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Hi. I'm IceAngel13, though you can call me Megan (my name) if you want. I like to make graphics like my picture. I write stories, poetry and lyrics and I love music, and love to sing. I love to give advice and I think I'm pretty good about it. I try to be as nice as I can when giving advice and try not to judge people. Feel free to ask me about anything, including relationships. :)

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I really like this guy and he likes me to considering that he's like always kissing me(I try to block them but can't) and hugging me(Hugging is okay) and grabbing my boobs(That I hate!). But he likes my best friend too and he wont chooses. see my friend is not living at home so He and I never get too see her but we talk on msn the odd time to her and This guy wont choose between us...like I don't know how this guy can like my friend she is a really BIG TIME SLUT/HORE!!!!!She's already screwed a guy and he still likes her. He really needs to choose cuz I am dieing her and Not Talking To Him Is Like Not Breathing.....It's Impossible Not To Talk To Him...I Have Known him since i was 5 and liked him since I was 7....He has nown her 9 mouths what the heck should I do:')Plz help i am really sad



Briiaannaa

If he is bothering you by doing certain things to you then tell him to stop it. Overall, I would say to break it off with him. Don't let him toy with your heart anymore. If he's going to be that much of a jerk and not be able to choose between you two then help him along by getting yourself out of the equation. It might be hard not being around him, but he's not the only guy out there. If he's not going to appretiate you then he's not worth it. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13

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ok,
i have a bf and everything, and he is great to be around. but when im with my family im always frusterated, angry,etc.i love my family too, but when im with my bf, its just the best feeling..but now i can't see him anymore during the summer, cause last night, we went for a walk in the woods, and i got all scratched up, eaten by bugs, bleeding, and now my mom won't let me see him anymore, or go for a walk.
i don't no what to do,with my family, bf, and all my bruses..


help.soon

Bruses? Did he hurt you? If he hurt you then don't keep dationg him. If he hurts you then he doesn't really love you, because if he did then he would never lay a hand on you. But if he doesn't hurt you then tell your mother the truth, she'll probably understand. But once again if he is hurting you then get out of the relationship immediatally! Hope I helped, it would be great if you could clear things up, though.
~IceAngel13

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Okay my ex boyfriend Tony has been a big problem in my life for the past two years.. he's hit me a total for three times and one time i had a bruised spine because of him.. well anyways he hasnt hit me but he called my cell.. i just got my number changed cause of him.. well anyways he said this same bullshit ive heard hundreds of times sayin he loves me blah blah blah.. well when he called me also he said he knows that i want him and if i dont go with him he's going to find me and hurt me again or pull a Jay on me.. Jay is a guy that tried to rape me which was Tony's friend..so Tony is threating to rape me and beat me.. i havent told my boyfriend im with now cause i hate to get him upset and worried.. i havent told anybody.. all my friends dont get why i wont go anywhere i just want to stay in the house.. i dont want to press charges or anything cause if he found out i dont know what he'd do or if he'd get somebody else to do something to me.. im just so scared.. i dont want him to hurt me again i dont want him to rape me.. i thought he was out of my life for 7 years cause he was locked up for drugs yea well with my luck i should of known he wouldnt be put a way that long.. he is so mad at me because i moved on with a new guy and because i didnt wait up for him while he was locked up.. what kinda girl would want a guy like that..? if you can help me on what to do ill rate high i just dont know what to do or who to tell.. im just reall reall scared.. thanks in advance..

I would suggest to press charges. That's a serious thing he did to you and threatening you afterward is worse. But if you really don't want to then, I would suggest to tell someone. You are a great person for not wanting to worry others but I'm sure they'd want to know. And you can't put everything on yourself or you're going to break down. So my advice would be to tell someone, either by pressing charges or tell someone that's close to you because this isn't something that you can just keep bottled up inside. I hope I helped.
Luv, IceAngel13

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Ok well my boyfriends sister is like doing alot of things and starting to become famous and he has to do alot of traveling with her i dont know if anyones ever heard of her but her name is Ansley Carter shes so amazing at singing country music anyways i hate it when my boyfriends away and We dont get to see or call each other and i really dont like relationship like that are long distants so do you think things will get better between us or should i just end our relationship now because i dont want it to be long distance
help

OMG, creepy that is a lot like the song that came on the radio just now, it says "listen to your heart before you tell him goodbye" and that's what I advise you to do. If you love him then stay with him, your relationship will last through anything you put it against. But if you don't love him, then maybe it's not met to be, so don't push it. That's what I've got for ya. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13

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im 14 and i go to a highschool in plano texas ,
my case is a little bit different i suppose
my shrink diagnosed me with a mild-severe social paranoia meening i afriad everyone is always judgeing me and watching me , like im some zoo animal, even if sum1 isnt around.
iv also got mild social axiety bah like i know what that means for sure
i have "hyper-hydrosis" wich is a condition i was born with where my hands are always moist wich makes it wierd to hold hands with girls
iv liked this girl since she moved to the school, shes always been reay nice to me and iv always been nice to her, just recently iv been realy wanting to be in a relationship with this girl but i cant bring myself to ask her out in fear that she would say no in fear that i might make an attempt on my life (this is i guess social anxiety?) , i dont think she even knos i like her and she doesnt seem to even realy i know i exist sometimes
she tells me about all the guys that she likes and that realy hurts my feelings becuas im not the tallest (at 5'1" im far from it) im not the fit-est or the most handsome , i have acne and a steryotypical "Jewish Nose" wich many predjudists remind me often about.

i just cant help but feel that she wont accept my offer to start a relationship

this girl is truely beutiful in every sense of the word ,in class since i sit behind her i just stare at the back of her head and go off into "lala land"
on several times iv tried inviting her to movies or something but she always seems to have something else to do

any and all help wud be most appreciated

if u want to talk to me just chilling and stuff y AIM is forty5calpsyco

Thanks So Much

That's so cute (sorry, just had to say that). I think you should go for it. I mean, would you really want to live the rest of your life not knowing? You've already waited 3 years. Even if she says no, at least you will know and can move on. And if she says yes then that's great for you. Just ask her out (I asked this guy out once that I liked for a while and we had been friends, and he said no, but I felt better afterward. It's not as hard as it seams.) Best of luck!
~IceAngel13

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I have a best friend, and we have always had each backs..But, she got this boyfriend, that she had a crush on for a long time. I didnt like him, when she was crushing on him, but now that i really know him...i really really like him. I've been flirting alot with him..and kidding around with him. I wanna know, if there is anyway i can tell him? OR at least tell my bff, without her over-reacting.HELP!

I really wouldn't tell either of them. There are other guys out there and you don't want to loose your best friend over a guy. Sorry, but best friends bf's are off limits. And I can practically garentee that your friend will over-react if you tell her or if she finds out, no matter what she's like, people tend to be protective of the ones they're dating (and I will be really surprised if she didn't overreact). Sorry if it's not what you wanna hear but you have to move on. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13

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This poem. Needs help. it didn't come out right. Suggestions?
I saw you tonight
For the first time in what had felt like years
Sweat dripped off your body
And I realized what I had lost
I had loved
And you had pitied
But you had forgotten
What I could not
With you standing so close
It drove me crazy
I miss you I cried
But I don’t miss your lies
I wont forget you
Even if you’ve already forgotten me
Don’t pity me
I’m fine.

"Sweat dripped off your body" doesn't seem to fit. If you took that out, (and make a few mionr changes)it would be:
I saw you tonight
For the first time
In what had felt like years
I realized what I had lost
I had loved
And you had pitied
But you had forgotten
What I could not
With you standing so close
It drove me crazy
I miss you I cried
But I don’t miss your lies
I wont forget you
Even if you’ve already forgotten me
Don’t pity me
I’m fine.
Other then that minor detal, I thought it was a great poem. I feel kinda weird about changing someone elses poem, though, but that's just my opinion. I thought it was a beutiful poem. Keep up the great work.
~IceAngel13

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Ok I went out with a guy named kasey... and I knew everyone thought he is a bad person.. and He does bad stuff and everthin.. but he really treated me soo good.. Like I was lyin down on a bed.. and he picked me up and was like carryin me.. and I had my legs around his waist.. and my head on his shoulder.. and he just like started dancin with me.. but he was like holden me.. and then he wispered in my ear.. I love you .. and kissed me.. and then I new.. I really loved him (or I thought) and I really thought i did.. and then he broke up with me.. and I was sooo hurtt I cryd and cryd and I couldnt controle myself I was dyin.. and i had started cutting again and I wouldnt stop.. and then the next day he asked me back out.. and I said yes.. and then I looked in his pro and go why am I not in your pro.. and he goes I was jk.. so he was kiddin bout asken me out.. and I was sooo hurt I grabbed a nife and was bout to slit my throat.. but sunday had her bf call the cops on me.. and they came to my house and came in my room and found me holden a nife to my throat...

well here is the problem... I am now in a relation ship with a guy named mike.. and everyone says he is a player.. and has cheated on his gfs alot.. But I really like him.. and I want to believe he wont hurt me and stuff.. Well he is gone for 3 weeks camping with my friends bf.. jimmy.. so me and my friend are goin up to visit them friday.. Im not sure what to do cause I really dont want to get hurt again and I want to give us a try and all.. and I want to believe it will work out.. What do I do HELP!

Ok, YOU NEED TO STOP CUTTING. It is a serious thing. You can get help for it if you can't stop, but you HAVE to stop cutting. You're not only hurting yourself by cutting, but I'm sure you're hurting others too. And why did you say yes to Kasey if he broke up with you before? And now you're going put with Mike. Hun, you've gotta stop going out with guys that are players. I really think that you should either not date for a little while or date a guy who you know is nie and caring. And if you must date players, then don't date at all for a little while. I have nothing against Mike, but looking back on your reaction to the last guy that broke your heart, I would get out of the relationship. What if you weren't stopped this time and actually did kill yourself? I would have to say not to continue in that relationship and to lay off relationships if you can for a while and stop cutting too. I really hope I helped and that you will stop cutting. You have no idea how happy I'd be if you told me you'd stop cutting. I hope you follow my advice too.
Luv, IceAngel13

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i feel like im the only person my age that doesnt have a boyfriend. im 14/f and it feels like everyone around me is together. because all year this year ive heard oh my gosh my boyfriend this and oh my gosh my boyfriend that and i was lookin' around and everyone was like holding hands and stuff. i have a few friends who dont have bf's and we feel like we are the only ones.... IT SUCKS! is there anyway i can get a guys attention or should i just wait. is this a thing that everyone is just trying out? ITS SO SCARY ITS ANNOYING! and any guy that likes me is a nerdy guy! its gross...
PLEASE HELP I RATE 5'S IF YOUR ADVICE IS GOOD!
thanks alot

Just wait. Eventually a great guy will come you're way. You could always try talking to guys, become friends with some, you never know, every relationship has to start somewhere. And if you don't become more then friends, then hey, at least you have another friend.

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How do you cure bad breath? I brush my teeth twice a day, but I still have really bad breath!!!


Thx!!! I rate high

You could carry around mints or thoes lysterine(sp?) pocket packs with you.

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Latelty I've put on a bit of weight.
And too much weight for my liking.

I think I'm becoming somewhat obsessed with the way I look, I've started dressing in dark clothes and baggy jeans to hide what I've put on although I know that you can see it anyway.

It's too hot to wear what I'm wearing when walking home from school and I sometimes feel faint from the heat but if I wear something else, it feels like people are staring at me.


I have thought about not eating but I've heard it can just make matters worse so I just kept excersizing and dieting but it's not working! I've been at it at a month and it isn't working!
I don't want to go to a doctor because they'll send me home saying I'm not overweight which I'm not but I don't like the way I look.

I want to skip meals but then I'm scared it's accidently going to get into my head and it's going to become a regular thing and I don't want that. I'm trying hard not to make myself sick after every meal and I'm trying even harder to actually eat.

I just need advice on how to cope.
I don't want to tell my mom, so please don't suggest it. I honestly don't want to tell anyone I just know I need some help.


-- I am NOT doing this to get attention, the only reason I'm asking on advicenators is because it's the only place I know that lets me stay anonymous so it is not for attention and please, if you have nothing helpfull to say please do not say it.

Don't be so self consious, I know, it's easier said then done. But I'm serious. You were right not to starve yourself. Not only is that unhealthy, but if you do it, everything you eat will immediately turn to fat. I wouldn't tell you to talk to your mother about it, because it doesn't really consern her. Even though she would probably say you look fine just the way you are. "how to cope"? It's not like a different way of life. You really need to learn to love yourself for who you are, not what you look like. If gaining a few pounds has this kind of effect on you, then you really need to take a look at who you really are and what you stand for. That's the advice I have to give, and I hope it helps you.
~IceAngel13

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my gf Sandy and I are close..in her point of veiw. I dont like Sandy at all. But Sandy REALLY likes me. People want me to kiss her..but i dont want to.I just want to be friends. Besides..my friend Jack likes Sandy i think..so Jack gets mad at me. and if i break up with Sandy people might get mad at me. But i really want to break up with Sandy. Its hard to break up with her to.. because we talk on the phone all day and stuff. I really dont like her.

If you want to break it off, then break it off. What other people might think shouldn't determine your life. Just be really nice about it and tell her that you still want to be friends. I know it's hard to break it off, but you shouldn't avoid it, or it will make things worse. And if you really enjoy her company you can still be great friends afterward. Just because you're not dating doesn't mean you can't be friends. Hope I helped.

~IceAngel13

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