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boyfriend and ex
i had a long history with my ex. i still have feelings for him [not so much, but something's still there.. you could say he was my first love.]
Well today was my 1 month anniversay with my boyfriend. So I hung out with him then he left. And an hour or so later, I got to hang out with my ex.. and he kissed me.
I didn't stop him. And he kissed me other times. I've tried moving my head because i didnt want to..it didn't seem right but he moved with me and planted a kiss.
Is kissing cheating ?
I thought heavy making out/sex was cheating.
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i believe it is cheating but and if something else happens tell your bf
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It is definately cheating. It would probably hurt more for your bf if you had sex with your ex..but kissing someone else is still cheating. immagine if your bf came to you and told you he kissed his ex numeroustimes..i bet you would be pretty hurt.
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most people take it as cheating.
i take it as cheating because you TRIED to move your head.
you didnt move your head from him..you TRIED.
but i mean.. at the same time i know what you feel.. i have the same feelings with my ex also. but the question is that..do you like your bf more than your ex? well yeah just message me.
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Cheating or being cheated on, can mean different things for different people. It's hard to say whether or not this classifies as cheating. One thing though, is that something did happen, so whatever it is, it's not something your boyfriend would appreciate.
It does sound like you regret what happened, so you need to be upfront with your ex, and let him know you're now in a relationship, and that you don't want to take things further. As for your current boyfriend, you can be honest with him and let him know..it's only fair (but don't take my word for it, you should think of what's best). And you need to be honest with yourself as well: how do you feel about your boyfriend? Are your feelings for your ex getting in the way of that?, etc.. All in all, I think you should be honest; you didn't get back together with your ex, but something did happen..
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Some people take this as cheating.
Would you like it if your boyfriend of one month kissed his ex girl?
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