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How do you tell someone you love them
16/f
Ok, well I love this guy and I dont know how to tell him. We're like best-friends and we have been for about 3 years and I don't want to freak him out by this.
How should I say it? Something subtle or direct?
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okay, so here's the thing.
if you guys are bestfriends.
he would understand.
what kind of a bestfriend he is if he ddint understand ya know.
i dont think he'll freak
maybe he'll feel awkward but, im sure he'll get over it.
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I'll try and answer maybe you should ask him if he likes you as a friend and see if its goes any further
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Say something subtle at first to see how he reacts. If you can't tell by his reaction then say something more direct. DON'T tell him that you love him just yet. Use the word "like" instead. "Like" may surprise him, but it's not going to freak him out like "love" might. He's not going to look as far into it as you are. It's always best to just let everything out. Even if he doesn't share the same feelings, it won't be awkward if you don't let it. If he does share the same feelings, keep from telling him you love him until you are in a relationship just to be safe. You can even say "I have loved you for a long time, but I wanted to wait for the right time to tell you" or something like that. Good luck!
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guys are usually pretty good about staying friends if it goes wrong. if he doesnt like you, and it ruins the friendship, it will be because you are uncomfortable around him. i say go for it though, because in general, if it seems like a guy likes you, he probably does. direct works best.
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