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well here's the deal ive had a lot of trouble with this friend...so i will start from the begining so this guy we will call him "fred" well fred was going out with this girl "sara" so fred and sara were going out and fred would sneak over sara's house at night and they would do "stuff" well one night sara didnt wanna do the stuff but fred did and fred forced himself upon on her and raped her anally (they had never gone that far before)he wasnt caught till afterwards, he is now in a self help center...well the reason why he is in the center is not cus of raping sara is because he was caught molesting his sister...he later confused that he has molested his sister for the past 6 years now and his sister didnt know any better cus shes 10 now and it has been done since she was 4 and didnt know she was supposed to stop...so now he is in a self help center has been for a year now...his mom doesnt know i know what he did nor does he and they expect me to resume my freindship with him cus we were best friends..ive talked to my youth pastor about it cus im a Christian and i know i should forgive but its hard too speccially since sara was also a best freind and freds sister is like my little sister...i dunno what to do...should i forgive him should i stay friends with him or what because i know he will be coming back soon.... (link)
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Whoa dude you got a big burrden on your shoulders... well what i would do is talk to him and maybe show him the bible and get him saved.. then talk to him about what he did and tell him that what he did was bad and cut the friend ship off until like a yr. then start to talk to him... but what he did was a HUGE sin and i would NOT forgive him EVER... but thats just me and what i would do... hope i help lots of love
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how old do u have to be to get epancipated ((divorced from ur parents))? anyone no? thanx (link)
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HEY!!
Well my sisters boy friend got emancipated at the age of 18 thats the yougest we all looked into it sorry so old... but if your parents are hurting you you can tell the police or someone!! hope i helped!! lots of love.. and hope every thing gose good..
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Hey..okay well my problem is that i really really like this guy...he is really hot,got a good personailty hes really fun to be around...but I heard that he only goes out with punk girls which im not..and im not just about to change who i am for a guy but i really like this one!!..i mean i talk to him and hang around with him...but i dont kno what to do!!!
So my question(s) is: 1.what is your idea of being punk?
2.if he just goes for punk girls....how do i try to get him to notice me without trying to be too punk?
3.do you think there will ever be a chance if i keep trying?
Thanxs girls...luvs you lots (link)
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hey!!
1.My idea of being punk is.. well DONT DO IT im tellin ya its not a bad thing but dont change for him...
2. He probley dosent JUST go for punk gurls those are probley the only ones that like him also hehe but in sure if he likes you enough to go out with you he ask you out just be your self....
3. Try as hard as you want its probley not gonna hurt anything!!
Hope i helped!!!!!!
Jeska!!!
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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please. (link)
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Hey okay wow he deffinity sounds like he dosent kno what he wants, witch can hurt you... but not just you his ex. gurl friend 2 dont go back to him he just wants a fall back gurl let him fall on his ass then see what he dose.. hope i helped babe see ya lata!!
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On saturday me and my b/f were suppose to hang out, but he canceled. So he said we should hang out on sunday, but he never showed up or called or anything. I tried calling but no one answered his house or cell. Should I be worried? Because he's usually on-line all the time, but lately he hasn't been. He never blows me off ever. I know he wouldn't cheat on me either, he's not that kind of guy. What should I do? Should I be worried??? Please help! :( (link)
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hey! okay i think you should just be up front and ask him.. also if hes only done it once you probley dont want to worry.. i mean stuff comes up he could of gotten grounded ya kno i hope i helped
JESKA*
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I have two horses that are the BEST of friends. You can't take one out of the pen without the other. They are stuck like glue, but one is 42 years old! really he is! and the other is at least 30. When one passes away, do you think we should put the other one down? I mean they are both already really old and I know that one would be in MISERY without the other. Just getting an idea if the event might arise. (link)
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hello!! well i think that that question should be up to the vet. i mean it might just be that the horse will be in misery for a couple weeks and then get over it but i would recremend the vet. hope i helped
JESKA
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Where can I get music for my Xanga? thanks (link)
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if you go to the search thingy and type in
HTML_INDEX and send it click on the first one and go to it and click the arrow thats on the site and click music there are like 40 sites hope i helped please rate
JESKA
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ok...i need help!!! lyk in the movire thirteen...the girl tracy and her mom dont get along and lyk i sorta dont get along with my mom...and we fight over lyk the stupidest things and im just afraid that me and my mom are gonna fight as bad as tracy and her mom...and i never ever want that to happen!!!! also, im afraid the peer pressure is gona get me into drugs and sex and lyk smoking...and im sooo scared and i dont want that to happen AT ALL!!!! this sucks balls. (link)
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hey i totaly understand your problem i dont think the movies are alwasy true they always dramatize the problem dont worry the only way your mom and you would get like that is if you totaly hated her if you love her dont worry about it!! also its your choice to start smokeing and sex try to stay away from ppl who do that and dont be scared just think it over very very carefully be for you do anything wrong.... hope i helped!!
JESKA*
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whats a good way of hurting some one by punching them, like a good pressure point to push down on when they are like attacking you!! i just need help on how to fight.. i rate gooodddd (link)
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hey!! wow fighting isent always good but if you really need advice here it gose iv been in lots of fights all you have to do is open your fist so your palm is flat and whack your hand on the side of there face so like 2 of your fingers go in to there ears trust me they will have a ringin sound in there ear for awhile!! (( some one did it to me)) the good thing about that also is you dont have to be very big to do it, but the harder you swing the more it will hurt!! hope i helped
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Hey...I'm not very good at making friends, any Ideas? (link)
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well im just like you im very very shy if im new some where i cant just go up to ppl and say hey but i have learned some things that might help you a little even so you dont have to walk up to them all you have to do is smile at ppl and wave
i kno it might not sound like a lot but at least they will kno your friendly so they might come up and talk to you first!! hope i helped!!
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Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you! (link)
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-GuRlS---> ChaGe, JorDan, GraCe, HaNNah
-GuYs----> ChrIs, CoRRy, MaSSon, ChristIan
RATE ME ;)
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ive been really really close with my friend emily from 4th grade....i've also been friends wit another gurl chelsey since 1st....emily hated chelsey...then one day this year i invited both of then ova hopin they'd become friends...they did...now they hang out moa than i've hung out wit both of them....i cant tell emily a secret wit out her tellin chelsey and vise versa...sadly i think im jelous(:-(....i dont want to lose them!..what do i do! (link)
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well that sounds like its confuseing but there is always something you can do like try to invite one at a time over and get close then invite both of them over!! if your worryed about them tellin your secrets make SURE to let them know that you dont want them to tell, but things tend to slip out when your haveing a good time so dont tell anything too important. hope i helped
JeSSiiHaLL
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im 15 and a female! ok i went out with this guy about a year and a half ago and i made a big mistake (whole other story) and since the day we broke up i have had a major crush on him and EVERYBODY knew it cuz i have a big mouth and i don't keep it shut lol and well me and my cousin are very close or at least we were. she never met this guy untill a few months ago but she knew i would do anything to go back out with him. even though she was aware of this she still went on with her usual ways of flirting with him. this made me furious, but after about a month she forgot all about him. then one day i invited her to a party with me where i knew he was going to be there not thinking of the conciquences! she was all over him and it made me soooo angry. NOw they talk on the phone all the time i mean they don't even live in the same state! she told me that she wasn't even interested in dating him cuz she doesn't date guys out of state! so i am confused she is constantly calling me asking me to go places with them but i am not up for all that junk i don't want to sit there while they flirt. i think she might be doing this to be mean. but im not sure, i am now over this guy but it still P's me off to know that she is getting the attention of the guy i once dreamed of! please help cuz i really am confused about what i should do about the whole thing! (link)
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hey hey!!
well okay you say your over this guy but it sounds to me that you really like him and it sounds like your preatty jealous of her i kno you dont want to hear it but just read the letter you wrote!! im sure if she was trying to hurt you they would be going out already so dont try to jump to conclusions already.. call her and ask her what going on and be upfront!! but i hoped i helped
JeSSiiHaLL
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Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv* (link)
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*** GUYS NEVER CHANGE *** well theres an understatement... ne ways dont go back to him it seems like you and him arnt really sure about what you want.. but im sure if he is the one that he will wait (to not have sex) if he is really nice other wise keep your opitions open you never kno who really likes you....
JeSSiiHaLL
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