Be honest with him about your feelings and watch for his body language while you talk. See if he actually listens and cares about your concerns. Let him know that if things are not worked out you are prepared to move on and find happiness elsewhere. If he seems to care and does talk to you about change...there may still be some hope. If he sighs,rolls his eyes,looks away or seems likes he's not interested then you need to let him go and do better for yourself. Be warned that if you decide to leave him and he finds out that you are seeing someone else he will probably try to wiggle his way back into your life. This doesn't always mean that he has changed or even that he necessarily wants you back but will have more to do with the fact that he doesn't want someone else to have you. So, really think about it and be honest wit yourself. If you see that this relationship is going nowhere, get out and find happiness elsewhere.

It seems that either your friend is taking you for granted or she just has stronger chemistry with Ellie. My solution to the problem initially would have been for you to try and get to know Ellie so that it won't be akward and you would just become a trio of friends. That way everyone could be happy and get along. The problme with that seems to be that you and Ellie either don't get along, or don't know eachother well. It does seem to me that your friend had chosen Ellie's side since she is not hanging out with you since Ellie's return. I am sure that the argument was brutal, but after a cooling period of about a few days to a week...you and your friend should be able to talk things out in a calm mature manner. You obviously care about the frienship, so I think that you should make another effort to talk to her and be sure to get all of your feelings out on the table. Make sure that you don't walk away from the conversation wishing you had said things that you let pass you by. If she really is your genuine friend, she will atleast attempt to feel your pain and try to come to some agreement. If she does not...and seems not to care,you have to let her go because the friendship may have reached a close for the time being. That does not mean that the two of you can never be friends again, but that right now it just isn't working. Sometimes we don't realize that the title of a "best-friend" is a serious one to live up to. Just because the two of you have known eachother forever does not mean that you are or have to be best friends. if the relationship that the two of you share no longer fits the definition, then she is not your best friend. Take your cues from her and treat her as you would want to be treated. If she is not interested in being good friends with you, you have to broaden your circle and hang out with some other friends. Don't limit yourself to only her and her mood swings. Hang out and meet people and if she isn't it...you will meet other friends to treat you as you would like.

In situations I always decide that going with the heart is best, but you can't allow your heart to blind you from the reality in front of you. I'm sure she is a great person and has beautiful children, but that is a situation that is not ideal for an 18 year old. It could also become unhealthy for you at some point. If you decide to be with her, you may end up subconsciously hating her and blaming her for "robbing" you of a life that you deserved. Honestly you are too young to take on her burdens...and yes that is what they are because the marriage and children are her own. Those things are something that you should have the opportunity to go through yourself someday when you are ready. You can not allow the decisions she has made for herself dictate the path of your own life. You are only 18 and though you feel she is great you will absolutely find someone else who is even better and more suited for you. You will be happy with someone else if you give yourself the chance. Its not really about society, I am thinking about you and your future. you are in college and will have amazing things ahead. Focus on school and girls will come. I do not think that this particular young lady is the one for you. She hasn't even completely ended her marriage before beginning a relationship with someone else so her life in really not in order at all. She will drag you down with stress and weight that you don't need as a18 year old college freshman. Trust me, it will be hard to leave her alone at first but with time you will be very glad that you did. You can do better than a married woman with kids who isn't on your path. Be realistic with yourself and what you are ready for and it will begin to get easier for you. Being an 18 year old step father will not keep your interest and you would have contemplated leaving regularly if you had stayed. It will be better for you to have a clean break and move on, Good Luck!!!

You should have a talk with her to be sure, but it sounds to me like she is putting you on and off of a shelf. She doesn't sound like a good friend, but maybe more of an associate.Broaden your circle and start hanging out with other people so that you are not waiting on her to " come around" as a friend. Know that you realize that it has been unfair to you, don't allow her to treat you this way anymore. do things on your own terms and focus your energy elsewhere.

Take it one day at a time. Yes he is going to college, but that doesn't have to mean that things end there. Enjoy where you are now and getting to a more serious place in your relationship. Don't jump ahead by worrying about things that may happen in the future. Young love feels great so enjoy being in the moment. When the time comes...you and him can sit down and discuss the dynamics of the relationship and where it is going, expectations etc. For now it is best to keep it light. You don't want to turn him off by jumping too far ahead. Good Luck!

It sounds like you are really into your feelings heavy for this other guy because you view him as a possible escape from what you are going thru with your current boyfriend. It doesn't mean that the feelings are not real....they probably are since you've liked him in the past. You need to make sure you close one door before you open the other. If you do not sort out your feelings for your current boyfriend before jumping into another relationship, your feelings could switch back and forth between both guys. You don't want your heart involved in a tug of war situation, so if you are really finished with your current boyfriend then end the relationship with a clean break and be sure about your decision. As long as you would also end your relationship with your boyfriend without the promise of your crush being an option...you know you are doing it for you. Once you make the decision, commit to it and then you will truly be free to date someone else. The guy you have a crush on may feel the same way you do, but you will never know unless you explore. Rejection is always difficult to take, but if e isn't into you you will get over it and be fine again. The alternative of him never knowing how you feel and getting with someone else will always haunt you if you say nothing. You don't want to have the constant "what if" thoughts or regrets. Tell him a subtle way how you feel and just do it lightly and read his body language and response to you. You may be very suprised at the outcome. Good luck!

I had the same exact problem so what I did was upload the pic I wanted to use onto photobucket.com That site gives you the option of copying the url to the photo. Once you copy that, you can paste it to the advicenator's settings page where it gives you the option for a link to your photo. That way it will work no matter what size you want your pic to be. If it is larger or smaller than you would like, you just edit the size directly from photobucket.com and it will change to suit your needs automatically on your column since the link you copied controls it.

Sine it seems that you have done most of the reaching out I think that it wouldn't be a problem if you called her tomorrow to make plans. Today is ok as well,but tomorrow might be better. If you can't wait until tomorrow, just kind of keep it a little brief so that you don't appear as if you are trying to monopolize her time.If she's responding to all of your texts then it seems that she likes you. She will be thrilled that you want to ask her out again....just start off light. Women don't like it when a guy is too pushy so if she is busy or needs to schedule the date for a later night than you planned, don't be angry or forceful. Call her tomorrow and if she doesn't answer leave her a brief message about the two of you getting together. This way she knows exactly what you wanted and you can tell by her actions that follow whether or not that is something that she wants to do. If she doesn't answer and you leave a message she should call you back....I doubt that she wouldn't. take it from there. Any other questions let me know.

Your friends were absolutely wrong for doing that to you. I actually had that type of thing happen to me in the past with a couple of friends I trusted. In my opinion, someone that does that isn't being a good friend. I think now would be a good time to branch out and maybe make some new friends. There won't be much of a friendship if they are not trustworthy. If you decide to continue hanging out with those girls, be very careful and font tell them your personal business that you don't want out. If they ask why you aren't as open, tell them exactly why. I would hang with them a lot less and branch off and do my own thing while meeting new people.

Just wait a few days, about 3 but not longer than that. You won't seem desparate and it won't be too long. Females love when you show that you are interested, but hate to be smothered. As long as she sees that you like her but still have your own things going on, she will be into you. Ease in and take your cues from her so you aren't coming on too strong. It sounds like she likes you, so you are doing something right.

Chocolate covered strawberries to feed eachother are great, rose pedals, and if there is a glass shower you can place candles safely so the two of you can take a shower together in very dim lighting. Use scented candles and kill the lights wherever u can and massage oils. Other than strawberries and chocolate, maybe have treats like shrimp, champagne or whatever your taste is. Sexual, fun board games are cool too. Have fun!!

It would be a bad idea to date him and if you do, you will probably lose your friendship with her. Even though she says she doesn't care, she will. It is wrong for you to be romantically involved with anyone that was with your friend. If you do this she will not trust you in the future. If she really is your friend you shouldn't even be considering this. Don't get caught up in this taboo....it will blow up in your face.

It is good that you use the astringent, and you should always moisturize your skin. If you don't moisturize, your skin will become dry and you won't like it. I know that it seems that they would cancel each other out but you really do need them both. Moisture for your skin is good because you want it to stay hydrated...your astringent is fighting the annoying oils that can contribute to breakouts. Your skin should be moisturized, but not oily.

This is true if the two of you are using the same iTunes profile. What you can do if you two have separate user accounts on your computer is make sure you have iTunes downloaded on both user accounts, and create your own separate song lists on iTunes on your own profile. You will have one on your user account on the computer and he will have his own song list on his. This is how my husband and I keep our music separate and prevent erasing each other’s music.

Fill your time with other things. Pick up a fun hobby and hang out with your friends. Do fun things that make you who you are. Understand that there is nothing wrong with you just because that particular guy isn't interested. He will seem more appealing since he wasn't east to get, but don't waste your time. There are plenty of other guys that will be interested so just date someone else and this guy will become a memory over time.

Forget about him. It sounds like he is trying to use you for your body. Some guys try to play a guilt trip or become angry in an effort to trick you into feeling sorry and giving them what they want. You did the right thing so don't go back to that.

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If you are a virgin it may be uncomfortable for you. I don't really suggest using them until you are ready to become sexually active. If you are then you just need to relax and take your time with it and you will become ok with using them. If they are uncomfortable right now, take a break and use pads for a while. Come back to them later and you will feel fine. They are annoying at first to some females, but once you get the hang of it, they won't bother you. If you do decide that they are not for you that's ok, you can just use them when you need to and use sanitary napkins on most days.

Deep condition your hair as often as you can. Great products to use are biosilk hair serum, it's great and it's not oily at all so it won't weigh your hair down. Tresseme also makes a gloss spray that is to relieve frizz... It is AMAZING!!!!! I use it daily.

If you are short, a short cut will make you look taller and as far as bangs go, you will appear to be shorter if you get bangs that spread flat across your forehead. So, if you want the look of being taller you can still get bangs, but I would suggest getting some that are a little longer...for example...atleast to your brows maybe a little past them. Bangs any shorter than that will make your face look more square and you shorter. You also don't need for your bangs to take up a huge amount of your forehead. Just cut a small amount so that it isn't overwhelming. Bobs that are longer in the front, shorter in the back are a good look for what you want to achieve.

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