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boys changing their minds
so i have a problem. i'm in love with my boyfriend. and he tells me all the time that he's in love with me.
well... today he told me that he never wants to get married or have kids. what should i do?
have you guys heard anyone say this and then change their mind?
please let me know. i need advice ASAP.
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Of course. Lots of guys say that. I'm guessing you and your boyfriend are in the high school age group. Have you heard of many teenage boys who desperately want children? They'd rather watch football than take care of babies. (no offense to any guys, i know that's a stereotype, but really...how many of you want kids right now?) Just wait it out. If you two do make it together to an age where marriage is a possibility, then his mind might change. And I can almost assure you that even if he keeps on saying "NO KIDS" if you tell him you two are going to have a baby (when you're married) he will be happy. Hope I helped =]
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Yes, I've heard plenty of people say this before.
It all depends on the age, though. If you and him are in high school, most kids are going to probably be like that. They figure,"I'm young, I'm going to have fun, I don't want to be old and settled down," and whatnot, but as their age progresses and they become more mature and realize that they need to grow up, they might realize that they infact DO want a family and everything.
People's minds can change about this all the time. I'm only fifteen and I've debated wether or not I want to be a mother whenever I'm older. Cause I'm always switching through the good points of kids, and then the bad, which is probably how guys view marriage and family and whatnot.
If you two are in High School or whatnot, just give him some time. Maybe have some talks with hm about it every now and then, and just see what happens and if his mind changes.
But if you two are in say, college, or older? Then I would have a serious talk with him about where he finds this relationship going since you want marriage and children, and he doesn't. And see where it goes from there.
I hope I helped.
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it all depends on your age, if your in High School, than it doesn't metter, because rarely do people/couples ever marry their high school sweeties, but if your out of college, maybe you should take it slow, he could change his mind, again, but ask him what he really feels ...if that makes sense :D
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-do you want to have kids
-well if yall do, do it and you get pregnant he's might leave you so my advice now is to try 1 more time and see his answer then if its the same break up with him
-move on
-tell him face to face why your breaking up with him
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