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Hey. my name is krishy. im 13 years young. im curently taken by the bestest guy ever. i love him with my heart. i started this column because i feel like i give really good advices. ask me any questions anytime and ill get back to you okay. =]]

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Ok so me and my boyfriend have known eachother for a year now and weve liked eachother a whole year and so now weve been dating bout 8 months now and we kissed after 8 months of our relationship because im prety respectable and he understood and never tried to go over any line and waited..so afetr 8 months weve kissed and i feel so SLUTY and i feel so bad i think im such a whore and i dont know why..i just never liked being touched and now weve made out and i feel so bad..can i know why ..am i slut? hhes the only guy i ever kised and the last one..i wana be with him forever

you are SO NOT a slut. how can you be.. you waited 8months...wow! i mean for my first kiss ever...[this was last year] i waited 9 days. so you shouldnt think that your a slut..ever.

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15/f

Okay so there's a guy at school. And we flirt all the time, and I realized that I just don't want to be in a relationship these days. I like being single. And the guy is probably going to ask me out again like last time, and I'll feel so bad just completley rejecting him. And he probably won't want to be my friend at all anymore!
What should I do?

your dealing with this the hard way.
you and him are flirting and you dont want a relationship so your giving him the wrong message. tell him that you dont want a relationship right now but make sure you tell him that it doesnt mean you guys cant be friends.

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I love my boy friend tons and he told me that he has strong feelings for me i wanna kiss him but i'm afraid of what my parents and friends would say.

My friends would probably say i'm a slut but i am worried about my parents as it would be my first kiss

I really need help

you have nothing to worry about. if they were your real friends they wouldnt judge just because of kissing. someday theyre gonna have to do that soon, unless they still belive in cooties. and your parents on the other hand is kinda awkward because it's kissing..their kidd is kissing now..woahh. but they shouldnt be surprised cuz for one thing they kissed before right? and the second thing is that your getting older so they shouldnt be surprised.

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i'm a girl who just turn 13 and i want to know what sex feels like,i've been fingered by my boyfriend and everything but i'm just wondering what sex actually feels like.

okayy look..your my age except i mihg tbe a couple months older or a year older. dont make my mistake even though i didnt have sex or get fingered but i kinda lead on my bf to that. dont do that your WAY too young. enjoy life. and to tell you the truth.. sex can give you a bad rep at school because it shows your either easy or you get around alot. also, from the other answers..that sex hurts for the first time..listen.

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i had a long history with my ex. i still have feelings for him [not so much, but something's still there.. you could say he was my first love.]

Well today was my 1 month anniversay with my boyfriend. So I hung out with him then he left. And an hour or so later, I got to hang out with my ex.. and he kissed me.
I didn't stop him. And he kissed me other times. I've tried moving my head because i didnt want to..it didn't seem right but he moved with me and planted a kiss.

Is kissing cheating ?
I thought heavy making out/sex was cheating.



most people take it as cheating.
i take it as cheating because you TRIED to move your head.
you didnt move your head from him..you TRIED.
but i mean.. at the same time i know what you feel.. i have the same feelings with my ex also. but the question is that..do you like your bf more than your ex? well yeah just message me.

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I don't understand why girls don't like the "sweet" or "nice" guys anymore..All my friends that are girls, like the "Bad boys" or the "Jocks". I like one of my friends, but she likes one of the "bad boy" guys...How can I get her to realize that I could probably be a better boyfriend than him...(14/M)

okay look.. once she gets heart broken which hcances are which are like 50/50 it well get broken.. that's your time to shine. you pick up the broken pieces but make sure once she's all good that you wont let her treat you like a rag because thats a different story. yeah, gurls say they like bad boys but NOT all gurls.

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i want my boobs bigger!!!!! i mean, im 14 years old, and i hardly have boobs. i mean im a 34b. Any exsercises or ANYTHING i can do NATURALLY!?!?!

why would you be in a hurry? your only 14.. im a year younger than you and im 32A...worse?..maybe but they'll grow. don't worry about it. if your being insecure because of the boys then those boys are shallow because it's not about the boobs or the butt.

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okayy im 15 and im in love with my boyfriend. so we had sex. and i think i might be pregnant.i had protected sex its just i havent had my period for like almost 3 months and i throw up a lot on random mornings. and i eat so much more than usual latley. and on top of that i cant see my abs anymore! i think im pregnant and im deatly afraid of what to do.! i dont know how to tell anyone. and i dont want to take a test cuz i know ill be right. i just dont wanna know the truthh. i cant handle a baby; things are too rough for me already. what WHAT SHOUD I DO!? PLEASE HELP ME!!!
-DESPERATE.

twoo words.
pregnancy test.

look i get that your in love with your bf but, if your insecure about it, then you shouldnt have had sex ya know.

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My ear on the right is blocked from me hearing from it. I can probably assume water, wax, and soap is trapped in it. I am not getting any pain from it, because I have been using antibiotic and ear wax removal drops for the past few days, but it's still not helping with me hearing from it!

does anyone have any at-home methods I can try to get rid of this? I have already tried tilting my head for hours, including overnight. So any ideas?

I know I might need to see a Doctor but before doing so I would like to try some new ideas to see if that will work before I consider going to one.

Thanks in advance!

i went to my doctor and got it flushed.. it was my both ears. it like an injection but not like a needle on.. is the one that takes water. they get water and hydrogen paroyde[sp?] and shoot into your ears.. it'll prolly get you a lil bit spinny but its all good.

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14/f
is their a way i can hit higher notes? thanks

well, if your a soprano.. it grows onto you, meaning.. you can naturally sing high pitched but it grows out.. and alto is more lower... which os a hard deal for them to sing into high pitch, so guess keep practicing because when i was 11 years old i was an alto.. && then when i came into 7th grade.. i came back as a soprano.

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What do you do if your boyfriend said he wants to makeout, but his "type" of making out does not involve french kissing because he thinks that is gross. What exactly does he mean? What do you do?

seee.. thats the thing, im not sure how you makeout without the tongue, personally my bf likes it when we use tongue but since im used to it.. my advice would probably just kiss, but more as a peck kiss.

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ive been talking to this one guy for about a month now and he asked me out the other day.. the only problem is is that hes shy! i dont know what to say or do to make this work because i really like the boy but it just gets so annoying! any ideas?

take it slow. it takes effort and time. my bf was kinda like that and if you like him enough.. he'll be wortht he effort and wait

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How do you make a Relationship Last?

well the keys are:
trust&&honesty
you guys need to actually have feelings for eachother
&& dont be so paranoid.
thats what i learned.. && im still learning

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okay so heres the story.. My boyfriends best friend is his ex girlfriend and he has left me for her then comes back to me. but his ex is his best friend and i am always a little worried on what could happen.. because he is always at her house but i dont want to accuse him of anything. what should i do about this? is there anything i can say to him with out him getting angry?

well, do you love him enough to trust him?
because if you... then you shouldnt be worried because he CHOSE you.

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ok i kinda like just started goin out with my bf, but yea what could i get him, i dont wanna get him like any of those fragrence things cuz that seems too..idk. but what should i get him??

well this is what i did with my bf.
i asked him what 3 things he wanted from me
but he said all he wanted was me, but he already has me, so i just told him to answer the question.
so he gave me three things and i just put those 3 things together to make 1 whole gift.

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Well.. its almost christmas.. and my boyfriend hasnt asked me what i wanted.. and im scared to ask him what he wants.. cause what if he dont wanna get me nething.. lol.. kinda cheesy .. but i need help :[

well, do you want something from?
cause, i havea bf and i asked him
&& he said, he already has me as his gift
but, just ask him beacause, trust me some boys won't say anything
because they already planned out something.

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16/f
Ok, well I love this guy and I dont know how to tell him. We're like best-friends and we have been for about 3 years and I don't want to freak him out by this.
How should I say it? Something subtle or direct?

okay, so here's the thing.
if you guys are bestfriends.
he would understand.
what kind of a bestfriend he is if he ddint understand ya know.
i dont think he'll freak
maybe he'll feel awkward but, im sure he'll get over it.

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