ok hi
i was talking to this boy and we were just friends with benfits but i really liked him and although he told me he really liked me i dont really believe it. so earlier this week i left him a voicemail telling him i wanted to just be friends and nothing eles because i fell in love once and got hurt and i didnt want that to happen again. so now hes not talking to me and not answering my calls and i think i hurt him but all the time when i tried saying sorry and talking to him he wont talk back. so should i just foget about him or keep trying to talk to him.
Jami answered Friday January 16 2009, 5:04 pm: Forget about him. It sounds like he is trying to use you for your body. Some guys try to play a guilt trip or become angry in an effort to trick you into feeling sorry and giving them what they want. You did the right thing so don't go back to that. [ Jami's advice column | Ask Jami A Question ]
Razhie answered Friday January 16 2009, 11:30 am: Forget about him.
He probably isn't your friend.
It's likely, in light of this behavior, that he just wanted to fool around.
Unless you called him nasty names in your message (which I doubt you did!) then he is probably just trying to punish you for cutting off his 'benefits'. He might be hurt, or wounded somehow, but if he is, then he is a pussy and coward who doesn't have the balls to express his feelings as clearly and honestly as you did yours.
Either way, he isn't worth your time.
Stop apologizing. You did nothing except stand up for what you want in life. Go You!
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