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Wazz good? Umm things about me...hmm.. Im 13 from south Jersey. I am light skinned (carmel omplextiom) long brown hair and about 5"4. I Love giving advice to people.If i didnt u wouldnt be reading this woud u? I am single but i talk to someone....S.O.V.S *some1 very special* I have been talking to him 4 about 4 months. I think i'm in love wooo *sigh*. O anyway..I am very hyper..I am a cheerleader,i run track,play softball and i am on the national jr honor society. I got most popular and best looking in the yearbook. I LOVE TO TALK dance and SING..My favorite song right now is "we belong together" by mariah Carey and her whole Cd and umm Ciara song "oh" and "GRIND ON ME" by Pretty Ricky yes!! I am still a virgin but I know alot about Sex from all of my friends and from reading.I am just waiting for the RIGHT* person right now....um...If u ever need to ask me any questions or give me any comments *THAT ARE NOT RUDE!!!!!!!!!!* feel free to IM me on IXI WuN luV IXL .... love yall lots
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my friend dani is a really weird person. she's my friend and all but i don't know how to tell her how weird she is. help me.
Just bve straight up with her be like hey danny your weird lmao..
I'm a 19/f and about to lose my virginity to my boyfriend 22/f of 1 year. He himself is not a virgin and has had I think it was 3 partners in the past. There have been recent reported cases of HVI infections in our area. Well, I was always taught to treat everyone as if they had the virus because you never know who might actually have it. They probably don't even know. So, as a precaution I want to ask him to get tested. It's not that I don't trust him because I do. If I didn't, I wouldn't lose my virginity to him. I'm just afraid that he'll take it as if I don't trust him. I know it's a smart decision but I just don't know how to approach the subject. And, if he agrees to it then I will go with him and get tested also. Any opinions/advice is appreciated.
I think this is very good. Yourr smart kid. Yea. That's good that you want to get him tested and that you are willing to get testeed also.You are just trying to stay safe.Thats all and theres nothing wrong with that. I'm sure that if her really loves you and he's sure theres nothings wrong that he'll get testes for you. Good job love ya smooches!
I have a weird discharge, it smells a little weird but it smells good to me. In my underwear its stained yellow and its a little crusty whitish. But the significant thing that ive noticed is that on my genitals there is whitish stuff. Like in my inner lips, theres white chunkish stuff, and the closest thing that i can relate it to is cottage cheese. i heard this is an infection, and theres no possible way i can go to a doctor/gyno right now. And sometimes i get this feeling in my vagina thats like a cramp, but INSIDE my vagina like theres a knife stuck in it. It only lasts for about one second but it happens like 3-4 times a day and it stops me in my tracks. 1) Is this really an infection? 2) How do i treat it without going to the doc?
I would say it is an infection.You should try to go to a doctor asap. But untill then go to a drugstore and try these wipes called Tucks* Wipe ur vagina after you use the bathroom with those.And maybe try some pills to get rid of that. Ask the clerk/Pharmasist to assist you. Hope I helped!
Love,
Kei-KEi
soz if this is a bit long, but really need help. I RATE HIGH!!
im 15 f and yesterday me and my dad went out and after we went to the pub. after about 1 and a half hours at the pub we decided 2 ring my mum to tell her how long we will be. she was fine with that. and then about 15 mins later we decided 2 ring her again and ask her what pizza she would like and if she would order it (we deceided earlier in the day that we wonted pizza 4 tea)n she said she'd already had her tea, so when we got home, she started shouting at my dad and saying things like 'i wish you came home earlier' and things like that. they both started arguing and got me and ma brother upset (hez 11) and now they are not talking, but my worry is that we are going on holiday this sat and i want them to be friends again! SOMEONE PLZE HELP.
I think your trip will be just fine. They will make up.All parents work things out over littlr thngs like that.They will soon be not fighting give it 2-3 days.
P.S hope u have a good trip.
I bleached my hair yesterday & it came out horrible! its like all blotchy and stuff..like really blonde in some places & not so blonde in other places. how can i fix this????
Im not really sure because I've never pleached my hair.But my suggetion would be to wash your hair really good to get all the Extra Chemicals out.Them go and buy BRAND NAME (no CHEAP stuff)Hair Die. Then dye it back to blonde.I wouldne leave it in if it looked terrible.Sorry hope I helped. Buh Bye!
I'm going to the beach in a week and I understand that when you shave your legs, it stings really bad once you get in the ocean. Does Nair sting? If so, are there any other alternatives?
*Yes!* it will sting if you go to the ocean and shave! ut try to shave a day or two before you go and it should be all good. Try using babyoil or something when your done to block your pores up some.AND use a SHARP razor because a dull one will make it worse.Hope I helped. Have fun. SMOOCHES!!
A friend of mine has his girlfriend's birthday all planned out. Well, almost. There is one point where he doesn't know what he's going to do. This is what he has so far:
Wake her up a 7:30 in the morning; give her 30 seconds to grab anything she needs then take her out to breakfast. After breakfast he's going to take her back home so she can get cleaned up, take a shower, and all that good stuff. Breakfast will probably take an hour so she should be ready by 11am. Then, he doesn't know where he's going to take her. But, at 5pm or 6pm he's taking her to an early dinner where he's giving her her gift. After dinner, at 7pm he's taking her to his fav. local band's show who she's gotten pretty interested in. After their show, him and his band are going on stage and sing her 2 fav. songs to her; Vindicated by Dashboard and Hanging by a moment by Life house. All of that should be over at about 10 or 10:30pm. When it's over, he'll take her to her house where all her friends are waiting for her. We’re gonna party it up through the rest of the night and may be a lil into the morning ;).
But anyway, he still needs to figure out what he's going to do with her from 11am to 5 pm. That's about 6 hours lol. I want to tell him to take her to an amusement park but I don't know if 6 hours will be enough for that. Any suggestions?
Aww that's so sweet! OMG! But anyway Try taking her to the Movies and SHOPPING every girl would like that or maybe go to a beach or a lake or something so they can just relax and have a good time before the paarrrrr-tae lol. Hope u have fun and everything works out!!
Ugh...okay I HATE my clothes. I went through this whole phase recently of "I care what everyone else thinks and my opinion doesnt matter". And that includes clothes. I wear the same old crappy polo tees from hollister and stupid jeans and stupid shoes. I just look like every other boring un-unique "prep". Well, i've finally grown out of this. I now want to start dressing like my personality which is edgy, unique, and artsy. I like rock/emo/indie music if it helps? I'm looking for some fashion tips (example...stuff like wearing your belt to the side, etc.) And some stores online I could check out to help me dress more "edgy". Also, i dont have alot of money. How can i rock out a plain polo? Any hair ideas? Makeup ideas? I hate dressing "preppy" when inside im not like that. THANKS!
Try some stores like Rave,Wet seal,G&G,Fashion Bug,and if ur looking for cheep try Value City. Those are stores near me I hope their near you. They have Hot but cheep clothes too. So i hope I helped.
my hair is pretty dark so i want to dye my hair to a brown color ..i dont want to use hair products because me and those dont mix well together because everytime i try it doesnt work.. so is there anything i can use? iheard if you put suntan lotion on ur hair it would come out lighter? should i try that?
I think you should go to a salon it would probally come out much better and DO NOT use suntan lotion if you dont know the effects for sure.It may get worse sweetie. hOpe o hELped love ya
Smooches xoxox
can u get pregnant from giving bloow jobs? swallowing sperm>? help.
No Silly! you cant get pregnat! But becareful you may pick up a disease such as Syphilis etc. Hope I helped..
What WEBSITE can I get a picture of a girl with twisties and then the rest of her hair curled? I want my hair like that for my dance but I was told I need a picture to show the hairdresser exactly like I want it.
I dont know u need to search google or look in some magazines.even though u said WEBSITE u'd be better off using a magazine try BLACK hair or Hype type magazine
i have really frizzy curly hair and for the last year i have been straightening it everyday which gets rid of the frizz aswell as the curl but this summer i really don't want to be straightening my hair everyday i want to enjoy my time in the sun but without the frizz i have tryed loads of different frizz shampoo's but i can't find one that will make me have cute natural curls (like i have) but without the great frizz,
anyone know anything i can try??
Go to the hair salon.Maybe try to get a perm or just ask them wat could you use.
I just bought a Lacoste shirt off ebay and it arrived in the mail today. I'm having doubts to whether it is truely authentic or not. The seller confirmed that it was authentic with Devenlay on the wash tag- it doesn't. It has two pearly-type buttons..It looks plastic but it also looks shiny and pearly. The alligator is kind of big. There is not care label..on one of the labels, though, it says "Designed in France. Made in Peru. Hecho en peru. RN 87551-CA 15998. The tag says that it is the caiman style. Can anyone give me more info to wether it is authentic or not? Thanks
I would say its fake because it doesnt have the name on the tag. Therfore I think its FAKE.
No matter what i tell myself to do. I can't do it. I like this guy. I say to myself I'm going to go say hi to him, but when i see him i can't. I feel weird saying hi to someone that i don't have eye contact with. what do i do to get him to want to talk to me and look at me in the eyes not stare at me when he thinks that i'm not looking. what do i do?
Why dont you ask someone that your koo wit to introduce you to him.This gives you a chance to star conversation with him.Exchange numbers and then just get to know him. Well hope i helped :)
smooches!!
Im a fifteen-year-old female and I use the finishing touch on my mustache, but it doesnt cut the hair close enough,and it grows back really fast the next day, i dont wanna shave and im allergic to nair and other depilatories. I was wondering..would getting it waxed be almost the same thing? Will it grow back like my mustache does now or will it be all nasty n stuff? And if i do get it waxed does it have to be real long, cuz if it does that will be real nasty! Thanks in advance!!
-DeZ
No waxing is the best thing to do alot of my friends do it but i dont have to. Just try it.
I have acne (thats not really the point) and i used acne cream on my face but i recently stopped using it around my nose because id get really dry skin there. My problem is that it is still all dry and flaky and red there, even if i dont use medication there. I tried lotion and vasoline but that didnt work. The lotion just made it more red and the vaseline made it look oily and i dont want it clogging my pores .. again. I dont have any money to go out and buy anything so does neone have any suggestions what i should try to use? Thanks!!
Try using a DRY SKIN lotion but not the cheap kind.If not try seeing a dermotoligest.
ok so my friend says shes not obbsessed with this guy but she is and he is the only thing she ever talks about it is soo annoying!!! she is always talking about how rich he is and how his parents might rent a limo to take them to a formal dance im not jelous at all b/c he is like my brother but ever other word that comes out of her mouth is his name! and so this has gone on for about 2 weeks and about a day or two ago i have been saying loser a lot and i dono y and she is getting mad at me for that and i dono y b/c she has said his name about 50 times today and i have only said loser about 10 ugh! its making me so mad! can someone please tell me why she is doing this?
It's just a crush it will pass. Just put up with it soon she'll start to start saying his name less and less. So just be patient.I'm sure u went through that stage to.
This may seem like a weird question to ask, but sometimes i get vaginal discharge. It is like gooey white stuff in my underwear. I read in magazines that is normal when you are about ready to get your first period, but its been along time and i havent gotten my period yet! I wash around there every night and i wear pads to keep it from not killing my underwear but it still smells bad and keep coming! What should i do?
Its perfectly normal.this happened to me for a long time before getting my period.My doctor said this is a sign that your period will be coming within 6 monts to 2 yrs! It seem log but it is perfectly normal nothing to worry about.
As we all know mothers day is tomorrow. Does anyone have any good ideas on what to get mine?? I have no idea plese help! I will rate high for a good answer! THanks!
maybe get you mom some jewlery,like a necklace that says mom or something on it.Buy her something she's been wanting.If not just buy her a card and a dozen roses and take her out to dinner or make dinner for her.She'll definetly appreciate that.
ok, after everytime i masterbate, i feel really, really guilty...i wounder what my girlfriend would say if she had found out, i feel like it is a complete sin, and after everytime i do that, i feel that God punishes me, but he doesnt seem to punish other people i know do it... what should i think? is it ok, or should i try to stop?? HELP!!
What is there to feel guilty about? Why would your g/f get mad? No its not a wet dream a wet dream is where,u have a sexual experieance* in your dream and u cum in your sleep.well umm. if u and your girlfriend arent doin it some1 has to. But if you want to stop.ask your girl if she'll do more sexual things with you.