ok.i have this friend and there was a party one weekend.of course,I partied it up. But there were guys that i did stuff with. I didnt tell anyone BUT my friend. I requested that she not tell anyone about it.Then she told me the guys and 1 of my friends hated me because of a cake fight.I later found out that none of them said that. I got mad at her so she decided to tell EVERYONE about me night. When I first confronted her,she denied it. But when I asked her again she took the blame.She told me she did it because i was mad at her.I dont think I should forgive her.Can anyone help me?
Signed,
Angry Friend
No! I wouldn't forgive her. I mean my friends when they say they won't tell anyone no matter if we aren't friends or we are madd at each other they wouldn't say anything! She's no affense but she's a bitch. I would not forgive her. Just reading that made me madd (lol). But yeah that's just my opinion I wouldn't forgive her. It's really up to you. Hope I Helped! Good Luck! :) If you need more advice just ask me.
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I like this guy and i thought he liked he but yester day he called me and he said'' I need advice, i like this girl and i think she likes me ... but do you think i should ask her out?'' well i thought he was talking about me, but then i found out it was this other girl. i dont know if he acutually likes her or not because she is not his type at all. Should I just let it go or should i say something?
Well, express your feelings to him.. Also tell him what you feel for him! Make it come straight from the heart. But you never know. The future brings what it brings you can't stop it unless you change something now. So just tell him how you feel and just say something. Just don't but in if he doesn't want you to ok? Hope I Helped. If you need more advice ask me :)! Good Luck! (( Just tell him how ya feel and you will be alright ))
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If you could help me with this i would really appriciate it, how is the best way to loose wieght. I want to loose about 15 pounds, but everytime i start i end up ruining it and then i have to start over. I also think i'm becoming bulimic, or however u spell it because everytime i ruin what i am trying to which would be to loose wieght i go and throw up a little bit. I've asked you for advice before and you have helped me alot, do you think you could help me with this? Thanks
Well, yeah of course I can help you. I was kind of bulimic myself which I'm still to this day haunted by it. I think you need to stop making yourself throw up. Becuase you can easily die if you do it to much. Just go on a steady diet. Like watch mostly what you eat. Eat more fruits and kind of back off from the chocolate bars (if you eat them). But please just don't make yourself throw up I don't want to see anyone putting themselves in the hospital. And if you "ruin" the diet. Just try it again. If that doesn't work just tell someone in your family or one of your friends to remind you not to have that or no to have this ya know? Hope I Helped You. If you need more advice just ask me :)! Good Luck. Please don't make yourself do anything harmful to your body.
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What do guys look for in girls? Does it matter what size you are, or if you where glasses. Do guys like freckles at all?
Well, guys around age 10 up to 14 look for good sized boobs (lol), hott, will do anything for them (boyycrazi). But people 15 and up look for kind, pretty, and somewhat looks. But *Some* guys can be into glasses and freckles. And some guys just aren't into those things. All guys like different things about a girl. Just remember this... Don't change for anyone! Good Luck! :) Hope I Helped You Atleast A Lil*. If you need anymore advice just ask me :)! I will surely give you all the advice I can.
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At the beginning of the year some guy always would be around me, he would give me hugs, talk to me alot, tell me that he loved me, and he would always joke around. I thought he liked me and i would have a boyfriend soon after that. Well we got a new girl in our class, and now he does the same stuff with her, but they always have their heads close together and are whispering to each other. He asked her out and she said no because at this moment she is not allowed to have a boyfriend for certain reasons. Then she was absent for a day and he was over near me again and he asked me out, but i knew he was joking cause i know he would just go back to her when she came back the next day. Do you think he likes me or just uses me for his own amusment?
Well, Personally I think he is using you for his own amusement. Screw him hes a pig. Becuase he is all over you when the girl wasn't there then when the new girl came he was all over her. That *Bullshit* no affense. Just forget about him. Find someone else... he is not worth your time. Still be friends with him by all means. I just wouldn't go out with him becuase that's a kinda* guy you wouldn't be able to trust. *Ya know?* If you need more advice just ask me for more :)! Good Luck!! Hope I Helped!
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i'm not sure if a guy likes me he stares ,blushes at me.now he knows i like him but now we're starting to avoid being near or looking at each other.can u help me?
Well, sure I can help! But yeah guys are weird (lol) you should know that by now :). But yeah that means he just feels a little weird becuase he is in a weird position you know? Because he was just used to looking at you I guess. But now that he knows he is probably too shy to say what he really feels. Or no affense he just doesn't like you but I doubt that. Just hang in there... He will come around sooner or later.. Also try and start up a converstation with him and just start to talk to him more often too. Hope I Helped! Good Luck! :) Ask me for more advice.
Shann
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Okay, i'm 15 and have NEVER had a boyfriend, or my first kiss. It's depressing to me because i know that no guys will ever want to go out with me. I try to be a good person and i know i don't have many guy friends but that is because most of them are assholes or just don't like me. Could it be because i hang out with all different kinds of people, like people that arn't too popular or what? I really want a boyfriend but nothing seems to work. Thanks.
Well, I have a lot of guy friends. And I'm telling you that becuase you just need to be a lil* more out there. And yes I hang out with all different kinds of people and some of them are geeks, nerds, and popular. Just try and be more outgoing it doesn't matter who you hang out with really. But don't worry don't change the person you are for *Any* guy. Becuase that means they don't like you for you. Just hang in there and sooner or later you should get someone. I mean there's someone out there for everyone :)! Good Luck ! :) You will be fine don't worry. Your turn will soon come. If you need anymore advice just ask me for more :)! Hope I Helped!
Shann
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My mom just moved in with a guy and he has a 13 daughter that I believe is a great person, however I just got out of a mental institution for attempting suicide and depression! I started cutting again and now she is following in my footsteps, I dont want to be a leader in that kind of way, but I cant seem to be able to stop! I want to be a positive influence in her life however I'm just confused! How do I be positive when I'm still a cutter!?!
Well, not to be rude but you gotta* stop cutting. Then you would most likely be a positive leader. Because it's easy to stop.. I would know :(. And ok I highly doubt that trying to attempt suicide is not a positive way to go either even if you stopped... still! come on your life can't suck that bad. But just try and stop cutting and maybe then she can follow your footsteps without you worrying about what she really is following. Hope I Helped With Your Problem! :) Good Luck With Her And Your Cutting Issues. If I didn't help sorry :(. If you need anymore advice just ask me and I will surely give you all the advice I possibly can. :)
Shann
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Me and my boyfriend always end up in these steamy makeout sessions with either him on top of me or me on top of him... which ever way we end up we're usually rubbing our bodies together and i think you get the point... what would this be considered as? please tell me... and do you guys consider this bad? we're both virgins and we both believe in abstinence... we never "touched" eachother in inappropriate ways either.. except for maybe on the butt a few times.... but that's it!
Well, me and my friends say.. If a guy is on top of you and you guys are like technically *Humping* its called dry humping. And no its not a bad things actually its pretty much a good thing because your not actually doing anything bad. Let me just say I went further so yeah it's not considered bad in my opinion. Hope I Helped Out! :) And answered some of your questions you had. If you want more advice just ask me and I will be able to give you more. :)
Shann
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I want a boyfriend so badly, everyone else has one, but me. I have some guy friends but i don't like them that way. I did have a crush on this one guy, he moved to my school when i was in 3rd grade. Now seven years later i find out that he never even like me really. I guess he just felt bad for me or something so he was nice to me. My friend was talking about me asking him what he thought of me and he said no way she's ugly! I couldn't believe it, he moved away and i have changed my looks alot since he saw me last. I'm looking for a guy that has a great personality, looks and is really sweet, but there isn't many of those people in my school. I don't think i am that bad looking but i don't know what to do. It makes me depressed sometimes because everyone else has one and i don't.
Do you know what guys like to see in girls? I mean i could be a good girlfriend but guys just don't seem to like me too much. Could there be a reason as to why they wouldn't like me? Thanks.
Well, there is all different kinds of guys. The guys that just like you because you are sexi, Guys that just like you becuase you will give them sex or any other sextual intercoarse, and then here comes the guys your looking for but you don't mostly find then anywhere... Guys that like you for who you really are. Let's see for example: they like your personality, they can tell you that they love you with no god damn make-up on and your hair is all messed up with a hole in your shirt and junky shorts. I was lucky enough to find my *Man*. I do believe you could be a good girlfriend. Screw the guys that don't like you *Not litterally* (lol) I was in the same situation that you are in last year. Then this guy finally realized me but for the wrong reasons... And then a few more guy's came along and they were all wrong for me. One of them was a physco *Not really but he acted like one* and the others were just dicks. *Dickless Pricks* I call em* (ha, ha) sorry for my language. But yeah there is no reason why guy's dont like you now. But guys that are your age are to immature... Even though I don't know your age but if guy's are still acting that way then yeah you are either in Middle Skewl* or just starting Highskewl*. Don't worry there is always someone out there for everyone. You will find him sooner or later. Ok well I hope I helped you atleast a lil*! :) Good Luck With Trying To Find A Guy. If you need anymore advice about this or anything else just ask me and I will give you all the advice I can. Thank you for asking me. :)
Shann
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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :(
Well, Only if he cummed in you. That's the only chance though. Don't be so worried though. It's probably nothing really. Just make sure you don't forget no more birth control pills. Ok Good Luck With That. :) If you need more advice then just ask me! :)
Shann
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I can put a tampon in just fine, it just hurts *really* bad whenever I pull it out, is it maybe because I let it get too full before I changed it? Please help!
Well, actually no becuase it's just the opposite of that. You pull it out to soon. Or it wouldn't hurt. Good Luck With That Personal Problem :).
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well i like this guy.. duh lol.. so anyways during the summer he told me that he liked me and i didnt like him then but i was really good friends with him so i was flattered but didnt like him back.. so then during the school year we kinda "hooked up" and we went to 3rd base.. and so ever since them i have had feelings for him... whenever hes around other girls i get jealous and it sucks.. i told him that i liked him and said i dunno if it is because we did stuff together or not.. and he just said "aww" and i still have these feelings for him and to make it worse we hooked up again so my feelings are even stronger.. but i dont really want to go out with him.. but i just like him a lot.. sry its so long --please help-- =] x3
Well, Okay some of these people are just being very rude. So Screw them right now. You shouldn't go out with someone you don't like but you do have *some* feelings for this guy. I can tell becuase you get jealous when he is near and talks to other girls. But yeah I see where you are coming from. Its ~Not~ just because the sextual intercoarse its becuase you guys have been friends for a long time and really got to know each other very well. Just tell him what you really feel about him that "You just aren't that into him". Hope I Helped Atleast A Lil. :) Good Luck! If you need more advice just ask me I am here to give you more. :)
Shann
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my friend and i both like the asme guy (my ex bf) and i know i could get him but she'd be devastated.. but i really miss him and i want to be with him but i dont want her to be hurt.. :-/ advice would be nice
Well, Okay ask yourself this would you wanna* lose a friendship over a guy? Or would you rather have the guy and not a friend. This is a *Quote* that I kinda* think is true. But here it is>> Boyyfriends/Girlfriends come and go. But only friends stay by you till* the end. Just ask yourself what you want most. A friend and just be friends with your Ex Or a boyyfriend and lose a friend? Hope I Helped You Out With That! :) Good Luck! If you want more advice just ask me I most likely will be able to give you some more. :)
Shann
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my dad was recently laid off from work (he was the manager for the propane department of a co-op). he decided he wants to go back to the job he had before that, which was an EMT(emergency medical technician). the problem is that he left that job because he had a lot of depression problems when he couldn't save someone. should i still encourage him to go back to that job?
Yeah. You should its your dads decision to go back or not. He most likely knows what he's doing. Just encourage him now and when times get rough again. If he finally realized he made a mistake then he will learn from it. Okay? Well Hope I Helped You Atleast A Lil*! :) Good Luck With Your Dad. If you would like more advice. I am here just ask me :).
Shann
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me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) he is 18 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me??
my b-day is on may 5th
and his on the 13
Well, I'm lying about my boyyfriend. (lol) Sure its not kewl* to do, to lie to your parents. But what they don't know can't hurt em* he, he. *Quote: I'm not even supposed to be going out with anyone*. But it doesn't really make you a bad person at all! Hope I Helped Atleast a Lil*! :) Good Luck! If you need more advice just ask me! I most likely can give you more.
Shann
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Where can you get Hello Kitty stuff? Plz don't tell me sanrio or e-bay! Ill rate!
Well, I'm a really big *Hot-Topic* fan. Because of "Hello Kitty" is found in that store. So yeah you can go to Hot-Topic to buy "Hello Kitty" things :). Hope I Helped Out! Good Luck! :)
Shann
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Okay, I have a major problem. Well, it might not seem like it... but it feels extreme to me, anyway. Okay, my ex broke up with me a few weeks ago and we haven't really talked since. Then, I said so many mean things to him... and then I apologized. After I apologized, we started talking, like we used to. Just normal chit chat. Now, I think I like him again! Since we're just friends now, I don't know if I should tell him how I feel. What should I do?!
Well, you always should tell him what you feel for him. I mean he has a right to know (lol). And I know you keep asking yourself well would if I do? Would if I don't? Right? I see what your afraid of... like then things would be awkward between you and him if you told him the truth of what you feel. But just follow your heart *Quote: Like I Always Say To People That Ask A Familiar Question Like This* Because your heart knows best. But you should really just lay down what all you feel for him. And maybe you will have luck and get him back you never know what lies in the future. Hopefully, I helped you :)! I Give You All The Luck You Might Not Need *Just Incase* :). Thanks for asking me for advice. Maybe if you want more advice you can always ask me again for some more and I will give you all the advice I possibly can :). Thanks!
Shann
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13/f...Ok, so I'm a really shy person when it comes to guys. I like this guy named Tim. I think he stares at me in spanish and sometimes science because I can see it out of the corner of my eye, ya know? In science the teacher stands like a few feet in front of Tim. So naturally I'm looking up at the teacher because he's talking lol. Yeah anyway, Tim looks at me a lot. He likes glances over at me. I think he might think I'm looking at him instead of the teacher. I know he's really shy also so should I strike up a conversation? And do you think it's possible he likes me? Thanks
Well, frankly I think anything is possible. But there is a high chance a *Very* high chance that he does like you. I mean if he really looks at you a lot yeah. Guys are very hard to understand ya* know (lol)? Becuase they have weird ways of showing that they like someone. They either stare at you, always flirt with you, and sometimes just smile at you. Girls have 2 ways of showing that they like someone (most girls) but they either just straight up telling them to their face, online, or on the phone.. And the other way is to always stare at them and smile and when look back at you becuase they see you looking at them you turn your head as fast as you can so they can't really see if you were looking at them or not ha, ha. "I had experience with that meaning:>> I was one of those people but not no more :) becuase I got me a man. But yeah start *Strikin* those conversations up with him. When you get a lil* closer ask him what he feels for you. And then tell him how you feel for him. Well Good Luck! :) Hope I Helped Atleast A Lil*. If you want anymore advice from me (hopefully you do because I enjoy answering these kind of questions :)!)
Shann
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my cousin used to be this sweet inocennt lil girl and now shes horrible. shes hanging out with the wrong ppl shes already tryed smoking and she lying about everything. she keeps telling me my brother did this or that when its not true and i just want to help her out but i dont know how to talk to her or wat to say to her. im so worried about her and wat makes everythin worst is that she has a jack a** for a step father and he doesnt even care and she cant talk to her mom cause shes afraid of wat her mom may say or do. so can some one help me or least give me some ideas on how to talk to her.
Well, try to explain to her how everything shes done or is doing can effect her. Maybe if she knows exactly what she is doing to herself she might just stop. Just sit her down and talk to her about how your hurting becuase she is hurting herself. If she cares for you as family she should listen and look up to you if she doesn't then no affense but you just need to let her be and let her learn from her dumb mistakes. You should really tell someone if you haven't already. I can tell you haven't told her mom. Why don't you tell her? Maybe then her mom will knock some sense into her ya* know? Well Hope I Helped You Out Atleast A Lil*. Good Luck! :) If you need anymore advice just ask me and I most likely can give you more.
Shannon
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