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talking to him
so ive been with my bf for about two months now.. and its gotten to a point where like i say love you and he says luv ya and he never calls or anything and idk.. i do really like him though and i want to make it work. i pretty much know what i want to say.. but i dont know how to start it..should i jump in for it or what? please and thank you!!
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First off.. you been with him for 2 months... before its gets you into trouble, become a bad habit and until you understand its true meaning.. Stop saying it! You say its gotten to a point where yall say it.. understand saying I love you is not like saying hello... if you say it like that believe me.. when it really counts.. it gonna seem like it doesnt. Moreso especially, when the affections you expect and should be returned aren't being returned to you. There are couple of questions I want you to ask yourself though... A) Were you the one to say I love you first and if yes.. was the situation you said it under really necessary for those words? More than likely probably not and he's knows that already and may be the reason he's not recipricating what your looking for outta him. B) How can you make something that that takes an equal amount of energy from you and your b/f, i.e. your "relationship" and make it work by "yourself"? You can "wanna" make anything work, but everything doesn't always pull together as you would like it to. You need to say whats on your mind and find out where he stands with you before you get more emotionally attached and start to want more than your reality is offering. I hope this helps.
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he never calls? no offense but what kind of bf never calls? unless he has work or something, but he should always make time for you, and if you truly love him it should be easier to say then just rush into things, sorry but this is my opnion, yes sometimes relationships are fast and easier then others but sometimes its not just about all the i love you and everything, its how you feel, for me its just we say it randomly, but we're use to it now, because its been a close relationship and its just fun for my bf and i to say we love each randomly, but you might be different, like try and find the moment you think its ok or right to say you love him, but i recommend not to rush, relationships dont work out so great when things are rushed and also you might even think you love him but really it's just really really really liking him, happens often to many people, but be sure you LOVE him before you say anything, its better safe then sorry hope i helped, and sorry if i didnt, good luck bye!
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