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when to ask
ok so, I hooked up with a girl I have known for years but hadnt seen for ages, after disclosing that I used to like her years ago... she suggested getting together, we go together, had a fantastic night out, finished with a kiss and a cuddle etc, gave her a lift home, we seemed to agree to see each other again. the next day I sent her txt saying how nice it was and complimented her, she responded to every txt. This was yesterday. Should I contact her today / tonight to organise the next meet / date. I like her a lot she knows this. When to I call her, should I take the lead on this, should I wait for her to contact me... I want to call her tonight but would that be too soon.... I am confident and wont have a problem making conversation.. We are both single and we both have kids etc I am 34 and she is a couple of years younger,
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Sine it seems that you have done most of the reaching out I think that it wouldn't be a problem if you called her tomorrow to make plans. Today is ok as well,but tomorrow might be better. If you can't wait until tomorrow, just kind of keep it a little brief so that you don't appear as if you are trying to monopolize her time.If she's responding to all of your texts then it seems that she likes you. She will be thrilled that you want to ask her out again....just start off light. Women don't like it when a guy is too pushy so if she is busy or needs to schedule the date for a later night than you planned, don't be angry or forceful. Call her tomorrow and if she doesn't answer leave her a brief message about the two of you getting together. This way she knows exactly what you wanted and you can tell by her actions that follow whether or not that is something that she wants to do. If she doesn't answer and you leave a message she should call you back....I doubt that she wouldn't. take it from there. Any other questions let me know.
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