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my mom
im 17 and have been putting up with my mom for years. she has used drugs for a while mostly coke and pain killers. she seems like really fuckd up from everything and it just really sucks. she has such a bad personality most of the time and can be the biggest bitch. it really sucks and im so fucked up cuz of all of it.im not gunna ask what i can do because theres nuthing i can and im not going to btrig her to rehab or anything cuzxz she`ll fight me. but one of the bggest problems is that shes like parranoid, i have no privacy anymore. its nothing about like where i am or anything, its my room. she looks through everything. everything. i am not even kidding, there is not an inch in my room she wont check. for no reason either. so last night i came home and she didntt really say anything different but i went in my room and saw that one of papers i have was out (from this spot i keep stuff) so i checked the spot and everything was gone. i had pregnancy tests in there from a few months ago that ive never taken out because i dont know what to do with them because she chekcs the trash all the time. she hasnt said anything but today my aunt told me my mom found them. i dont know what to do like i dont care she found them so much its just the fact that i have no privacy. this sounds bad but i really dont like her, i havent been able to stand her few years but now i just dont know what to do it sucks im 17 and a girl needs her damn privacy.
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Well I'm your age now I also have a mom is so over protective,I agree it's very hard to get some privacy since ,you said that can't get her to go to rehab so try locking up your room or putting your very valuable things in a safe box so they will be safely secure, and you won't have to worry about your mom trying to look through it.I know that eventually one day you're going to have to talk to your mom but you have to at least try one more time,see what's going on with her,you won't regret it knowing that at least you tried,if your relationship with her gets very distant it'll be because she didn't cooperate.
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-get a job
-move out
-move with your aunt or a responsible person in your family
-get your own cheap apartment
-stay in school
-are you pregnant if you are you need to get out of that house hold because thats not good for a child to be raised
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well if you can't move out then try to keep your private things like that at somebody's house bacuse it sounds to me that NOTHING is safe. i would try to move out as soon as you can. that is the best solution if you can't get your own place find a family member who would let you saty with them until you could move out
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you should probably move out now get a job i mean your 17 you can get an apartment or something and if not move in with another responsible family member
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