My name is Kelsey, I am 13, and I love giving advice.
Ask me about: sex-even though I am still very much a virgin I grew up in an OPEN family.. even my grandma talks to me about it lol, love-I tend to read boys like a book; I am a girl so I kinda know what we are thinking too lol, eating disorders-I spent alot of time reasearching these because two members of my family had them and my best friend was anorexic, rape-I know that you need someone to talk to about this stuff and it hurts.. I know a few people that this has happend to, pets-I know about everything there is to know about pets because i have wanted to be a vet since i was three and still have a passion for animals.. many hours of reasearch has resulted lol, depression-been there done that.. I have been off and on with depression for a few years now and am proud to announce that i have been depression-free for about 2 months now, fashion-I have a big sister.. what do you expect
PLZ DON'T ask about: family-I don't have a "traditional" family life and well.. lets leave it at that. lol
E-mail: KelCSullivan@hotmail.com Gender: Female Location: Shertown, Texas Age: 13 AIM: KelCSullivan Member Since: March 9, 2005 Answers: 50 Last Update: May 8, 2005 Visitors: 6856
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I've started using a gothic appearence. (I dressed in black a lot and use dark black make-up on my eyes and either brown or red lipstick.) Nobody even understand why I'm doing it. I'm sort of doing it as an expirement. (Sorry if I spelled that wrong.)It freaks out my teachers, classmates call me a vampire, my boyfriend acts scared of me, and my parents don't like anything about my new look. All I've changed is how I look. I don't want to lose my friends just for the sake of looking gothic. But, if they can't accept how I want to look, are they real friends? What should I do? Advice please! (link)
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well obviously they arent really friends...
the same thing (sorta) happend to me when i started getting involved with the "sk8er" thing. my friends got all weird and as a group we grew apart. then all the sudden they all 3 (we are a tight group) left me out of their plans and a sleepover. I got angry and they wrote a note to me saying that if i didnt meet them at the town center blahblah then we wouldnt be friends any more. so i went to the effing thing (wich i already had flippen plans) and they said it was all because they had to adjust with me being a "sk8er" that all of the problems started. i didnt argue and acted like they wanted me to while they pushed and pushed my buttons. it hurt deep down that my own friends would treat me like that but afterwards we all were good and we now are tight again
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Hey my best pen pal, Kelsey wants me to post a question on her advice sight. I dont know what to write!!! If I don't ask her a question will she hate me? I must be stupid! Is my problem completely and utterly all in my head? MY UNCLE NEVER HUGGED ME!!! (link)
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i think you need help...mental help
and im sorry your uncle never hugged you, but neither did mine
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Does anyone know any really good girl books a 7th grader at the age of 13 would like?
Thanks. I'll rate 5's. (link)
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it depends on how mature you are. im a little goofy and mature and i read the gossip girls series. i also read the princess diarie series(nothing at all like the movie)and im curently reading virgin vegan valentine
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Hey. Well, there's this boy I like in my school, and I he may like me to, as to what my friend said...but I didn't hear the whole thing. Well, I found out her liked me when he was going out with his ex, so I didn't rush anything because I didn;t want to break them up. The later on broke up because she was cheating on him with 2 other guys, but no he goes out with another girl. I was so upset when they said he had a new girlfriend because I figured, why would he go out with another girl if he really liked me. I don't know what to do, and I think about him all of the time, what should I do because I really, really like him and I'm not to the type to make the first move! (link)
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he may be too shy to ask you out... just jump at him and ask him if he feels the same way you do
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Every day after skool or wherever I am with my boyfriend he always gives me a hug and says ok, now your coming home with me. (Im not allowed to have a b/f in the first place) I like dunno what to do cause he always gets a sad look on his face. Any advice? (13/f) (link)
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explain to him that if he really likes you then he has to understand that you arent even allowed to have a bf.
or you can ask your parents if you can go to your "guy friend's" house
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i have a problem. i can never get tampons in all the way! i'll push really hard but it doesn't work. it only goes in a fourth of the way. what can i do to make it go in? (link)
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use the pearl teen kind. they are easier to use
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okay im going to get to the point, i lost my viriginty to a boy who is 2 years older then me, were werent going out but i like him alot, and im not one of those bout it type of girls either. But anyways i lost it to him and we kept talking and we also kept doin it. It sounds dumb but we never really talked in between, we talked sumtimes when we were together but that was it. Every time i asked him somthing about himself he would get defensive, i know he has had bad past realtionships and he doesnt trust girls but...i dont know, then i finnaly spoke up about the way he treats me like his hoe, and he said fuck it but then changed his mind and apologized. He is like an emotional roller coaster and i care for him alot, and i think he cares to by the things he does but he doesnt want to, you know what i mean? hes in a gang and considers that his family but recently they just ditched him in a situation where him and one of his homeboys were stuck to face like 100 guyz by themselves they just all out bailed on him, and he got mad and turned around and yelled at me "and you were not talking any more", i really care about him but i dont know how to reach him or w.e hes complicated, and i wanna stop the fucking, and become more of a friend, but i wanna be with him, i dunno im so confused. I know i should move on but i cant help it, im stuck to him hes my first. But i really want to understand him too, any advice, thankx ill rate you...xOx (link)
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i kno this may sound hard, but drop him! he is in a gang, doesnt talk to you between sex, and if you ask me it is lust not love. find another guy. be happy with someone else
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sorry its so long..but please help.. 16/f Okay i think i have a problem with my attitude with my boyfriend.. like i am so happy with him and we kid around an stuff but for some weird reason out of no where i become a bitch.. i reall cant explain why all the sudden i become like that.. i dont get like that with anybody else but him.. we have been together 8 months.. and probably ever since december i been like this.. i really try to understand my self and try to get why im like that but i cant.. he never gets mad about it or anything really he usually sits there and says *aw my baby's mad* then like i cant be mad anymore... which like i said i dont know why i am in the first place... but after a while he'll ask whats wrong when he knows im calm down and he's holding me.. and i tell him *i dont know whats wrong* then he thinks that i dont wanna share my problems with him...which its not that i cant tell him whats wrong if i dont know my self...then he gets mad bout it and then *i cry* thats one of the worst feelings i get is when i see him mad or sad at me or around me.. and then after that he gets like sad cause i cried.. i really want this to stop.. this doesnt happen everyday..maybe like once or twice a week but thats too many times and its gettin old..my friend told me she thought i was doin it for attention.. which i thought bout that for a while... but i get all the attention i need from him.. this is really my first actual relationship with a guy so i havent been like that with anybody else and he the first guy ive actually loved.. but i guess i need advice to understand why i might be like this and what might cause me to be like that.. and if anybody else is like that please explain why you are.. i'll rate anything high as long as it helps in some sort of way..much luv and thanks in advance to who ever answers.. (link)
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wow... that is the same thing that happens to me! same situation too... well what i do is i try not to say mean things about n e one or n e thing and i stay happy! maybe this will work for you
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Ok well.. i know this is a really odd question.. but what do you wear under a skirt...?? like i dont know what to wear under them.. i have a bunch, but i never wear them because its like, i dont know what to wear under?! any help?? (link)
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underwear maybe? lol
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Hmm... Where to start. Ok, so I've been going out with this girl for a couple of months and it's been amazing. Some of the best months of my life. And I have this friend that I think has a crush on her. He will always play with her hair and like give her little nicknames, and that stuff of the sort. Also, her one friend keeps asking me how much I like her and stuff like that. It is just kinda suspicious. What do you think, should I worry or what? (link)
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well tell your gal how much she really means to you. kiss her on the cheek and tell her you'd be lost w/o her
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I have this friend who always talks about me but is like in all my classes. I don't really like her but my other friends get all mad at me if i get mad at her. Should i just tell her i dont wanna be her friened or should i be her friend? (link)
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tell her that if she wants to talk about you then she can just not have your friendship. and if your other friends get mad then tell them you dont like that she talks about you
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My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do? (link)
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make a list of all the things you love about your friend and all the things that make you happy and give it to her
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hey im 13/f and i have been shaving since i was 11 but my mom doesnt know cuz i never asked her im way to scared to talk to her about anything
what do i do?
real question:how do i ask my mom that i want to shave?
boy im inbaressed (link)
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just say "mom i want to shave" lol thats what i did
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Okay so this year my class and i are all going to washington for an end of the year trip, And my bff asked me to room with her, but i dont really wnat to but i say yes anyways. Now here's where it gets hard for me, my other friends (4 of them) asked me to room with them and i'd rather room with them and have tons of fun...BUT i dont wanna leave my friend alone.. and i would ak her to room with us but they all hate her and there can only b 5 to a room...what should i do? i dont want to be a bad friend but i DO want to have fun :(...i rate 5's! (link)
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just room with who asked you first
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well the girl im going out with is beautiful but she doesnt think so and i know so but she is always saying that she is fat and ugly and i dont think so i want her to stop saying that she is fat and ugly what should i do?????? (link)
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well obviously she is VERY insecure... tickle her until she says she is skinny and whenever she says she is fat or ugly tickle her.. even if she is fat, laughter makes you loose mad weight. lol
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ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 1/2 months and on sunday im going to his house for a couple of hours... ok well we kiss all the time and i want to be able to kiss him in other places. please give me ideas of where guys like to be kissed nothing like head or anything cuz we've both said were not ready for that. thanks bunches (link)
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maybe on the ear?
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i was going to the bathroom the other day when i noticed that my pee was kind of green and it smelled really bad. then i looked at my vagina and i had big boils of puss like pimples all over.. i think i may have contracted an std. I have only had sex with 18 guys i don't know what i should do.. please help me kelsey you are my only hope.
ps. i think i could be pregnant too and that scares me because i don't want to have to go on maury to find out who the dad is.. i don't even know some of their names and i can't tell my parents because im only 13! golly! im so angry with god .. WHY ME? (link)
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Wow... sex 13!!! im 13 and i dont even think about making out yet..
first of all...its not God's fault that you might have gotten an STD or pregnant... you r the one who chose to have sex.
second: you need to find out if you are pregnant... this is a toughy... either you lie to them or tell them. if you just HAVE to lie then i would get some money from a friend (or big sister if you have one) and go to wal-mart and buy a pregnancy test. This is good bcuz they have those scan it yourself things, so you dont have to be imbarrassed. and pray that you arent pregnant
(if pregnant then you have to tell sum 1! parents, grandparents, sister, friend, friend's parents)
third: go to the gynocologist to get an STD test.
well thats all i kno what to do... sorry if none of that works out... you better rate me high cuz this is an Iffy question.. lol
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how long does it take to lose 30 pounds if all you are eating is fruit?(grapes, peaches, plums, watermelon, oranges, bananas, salad, cucumbers). (link)
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umm... just so you know : fruit makes you loose weight... but you crap alot! lol well i think it will take like a month
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Ok, i know this is really really bad but... me and my neighborhood friends, well the 3 of us, got together after school today and drunk sum alcohol and if that isn't bad enough we smoked banna peel after (to get high) idk why i did it..I'm a straight A student and com from a good background and hang out with goos school friends. Unlike my other 2 friends it had no affect on me but turning my pupils huge, and they're still like that now. I feel rele guilty and don't know wut to do...! Wut does it mean when ur eye pupils get rele big? And should i convest to ma parents or no way! (link)
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smoked a banana peel??? what did you smoke b 4 that?!
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Is it wrong to cry if your dog died and you've known her since you were a toddler? My friends would think it's silly, and when you think about it, it kind of is. Does anybody else think it's silly? (link)
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awww.. i dont think it is silly. she was a part of your family
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