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i got my period for the first time thursday night and today is saturday.. it was like kinda heavy up until friday night..is that supposed to happen? cuz like now its like i didn't even have my period because its barely coming out..someone please help me and tell me if this is normal


yeah thats definitely normal. it probably means that your period is almost over .. like within the next day or so. just wear a liner for the time being tho. hope that helps you!

XO0X -- KELSEY

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i have to go to a graduation party tomorrow and theres a swimming pool and everyones gunna be swimming! well i just got my period for the first time thursday night ( graduation party's sunday) should i swim? and if i do do i wear a tampon? please help what do i do?


yes u should swim! and also yes.. wear a tampon. that wouldnt be good if u got out of the pool.. and .. yeah enuff said. hope i helped!


XO0X -- KELSEY

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I need a pet! should i get a dog or cat? i dont want it to smell bad! so what smell better


DOGS! holy crap i hate cats.. 1st of all they shed and and the little box and everything else cats have smell.. sorry to those who have them! but yes if i were u i would DEFINATELY get a dog =-D


XO0X -- KELSEY

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does anyone know any cute summer quotes for my aim profile..?


a good site for woutes is:
http://www.quotemania.2ya.com


hope that helps!

XO0X -- KELSEY

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I'm 13 and i still havent gotten my period. Is that unusal? j/w thx
signed, slow flow


no thats not unusual.. it just depends on your body. i know some people who didnt even start until they were 16 so dont even worry about it. and trust me, you DONT want to have it.. keep em cumin! hope i helped


XO0X -- KELSEY

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well i need some advice because i've been wearin a thong for about a year now and i've kept it a secret from mi mom but yesterday she found 1 ov them and she didnt really care and wen she asked if it waz mine i said it was my friends. and my problem is i really don't wanna tell her tha truth... :( ( sould i stop wearin them??) i don't know wat 2 do if she brings up tha subject again? thanx ur advice would mean a lot to me....

i think u should tell your mom. she seems like its not that big of a deal neway. she most likely wear them too, which is pretty gross for any mom but thats not the point. maybe she'll start buying you some once you tell her =-P you never know! just talk to your mom ...


XO0X -- KELSEY

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i havent got my period yet and i want to try on a tampon to c wat it feels like and my friend said u can like get a disease or sumthing??
so i was wundering cen i try on a tampon??

ur friend lied. haha but yes you can try a tampon on to see what it feels like. i wouldn't keep it in very long.. hope that helps u .....



XO0X --
KELSEY

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well.. you see theres these two guys. they both like me and i like both of them but one of them always rushes me in to things im not ready for ..the other is i guess perfect .. but i still like the first one!! idk wut to do! pick the one that treats me best? or the one that doesnt? HELP!

take the one that treats you rite definately! dont even waste your time on someone you feel uncomfortable with. if he rushes you so much he might do that to other people too so i say go for the one that you can trust. if it doesnt work out you could always try again with the aggressive one... hope everything works out foryou! keep me posted XO0X -- Kelsey

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i've had my period for about a year and a half now. i've tried using tampons but every time i do it hurts soooooooooo bad!! i can barely even get the tip in and i know i'm putting it in the right hole. i need tips on how to put tampons in because i want to use them not stupid pads. (

the tampon seriously shouldnt hurt that bad. maybe when you've 1st started but not after a year and half definately. i think you should go see a doctor or something. also before u get drastic try a smaller one. that could help too. hope i helped ......... XO0X -- Kelsey

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so theirs this boy and my best friend likes him nd hes trying to fuckk me and i dunno what to do. . help

thanx

tell him to fuck off and instead of himself to your best friend

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Ok i am the same one who said she was raped and didnt know how to tell her parents because I was to scared...well see the thing is i am to scared to do that because the guy who raped me was my 18 year old cuzin and he said he would kill me if he found out I told anyone and well since hes my cuzin he will find out that people know very quickly even if he just finds out i told someone i was raped he will find a way to kill me...i really have no clue what to do and I am so freaked out...plz help
thanks

u absolutely HAVE to tell your parents. make them swear they wont tell NE1 but the cops.. your "favorite" cousins about to have his ass in jail

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does anyone know any shampoos/conditioners that make your hair like really silky??? i use pantene but my hair like got used to it and it doesnt work very well anymore... 5 for good answers...

try using dove or garnier fructis. they always work for my hair but everyones hairs different . also aussie's really good XO0X -- Kelsey

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im 5'7" and i weigh like 110. im really thin and i have trouble finding jeans. whenever i find some that are the right length theyre too baggy and stuff... i shop at wet seal, forever 21 --abercrombie sux so dont tell me to go there--any other stores where i can find relatively inexpensive jeans that have a lot of sizes? thanks

you could try going to Hollister, Charlotte Russe, maybe Gap .. im not sure. just look around in smaller stores. you just have to try them on for yoorself

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hey, i'm 13/f and weigh 95.. Ive been wanting to lose weight because im really skinny but my theighs and butt are really big. So I started not eating wendy's/mcdonalds/burger king/soda/desserts.. I've been doing that for about a month and I havent lost any weight, so I started exercising daily after every meal. I did that for about 2 weeks.. and still, I didnt lose any weight. Should I just go back to eating everything I normally would because eating healthy isnt doing anything and exercising isnt doing anything and I want to keep my metabolism high! what do I do?

i think you should shut up about losing weight. 95 pounds?! girl please thats so light! you dont even need to worry about it. start eating and still exercise. dont be so self conscious. sorry if this isnt the answer you wanted ..... XO0X -- Kelsey

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A week ago, my friend dumped her boyfriend (my crush) and 2 days later he told me he liked me. I said i like him too and we are together now. But he really doesnt act like he likes me. I mean when he was with my friend, he would follow her but he doesnt do that to me, and once on msn i said I love you to him and he just didnt say anything...im worried that i might be some kind of rebound girl...but on the other hand he asked me to do something with him in the holidays..so that means he asked me out..but i still think that im a rebound girl for some reason...help!!! =(

this gud sounds like hes using you to get back at your friend. she might have told him about your crush on him so now hes using it against both of yall. i say forget about him. move on .... XO0X -- Kelsey

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people say im really pretty and nice but it doesn't seem like anybody wants to be my friend. should i be like hyper and wild? cuz i have noticed that people like hyper and wild friends. idk what do i do?

just be yourself. dont try to be nething you're not because then you could come off fake or cheezy. be yourself and if people dont like you then fuck them, they havnt gotten to know you and are just jealous so play it like that.. keep me posted!! XO0X -- Kelsey

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im 14/f and i have never had a boifriend. i am really outgoing around my friends but whenever i'm around guys i get shy especially around guys i like. and it seems like all the guys at my school only like the sluts and nobody else.. what are some ways to get to be better friends with more guys and how to not be shy around them? thanks.

u jjust have to confidence in yourself. let loose and show them that your not that same shy girl they all know. tell yourself to shut up and do what you KNOW you want. just dont think .. Hope i helped!! XO0X -- Kelsey

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Ok so wher going on vacation tommorw
Im cleaning the house
my dad left and said if there was any fighting we were going to leave 5 hourslate tommorw and he sooooo mena it s o we wont be able to swim ( its gonne be the onlii nce day, while i was cleaning a threw soem cloths and my LITTLE sisters room she 9. She Wipped a really har doll at my ribs and it hurts sooo bad. wHENever i do the smallest tihng bad to her she flips outand clal my dad overnotihng, like i really never hurt her.

please help and hurry
What do i do risk oging late tommrow or just let her not get in troble.

i think u should just leave her alone.. i know its hard and im not very good at it either. but just try to get along with her for atleast tomorrow =-D.. or u could just let her not get in trouble. make her pay while yall are at the beach.. hope i helped -- Kelsey

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i usually dont have confidence issues like this, but i needed some help, lol.

i`m going to a new high school this year, with mostly new kids. i want to try out for the football cheerleading squad. tryouts are in late july. anyway, i don`t know why, but i`m having confidence issues about it. i`m not sure what they expect of us, i`m afraid i`ll screw it all up, and i`m afraid i`m going to embarrass myself since i haven`t done cheerleading in such a long time. should i just go for it, or forget it?

i`m also shy to tell my family and friends that I want to do it and i don`t know why because really looking at it its not a big deal. i can dance and stuff, but like i said i don`t know what they expect. ugh, can someone give me some guidance?

i say just go for it! im a cheerleader myself and it never gets easy but just keep trying! your really never going to know what to expect with ne team [even if u have gone to that same high school and been on the team before] you could work on your jumps by doing drills and stretch everyday for more flexibility.. just work on it! dont even worry.. just try your best.... keep me posted! XO0X -- Kelsey

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Is it bad not to masturbate.... cuz i'm 14.f and i've never masturbated... i think its kind of gross...

nooo thats not bad! its up to you neway. your body .. and plus its not sumthing u should really be talking about with freinds so dont even worry about it... its all up to you if u want to or not

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