Okay, so im going to have my first time in august with my boyfriend. I just have a few sex questions.
its pretty much impossibal to get preg. if you use a condom right?
does it hurt the first time?
can i have sex without birth control?
My periods are usually unusual, so im going to be scared if my period comes late [it usually always does] so how will i know if im preg. or not?
how do you use a preg test? im going to use one just incase.
are you sore in the morning?
anything else i need to know?
thank you :] and im 15 1/2 female. Please don't tell me that its stupid and im too young because i really love my boyfriend
Okie, yesh, your can get pregnant with a condom, its only 99% chance it works only way is abstinences it means dont do it at all, and u can have sex without birth control but if the condom breaks you can get pregnant, and usually the first time hurts
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Hi,
I wanted to ask is there any way to decrease the length of my period, so shorten it? Are there any natural ways? nothing like pills or birth control but other stuff? And does excercise make it last longer or shorter?
Thanks a lot everyone and for all your help in advance.
M.
xxx
No, its a cycle, it comes and goes, but if you want to shorten it because u want to do stuff like swim or sports just use tampon, unless your not comfortable with it
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Female, 14... Well i was in cuba and i had a miscarriage.. And after i got my period like i would normally.. But now, just fourteen days later, i got my period again. I havent told my mom yet, the only one that knows is my boyfriend. Is this normal during a regular period?
It's normal, your only 14, it might even be awhile until your period gets normal, like different cycles everything, so relaxe, and if u want u can tell your mom, its completely normal
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hey i shave below the belt but recently started to think i dont want to look like a 10 year old or something so should i leave a strip or hair or a triangle or what? what turns guys on most? thanks x
okie i read this in a magazine, DON'T SHAVE YOUR PUBIC HAIR! because it causes more pressure on you, not the good kind, it hurts, unless you like pain, i don't recommend to shave it, because when it grows out again, its prinkly.
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sorry if this sort of detailed, or gross!
okay so i cant use a tampon ive tried A LOT though.
so today i was in the shower and i guess i used my finger to feel around and see if maybe i was putting it in wrong
so i accidentally stuck my finger up this hole, it mighta been the right one.
but on the tampon package it says put it in towards your lower back
but it felt like my finger was going more towars the front.
alsoo, i guess like when you put a tampon in and take it out and stuff it just seems like itd make you get a little "pleasured". why doesnt it if it doesnt? or do you? because idk.
it just felt..odd when i used my finger
lol, um its like the center hole, and it hurts if you use super strong when buying tampons look on the package for regular, unless u have alot of blood but its higher risk in TSS and sometimes, and leave it on for 4-6hours i recommend because too long it feels gross when it comes out, all soggy and crap
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My boyfriend fingered me today for the 2nd time.. it felt soo good compared to the first time and didnt hurt as much except this time i started bleeding.. is it because he "popped my cherry"?
If it went deep enough, but tampons don't even make you lose your virginity, and to think his fingers can't go THAT FAR, mostly people lose by anal sex.
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whats a pep rally?
ok forget that umm what things can i do to avoid DRAMA in high school?
i had some drama in my middle schoold years and i want to avoid it so uhh i need advicce
i want answers from people with experience and people with no experience because they did the advice theyre about to tell me.
thankss
Pep rally is to pump up people's spirit before a big event etc.. anyways! DRAMA!!! HAHA! Avoid drama girls first, they'll be all "u dated my ex! i hate u" blah blah blah, then avoid bad friends aka back stabbers, avoid anything that looks like you shouldn't get yourself into :) lol to be honest anything that involves bad friends or bad relationship means dont get into it, dont gossip, stay clean :) thats how u avoid drama and people talking about you, dress cleanly can have a big affect because if you dress all slutty or trampy, people talk...ALOT! that'll be all haha good-luck and highschool isn't that bad, you'll get use to it
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Ok so I am suicidal and have been for a while now. I go around reading about other people and everything to gain as much knowledge as possible. I notice that a lot of times people say it's not worth it and dumb. Well try being in our shoes once then tell someone that. It's not so easy as you make it seem. You may actually hurt somone even more by yelling at them. But anywho....
I am going back down hill wanting to die. I am at my wits end with life and dealing with people from this world that are ignorrant and mean to those in need of help. I have gotten help and am on pills yet I still want to die. Why is life worth so much to people? I am so confused at this point and wanting to perish. I just want to be happy without things always going to shit instantly and getting worse everyday. I would love to find somewhere I fit in. If anyone knows where I would fit in besides with the people in the mental Hospital let me know.
You know, im the same way:) but its okie, i deal with it i move on i find things better to do, i dont tell people my problems like you, i wouldnt have the courage to blur it out, because afraid people might take me the wrong way and put me in a mental hospital, its odd i feel fine, so your right whatever but you should deal with it, think this way don't let people ruin your life, take it and make it worth while everything they throw at you. and i mean it, EVERYTHING if they're gonna put you down, put up your self image better. the more they hurt you the more courage you get, i know i do :) if u wanna chat i have a myspace hehe ^^ www.myspace.com/suicidal_babe_88 told cha :)
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so ive been with my bf for about two months now.. and its gotten to a point where like i say love you and he says luv ya and he never calls or anything and idk.. i do really like him though and i want to make it work. i pretty much know what i want to say.. but i dont know how to start it..should i jump in for it or what? please and thank you!!
he never calls? no offense but what kind of bf never calls? unless he has work or something, but he should always make time for you, and if you truly love him it should be easier to say then just rush into things, sorry but this is my opnion, yes sometimes relationships are fast and easier then others but sometimes its not just about all the i love you and everything, its how you feel, for me its just we say it randomly, but we're use to it now, because its been a close relationship and its just fun for my bf and i to say we love each randomly, but you might be different, like try and find the moment you think its ok or right to say you love him, but i recommend not to rush, relationships dont work out so great when things are rushed and also you might even think you love him but really it's just really really really liking him, happens often to many people, but be sure you LOVE him before you say anything, its better safe then sorry hope i helped, and sorry if i didnt, good luck bye!
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i pull out my eyebrows, and eyelashes, but right now it's msotly my eyebrows. its supposedly a disease linked to OCD, but my mom claims i dont have it. ive been battling this for 5 years, it lowers my self esteem, and i'm pretty positive i have it. my eyebrows, they have like patches without hair, so i like color them in i guess with thick eyeliner pencil, so it doesn't look ridiculously fake, but still it's weird. please don't judge me for this, its something i REALLY want to overcome, but how? i want to gain confidence and live my life *with* eyelashes and eyebrows, and not having to worry.
I recommend talking to a doctor, and if you do have it, which i strongly hope you don't maybe you could hang out with friends more and go out more often which i cant judge you or say you dont but if you could do things that make you proud of yourself, it helps built self esteem :) hope that helps, also u can do something new, like get some new clothes or like get a hair cut, or trim it whatever, but make yourself a little new, stand up straight be proud of yourself, and make lots of new friends:)
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people say im skinny but when i run my butt hurts a lot! i can feel the jiggle to the point of pain.. so hence the question. also i have buffalo wings. which are fat by the armpits! ahh!
you probably are skinny, and besides if you weigh yourself muscle is two times the weight of fat and it could just ache because u dont run often everyday, its just your muscles are stretched
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why would non-married people wear rings? not on ring finger but elsewhere. what does that mean if they have several?
It could just be for fashion
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My sister has really strange eating habits, but it doesn't sound like an eating disorder that I have heard of. She eats less than 100 calories for breakfast. At school she eats grapes for lunch and throws away her sandwich. She tries not to let anyone see her do it, but I have seen her do it all week. At supper, she eats normally because my parents saw that she wasn't eating as much and she doesn't want them to know.
One day at lunch I saw her eating half of her sandwich. But when we got home, I heard her trying to make herself throw up in the bathroom. She didn't succeed, but maybe that's because she is afraid of throwing up.
Maybe I am making too much of things, but what does this sound like to you? Any help is appreciated. :)
Tell your parents but before you do so, confront your sister first before you tell, also if she denies it you should really tell your parents, its bad and how old is she?! you have to help her built up her confident. hope that helps bye
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has anyone ever cut it open and put it on their face or skin and seen results?
I use fresh cut ones, because i dont know why but i got alot of them in my backyard but ya i heard its quite good to use, i heard it cools your face. but i also read that its kinda bad to cover up pores. but if you wash your face after you sleep with aloe on your face in the morning or like few minutes after you use them it's better. also!!! before you use fresh cut ones u should wash away the munky yellow-ish green stuff from it, and use the clear slim or like rub it on your face. and in my opinion its better to use fresh cut ones because store bought, sometimes they use reversing chemicals on it, which is bad for your skin sometimes hope that helps!
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Jumping in general increases your chance of getting taller.
Sorry but it's false, if it was true i would be taller right now, and milk dont make u grow either, it just makes the bone stronger.
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I've tried curling my hair, and I thought I was doing a pretty good job too. That is, until I asked my sis what she thought about it and she said the curls looked messy and it just looked weird. So I have a few questions. Is there a certain place where you're supposed to end the curls? I liked the idea of ending it around the middle of my hair, or a lil above, but my sis said it looks weird like that. I mean, like which way would be best cause I don't really like ending it at the top of my head. (Does it really look that weird with it ending around the middle? ;P) How can you stop your hair from getting all "fuzzy" looking and some hairs sticking out? After I got done with everything, the back of my hair was like fuzzy. How can I prevent that? Also, how do you know if you curled your hair right, or wrong, and how can you not do "messy" curls? Last, how can I get my curls/wavy-ish curls to last all day, or for a long time? (at least til school's over for me) I'm asking these questions because I wanna look like I knew what I was doing, and how to do it the right way when I curled my hair. I don't wanna look like an amatuer [sp]... xD Thanks!
(Please answer quick because I need some answers before tomorrow morning.)
If you dont like the curls all the way to the scalps on your hair, it's okie i dont either but you can make it a few inch from ur scalps and then finish it too the way ends of your hair then after wards you should hairspray it so its in place and make sure you use a little more then you think, its always better to secure it then that should be it. but it also depends on the curls you are doing. hope that helps
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My boyfriend & i of about 5 months fight non stop every night for like the past month. We have been fighting about his exs & about stupid stuff. Such as hes trying to be friends with them even though i don't want him to talk to girls. I feel like hes going to go with them because there better.and lately he's been acting like he doesn't love me. Like he doesn't show it in the ways he used to. I just don't want this relationship to be over. I need advice how to get over this fighting. adn how i can trust him more.
Thanks soo much please help me!!!
That's harsh not to let him be free, if you want a stable relationship, trust him, let him be friends, it wont have harm done. If you love him you have to put trust in him, and if he doesn't wanna go out anymore, it's his lost, but dont try to control his life too much, that makes things worst and he wont want to be with someone that controls him. would you?
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By 2 weeks I have to pick a novel that is fictional, min. of 200 pages, and is appropreate for a catholic school.
Any suggestions or what you picked on your first year of highschool and was successful?
Btw, I'm a slow reader, if it narrows down your list.
omgoodness, you should choose Twilight, by Stephen Myers, it was an amazing book, but it's about vampires and forbidden love. And im not sure is it allowed for catholic schools.
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Hey, I'm a girl and I've just turned 15. I have been with this guy for nearly 9 months and i have never been with a guy over valentines day. I have to get him something or do something for him.. he has planned to take me out for dinner but that is all he has told me. I am just stuck with what to get him as a gift. I can't really spend much money and I want to show him I care about him a lot. But i'm clueless as to what to get. Any ideas or advice on guys and valentines day? I really would apreciate the help... Thanks x
Aww, that's so swt! and why not? if you really like him show him, why not right? and ill usually jus buy a watch for my bf, but since u said too much money, buy something memorable ^^
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theres this guy who is like my big brother. he is one of my parents employees for the buisness they own. I was there the other night (my parents own a lazer tag arena) and he was being kinda mean. then i was there again a different night and he literally made me cry cause of him being so mean and sarcastic. i asked the other employees if hes being a jerk to them and they said just me. he says im annoying and that my personality is annoying and whenever i ask him what his problem is he says me. i tried to tell him this fight was stupid and to forget this and he flipped. i dont get it. everyone says hes taking his girl problems out on me but im not sure. i kinda think he really doesnt like me anymore. whats going on?
Wow, an employee,..he seems like he wanna get fired or because he likes you, idk well you should ignore it, if it gets out of hand, tell your parents.
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