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love-its long-but i really need help1
14/f
well i have a BF that lives in another state about 4 hours away. i love him so much. but our parents dont know were dating. i met him because our parents are family friends. then his family came to visit for the first time. then i met their 15 yr old son. i do care about him a lot. but a couple days ago i was online and i let a guy my age have cyber sex w/me. and now i have to tell him the truth because i'm always honest w/ him and i think its best for me to tell him. but i learned my mistake and i'm never gonna do something like that again online or inreal life w/ someone i dont know. but i'm starting to have feelings for some guy at school and our winterfest dance is comming up. i love this ohio BF but i dont see how i can stop having feelings for other guys or stop flirting w/ other guys in my hometown. one day i mentioned how hard it was to have a long distance BF, all he said was yeah and he was glad we were together and he trusted me and he was glad he's homeschooled so he didnt have to deal w/ stuff like that. the worst part about it is that b4 we were born his mom lived were i live now. and his dad lives were they live now and now their married. they were in the same situation were in. i dont know what to do. i love this ohio BF but i cant stop having feelings for this other guy-and winterfest dance is comming soon. i dont want a friend as a date. plez help. 5's for all. thank you- i'm desperate for help.
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dont let go of your ohio bf just yet
this question is REALLY hard to asnwer since its a long distance relationship but here i go: you keep sayin that u love him soo when someone else flirts with you just think in your head, do you want to hurt someone you love??? would he be proud of you if you flirt with some other guy??? do you think he would still feel special??? most of all if he found out or something goes wrong would he trust you? and if he doesn't trust you would you be able to earn his trust back??? ... hopefully i helped, good luck on your situation hunn!!!
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hey !
i think you should find out if that guy that goes to your school likes youu! so that if you break up with your boyfriend in ohio then you can know that you have a chance with the guy at your school!
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-if you want to tell your bf then tell him
-but you never know he could've been cheating on you or did something with another girl you never know i mean hes in another state
-follow your heart girl if you like the other guy you are going to have to let your other bf go
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