ok well i get made fun of almost everyday. . mostly because i am really white. is there anyway i can make them to stop? ive tried standing up for myself and being nice to them and i dont want to tell a teacher because ive done that and they didnt do anything. . so wats a good way for them to stop?
Thanks
i feel your pain i'm a flat chested skinny pale girl with freckles.. haha, but i've become confident with myself and i have plenty of friends who respect me and what i look like.. i'm not ugly or anything it's just everyone is tan and big chested.. i'm different.. you're different.. skin is skin and you WILL have the last laugh when you're older and still have beautiful healthy skin. What i do when people say crap is something like "eh yea i'm irish.. it happens" and say it like it doesn't bother me, soon it really is true.. it doesn't bother me anymore that i'm white, i've realized that i don't want to risk it tanning
plus God gave me this skin so i should love it, hope that helped good luck!
ps: look at how many celebrities have light skin? i swear it's becoming some sort of fashion... it sounds stupid but i really do believe that someday people will want light skin because it'll be 'cool'.. it used to be and fashion trends go in circles? there's hope = )
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i am going away in july (i went to aruba last summer and met a bunch of friendly locals) but my family and i are going back and i have gained over 15 pounds since august. i hoenstly do not know how i pulled it off, im very upset about it. before i had a really cute figure but now its just terrible i am 5'5 156 lbs. my arms are flabby, my stomache is wide and my legs are also flabby and i despise myself as of right now. well my cousin and i have kept in touch with the people we`ve met there and not only for my vacation but for this summer i reallly need to lose weight. alot of it. i know hydroxy cut and diet pills are bad but would they help if i took them and worked out a whole lot. help pleaseee
18/f
someone asked a similiar question so i'm just going to copy and past what i said to her... these aren't really dieting ideas but they are ways to keep you motivated and just little helpful things to remember daily
*put full length mirrors throughout your house or room so it can act like a constant reminder for you to get off the couch and excersize
*some people print off pictures of celebrities that are super skinny and tape them in the refrigerator and stuff as a "rolemodel".. i'm sure you know what i'm talking about
*record what you eat in a chart or journal somewhere and look at the list at the end of the day then cross off things you wish you hadn't eaten and then put a sticky note on those foods so the next day you'll remember what you'll end up regretting
*don't stop eating just eat healthy and excersize!
*if you stop eating your body thinks it needs to store food so the next time you eat it'll try and keep it for a long time and store it as fat.. does that make sense? that definitely isn't the way to go.
*take your time to think about what you're buying at the grocery store.. if you don't do the grocery shopping start going with whoever does normally. when you throw something in the cart it doesn't matter if it looks healthy look at the ingredients and then decide if you're going to buy it.
* try and feel comfortable with yourself no matter what size, it's important to love the way you look no matter what, don't stress too much over the whole weight issue. you sound very stressed and angry and i think it would be good if it was more of a goal setting thing. don't set goals like *lose 10 pounds by august* ..no set goals like * have a consistent healthy diet by august*. it's just a better way of thinking and will end up being more efficient.
GOOD LUCK!!!!
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My ex-bf is like going out with me friend, and whenever i talk to him, cuz were still friends, i kinda just act like im realy happy for him and her. its getting really annoying but wuts like worse is that theyve already broken up and got back together, now my friend is gonna break up with him again, if i tell him he wont believe me and then he will think im jealous, which i kinda am becuz i still like him alot, but i just need advice on how to handle like them and stuff???
don't voluntarily tell him.. make him ask you
what i mean is say something like "so how are you and jessica?" ((w/e her name is)) and if he says "we're good" then bite your lip like you're preventing yourself from saying something then nod your head and say "oh"... then he'll ask you why and then you can be like "oh i don't know.. i don't think i should tell you" haha and it goes on from there and you can tell him she's going to break up with him without making you sound jealous or w/e
like my specific steps? lol
good luck
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hey. this seems like a sort of stupid question, but please, i need a opinion on an outfit for tommorow. 13.f
here's the plan :)
blue soffee shorts
red and white striped boys polo
gray tanktop underneathe
and boy nike shox
its actuallly really cute, but since two of the pieces are boy pieces, i just wanted to check. PLEASE!
we could have a different style but I personally wouldn't wear that... try some capris or jean shorts instead
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whats a good idea on how to loose wieght?
i have no access to the gym and i dont want to go run outside. Is there anyway of looing wieght insdie myt house?
PLEASE AND THANKS!!!
someone asked a similiar question so i'm just going to copy and past what i said to her... these aren't really dieting ideas but they are ways to keep you motivated and just little helpful things to remember daily
*put full length mirrors throughout your house or room so it can act like a constant reminder for you to get off the couch and excersize
*some people print off pictures of celebrities that are super skinny and tape them in the refrigerator and stuff as a "rolemodel".. i'm sure you know what i'm talking about
*record what you eat in a chart or journal somewhere and look at the list at the end of the day then cross off things you wish you hadn't eaten and then put a sticky note on those foods so the next day you'll remember what you'll end up regretting
*don't stop eating just eat healthy and excersize!
*if you stop eating your body thinks it needs to store food so the next time you eat it'll try and keep it for a long time and store it as fat.. does that make sense? that definitely isn't the way to go.
*take your time to think about what you're buying at the grocery store.. if you don't do the grocery shopping start going with whoever does normally. when you throw something in the cart it doesn't matter if it looks healthy look at the ingredients and then decide if you're going to buy it.
* try and feel comfortable with yourself no matter what size, it's important to love the way you look no matter what, don't stress too much over the whole weight issue. you sound very stressed and angry and i think it would be good if it was more of a goal setting thing. don't set goals like *lose 10 pounds by august* ..no set goals like * have a consistent healthy diet by august*. it's just a better way of thinking and will end up being more efficient.
GOOD LUCK!!!!
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My boyfriend has been having a really rough time lately, and I just want to do something special for him to cheer him up and show him how much I care and will always be there for him. But I'm a little lost on ideas...if you have any, I'd really appreciate it.
Thanks
SURPRISE HIM!! seriously just one day randomly show up on his door step and tell him you need him to come with you. ((make sure he'll be available to do something before you go surprising him!)) then just kind of go on a walk to a park somewhere.. maybe have a picnic, just do something ya'll wouldn't usually do together so he'll remember it. When ya'll get to the park or are just walking together don't remind him of the tough things he's going through just remind him of how lucky you are to have him and just kinda boost up his ego... this is much easier and way more fun that writing some poem or something! good luck!!
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my Granny told me that my mom dosn't care about me what should I do?
that's terrible!! Well ask your grandma WHY she doesn't think your mom cares about you. If she has an explanation then talk it over with your mom but DO NOT be accusatory.. ((don't accuse your mom of not loving you that is)) just simply ask your mom why you think your grandma would say something like that. And if you really don't think your mom cares about you look into seeing if you can live with your granny or someone else for a while. Don't feel bad about yourself like it's your fault she doesn't care... just keep your head up until everything changes for the better!
good luck!
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ok so prom's coming up and im a sophomore and my boyfreind (whos a junior) is taking me. I just dont know what kind of dress to get....short or long or what?
cuz like i know long is for homecoming and short for winterfest/sadies...whatever...but i havent been to prom yet soo any help?
most prom dresses are strapless or have very thin straps and tend to be pretty long... i wouldn't get one that hits the floor though, ha that could make you trip. Just get a dress that doesn't show your shins but doesn't cover your feet at the same time. Don't forget to buy a color that will bring out your eyes and skin tone! good luck and have fun at prom!
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Hey, I have a question. It involved me going to the concert with my dad that I really wanted to go to last night and with my boyfriend going to the school dance. My freind told me he was dancing with a ton of girls. This kind of makes me jealous and I don't know if it is normal to get jealous. Do you think guys shouldn't dance with other girls if they have a girlfriend already?
thanks
it really depends on what kind of dancing.. like booty dancing? eh he's just having a good time, it's nothing serious but i would definitely say something to him.. i mean you have a right to be jealous he shouldn't have been doing that with other girls!! but i'm sure he didn't actually consider it 'cheating' or 'taking advantage' at all.. he's just a guy, that's what they do
if it was slow dancing.. then hell no he shouldn't be doing that.. it's kind of a 'romantic' thing when you think about it.. no you should talk to him about that and definitely reconsider your relationship
good luck
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Okay well there is this guy in my grade that I really like, and right when I started to like him all of these 8th grade girls that are my friends started liking him. He says that he likes me and 1 of the eigth graders but I want him to like me, just me. What should I do to really get his attention?? I think I've been doing a pretty good job so far.
Thanks.
what i say, don't over exaggerate it, what i mean is do NOT become obsessive, it's a huge turn-off
*i would call him.. if you don't already talk to him on the phone that is.. if you call him a COUPLE of times he'll probably start calling you more
*walk with him in the hallways.. everytime you see him have a huge smile on your face and hug him, (this will let him know that you really are happy to see him)
*if you both have cell phones text him randomly (on the weekends, after school, etc.) just asking him how his day was.
*if you have a problem or are upset with something don't completely pour yourself out to him but tell him how you feel without overwhelming him.. if he takes an interest that's good then you can tell him more about our personal life and then he'll know he can confide in you as well!
*make yourself availabe on weekends to do something with him... just say subtle things like "oh this weekend should be boring i have zero plans" DON'T be like "oh my gosh i don't know what to do this weekend and neither do you.. what a coincidence!"... then he'll feel forced to hang out with you and no one likes that feeling.
*whatever you do don't bad mouth this other girl he likes.. that's immature and rude, if you act more mature and classy than her it will be soo much better
well that's all that i can think of at the moment.. hope i helped good luck!! .. ask me if you need more help!
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I got two F's on my report card my mom didnt' know about it so i just let is go by and now she asked for it i told her and she wanted the report card and i couldn't find it and now she is highly upset. she is going to the principal monday so she can get it i told her what was on it.. now i might not get to play tennis.. i'm suppose to go to the movies tomorrow with a guy that i like! but it might be out of the question now.. how could i get her to let me go? Do you think i will get to play tennis? She even talked to my teacher about coming in there and sitting with me til i start doing better!! help me!!!
I'll rate 5!!!
don't let anyone make you feel bad for what you did.. shit happens
well I would apologize like no other..start being extra sweet and respectful to your mom and then tell her how you feel about this guy. If you haven't already you really should because mom's like to have a personal relationship with their daughter's.. i guess it makes them feel special or something haha but really tell her how you feel and that it's really important to you. Then tell her that you know you messed up with your grades but if she'll give you one more chance you KNOW you can make it work... and girl you better make it work. you need to ask your teachers for extra credit and go in early so they know you're trying hard. ((my teacher raised my grade 5 points just for coming in early to study)) if you really make a genuine effort to raise your grades and be trustworthy i'm sure your mom will forgive you and let you go out with this guy.
ps: if she already knows about your crush remind her about how much you like him..
if you have anymore questions just ask!! good luck!
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I run track and my shins are starting to bother me. I have a big track meet tomorrow and I really need some help on wha I need to do to help soothe them. Thank you in advance
it looks like you have some great answers first of all but if you need a little something else...
my physical therapist took lotion (his was heated but w/e) and rubbed it on my calf and shin.. then take your thumb and find where your shin bone stops and you can feel your calf on the INSIDE of your leg.. with the lotion follow that "break" (the 'groove' between the bone and muscle) all the way down to your foot and then back up to your knee.. keep massaging this area with the lotion up and down at least 10 times
then do the SAME thing on the OUTSIDE of your shin bone.. ((this "groove" between the muscle and bone is more on top of your leg)) do it 10 times and then do the other leg.. i know this was confusing but if you try it with pushing down hard enough as you massage your leg, it will definitely feel looser when you're done
if you have any questions about this please ask me good luck
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i have this guy friend, first we were just friends then we wnet out for like 2 days but he broke up w/ me but i still have feelings for him so now we are just friends. Now like 5 monthes later, i was over his house and he had last years yearbook and he didnt let me read it.the next week he was over my house and i let him read my journal so he'll let me see his yearbook. He read this part were i wrote JAMES FINALLY GAVE ME A HUG, yay! (the date was AFTER we broke up) so now he NEVER gives me hugs anymore after reading that :(, i miss that and i want hugs! help, i still like him, & the hugs were the only thing i had now, nothing
well you've learned a lesson.. don't let anyone read your journal = [
the only thing you can do is explain that you regret letting him look at your journal because now he acts different around you.. (don't say anything specific about the hugs) then all you can do is act like your complete and normal self until HE'S back to normal too.... just give it time, and if he doesn't give in maybe YOU should go in for a casual hug..it'd never hurt to try
good luck!
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ALRIGHT. I can't take this anymore! I've tried every diet you can do & seen a nutrisionist. For awhile I just ate wayy less and lost about 7 pounds (over summer) but I'm pretty sure it's all back now. I honestly don't know how much I weigh because we don't have a scale, but I'm guessing 170-180. And I'm 5'2. Yeah, hah I'm fat. Before I moved to TEXAS (in third grade) I was never fat, I was reeeally skinny actually, less than normal. Then, I guess all the fat asses in Texas had such an influence on me I decided to become one myself!
Kay, no really, what the hell do I do to lose weight. Give me some exercises that will help, or even a plan of meals per day. Please please please, and make sure it works. I'll follow it exactly as long as it truly works. Thanks.
it looks like you got a lot of good responses on how to loose weight so i'm here to tell you how to stay motivated
*put full length mirrors throughout your house or room so it can act like a constant reminder for you to get off the couch and excersize
*some people print off pictures of celebrities that are super skinny and tape them in the refrigerator and stuff as a "rolemodel".. i'm sure you know what i'm talking about
*record what you eat in a chart or journal somewhere and look at the list at the end of the day then cross off things you wish you hadn't eaten and then put a sticky note on those foods so the next day you'll remember what you'll end up regretting
*don't stop eating just eat healthy and excersize!
*if you stop eating your body thinks it needs to store food so the next time you eat it'll try and keep it for a long time and store it as fat.. does that make sense? that definitely isn't the way to go.
*take your time to think about what you're buying at the grocery store.. if you don't do the grocery shopping start going with whoever does normally. when you throw something in the cart it doesn't matter if it looks healthy look at the ingredients and then decide if you're going to buy it.
* try and feel comfortable with yourself no matter what size, it's important to love the way you look no matter what, don't stress too much over the whole weight issue. you sound very stressed and angry and i think it would be good if it was more of a goal setting thing. don't set goals like *lose 10 pounds by august* ..no set goals like * have a consistent healthy diet by august*. it's just a better way of thinking and will end up being more efficient.
GOOD LUCK!!!!
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can telll it was bad. i planned so long for it, and then they didnt
wanna play any games, and like they were bein all ******* and not even listen to
me at ALL when they got here (at 6!) they watched mtv music videos (that i didnt
even like) untill 10:30
i called that i was opening gifts twice. like YELLED it. and they all ignored me
because this one girl was crying (i dont even why) and then she called her crush and so
they missed out on me opening the gifts
and they rejected all of my game ideas and i had really good prizes too and it
was so not worth my time im never doin this again. and then finally (today) 30
miuntes before they leave they ask me what i wanted to do. and its like well uhh
theres only 20 minutes left theres not much you CAN do. and so im like well OKAY
GUYS WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO and they ignore me, and its like WTF and shes im shes
like WELL THATS BECAUSE WE WERE TALKING and im like WELL ITS BECAUSE YOU KEEP CONTROLING
MY PARTY (which is true) SHES LIKE THEN MAKE THEM STOP CONTROLLING IT (talkin
about her friend) and i was like THATS WHAT IVE BEEN TRYING TO DO! and it was
all messed and yeah.
its like HELLO THIS IS MY PARTY WHY IS NO-ONE LISTENING TO ME!
my friend even made a list about all the mean things they did:
1) they got mad about the presents thing,( i called them twice that i was
opening presents i litterly yelled it but they were like ignoring me) when you
told them twice. and cia (other preson) heard, but she didn't tell them, so it
wasnt all your fault or anything.
2) people were ignoring me for the gift thing because this stupid lee thing (she
likes this guy and she was like calling him saying she loved him and crap). when
lee doesnt like her as more than a friend. and there was 8 girls at my party,
she told all but 3 of us (me and my best friends) she kept a secret from me AT
my party!!
and they were just bein ______ to me.
advicee please!!
k first of all that was all sorts of confusing... try re reading it haha and i also didn't see a question in there so basically i'll just tell you how to get over it.
you need to take this as a learning experience and never invite the "party ruiners" again. don't be rude to them or say anything about the party at all! feel lucky that you at least had a couple loyal friends there and cherish them. take some deep breaths and just realize these types of things happen. everybody has bad parties and its unfortunate that they ruined your birthday but the sooner you get over it the better. now you've learned not to invite people like that to your parties and hopefully this will never happen again... if you had a different question ask me cuz i really had no idea what you wanted me to answer
good luck!
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Okay I really like this boy (( let's call him Joe )) Well Joe and I became friends this summer and since then we've been best friends. I realized today that I really like Joe but, I really don't want to ask him out because I don't want to ruin our friendship and he also has a girlfriend. What should I do?
try finding someone else to like. it's hard to get over someone but when they're clearly unavailable and there's a friendship at risk i would definitely say break the feelings you have for this guy before it gets too complicated and someone gets hurt.
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My school is having Roaring 20's day. The girls have to dress up like flappers. The thing is, I don't know what to wear, or where to get my costume! Any body have any suggestions on where I can get the right clothing that's appropriate for the time era, or give me some idea as to what I should get? Thanks!
sorry if i'm not much help but try to find a short black sparkly dress/skirt..and they also wore these necklaces,i've seen one it looks like theres two necklaces but really its one so just wear two of the same necklace or if its long wrap it around twice
again i'm sorry if this was confusing or not of much help.. its just what comes to mind when i think of a flapper. use google image to see pictures of their clothes too! good luck
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Background for reference. Disregard it if you only want to read the problem:
I met Ashley at Sam Goody. She kind of followed me around and talked to me a lot. Gave me hugs and flirted at random times. At first it was a little odd, she just seemed like a kid with a crush and I wasn't interested in the least. She quits work and I don't see her for the better part of that year. I don't miss her.
I see her working at a grocery store later on. She doesn't seem quite as interested in me, but she's still incredibly flirtacious. I eventually develop a big crush on her. I ask her out on a date, but what was implied was that her parents wouldn't approve. She was turning 18 later on this year before I turned 21, but the 20-17 year old age gap was too much for them. Shortly after, I pretty much lose the romantic feelings I have for her. They're replaced with pity, from the terrible things I find out happened to her (from someone who knows us both). Before five days ago, we never really talk much outside of her workplace.
What's key to know for the problem:
Sunday (five days ago). She gives me her new number and invites me to her new place that night. While there, I listen to her complain about her now ex boyfriend and how she isn't over him. He used her for sex after he dumped her, then left without saying a word.
Tuesday. I text her asking if she feels like doing anything that day. She said, "I made a huge mistake. Shannin called and asked to see me and I said yes." I told her she can use plans with me as an excuse to not see him if she feels she shouldn't, and that I didn't think she shouldn't see someone who recently used her. She says, "Thanks. I know I'm really stupid but I just still love him so much"
She calls me later that night, crying from what happened earlier. I asked her if she needed me to come over and she said she wouldn't be much of a host since she would just be crying, but she could use the company.
It takes me a little while to get there, and when I do no one answers the door. I walk in and find her in a room with depressing music playing. She has a blade in her right hand and her left arm is covered in blood. She cries to me telling me how stupid she is and how it seems she can't learn from her mistakes. I try to comfort her I tell her how common such a thing is and turn off her music. I have her choose from a few different movies I brought over and we watch one that is now one of her favorites. She says that she feels a little better now and asks me to hang out with her the next day.
Wednesday. We start hanging out in the late morning. We watch a few things and talk. I learn some things about her past, distant and recent, that don't reflect well on her, for instance, she's capable of stealing. We go out to eat and to a few different places, an overall good time despite my being quiet from drowsiness. I leave to give my mother a ride home from work, and she asks me if I'm coming back afterwards. She said she would like it if I did.
After I come back, we go to her father's place to watch a movie (her father's working on her house) and so she can check stuff online. I get a quick glance at what she types in an e-mail. It read, "...heart broken again...feel like maybe I should just kill myself..." An exaggeration of her recent mood, but it still alarms me. I ended up staying with her until she was almost falling asleep after midnight again.
My problem: I've been noticing a list of things I don't like about Ashley, but the biggest thing in that list is the fact that I now have feelings for her again (spending over 12 hours with someone and you'll know how you feel about them after you leave). It might be stronger feelings than before, since I can't get her out of my head. I can't date her because no matter what she feels for me, which probably isn't more than friendship, she still is so caught up with and damaged from her ex that she's thinking about suicide. No good can come from having feelings for someone like this.
I desperately want to help her. I haven't been getting more than a couple of hours of sleep a night worrying about her. In the past, I've tried to help friends (all female) by trying to convince them they shouldn't make mistakes like this, which lead to arguments. They end with them being pissed at me, then making the mistake anyway. I've learned it's better to just give your advice/opinion once and hope they'll listen to it. If they make the mistake, they make the mistake.
The thing is, I don't think she can afford to make this mistake again. I can't tell her not to, it's her life, her business. I already told her how I felt about everything. My best friend thinks I should stay away from her, and she might be right, but I can't turn my back on her when just spending time with her seems to cheer her up a little, especially since now I care for her more than I would a friend. I considered trying to convince her to see someone about this, but I know from experience that, despite the good intentions, it will driver her away. I can't afford that since it seems like I'm one of the very few things kind of helping her. I know for a fact that she would go back to this guy, and I don't want that to happen. It could literally kill her. So what can I do? How can I help her past this?
i just want to give you my sympathy first of all, this is a huge thing going on in your life and i understand the confusion you must be experiencing.
of course this is only an opinion but i really believe staying with her and helping her will help her get over the whole drama. i understand how much she loves this guy, but i notice you are a person who would never use her like that and who she is perfectly capable of loving right? It's hard to forgive someone and you're there for her every step of the way. If you continue to be there she will recover and I believe she will finally be able to get over her ex once and for all... then guess whos left for her to love? you of course, it's almost logical really. if you not only help her feel better but help her *get over it* then she'll be healed and be able to see what a strong heart you have and how much you've been there for her. what you've done is just amazing! it's only natural for you to worry but just think how you could be saving her life. i know you aren't a doctor or anything but instead of suggesting special therapy why don't you be her therapy? give her advice, comfort, and the love you have for her.. yes its risky but isn't all love? i definitely say go for it. sorry your responses or condracting, just follow your heart and pray about it.*** good luck, i hope everything works out, and take no offense if you're not a believer but have faith in God, ask Him for help that's why He's there!
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Im thirteen and I have babysat my younger sister and some kids down the street once, also my cousin who is four but i dont see her much. Anyways, I have given out flyers and stuff about a hundred times and noone will respond and noone will let me babysit. It s not like im a bad sitter or anything because ive only babysat those kids down the street and they had alot of fun and nothing went wrong. I dont get allowance and I cant get a job for a couple more years. I petsit but very rarely, and I dont have any money at all except for whats in the bank and Im saving that for college. Does anyone have ideas for jobs I could do or ways I can advertise my babysitting more?
Thanks!
this same exact thing happened to me last year.. i realized that everyone thought i was a lot younger than i really was make sure that on the flyers you write your age and your experience with kids. i would also suggest (if you haven't already) knocking on the door and talking with the parents and THEN giving them the flyer, repeat what's already on there, remind them where you live and act like you are interested in their kids, ask them stuff like "so i've noticed you have 2 little girls how old are they?!" stuff like that.
another way to get quick cash is to enter into these surveys. like i saw an ad for "teenage girls who wear make-up daily" and i put my name in.. they called me asked me some quesitons then asked me to come down the next day. i was with 3 other girls and they asked us some questions about make up for about like 30 minutes and i earned frikin 75 bucks!!! cha so i'd ask your parents about that stuff if you want more info on how to get those offers just ask me hope that helps good luck!
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ok. so this might sound bad...well to me it kind of does. so i've been with my boyfreind for about 6 months. we've done everything. but no sex neither of us want to yet. as much as i love him i keep getting bored...i just feel like everytime we hang out its the same old thing. SO does any one have any ideas on how to spice things up a little bit?
xo
ps. no sex remember...just like things we can do to spice up...the romantic part...and just anything else.
you don't have to do sexual things to keep it romantic or interesting just find crazy things that ya'll can experience together.. go to new places you wouldn't normally go like idk something as stupid as chuck e cheese to something classic as a fun play. these might sound like crazy corny ideas but if you guys experience something new together that isn't sexual it can open up so many more things...maybe you could take some type of class together like idk kickboxing, an art class, acting class, something weird that ya'll can laugh and have fun together doing. sports events are always fun too, splurge on some great tickets to a game or concert or dinner reservations. buy him little things just to remind him how much you love him. i really admire the no sex thing so just keep yourselves busy doing other stuff!! i hope i was a little help!
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