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Does he like me? will it make my friend jealous?
Well i went to my friends birthday party, it was her big FIFTEEN...Her ex started being really friendly with me and her at the same time except he kept on touching me around her and sometimes not around her...he once dated her and she kept getting close to him..he wanted to keep touching me..she thinks he likes me and she says she won't care if i date him..is that true?\
She still acts like she likes him..also, idk if he is trying to make her jealous or something because he did a lot right in front of her...PLEASE HELP!??
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I know I don't personally know your friend or anything but she is most likely like the average teenage girl which means she DOES CARE, even if she says she doesn't. Girls tend to "hide" their feelings because they don't want to rain on their best friends parade, which is most likely what she is doing to you. Either she is trying to get over him (for real) by saying that she doesn't care anymore, she thinks that you like him and she is trying to hide her feelings so you can have him, or he likes you and she doesn't want to seem like an idiot to have him not have the same feelings towards her. Your job is to decide which means more to you: keeping a friend, or having a temporary boyfriend. I know the mentally of many girls is "oh my friend will get over it.." which is probably true, but just think of what your reputation might be if you DO go out with him. Your friendship might not be the same with either of them if you do pursue this relationship and this relationship probably will not last anyway so what is the point of risking it? However, it really is your decision.. those were just a few suggestions to think about. Also, another point to add: if he skipped around from your friend to you, don't you think that he would go to perhaps another friend of yours or even back to her once you guys are broken up? (Not sure if that made sense haha) but I would just seriously consider those suggestions before you make your decision.. choose wisely..
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It would be a bad idea to date him and if you do, you will probably lose your friendship with her. Even though she says she doesn't care, she will. It is wrong for you to be romantically involved with anyone that was with your friend. If you do this she will not trust you in the future. If she really is your friend you shouldn't even be considering this. Don't get caught up in this taboo....it will blow up in your face.
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Ok.. first of all, I think you may be playing with fire because it kinda sounds like you like the attention from this guy.
Your friend is your friend!!!! No matter how many times she'll say I don't care if you date my ex boyfriend.. She still cares!! She could just be saying she doesn't care so you can be happy.
I know you would absolutely hate it if your friend started dating your ex boyfriend... I know for sure that I would!
Put it this way... your friend and this guy had feelings for each other once before. They kissed, they cuddled, who knows they may have taken things a bit further then that. They cared for each other and they could have even loved each other..!!
If you were to date him and share this with him, your friend wont want to know the juicy details of your weekend with him. It would make the situation to awkward and uncomfortable.
I think if you do have feelings for this guy, you need to either get over them real fast or have a serious BIG long talk with your friend.
Hope I helped. Good Luck :)
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