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ok well my question is a bit complicated, see im 15 years old and theres this guy I like hes 16. we grew up together ive known since ive been 4 years old and ive liked him. Ive always had a crush on him since 4 years ago..so 11 years. weve been best friends. well he found out i liked him and was gonna ask me out...i know this for a fact. well i go to meet him and theres some chick with him and its his new girlfriend...shes 14 and he said he wouldnt date a younger chick. his words to me were "i like you still but i like her more sorry...can we be friends?" then she comes over and starts kising him adn they start making out in front of me....and he keeps calling asking about friendship i keep ignoring the call or haning up...im so hurt..i mean 11 years! is longer than a chick he just met....i just dont get why i cant have a bf and keep one! what to do?
-advicegivers0601
(username on advicenators) (link)
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Well most men are inconsiderate. They have no respect for women. Dont ask me why im a guy too but i hate how most men only think about sex and making out it ruins it for the emotionaly indepth guys. SO NEWAYS In my opinion he has no right to be doing this to you. You need to go up to him and tell him how you REALLY feel not that you just like him but for how long you've liked him and that you are really hurt by what hes doing. Otherwise if you can wait stay friends and when they are done, like in a week or two, ask him out then im sure hel say yes. if not find someone who will respect you and your feelings. Good luck -mike
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Hey im 13 and i gotta question...
Ive gone out with this kid about 4 times and i still love him alot and want to be with him but i dont think its gonna work i say were to close to each otha and need space... every time i try to tell him how i feel he doesnt understand.. he is always telling me how he loves me and stuff and cares about me but i feel as if he is lieing to me ... what can i do to make things betta?? (link)
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Well i think he loves you but doesnt know what to do. Hes just lost in his emotion unable to think. What he needs is for you to be there for him and hel be there for you. whoever you are goodluck- Mike
p.s. i doubt hes lieing and welll just talk to him. ash
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My ex-bf and I started talking again online. Sure, we worked everything out. It still feels funny when talking to him though, especially if I still like him, and he has no idea. Well last night, I asked him wut he was doing online, he told me he was talking to people and "his" girl. At first I thought, "is he refering to me?", but then I was like no, he can't be, he has another girl in his life. Well I was babysitting today and i was watching 3 kids play outside in the front, and what do you know...my ex comes walking down the street (he lives in my neighborhood) with 2 girls. I pretended not to even notice him because, look at me, I'm a loser babysitting, and look at him hanging out with girls from MY school and MY classes. I KNEW he saw me because right when he was in front of my house his face was no where near the direction in looking at me. So my questions are,
1) Should I ask him what he meant by "his" girl? I don't wanna look nosy though...can there be a way to make it sounds "non-nosy??"
2)Why didn't he even bother to say hi, or call my name, even if I wasn't looking his way?
Thanks soooo much
and you'd never guess who'd be asking this question...yes, I am a person on advicenators who gives advice :) (link)
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Well i belive that he probably wants to make you jealous. Guys sometimes do that to make a girl want them more. My advice is to play hardball and beat him at his own game. That way hel come crawling back or at the least confront you about it and you can get to talking.
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there is this guy i like and i mean REALLY like and he asked me to go to the movies with him.I started like sweating and i made up an excuse not to go.and now i regret that.and hes kinda upset with me and i feel horrible.what should i do sign,lovin him (link)
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Just tell him that you did want to go and you are really sorry for declining but you just got nervous. He'l understand. Good luck -mike
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please suggest good rock groups/bands.. punk is ok too.. thats.. aren't that well known.. thx everybody (link)
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Nickel Back, Linkin Park, System of a Down, Franz Ferdinand, Drowning Pool are all great choices in my opinion. -mike
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it seems like my friend is jealous whenever i hang out with my other friends. but when she hangs out with her other friends i dont get jealous. she barely ever calls me to hang out anymore, what do you think i should do? (link)
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I just answered a question just like this...... Well any way i think you should just tell her how you feel about this and if she gets mad then i tink you need a new friend. -mike
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I feel like my friend is always leaving me out. I am always stuck being bored because she always has plans or is hanging out with someone else. whenever i find someone to hang out with besides her she gets jealous or mad.i feel like shes blowing me off, can you help?
truly, troubled_friendship (link)
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well this is the first question im answering in my inbox so here goes. Well have a sit down with her and just tell her how you feel. That way you are both on the same level. Hope that helps bye good luck.
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What are some really good movies to watch with friends..im 14/F?? Thanks (link)
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Go for a comedy, its great to laugh. Or a horror They are always....... interesting. so have fun and get lots of popcorn.
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im a 15/f see its like this all of my friends are all really fast i mean to tell the truth i kind of am fast too but i mean i havent lost my virginity yet but most of them have so yeah i dont know what to do like they kind of like leave me out of conversations and stuff and i think that i am ready to do it but i dont know what age you should be?? (link)
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Well in my opinion (me being a virgin as well) i would wait until you find someone you really really REALLY care for because virginity is something that you can lose in a heartbaet but WILL NOT get back. so good luck hope i helped.
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Hey every1,
This is miSSc and I need some advice about my singing...I can sing, but my vocal range (singing range) is kinda limited and my voice cracks sometimes when I go high. I know most of you will say that I should get voice lessons but...I don't have time for one. I use to take lessons but I had to give up because I started not having time for one. So...got any tips? I want to improve my "chest" voice. The highest note I can hit is a high "C" but I want to go higher with out straining my voice and not cracking either. Please help me!!!!
Sincerely,
MiSSc (link)
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Hey well i love to sing as well im a tenor in the North High Concert Choir. I think if you do warm ups to get your voice prepped for singing it should improve. I also heard that it is wise to avoid dairy products because it produces flem.
Hope i helped -mike
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i've been friends with the friends i'm with now for a long time.. we've always been close but now, they're all obsessed over like.. iunno being popular or w/e.. they act alot more .. iunno.. they flirt alot more and the diss ppl alot more.. and my guy friends always plan these outtings or w/e they always seem to forget about me and theres this one guy whos always the only person who remembers me.. wut shud i do? plz dunreply and diss me up.. ps. i'm a girl (link)
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Well in my opinion your one guyfriend that pays attention to you is probably who you should stick by. He seemd like hes the type of person who won't leave you out. As for the others well THEY ARNT VERY NICE SO LEAV'M! You seem nice and i bet you could find new, better friends. -mike
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Ok heres the story,Christmas day is when everything started...my whole family cept for me started fighting, my brother and his friend was over here and my mom started in on my brother and my brother ended up cutting his wrist, blood was running down his arm, i also cut myself that day because i was upset with everything thats been happeneing lately, when i cut my arm i blacked out, and well the story goes on, yesterday and today my parents have been fighting and i mean seriously fighting, my brother and his friend left yesterday and got one of their friends to come and pick them up and after they left my parents started fighting and have been fighting all day today and i cant take it no more, they were fighting so bad my mom was hitting my dad they spit on eachother, one of em pushed the other into the christmas tree and it broke at the bottom and everything on it droped on the floor and broked as well, and they wont stop fighting, i tell them to stop and they wont...they wont listen to me, i told them maybe they do need to get a divorce if they're gonna fight this much because there aint no sence in em being together if they are gonna fight 24/7 and i dont know what to do i cant take it anymore, i wanna get out of here but i have no where to go, no one wants me, and i have no one to talk to about any of i because i have no friends and i dont know what to do...the thoughts of my running away crossed my mind but i wouldnt have anywhere to go and its to cold outside to run away...so if anyone has any advice to give me please do...i need all the advice i can get, sorry this is so long, Thanks to who ever takes the time to read this and send me their thoughts. (link)
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Well, i see where you are coming from. i tried commiting suicide awhile back and the help sucked bad. but i found talking to my friends and to the source of the problem and it really helped cus nothings worth hurting yourself over. because think of all the other ppl you are hurting in the process. i hope you feel better and can get this resolved. -mike
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ok ya*ll i love to sing and i hate singing in front of people and when itell people this they laugh and say get over it and i think i am a good singer but no1 will belive me if i cant sing out loud help me and please dont say gEt OvA It signed *RaIsE Ur VoIcE* (link)
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Ok i love to sing, im in the Concert Choir at North High, ne ways i recently did an ensamble with like 6 or 7 other people performing the national anthem (i am petrified of singing in public) but i got through it and it sounded pretty good. so have faith in yourself and you can do anything. except fly. DONT TRY TO FLY IT HURTS. k bye -Mike
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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~ (link)
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Well maybe you should just tell him how you feel about him. Honesty has always helped me. The worst that could happen is that he wont feel the same. If this is the case well you will find someone.
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