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Ok so I got my period kind of young, in 5th grade. Now im in 6th grade and even though i know more and more girls are starting to get it, im still reallly scared to tell anyone. Well obvilusly (sp?) like anyone else i dont want leaks. but the problem is since i am young i cant put in a very large tampon, so some blood always gets on my underware. I've tried wearing pads with my tampon but it feels so uncomfortable. What should i do? Thanxxx in advance (link)
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-wear a pad
-its your secret dont tell anyone
-do you have a very very close bestfriend tell her if thats what you want to do
-ask your mom
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so i have a problem. i'm in love with my boyfriend. and he tells me all the time that he's in love with me.
well... today he told me that he never wants to get married or have kids. what should i do?
have you guys heard anyone say this and then change their mind?
please let me know. i need advice ASAP. (link)
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-do you want to have kids
-well if yall do, do it and you get pregnant he's might leave you so my advice now is to try 1 more time and see his answer then if its the same break up with him
-move on
-tell him face to face why your breaking up with him
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well, im in 8th grade and i think i like this kid in 7th grade. im not sure if my friends would be okay with me liking someone in 7th grade so i havnt told them/. over the weekend i spent like a whole day with him and some other people and we talked a lot and i really like him. another thing is that he might like my friend because whenever i like a guy they like her and its always that way and i hate it but tis just whgat happens. what do you think i should do.. tell my friends, stop liking him, try to get closer and talk more to him, what!!!!!! (link)
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-tell him how you fill dont be afraid
-tell your friends that you like a 7th grader and thats that it doesnt matter cause your 1 grade ahead of him
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my best friend (alexa) repeats everything i say! it gets so annoying. like one time i said to this girl (alexa was there too), "yeah they were aiming the balls at us not the goal." and then alexa says "yeah they were aiming the balls at us not the goal." the exact same thing. like last night i was like to this kid "i would date you." and then she says "I would date you." she does it al the time and the worst thing is she acts like she thought of it herself! what should i do? talk to her? what should i say? (link)
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you should say:
-alexa im sorry but thats getting annoying can you please stop
-please be more mauture alexa
-talk to her
-she's going to keep doing it if you dont tell her
-do that to her and see how she likes it
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Yesterday, all I ate was cereal, an apple, shrimp crackers, a few mints, and a bag of jelly beans. How come I haven't been hungry since then?? now its the next day at like 12pm.. geez, is this like super unhealthy? Im going to eat breakfast now, but idk why im not like starving or anything. (link)
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-do you see how much you named
-probably cause you ate the day before
-eat something though cause you dont want to starve yourself thats not healthy
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OK. so my sister is married to this guy. who has a brother my age. and i was just wondering if there was anything wrong with dating him. because hes like my brother in law...but we're not blood related or anything. it was just something i always wondered. (link)
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-theres nothing wrong with that
-you better get hi while hes avalible now
-get before someone else does
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okay so heres the story.. My boyfriends best friend is his ex girlfriend and he has left me for her then comes back to me. but his ex is his best friend and i am always a little worried on what could happen.. because he is always at her house but i dont want to accuse him of anything. what should i do about this? is there anything i can say to him with out him getting angry? (link)
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-tell him to be honest
-tell her to back off or you'll beat her down (lol)
-warn her
-do something to him that he'll never forget
-spy ask friends to help you
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okay well at my school dances nobody really dances. its more like theyre each others stripper poles. im not really that type of girl who dances like a whore. i dont want to look like an idiot though. what should i do? (link)
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-dance with your date slow dance
-dance with your friends
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im 17 and have been putting up with my mom for years. she has used drugs for a while mostly coke and pain killers. she seems like really fuckd up from everything and it just really sucks. she has such a bad personality most of the time and can be the biggest bitch. it really sucks and im so fucked up cuz of all of it.im not gunna ask what i can do because theres nuthing i can and im not going to btrig her to rehab or anything cuzxz she`ll fight me. but one of the bggest problems is that shes like parranoid, i have no privacy anymore. its nothing about like where i am or anything, its my room. she looks through everything. everything. i am not even kidding, there is not an inch in my room she wont check. for no reason either. so last night i came home and she didntt really say anything different but i went in my room and saw that one of papers i have was out (from this spot i keep stuff) so i checked the spot and everything was gone. i had pregnancy tests in there from a few months ago that ive never taken out because i dont know what to do with them because she chekcs the trash all the time. she hasnt said anything but today my aunt told me my mom found them. i dont know what to do like i dont care she found them so much its just the fact that i have no privacy. this sounds bad but i really dont like her, i havent been able to stand her few years but now i just dont know what to do it sucks im 17 and a girl needs her damn privacy.
help=( (link)
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-get a job
-move out
-move with your aunt or a responsible person in your family
-get your own cheap apartment
-stay in school
-are you pregnant if you are you need to get out of that house hold because thats not good for a child to be raised
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I have an important event I have to attend tomorrow night. My hair is very curly, but I straighten it often. I have VERY short layers, but my hair comes down to my chest. How can I get my hair SUPER straight? Like, what can I do to make everything straight and withstand a night of cold blowing winds? (link)
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-flat iron it
-take a shower wet it
-hot comb it
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ok theres this guy who sits next to me and im a freshman and hes a sophomore. i dont know were just friends and we laugh a lot. and I'm starting to like him, but since all I act around him is just the funny freshman who laughs all the time, he cant really see my more lovable side. and Im not just gonna randomly start flirting with him cause hes just a guy whos funny in the "not class clown" guy. and he'll be like what the hell. hah can u give me hints on how i can be sweet and cute little by little to get some of his attention on my other side,not only my laughing side? THanKs! (link)
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-write him a note
-tell him how you fill
-ask him to the movies
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Right now, I'm kinda sick of my boyfriend. When I think about kissing him, I get a little weirded out. This is unusual for me, we've been dating for four happy months. I haven't seen him in two weeks because he's been so busy, and I'm not exactly sure why I feel this way. I still like him, but why all the sudden to I feel sick of him? Will this go away? (link)
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-talk to him
-this a type of question you need to talk out with your boy friend
-tell him how you fill
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15/f. okay there is this guy that i like and he is friends with mostly girls because he is funny and easy to talk to. well we had play auditions on friday and he would like hug the other girls when they were done and stuff and tell other girls jokingly like i love you and hug them. but the doesn't do this to me. like we are good friends and we hung out during the play auditions but like he didn't hug me when i was done or anything. like we might even be better friends then some of the other girls he hugged. why do you think he doesn't act like that with me too? could it be that he likes me and just doesn't want to be obvious? (link)
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could mean he likes you but doesnt want to show it
look for more clues & signs
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well you see m cousin had basucally sex with her cousin. Is this weird or kind of normal? She also says she masterbates a lot also. I don;t knaow whats wrong with her shes only 12! I really need help, what should i think, does she need help? Does anyonme know any other people kind of like this?
Thxx in advance (link)
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when a cousin has sex with another cousin that is nasty point blank
ask her why did she do that
talk to her
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Christina was trying on a sweater which her mom liked and wanted to get as a present for Christinas aunt. So Christinas mom asked Christina what size she was trying on and Christina wanted to know why. And her mother said; Well if the sweater is a size 8, 10, 12 then it will be hard for me to judge what size to get but if it is a small, medium, large then it is easier for me to judge; Christina asked; mom do you think I am higher than an 8; and her mother said; No; But Christina
didnt let it go and asked again; Mom do you think I am higher than an 8; and her mother said; You are very thin, you look drawn: Christina was upset and her mother said to Christina; You look beautiful, I just dont want you to lose weight: So Christina asked her mom; Do you think I should gain weight: and her mother said "No I just dont want you to lose weight; OK HERE IS THE REST OF THE STORY: A WEEK LATER AFTER CHRISTINAS VACATION WAS COMING TO A CLOSE HER MOTHER WENT OVER TO Christina AND SAID; Christina YOU DO NOT LOOK DRAWN ANY MORE AND THE REASON YOU DONT LOOK DRAWN ANY MORE IS YOU FINALLY HAVE TAKEN A VACATION - THE LAST ONE YOU TOOK WAS TWO YEARS AGO. YOU LOOK GOOD. Christina on the last day of her vacation told her friends the two conversations she had with her mom and they said (1) When someone is thin like you and they look drawn they look even thinner then they are and (2) Now your mother is saying you no longer look drawn: (3) and she never thought you should gain, she just does not want you to lose. MY QUESTION: DO YOU AGREE WITH CHRISTINAS FRIENDS?
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you cant look a certain way bc of a vacation
yuo look a certain way about how you eat or your weight
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ok, so there is this girl that i like who sits next to me in spanish. well i used to only talk to her on the computer, but then she asked y i never talked in class. i told her it was partially because i was tired and partially because i was shy. well she told me not to be shy and i started talkin to her a bit more. i called her like 4 or 5 nights in a row and we still talk quite a bit, and when we do we usually have pretty long converations and we r almost exactly alike. well her date for the dance didnt turn in his slip on time and she asked if i was going. i asked why and she said it was because her date had sent in the date slip too late because he goes to a different school. well i couldnt go because i didnt have a ticket. does this sound like she likes me more than a friend? please help me. i will rate high for good advice on what i should do. i plan on just staying close to her and talkin to her alot and wait until her and her boyfriend brake up then make my move like a week or two after. (link)
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yes that means she trying to get 2 know you just be cool
talk to her ask her questions about herself
flirt with her
write her a note tell her how you fill abou her
give her a flower or teddy bear or something sweet
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I have to friends they both like the same boy but they said they wasn't going to be mad at each other, and they wouldn't let it break their friendship.
now they are amd at each other
what should i tell them (link)
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forget him
move on
explain to them it aint worth it
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i know how to babysit but i don't kbow how to tell people about my interset and that if they need a babysitter im available...help
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-start with your family and friends
-then ask mom/dad to telltheir friends about you being a good babysitter
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my busdriver makes me sit in seat #2 on the bus because i "turned around". my busdriver said that its my permanant seat, no ands,ifs,or buts. its so annoying and i want to be with my friends in the back. i don't want to sit with the geeks in the front and when my friends come on the bus, they need to sit in the front with me. it sucks and i need help. i am not even turning around on the bus, its always the guys. (link)
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-forget what all them other people aadvice said
-tell your parents
-tell your friends to sit near you
-write your bus driver a note tell that heffa how mean and wrong that was
-ride a new bus
-get dropped off
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I don't feel safe at my school.
Like, yesterday, I left my binder in a class in a basket under the seat. I come back today and it is totally ALL written on, every single page [which is like 100 pages]. It says "Dum ho", "slut", "sell out", "I HATE YOU B@#!@! :D" all this unprintable stuff.
and, today in 5th period, i get a pass to go to the bathroom and when I walk outside, the guys that love to torment me start making fun of me.
HIM:"HEY IT'S UGLY GIRL!!! GODDMMT! Why are you so ugly!!?!?"
ME:"I'm not ugly. JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!"
HIM: *he gets 4 inches close to my face* "Why should we?"
ME: "Well, if you think I'm so ugly, why don't you just leave so you don't have to look at me?"
and the night before, i bit my lip really hard and it swelled up on the bottom lip.
HIM: "HEY WHATS ON YOUR LIP?"
ME: "Its-"
HIM: "-EWWW IS THAT HERPES!!?!? OH MY GOD IT'S HERPES!!!"
now they wait for me at the doors they know i'm going through so they can torment me.
i don't feel safe.
i don't want to go to the bathroom or go outside of class, or even switch classes!
i'm constantly looking out for people that hate me.
what do i do? :\
please help soon.
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well than bitch let them beat yo ass you better take somebody's advice quick if you think i give bad advice ok
you better tell somebody before it gets worst
no affense but im just telling you like it is ok
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