he says should i just go out with her even thought i dont like her and she asks what can i do to get him to go out with me and then im left in the middle and my ex is also one of my best friends now so i dont really want to pick sides but i want them both to be happy i really am kinda sick of this situation help me please!

if he doesn't want to go out with then don't make him. just tell him to tell her that he's not interested. she may be crushed but she'll get over it. everybody who has that happen to them has gotten over it and found a new boy.

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How can i make a website that is for free?? I use 2 have aol but i don't have aol anymore so i wanted to make a new website...anybody kno what i can do??

www.geocities.com www.angelfire.com www.freeservers.com thoses are a couple of free websites. if ya want more then write me a letter and put it in my inbox.

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Im a 16 year old girl and i dated this boy for 2 years we broke up severeal times within then because I had trust issues. we finally broke up for i think good 5 months ago but he says he is still in love with me and beleives that me and him will get married and have kids, I do like him but its more just as a friend he is very nice but i have a g/f now i have been going out with for 3 months and i really like her so how do i let my ex b/f know that i dont really want a future with him as more then just a friend without hurting his feelings and losing his friendship?

well i think you can say that you found someone new who care about. i think he'll understand.

hope i helped!

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i threw up the other day like 9 times and maybe ate 3 little things like half a slice of turkey, a little piece of chicken from a salad, and a bannanna. i wuz sick that day cuz i had sumthing really bad to eat the day before. well the next day i had a bowl of ceral {{wif milk}} for breakfeast/lunch. then i had black beans and rice for dinner and sum plantanes and like two pieces of a slice of pork. today i had nothing at all to eat. im waiting for my bgi brother to come home with food. we have no food at home. its 12:30 and im really hungry. ive been missing meals etc. lately and getting really hungry. can this turn into belemia or inerexia? it been like maybe 3 days can i get that in just 3 days? help me out im scared.

well if your not skipping meals on purpose then your sick. u don't have bulimia cuz that's when you stuff ur face then make yourself throw up and your not doing that and you don't have anarexia cuz that's when you don't want to eat and starve yourself cuz the people who have these conditions want to be skinny even thought they are. believe me honey. you're just sick that's all.

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Ok i need help. theres this guy i like named zack. Ive known him for about 3 years and we've both liked eachother in the past and everything. hes 16 and im 14(female). Well this time we both have been hanging out, talking more and im really liking him. But for some reason i have this weird feeling that its just a summer type thing, because all year we barely talk(even tho we go to the same school i barely see him) then it seems like everytime summers commin up hes all talkin to me liking me and stuff.. I wanna ask him myself (my best friend offered to but i want to do it myself) i just need help on what i should say and if i should! please help..

if he likes you then he would want to hang out with you during the school year. ask him out to a movie or somthing. sometimes guys lke girls but they are to afraid to make the first move. u gotta go for it. if he's not interested then ur better off as friends.

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What do women really want from a guy? What will make a girl want you so badly it hurts?

there really is no answer. all girls are different and they each want something different.

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Okay there is this boy that i met a couple times but i mostly talk to him on the phone i wanna hang out wit him n get to knwo him n we both agreed on that well the first nite we were suppose to do something he was sick for the day the sec time he got hurt at work .. im not sure if he is just making this up or it really happen but like i said i sorta like this boy n wanna get to knwo him n hang out what do i say to him for him to see it

ask him one more time. if he makes up an excuse then he's blowing u off. which is rude cuz u want to get to kno him but to me it looks like he doesn't want to do the same. if he blows u off then forget him and move on.

*~>Stephanie

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alrighty i need as many people as possible to answer this question for me alright so my bf said he'd call me back and its now 10:36 and he said he would call back at like 9:40 he said... well being that he is at his cousins with like adam, shaun, and nate i think hes just havin fun so thats prolly why he didnt call or something but ... i did kinda be mean when we said goodbye 2 phone calls ago and he said you did sound kind of mean why you said goodbye you were kinda like K bye when i asked him and he said hey can i call you back and thats when this sit. came up but i was like yeah and is like k bye... i was thinkin... smart@$$... but i didnt say that.. that'd be out of line i think... just help me out... should i also send a text to him saying hey just wanted to say goodnight and ill see you later love you (name) alrighty.. plz help

He is probably busy and having fun. He probably doesn't want to start a fight after what happened so give it some time.

>>Stephanie

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Ok..I Like My BestFriends ex boyfriend. I'm afraid to tell her because i dont want her to get mad at me. But this guy is truly AMAZING..but i dont want to risk losing my friendship..but hes awesome!! I dont know what to do.. Please help me!!

Signed,
Split in Two

He sounds like a cool guy and it sounds like you really like him. If you don't tell your friend that you like him then things could get ugly. My friend like my ex-boyfriend and she she went out with him, I didn't care. If your friend still cares about this guy then be friends with the guy a little longer, but if she doesn't care then I guess you can ask him out and stuff. But you have to ask your friend if it's ok first otherwise things could get worse.

~*Stephanie*~

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well... i hang out with friends like everyday! an there are like 4 guyz who really like me but last nite, my mom forgot to pick me up an it wuz like 11:00 an i heard will, frankie, an steve in steves back yard yellin at the tv. so i went there untill my mom picked me up. an well my didnt ppick me up till like 2 in the mornin, but frankie kept saying he loved me, an that he wanted me to go out with him really bad an everything.. but the 3 other guyz say that too but im just to confused because we went in the hott tub an steve an will started to flirt wit me an frankie kept grabbin me an sayin he loved me an that he wanted me an everything im just really really really confused CAN SOMEONE HELP PLZZ!!! 14/f/ny

well, pick the guy you want to go out with that you talk to about anything. Or pick the guy you like the best. whichever guy makes you happy (if they all make you happy, then pick the one who makes you feel special) is the guy for you.


>>Stephanie

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I love to dance..a lot..i do ballet ..pointe shoe...and i do tap, but i have another passion..i love to act and do commercials. when i was younger i audtionend for an agent and got one, i then was on sesame street..for a couple of years and i did comercials. but when i was 6 or 7... i had to quit. now tht i am at a higher age i want to enroll in that type thing...but i do to much dancing, and my mom is making me choose ..what do i do?
please answer to my inbox!

just choose which one you do better at. or pick the one you love the most.it all depends on what you want to do. what do you think will make you feel happier than the other. it's all up to you!



*~*Stephanie*~*

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confused gurl,

next year me and my bestest friend are splitin up i am so scared that we will forget about each other i dont want that 2 happen.

HELP- =(

believe me you won't forget about each other. last year me and my best friend were split apart but we kept in touch over email and AIM. if the person's you best friend then you won't forget about each other. all you have to do is keep in touch and talk often!


*~*Stephanie*~*

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